The New Adam Podcast, a new offering from Man in the Mirror, explores what it means to be a man renewed in Christ. Hosted by Brett Clemmer, President and CEO of Man in the Mirror, and Dr. Ryan M. Reeves, author and historical theologian, this podcast is for men who desire to live a life of purpose and integrity. Drawing from biblical wisdom, historical context, and practical experience, Brett and Ryan delve into the challenges and opportunities facing men today. Each episode of the New Adam Podcast aims to equip you to: Understand your identity in Christ, the "New Adam." Apply timeless theological truths to your everyday life. Lead your family, church, and community with biblical conviction. Connect with other men in authentic, Christ-centered relationships. Join Brett Clemmer and Dr. Ryan M. Reeves on the New Adam Podcast as they guide you on a journey to a more vibrant and fulfilling Christian manhood.
Why Young Men Are Flooding Back to Church with Jake Corn
24 min
Why are more young men showing up at church than young women, and what does that reveal about the future of ministry? In this episode of The New Adam Podcast, Ryan Reeves and Jake Corn dig into the surprising data behind the rise in young men attending church regularly, the types of churches drawing them in, and what they’re actually looking for when they walk through the doors. From traditional marriage and direct preaching to men’s ministry, discipleship, and the need for real brotherhood in a post-digital world, this conversation gets into what’s really happening beneath the trends. Ryan and Jake also explore why churches that focus on clear gospel content, meaningful involvement, and genuine relationships may be better positioned to reach the next generation of men. If you’re a pastor, church leader, or just curious about the shifting landscape of faith and culture, this one is worth your time. Visit us: maninthemirror.org
Ep. 34 | Win the Day ft. Warren Mainard of Impact Players
27 min
Unlock the secret to transforming men's lives through authentic brotherhood and biblical leadership. If you’ve ever wondered how community, discipline, and faith can turn a struggling man into a powerful impact player, this episode is your blueprint. Warren Mainard, president of Impact Players, shares the inspiring genesis story rooted in the book Man in the Mirror by Patrick Morley. Discover how a simple idea—men coming together—became a nationwide movement that now empowers hundreds of men across the globe. Warren reveals the core principles behind Impact Hard, their groundbreaking 75-day challenge that combines physical, emotional, and spiritual growth with real community. Find out how this program taps into men’s natural bonding instincts—shoulder to shoulder rather than face to face—to forge lasting connections that fuel transformation. Visit us: maninthemirror.org
Ep. 33 | What Men Actually Want From Church
15 min
A lot of the current conversation around men leaving the church completely misses the point. It’s not about a lack of interest or commitment—it’s that men are tired of being asked to just sit still and be passive observers. In this episode, we want to talk about the growing disconnect between what the modern church model expects and what men actually need. We look at why the standard, spectator-style Sunday routine feels so hollow, the shift in how men are engaged (or not engaged) in these spaces, and what it actually looks like to build an environment that challenges men rather than just pacifying them. Visit us: maninthemirror.org
In this episode, Ryan and Jake break down a critical issue facing men today: our obsession with daily optimization and our complete inability to pull back the throttle. Whether you're dealing with standard injuries, chasing vanity, or using the gym as a coping mechanism for mental health, the reality is that ignoring your body’s need for rest is a recipe for a crash. We dive into what it truly means to steward the temple God gave you, why true discipline includes sabbath rest, and how a healthy lifestyle is ultimately about protecting your ability to serve your family and community. We also tackle the creeping dangers of modern dopamine addictions—from social media traps to the rise of sports gambling among young men—and discuss how a deliberate "dopamine reset" can clear your mind and restore your focus on what actually matters. Visit us: maninthemirror.org
Ryan sits down with Jake Corn to talk about how Christian men should think about the noise — UFO headlines, online controversies, the endless churn of viral debates. It's a conversation about discernment, curiosity, and keeping our heads (and our faith) steady when the internet keeps trying to pull them in every direction. Visit us: maninthemirror.org
Brett Clemmer shares the personal story of his mother’s recent passing and reflects on how we can honor a parent’s legacy while navigating the reality of grief. We hope this perspective offers encouragement and a reminder that a mother's influence doesn't end when her journey does. In this episode: Brett’s personal reflection on loss. Navigating Mother’s Day during grief. The lasting impact of a godly legacy.
In this eye-opening episode, Man in the Mirror founder, Pat Morley sits down with Brett to unpack startling new research on the state of young men in America in 2026. As the cultural landscape shifts, the data reveals a generation of "Builders" (men aged 20–45) facing a silent crisis of isolation, screen addiction, and a fundamental questioning of what it even means to be a man. Brett shares highlights from the latest State of Young Men report, revealing statistics that Pat describes as "staggering" and "heartbreaking." They move beyond the numbers to discuss how the church can pivot from "come and be discipled" to "go and make disciples."
In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Corn sit down to diagnose why so much modern preaching leaves men entirely unfed. We break down the crucial difference between "Topical" sermons (cherry-picking verses to fit a pre-determined theme) and "Exegetical" sermons (letting the ancient text dictate the message, even when it's uncomfortable). Beyond the pulpit, Ryan and Jake catch up on the current "terrain" of real life—navigating the heavy transitions of the spring season and how to build actual, grounded habits for Easter that go beyond wearing a pastel shirt on Sunday morning.
In this episode, Ryan Reeves sits down with Luke Detraz, founder of Field & Faith, to discuss the tectonic shifts facing men in 2026. Luke shares his personal journey from navigating identity wounds to the mission behind his new book, The War for Men. We dive deep into why so many men today feel "functionally invisible" in their own social circles. Luke argues that rebuilding a man starts from the inside out—addressing the "Generational Ghosts" and the father wounds that often dictate our modern tensions. Whether you are navigating a career transition, family loss, or the weight of isolation, this conversation provides a tactical map for finding your footing again. #ManInTheMirror #TheWarForMen #LukeDetraz #FieldAndFaith #Masculinity #Fatherhood #Identity #Faith #Brotherhood #PersonalGrowth #Legacy
What would you say to your 20-year-old self if you could sit across the table from him today? In this episode, Ryan and Jake dive into the "weird" and transformative decade of the 40s—an age where the body starts to remind you it’s not invincible, but the soul starts to find its footing. From the physical realization that you can no longer assemble furniture on the floor without a week of neck pain, to the spiritual shift from ambition to legacy, this conversation explores what it means to truly mature as a man of faith.
What does it look like to "stress test" your character before saying "I do"? In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Brett explore the reality of marriage in your 40s, where "potential" is replaced by honesty, and compatibility is proven in the aisles of a tile store. Ryan opens up about his recent wedding and the "relieved" feeling of finding a partner who levels his life, but the celebration is met with a sudden, somber turn: the passing of his father just weeks later. From the complexities of dating as a "thrift store find" to a moving tribute to the "stay-putness" of the Boomer generation, this conversation is a raw look at the structures of love, the weight of grief, and the quiet virtues of the men who came before us.
In this deeply personal episode, Ryan and Jake sit down just days after the passing of Ryan’s father. Moving past the "clinical" or "academic" view of death, they dive into the messy, multifaceted reality of grief, the "Boomer" legacy of the 1940s generation, and how we as men can integrate loss into our lives without losing hope.
Host Ryan Reeves is joined once again by Jake Korn for a candid conversation on navigating life’s "cold snaps." Moving past the usual surface-level advice, Ryan and Jake explore the biological and spiritual necessity of stress, comparing a man’s growth to trees that require wind to develop deep roots. From Jake’s transition into a new role at Wounded Warrior Project to Ryan navigating the impending loss of his father and his daughter’s early graduation, they discuss how to remain an "integrated man" rather than a reactive one. They tackle the modern dopamine crisis, the discipline of gardening as a present-focus tool, and the "Boat and Sail" analogy for family leadership. This episode serves as a gut-check for men to stop manipulating the future and start stewarding the present, finding the "good days" even in the middle of chaos.
In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Brett Clemmer sits down with Chris "Harp" Harper, CEO of BetterMan, for a raw and insightful conversation on the discipline of character and the weight of real-world leadership. From his upbringing in the "hollers" of Kentucky to leading a national men’s ministry, Harp shares why he prioritizes consistency over intensity and the vital importance of a "listening heart." The duo dives into the pitfalls of leading for affirmation, why your feelings are a "terrible compass" for truth, and how our life’s "misses" are often what qualify us most to mentor others. Whether you’re a young man looking for an on-ramp to community or an older leader wondering if you have anything left to offer, this episode serves as a powerful reminder that maturity isn't found in flashy moments, but in the faithful, daily grind of following Jesus.
In this powerful episode, Brett is joined by RT Phillips, a pioneer in the modern men's movement and the first president of Promise Keepers. RT takes us behind the scenes of the historic 1990 gathering in Boulder, Colorado, where 4,200 men sparked a supernatural explosion of faith that eventually reached millions. From his early days in the "hippie culture" and getting drafted into the Army to pastoring in Hawaii, RT reflects on a life shaped by both massive catalytic success and a "20-year freefall" that followed his time at the top. The two discuss the shifting needs of men—moving from the "cultural Christianity" battles of the '90s to the current crisis of isolation and loneliness in the 2020s. RT’s core message is a call to authenticity: that a man's greatest influence doesn't come from his "bio" or his trophies, but from the honesty of his scars and a deep understanding of his adoption as a son of God.
In this episode, Brett sits down with Robbie Angle, President of True Face Ministries, to dismantle the "know more, do better" treadmill that leaves so many men exhausted and isolated. Robbie, a former therapist who once served as a missionary in al-Qaeda territory, shares his personal transition from a high-drive achiever "earning" God's love to a leader practicing the "lighter yoke" of abiding. The conversation dives into the messy reality of parenting eight children—including two sets of twins and five adoptions—and how the "90% nature vs. 10% nurture" realization shifted his fatherhood from pressure-filled shaping to intentional stewardship. From the "last 1%" of transparency in brotherhood to the critical difference between unhurried relationship and mere productivity, Robbie offers a refreshing paradigm for any man feeling "uncontent" or paralyzed by the gap between his expectations and his reality.
In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Jake Korn strip away the "romanticized" pressure of finding a mystical career calling, arguing instead that work is primarily about identifying your natural talents and learning how to monetize them. Jake shares his personal transition from the military to a civilian role at the Wounded Warrior Project, emphasizing the importance of "putting miles on the soul" through experience rather than waiting for a bolt of inspiration. From discussing the rising costs of being a young man in 2026 to the value of "second chair" leadership, the duo concludes that while the Bible doesn't necessarily label your trade as a "calling," it strictly demands excellence and character in whatever path you choose to walk.
For many men, prayer feels less like a conversation and more like a "scheduled conference call" that usually goes to voicemail. We want results, we want a "Plan A to Plan B" outcome, and when we don’t get an immediate response, we default to our own self-sufficiency. In this episode of the New Adam Podcast, Ryan and Brett strip away the religious formality and get real about why men find prayer so difficult. From Florida "cold snaps" and NFL loyalty to the profound lesson of a 94-year-old prayer warrior, this conversation is about moving prayer from a religious obligation to a tangible presence.
As the calendar turns, many of us are tempted by the "cliché" of New Year’s resolutions—gym memberships that go unused and lofty goals that lack a plan. But for men, the start of a new year often brings a heavier burden: regret. In this episode, Ryan Reeves and Brett Clemmer dive into the psychology and theology of looking back. They discuss the critical difference between "good guilt" (a warning light that signals a need for change) and "bad guilt" (a hamster wheel of self-loathing that becomes a false identity). From Blackstone griddles and picky eaters to the humble brilliance of theologian John Frame, Ryan and Brett explore how to move from being "stuck" in past mistakes to walking in the freedom of genuine forgiveness.
In this moving episode of The New Adam Podcast, hosts Ryan and Scott sit down with Zach Garza, founder of You Can Mentor and author of Tell Me About Your Father. Zach opens up about the pivotal moment in eighth grade when his father left, sparking a downward spiral of seeking affirmation in all the wrong places. He shares how a man named Bob eventually broke through his defensive walls—not with programmed advice, but by "earning the right to be heard" through years of consistent, low-pressure friendship. The conversation dives deep into the "orphan spirit" versus the security of sonship, exploring how men who grew up without a stable father figure often struggle with a constant, "low-grade fever" of fear and the temptation to choose comfort over engagement. Zach provides practical advice for younger men seeking mentors and encourages older men to realize they have more to offer than they think. From weeping in a college Bible study to learning how to parent his own children without passing on his childhood trauma, Zach’s story is a powerful testament to how God uses "dorks," slow sanctification, and intentional brotherhood to heal the wounds of the past.
