Sex in marriage is a tricky game. If you are like me, I got frustrated when the woman of my dreams stopped initiating or only had sex with me to service my needs. Deep down you want to be wanted. You want your wife to desire you again. The bottom line is she is no longer attracted to you. The good news is you can fix this, without having the "talk" with her. This podcast is all about helping you become the most attractive version of you again. Let's dive in and get you laid! Hosted by Keith Yackey & Jesse Joy
What if the problem in your marriage isn't what you think it is? Most men believe the issue is the lack of intimacy, the constant criticism, or the never-ending arguments. But those are only the symptoms. The real problem runs much deeper. In this episode, Keith and Jessie pull back the curtain on one of the most destructive cycles in marriage: when a wife begins feeling like she's parenting instead of partnering, and a husband slowly stops feeling respected. You'll discover: Why criticism slowly replaces admiration. How small daily habits create massive resentment over time. What causes attraction to fade—even in good marriages. The difference between making your spouse feel loved... and making them feel understood. Simple shifts that can restore respect, connection, and desire before it's too late. This isn't about blaming husbands or wives. It's about understanding what's really happening beneath the surface so you can stop fighting the symptoms and start fixing the root. If you've ever wondered why your marriage feels heavier than it used to, why your wife seems frustrated no matter what you do, or why the connection you once had feels harder to find, this conversation could change the way you see your relationship forever. A better marriage doesn't happen by accident. It happens when someone decides to lead. Start today. Visit MarriedGame.com to learn how thousands of men are rebuilding attraction, restoring connection, and becoming the husbands their wives naturally desire. Get your free copy of The Married Game at MarriedGameBook.com .
Marriage has a way of exposing the parts of ourselves we'd rather avoid. In this episode, Keith and Jessie unpack one of the biggest shifts that transformed their relationship: realizing that your marriage isn't just happening to you—it's reflecting you. They dive into why presence matters more than grand gestures, how your phone may be creating more distance than you realize, and why the connection you're looking for starts with the man in the mirror. They also tackle some of the biggest relationship myths around soulmates, purpose, and whether marriage costs you your identity or helps you become who you're meant to be. If you've ever felt disconnected from your wife, wondered why the spark has faded, or found yourself blaming your marriage instead of looking inward, this conversation is for you. If you're ready to stop reacting and start leading, this episode will challenge the way you think about connection, attraction, and what it really takes to build a thriving marriage. 📘 Get your free copy of The Married Game Book: https://marriedgamebook.com 🔥 Ready to transform your marriage? https://marriedgame.com 💪 Fuel your performance with Gaines in Bulk. Use code YACKEY15 at checkout: https://gainesinbulk.com
Most people know Braven Grant as the CEO of GAINS In Bulk. They know the business, the growth, and the success.What they don't know is the man behind it.In one of the most honest conversations we've had on The Married Game Podcast, Braven shares the truth about questioning his marriage, walking away from the faith he was raised in, building one of the fastest-growing supplement brands in the country, and why telling the truth changed every area of his life.This isn't a conversation about entrepreneurship.It's about becoming the kind of man who stops hiding, stops performing, and starts leading with honesty.If you're building a business, leading a family, or simply trying to become a better man, this episode will challenge the way you think about truth, marriage, purpose, and success.Watch the full episode now.Then, if you're ready to build a marriage as intentionally as you build your career, visit MarriedGame.com
Most people were never taught how to have a great marriage. They were taught to stay together, follow the rules, avoid divorce, and hope everything somehow works itself out. In this episode of the Married Game Podcast, Keith and Jesse challenge some of the most widely accepted beliefs about marriage, leadership, submission, cheating, divorce, and what it actually takes to build a relationship you want to be in. Should a wife automatically submit to her husband? Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Should every marriage be saved? And how much of the relationship you’re living in right now is a direct result of what you’ve continued to tolerate? Some of these answers are going to piss people off. But if your marriage feels stuck, sexless, disconnected, or completely different from the relationship you thought you were signing up for, this conversation might force you to confront some uncomfortable truths. Because sometimes the problem isn’t that you need to try harder. Sometimes you need to stop accepting a marriage you don’t want. If you’re ready to become the kind of man who leads himself, raises his standards, rebuilds attraction, and creates a marriage worth fighting for, go to MarriedGame.com
On this week’s Q&A segment of the Married Game Podcast, Keith tackles two questions that challenge some of the biggest beliefs men have about marriage and relationships: Are soulmates actually real? And is marriage really supposed to be 50/50? Keith breaks down why believing there’s only one person in the world who can make you happy can become a dangerous mindset, why your wife should complement your life instead of complete it, and why taking 100% responsibility for yourself changes the way you show up in your marriage. He also explains why men who build their entire identity around their wife’s happiness, approval, or presence eventually give away their power—and what it looks like to build a life, marriage, and personal standard that doesn’t depend on someone else changing first. If you’re tired of feeling rejected, disconnected, or frustrated in your marriage and you’re ready to learn what it actually takes to turn things around, go to MarriedGame.com
Most men think their wife lost her sex drive. They're wrong. The truth is, attraction doesn't disappear overnight—it fades when the relationship slowly shifts into stress, resentment, routine, and a lack of leadership. In this episode, Keith and Jessie have one of their most honest conversations yet about what actually causes women to pull away, why many husbands unintentionally kill attraction, and what it really takes to rebuild desire inside a marriage. They also introduce a new segment called Unfinished Business , where they finish some of the most important conversations couples never have. Inside this episode: Why attraction is more important than romance The biggest mistake husbands make when trying to reconnect Why many women aren't in the mood—and what men misunderstand about it What makes a woman feel pursued outside the bedroom The connection between leadership and desire How small daily habits either build or destroy intimacy Why "we're just not compatible" is usually the wrong conclusion If your marriage feels disconnected, if intimacy has become rare, or if you're tired of guessing what your wife actually needs, this episode is for you. Learn more about The Married Game and upcoming events: MarriedGame.com Get your copy of The Married Game : MarriedGameBook.com If this episode challenged your thinking, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.
Why do so many good men end up feeling rejected by the woman they love? The answer probably isn't what you think. In this episode, Keith and Jessie break down one of the biggest mistakes "nice guys" make in relationships: confusing being helpful with being a leader. From planning dates to creating certainty, handling conflict, and rebuilding attraction, they reveal how small daily actions quietly shape respect, desire, and connection. If you've ever felt like you're doing everything for your wife but getting less love, less intimacy, or less appreciation in return, this conversation will challenge the way you've been thinking about leadership, attraction, and marriage. In this episode, you'll learn: Why "being nice" often creates resentment instead of attraction. The leadership mistakes most husbands never notice. How planning and intention build trust and desire. Why women want to feel led—not managed. Practical ways to rebuild respect without becoming controlling. If you're tired of guessing why your marriage feels stuck, it's time to stop trying to figure it out alone. Book a free call with Keith and his team to uncover what's really holding your relationship back and get a clear plan to move forward. Visit MarriedGame.com to schedule your call today.
Why do some men seem to get better treatment everywhere they go? In this episode, Keith and Jessie break down a simple strategy most men never think about: becoming a regular somewhere. From date nights and networking to leadership and attraction, they discuss how building real relationships, creating a sense of community, and becoming known in your environment can completely change the way you experience life. Keith shares why he intentionally takes Jessie to the same places, how those relationships have opened unexpected doors, and why many men are missing opportunities by living anonymously and staying disconnected from the world around them. You'll also learn how intentional planning creates more spontaneity, why leadership starts long before date night begins, and how a man's social presence can impact attraction inside his marriage. If you've ever wondered why some men seem to walk into a room and instantly know everyone, this episode will show you how they got there. Ready to become the man your wife trusts, respects, and desires? Visit MarriedGame.com to learn more about our coaching programs, events, and resources designed to help men lead with confidence both inside and outside their marriage.
In this episode of The Married Game Podcast, Keith sits down with entrepreneur, author, speaker, and founder of Bedros Keuilian for one of the most honest conversations we've had about success, trauma, masculinity, and healing. Bedros built multiple companies, created one of the world's largest fitness franchise brands, authored bestselling books, and became one of the most respected business mentors for high-performing entrepreneurs. But behind the money, success, and achievements was a deeper story—one that involved childhood trauma, panic attacks, therapy, fatherhood, and the difficult work of healing wounds that success could never fix. Together, Keith and Bedros unpack why so many men chase money, status, sex, and achievement hoping it will fill the void inside, only to discover that fulfillment comes from doing the inner work. They discuss the connection between childhood experiences and ambition, why high-performing men often struggle with peace, the importance of fatherhood and rites of passage, and how healing transforms every area of a man's life—from business to marriage. If you've ever felt like you're winning on the outside but still searching for something deeper on the inside, this episode is for you. In this episode: Why success doesn't heal childhood wounds The hidden pain behind high-achieving men How trauma can fuel ambition The role of therapy in masculine growth Fatherhood, rites of passage, and raising strong sons Why money amplifies who you already are The difference between success and fulfillment How healing creates certainty, peace, and purpose Learn more about Married Game at MarriedGame.com.
In this episode of The Married Game Podcast, Keith sits down with entrepreneur, author, and founder of Chandler Bolt, one of the leading voices in self-publishing and business growth. Chandler is the bestselling author of Published and has helped thousands of entrepreneurs, experts, and leaders turn their ideas into books while building multiple successful companies along the way. But this conversation goes far beyond business. Chandler opens up about the personal struggles most successful men never talk about—the pressure of leadership, losing your confidence, feeling responsible for everyone around you, and the moment he sat across from his wife and admitted, “I don’t know if I can do this.” Together, Keith and Chandler unpack why vulnerability is actually a superpower, how purpose fuels a man's life, and what every husband needs to understand about leadership at home. They also dive into: Why successful men often struggle in relationships The difference between vulnerability and victimhood How Chandler’s wife nearly walked away before they got married The hidden burden of always being the leader Why purpose matters just as much as money and sex How to stop chasing perfection in your marriage The power of surrounding yourself with the right people If you've ever felt the weight of leadership, questioned your purpose, or wondered why success still doesn't feel like enough, this episode is for you. Learn more about The Married Game and upcoming events at MarriedGame.com.
Most men don’t see the warning signs until it’s too late. In this Q&A episode, Keith breaks down the first indicators that a marriage is heading in the wrong direction, why emotional disconnection often shows up before bigger problems, and the subtle signs your wife may be pulling away. He also shares the painful lessons he learned when his own marriage was on the brink—and how being defensive can keep men blind to what’s really happening. Plus, Keith tackles a question many couples struggle with: Why does sex become awkward in marriage? From emotional connection and attraction to leadership, confidence, and mindset, he unpacks the real reasons intimacy can start to fade—and what you can do about it. If you've ever felt like something is off in your marriage but couldn't quite put your finger on it, this episode is for you. In this episode: • The first sign your marriage may be falling apart • Why women withdraw emotionally and physically • The danger of defensiveness in relationships • How emotional neglect impacts attraction • Why sex becomes awkward in marriage • The connection between leadership and intimacy • Keith’s personal story of nearly losing his marriage • Small mindset shifts that can change everything Get your free copy of the Married Game Book: MarriedGameBook.com Learn more about coaching and events:
Most men think their marriage problems start in the bedroom. They don’t. In this episode, Keith and Jesse unpack one of the biggest blind spots men have in relationships: treating their wife like their mother. From seeking permission and needing approval to over-explaining every decision, they break down how the “Mom Matrix” quietly destroys attraction, confidence, and connection inside a marriage. They also introduce a brand-new AI version of Coach Keith, discuss why playful banter matters more than most couples realize, and reveal why the strongest men don't feel the need to explain themselves to everyone around them. Plus, the debut of a new segment, Unfinished Business, where Keith and Jesse tackle the relationship dynamics that most couples never talk about. In this episode: • The hidden reason many men lose their edge after marriage • Why seeking approval kills attraction • The difference between leading yourself and controlling others • How playful banter creates long-term chemistry • Why women test men (and what they're really looking for) • The truth about the “Mom Matrix” and how it impacts relationships • How to stop reacting and start responding with confidence • Why strong marriages are built on autonomy, trust, and connection If you've ever felt like your marriage has become more about managing conflict than creating connection, this episode is for you. Learn more at MarriedGame.com
What if the key to a stronger relationship isn’t spending more time together… but learning how to maintain your individuality inside the relationship? In this episode of the Married Game Podcast, Keith and Jesse dive deep into the concept of interdependence — the balance between connection and independence that keeps attraction, desire, and emotional intimacy alive long-term. They unpack why so many couples unintentionally lose themselves inside their relationships, how codependency slowly kills attraction, and why creating healthy space can actually make you miss, appreciate, and desire each other more. From Disney love stories to separate bedrooms, solo trips, masculine leadership, autonomy, and the psychology behind attraction, this conversation challenges nearly everything modern relationships teach about love and marriage. This episode isn’t about caring less. It’s about becoming two fully alive people who choose each other — instead of two people slowly losing themselves trying to become one. In this episode: Why “doing everything together” can backfire The difference between codependence, independence, and interdependence How space creates longing and attraction Why many men lose themselves in relationships The hidden problem with needing constant approval Why healthy couples still maintain separate identities The role autonomy plays in desire and respect How intentional time apart can strengthen connection If you’ve ever felt like your relationship became stagnant, overly dependent, or lost its spark… this episode will completely shift the way you think about attraction, intimacy, and partnership. 👉 Learn more at: MarriedGame.com 👉 Get the book: MarriedGameBook.com
Who’s Lying in Your Marriage? Most couples don’t lie out loud… they hide behind things that sound true. “I’m just tired.” “I don’t feel that pull anymore.” “I don’t know why I feel this way.” But if you take those at face value, you’ll miss what’s actually breaking your relationship. In this episode, we rip the mask off the most common phrases in marriage and decode what’s really being said underneath—because the issue isn’t what’s being said… it’s what’s being avoided. We get into: Why attraction doesn’t just “fade”… it gets shut off What she actually means when she says she feels disconnected The real reason sex becomes an afterthought Why “I don’t know why” is usually not the truth How men unknowingly kill desire without realizing it And the shift that brings connection, polarity, and excitement back This isn’t about blaming men or women. It’s about seeing clearly—so you can actually fix what’s broken. Because when you understand what’s real… you stop reacting to surface-level problems and start leading your marriage the right way. If your relationship feels off, distant, or stuck in the same patterns—this episode will show you exactly why. Apply to work with us: MarriedGame.com Get the book: MarriedGameBook.com And if this hit you, send it to a man who needs to hear it—because most guys are guessing… and it’s costing them everything.
In this episode of the Married Game Podcast, we break down a brutal—but necessary—question: 👉 Did you sell one version of yourself… and deliver another? At the beginning, you were driven. Disciplined. Fun. Focused on a future. Now? You’re tired. Comfortable. Reactive. And wondering why she’s not as attracted to you anymore. This episode exposes the 3 signs you may have bait & switched your wife : You’ve let your body go You’ve lost your drive and ambition Your energy shifted from fun and engaging… to passive and checked out And here’s the truth most men don’t want to hear: She didn’t stop choosing you… You stopped becoming the man she chose. We also dive into: Why she won’t tell you the full truth (and what her actions are really saying) How your lack of self-leadership is killing attraction Why “I’ll start Monday” is the exact reason nothing changes The only way to rebuild trust, respect, and desire—starting now 🔥 Ready to stop drifting and start leading again? 👉 Go to MarriedGame.com 👉 Watch the video and apply for a call Because if you don’t choose yourself… Why would she?
This week on The Married Game Podcast , we sit down with a father-son duo that doesn’t just talk about discipline, leadership, and legacy… they live it . Meet Steve Eckert —a coach, entrepreneur, and leader who built his life the hard way—and his son Tyson Eckert , a 14-year-old fighter already stepping into the cage with a level of confidence, discipline, and mindset most grown men never reach. Tyson didn’t grow up on video games and distractions… he grew up in a gym. Raised alongside fighters, mentored by high-level men, and trained daily in boxing, jiu-jitsu, and MMA, he’s now proving what happens when a young man is led the right way. But this episode isn’t just about fighting… It’s about the moment Steve realized he was becoming the kind of father he never wanted to be—and the decision that changed everything. It’s about what it really means to lead your family, stop neglecting what matters most, and build a life where your kids don’t run away from you when you walk in the door… they run toward you. We break down: Why most men are failing their families without even realizing it The difference between building a business… and building a legacy How discipline, environment, and brotherhood shape a young man Why your son is watching everything you do (and becoming it) The exact mindset that creates confidence, dominance, and leadership If you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to actually walk the walk as a man, a father, and a leader … this episode will hit you hard. This isn’t theory. This is the standard. 🎧 Listen now and start leading the way you were meant to. 👉 More at MarriedGame.com 👉 Grab the book at MarriedGameBook.com
If your wife doesn’t want to go on a date with you… that’s not a scheduling problem—it’s a reflection. In this Q&A episode, Keith answers a question a lot of men are asking—but most are avoiding the real answer to: “Why is it so important to date my wife?” And he doesn’t sugarcoat it. This episode calls out the fantasy most men live in—thinking they’re a catch while the one woman they actually committed to doesn’t want to spend time with them. If she’s bored, disconnected, or uninterested… Keith makes it clear: that’s your report card. Inside this episode: Why your wife not wanting to go on dates is feedback—not rejection The brutal truth about “I could get other women” thinking How defensiveness, low effort, and lack of leadership kill attraction Why you can’t convince her you’re fun—you have to become fun The shift from “date night” → to living a full date life Keith also breaks down the 4 phases of creating real attraction : Preparation. Anticipation. Execution. Culmination. —and why most men skip all of them and still expect results. Plus: Why doing things only to get sex backfires every time How going out and creating fun without her changes everything The role of energy—and why it’s the real game-changer in dating and marriage The little things that instantly kill attraction (being cheap, boring, or transactional) The core message is simple—but hard to accept: You are the problem. And you are the solution. If you’re ready to stop guessing and start actually fixing your marriage: 👉 Go to MarriedGame.com to learn how to apply this in your real life 📘 And grab the book at MarriedGameBook.com to see exactly what you’re doing wrong—and how to turn it around
In this episode of the Married Game Podcast, we sit down with Tanner Wendell , a family leadership coach and founder focused on helping high-performing men build structure, discipline, and leadership at home—not just in business. And what he shares in this conversation will challenge the way you think about masculinity, relationships, and fatherhood… Most men never actually become men. They grow older. They make money. They build lives. But deep down—they’re still being run by the same patterns, fears, and conditioning formed as boys. Tanner breaks down why ages 9–11 are the most critical years in a boy’s development , how identity is formed before we even have language, and why so many high-performing men are silently struggling in their marriages, confidence, and leadership. We get into: Why your son will become you… whether you like it or not The “little boy” running most men’s decisions (especially in relationships) Why successful men often feel powerless at home How identity actually shapes your results—and how to change it The missing rite of passage from boyhood to manhood And what fathers must do NOW before it’s too late This isn’t theory. This is the stuff that determines the trajectory of your life—and your son’s. If you’ve ever felt like you’re winning in one area of life but losing in another… If you know you’re capable of more but can’t seem to break certain patterns… Or if you’re a father who actually gives a damn about raising a strong man… This episode will hit you hard. Watch until the end to hear how Tanner is building real-world experiences for fathers and sons to create unbreakable bonds—and reshape the next generation of men. 👉 Learn more at: MarriedGame.com 👉 Get the book: MarriedGameBook.com
In this week’s episode of Ex Pastor Turned Sex Coach , Keith Yackey pulls back the curtain on the journey that changed everything—going from a deeply committed pastor to becoming a trusted voice for men who want real connection, real respect, and real desire inside their marriage. This isn’t about rebelling against religion. It’s about confronting the uncomfortable truth that so many men are quietly living with… You were told what marriage should look like. But what happens when your reality doesn’t match it? Keith shares the pivotal moments that forced him to question everything he thought he knew: Watching a marriage that had real attraction—and realizing his didn’t Wrestling with the idea of “submission” vs. true leadership Experiencing firsthand how shame and guilt around sex destroy connection And asking the hard question most men avoid: “Can I become the man she actually wants?” This episode goes deep into what most men are too afraid to say out loud: Why your wife may not be responding to you the way you want… Why attraction can’t be negotiated… And why real leadership starts with how you show up—not what you demand. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, disconnected, or stuck in a marriage where something feels off… this episode is going to challenge you in the best way possible. Because the truth is— You don’t have a “wife problem.” You have a leadership problem. And once you understand that… everything can change. Want to go deeper? If this episode hit for you and you’re ready to actually fix what’s going on in your marriage, head over to: 👉 MarriedGame.com — Watch the free training and learn the exact mistakes most men are making (and how to fix them fast) Or if you want the full breakdown of the principles, mistakes, and step-by-step solutions: 👉 MarriedGameBook.com — Get the book and start rebuilding attraction, respect, and connection the right way
Most men think their problem is anger, rejection, or a lack of respect in their marriage… It’s not. In this episode of the Married Game Podcast, we break down what’s really going on beneath the surface—and why the way most men have been taught to “be a man” is actually working against them. From emotional outbursts to feeling disconnected in your relationship, we unpack how unresolved wounds, shame, and the need for external validation are silently controlling your life. Here’s the truth: If you can’t control your emotions, you’re not leading—you’re reacting. We dive into: Why anger is often just unhealed pain The difference between real masculinity and performative “alpha” behavior How men unknowingly push their partner away Why safety—not dominance—is what actually creates attraction The shift from needing love… to becoming the source of it This isn’t about suppressing emotions or becoming passive. It’s about becoming the kind of man who is grounded, in control, and impossible to shake. Because when you do that… everything changes—your marriage, your confidence, and how the world responds to you. If you’re ready to stop reacting and start leading, this one’s for you. 👉 Learn more at MarriedGame.com 👉 Apply for our next live event
