Shot At Love is the first motivational dating show of its kind. It teaches you how to be successful in online dating while inspiring the listeners to go for it. You can find love, and are worthy of it. Shot At Love with Kerry Brett - Me, Exposed- Introduction to Shot At Love Podcast with celebrity photographer Kerry Brett.
Given Up on Love? This Story Will Change Your Mind—with Tina Eliana: On her 40th birthday, Tina Eliana was sleeping in a RAV4 at a truck stop—broke, broken, and wondering if her life had any meaning left. Two failed marriages. An adoption dissolved after nine years. A nervous breakdown so severe her body mimicked MS symptoms. She couldn't dream anymore. Then her husband JD said seven words that changed everything: "I'll dream for you until you can dream again." He meant it. And he proved it — for years. Today, Tina is down 100 pounds, holds four degrees, runs her own company serving clients around the world, and has a memoir on the way. In this episode, she shares the exact moment she knew JD was different (from his very first dating app message), how she rebuilt her life one impossibly small step at a time, and what she'd say to anyone who feels too broken to be loved. If you've ever wondered whether it's too late, whether you're too much, or whether the right person could really stay through the worst of it — press play. In This Episode, You'll Learn • How Tina spotted the green flags in JD's very first message on Plenty of Fish — and what set him apart from every other match • Why JD expanded his search radius one final time before deleting the app (and how Tina appeared 200 miles outside that radius) • The impossible decision Tina faced as a mother — and how it led to a complete nervous breakdown • What "I'll dream for you until you can dream again" looked like in practice, day after day, for years • The one small daily action that started Tina's climb out of rock bottom • How unconditional love — without conditions on staying — rewired a lifetime of expecting men to leave • Tina's message to anyone who feels stuck, unworthy, or ready to give up Timestamps Time Topic 00:00 Introduction — Tina Eliana's story and what's ahead 01:00 January 21, 2012 at 3:02 PM — the first message on Plenty of Fish 02:00 The green flags: humor, sincerity, and no "creep factor" 03:00 He was about to delete the app — expanded his radius one last time 04:00 Behind the scenes: two divorces, life threats, and unaddressed trauma 05:00 Adopting two brothers through foster care — what they weren't told 06:00 When safety became the crisis: voices, threats, and sleepless nights 07:00 The hardest decision: dissolving the adoption after nine years 08:00 The nervous breakdown — trauma presenting as MS symptoms 09:00 Why JD stayed when anyone else would have walked away 10:00 Hiding knives and taking turns sleeping — the reality of early marriage 11:00 Fleeing the town where all the trauma lived 12:00 Living in the vehicle — sleeping in a RAV4 at a truck stop on her 40th birthday 14:00 The turning point: crossing the state line and everything shifting 15:00 A year of wondering if she'd still be alive when he got home 16:00 "I love you enough to not put conditions on me staying" 17:00 Finding purpose through pain — developing empathy you can only earn by living it 19:00 Losing 100 pounds, earning four degrees, and building a new life 20:00 JD's gift: "Your jobs are your health and your education. I have us." 22:00 From not being able to dream — to not being able to dream enough 23:00 Living with nearly 50 health diagnoses and refusing to let them define her 25:00 Tina's message to anyone who feels stuck or is considering giving up 27:00 "I am a testament — you can. It's not easy, but it's so worth it." 28:00 Where to find Tina and what's coming next Key Quotes "I'll dream for you until you can dream again." "His love healed wounds inflicted on me by other people and other circumstances." "I love you enough to not put conditions on me staying. Even if you haven't had the strength to take a shower today, I'm gonna love you and I'm gonna kiss you anyway." "I spent my whole life expecting men to leave me. And he's like, 'No, I'm here and I'm staying.'" "I was put on this earth to do something besides hurt and go through trauma." "I've gone from not being able to dream — to not being able to dream enough." About Tina Eliana Tina Eliana is a leadership and learning systems advisor, author, speaker, and podcaster. She holds a bachelor's degree plus three master's degrees, has lost 100 pounds, and now works with clients around the world through her company, Tina Presents. Her memoir, Even the Sweetest Jam , is forthcoming. Connect with Tina • Podcast: Jam Sessions with Tina Eliana — jamsessionswithtinaeliana.com • Company: Tina Presents • Social: LinkedIn (Tina Presents) Connect with Shot At Love • Host: Kerry Brett • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts so you never miss an episode • Leave a review if this story moved you — it helps others find the show Resources Mentioned • Plenty of Fish (dating app) • Western Governors University (online degree program) • If you or someone you know is in crisis: Call or text the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 (U.S.) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Saving Grace: Sex, Drugs & Second Chances. What happens when someone who seemingly has everything loses control of everything? Matt Grace's story begins with privilege, success, and opportunity—but quickly spirals into a 13-year battle with addiction that nearly cost him his life. As a television news reporter, Matt hid a dangerous dependence on alcohol, prescription drugs, and crystal meth while continuing to report on-air. Behind the scenes, his life was unraveling. In this deeply honest conversation, Matt opens up about surviving overdoses, destructive family patterns, enabling, hitting rock bottom, and the spiritual transformation that changed everything. Today, with more than two decades of sobriety, he's dedicated his life to helping individuals and families understand addiction and discover hope through service, accountability, and faith. In this episode you'll learn: Why addiction is often far more than a lack of willpower The role genetics and family history can play in substance abuse How enabling can unintentionally fuel addiction What rock bottom actually looked like for Matt The dangers of high-functioning addiction Why service became the foundation of Matt's recovery How helping others can improve mental health and self-esteem The importance of accountability, boundaries, and family healing Matt's powerful message for anyone who feels beyond hope Details about his upcoming book God Doesn't Relapse Memorable Takeaways Recovery is about becoming someone new—not simply getting sober. Families heal when they stop enabling and start setting healthy boundaries. Service creates purpose, confidence, and lasting change. No matter how far you've fallen, your story isn't over. Your greatest pain can become someone else's greatest hope. Resources Matt Grace Book: God Doesn't Relapse: Sex, Drugs, and the Life That Almost Killed Me Website: www.mattgrace.com If you enjoyed this episode... Please subscribe to Shot at Love , leave a five-star review, and share this episode with someone who may need hope today. Your support helps us continue bringing conversations that inspire healing, personal growth, and meaningful relationships. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Former nun. Survivor. Teacher. Author. Truth-teller. Tune into From the Convent to Coming Out: Breaking the Silence with Barb Rebon. In this deeply moving episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Barb Rebon, author of The Heartbeat of My Silence , to discuss a life shaped by childhood trauma, faith, secrecy, and ultimately, self-acceptance. After enduring sexual abuse as a child, Barb found refuge in the Catholic Church and entered a convent at just sixteen years old. What followed was a decades-long journey of navigating forbidden relationships, struggling with her sexuality, and wrestling with the belief that who she was could never coexist with her faith. For nearly forty-five years, Barb lived with overwhelming guilt, shame, and silence. Yet through resilience, therapy, friendship, and an unwavering commitment to healing, she eventually found the courage to embrace her true self and share her story with the world. This conversation explores the lasting effects of trauma, the human need for belonging, the power of unconditional acceptance, and why healing begins the moment we stop hiding. In This Episode You'll Learn: How childhood abuse shaped Barb's search for safety and belonging Why she entered a convent at sixteen years old The complicated relationships that challenged her faith and identity What it was like living with shame and secrecy for nearly four decades The Oprah interview that helped change everything How she finally reconciled her faith with her sexuality Why silence can become its own form of suffering The importance of finding even one person who accepts you unconditionally How resilience, therapy, and community helped her heal What inspired her memoir, The Heartbeat of My Silence Memorable Quote "My silence had a heartbeat. It was living inside of me. I could hear it every day, and it tormented me until I finally allowed that silence to shatter." — Barb Rebon About Barb Rebon Barb Rebon is an educator, advocate, and author of The Heartbeat of My Silence . Through her memoir, she shares her journey from childhood trauma and religious life to self-discovery, healing, and authenticity. Her mission is to help others find the courage to speak their truth and know they are worthy of love exactly as they are. Connect with Barb Website: BarbaraRebonAuthor.com This Week's Shot At Love Takeaways Find one person who accepts you without judgment and supports you unconditionally. f someone helped you through your darkest moments, never forget it. Show up for others the way someone once showed up for you. Keywords Barb Rebon, The Heartbeat of My Silence, former nun, Catholic Church, faith and sexuality, coming out story, LGBTQ journey, childhood trauma, healing from abuse, resilience, self-acceptance, personal growth, memoir, forgiveness, identity, emotional healing, Shot At Love Podcast. Purchase Shot At Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love at shotatlovebook.com. To apply to be a guest on Shot At Love, go to shotatloveguest.com. Follow on Instagram @kerry_brett or on Facebook www.facebook.com/kerrybrettphotography/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Love, The Lion's Gate Portal & The Magic Triangle: Astrologer Jill Jardine, have you ever felt like you're standing on the edge of a breakthrough? According to astrologers, the summer of 2026 may be one of the most powerful periods of transformation we've experienced in years. A rare planetary alignment known as the Magic Triangle is creating what many are calling a Portal of Possibility—a unique window for personal growth, reinvention, unexpected opportunities, and major life changes. In this fascinating episode of Shot At Love, resident astrologer, psychic healer, and spiritual teacher Jill Jardine returns to break down why July and August 2026 could become a turning point for millions of people. Jill explains how Neptune, Uranus, Pluto, and Jupiter are working together to create a rare cosmic pattern that supports innovation, spiritual awakening, creativity, freedom, and quantum leaps in consciousness. From career shifts and unexpected opportunities to new relationships and life-changing decisions, this summer's energy is all about embracing change and stepping into new possibilities. Together, Kerry and Jill discuss the exact dates to watch, the impact of Jupiter entering Leo, the significance of the Lion's Gate Portal on 8/8, and why eclipse season in August could accelerate destiny and course-correct our lives in surprising ways. Whether you're looking for love, considering a career change, pursuing a creative dream, or simply wondering why life suddenly feels like it's moving at lightning speed, this episode offers insight into how to work with the energy instead of resisting it. In this episode you'll discover: • What the Magic Triangle is and why astrologers are calling it one of the most important cosmic events of the decade • Why July 18–25 may be one of the most powerful energetic windows of 2026 • How Jupiter entering Leo brings expansion, confidence, creativity, romance, and fun • The meaning behind the Lion's Gate Portal and why August 8 is considered a powerful manifestation date • How eclipse season may trigger endings, beginnings, revelations, and unexpected opportunities • Which zodiac signs are most impacted by the summer's planetary alignments • What these cosmic shifts could mean for dating, relationships, career, finances, and purpose • Why flexibility, optimism, and trying something new may be your greatest advantage this summer If you've been waiting for a sign to make a change, take a chance, or open your heart to new possibilities, this episode may be exactly what you've been waiting for. Because sometimes the universe opens a door—and this summer, it might just open all of them. What if the summer of 2026 becomes the moment everything changes? In this episode of Shot At Love , Kerry Brett welcomes resident astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to discuss a rare planetary alignment known as the Magic Triangle , a cosmic event that astrologers believe could bring powerful opportunities for growth, reinvention, love, and transformation. Jill explains how the alignment of Neptune, Uranus, Pluto, and Jupiter is creating a unique "Portal of Possibility" that may accelerate personal breakthroughs, unexpected opportunities, career shifts, and new relationships. Together, Kerry and Jill explore why July and August are expected to be some of the most significant months of the year, highlighting key astrological events including Jupiter's move into Leo, the Lion's Gate Portal on August 8, and a powerful eclipse season that could trigger major life changes. The conversation also dives into how these energies may impact dating, relationships, creativity, purpose, and personal freedom. Jill shares why staying flexible, embracing change, and saying yes to new experiences could open doors that previously seemed impossible. Whether you're looking for love, considering a fresh start, or simply curious about the powerful cosmic forces shaping the months ahead, this episode offers insight, inspiration, and practical guidance for navigating one of the most exciting astrological periods of the decade. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
What if losing everything was the beginning of finding yourself? In this inspiring episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Judith Colletti, a woman whose life story proves that your age is not your cage. Judith's journey is one of extraordinary resilience. She ran away and married her first husband at just 19 years old, became a single mother of two, discovered while nine months pregnant that the man she planned to marry had given her fake divorce papers and was still married, uncovered a shocking family secret after her father's death, lost her business, lost her home, and found herself rebuilding her life from the ground up. But this isn't a story about what Judith lost. It's a story about what she gained. Today, Judith is in her 60s, thriving, dating, building a successful transportation company, and inspiring others to believe that no matter how difficult life becomes, there is always a way forward. Together, Kerry and Judith discuss: • Why self-love is the foundation for rebuilding your life • How unresolved trauma can impact relationships and decision-making • What it takes to recover after losing a business, a home, and financial security • The mindset shifts that helped Judith reinvent herself time and time again • Why she started driving Uber to rebuild her life from scratch • How gratitude became her secret weapon during life's darkest moments • What dating looks like in your 60s and why Judith believes it's her best decade yet • Why living in the present moment creates more happiness than chasing perfection • The importance of embracing your story instead of hiding from it Judith's message is simple but powerful: your circumstances do not define you. No matter where you are today, you can choose to move forward, reinvent yourself, and create a future that excites you. If you've ever wondered whether it's too late to start over, this episode is your reminder that some of life's greatest chapters begin after the hardest setbacks. Connect with Judith Colletti: Facebook: Judith Colletti TikTok: @judineversleeps QR Code to connect with Judith Colletti on Speaker Hub https://speakerhub.com/cta/bjvwt4 Connect with Kerry Brett @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast www.kerrybrettlifestyleportraits.com Purchase her new book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer's Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love www.shotatlovebook.com. or be a guest on Shot At Love www.shotatloveguest.com Remember: The story you tell yourself matters. Keep moving forward, keep believing, and keep taking your shot at love. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
The Secret Life of a Sapiosexual and Son of a Preacher with G.A. Pimpleton This episode dives into why authenticity is the attractor and why being yourself is your greatest advantage. What happens when a self-proclaimed "walking red flag" sits down to talk about love? In this unforgettable episode of Shot At Love, Kerry Brett welcomes financial guru, entrepreneur, storyteller, and larger-than-life personality G.A. Pimpleton for a conversation that's equal parts hilarious, provocative, and surprisingly profound. G.A. is the kind of man your mother warned you about—yet somehow you end up talking to him for hours and can't tear yourself away. A self-described dream maker, son of two preachers, father of four daughters, and unapologetic individualist, he's built a life on his own terms and isn't interested in being anyone but himself. Together, Kerry and G.A. explore what it really means to be authentic in relationships, why so many people fall in love with someone's "representative" instead of the real person, and how embracing your flaws can actually become your greatest superpower. From his famous five dating questions and his obsession with ambition, intelligence, and personal growth, to his thoughts on loyalty, vulnerability, trust, and why love requires a daily choice, G.A. delivers one unforgettable story after another. The conversation dives into everything from childhood influences and dating standards to the challenges of finding a true partner when you know exactly who you are and what you want. Love him or hate him, one thing is certain: you won't forget him. In This Episode: Why authenticity is more attractive than perfection • The dangers of falling in love with someone's "representative" • G.A.'s famous five questions for determining relationship compatibility • Why ambition and curiosity are non-negotiable qualities • The role loyalty plays in building lasting relationships • How childhood experiences shape adult dating patterns • Why embracing your quirks makes you more memorable • The daily choice required to sustain love and commitment • Why the right people will always appreciate what makes you different Shot At Love Takeaways: Embrace Your Flaws Your imperfections aren't something to hide—they're often the most relatable and attractive parts of who you are. Stop Trying to Blend In The people who are meant for you won't be attracted to a watered-down version of you. Be memorable, not average. Love Requires Courage There are no guarantees in relationships. Every day requires trust, vulnerability, and the willingness to choose someone again. Curiosity Creates Connection The most meaningful relationships aren't built on appearances. They're built on conversation, growth, and genuine interest in one another. Be Unapologetically Yourself The right person won't tolerate your authenticity—they'll celebrate it. Whether you're dating, married, rebuilding after heartbreak, or simply trying to understand yourself better, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughter, and a powerful reminder that being fully yourself is the greatest relationship strategy of all. To find out more about Kerry’s new book Shot@Love, A Celebrity Photographer’s Unfiltered Lens on Dating and Finding Love, check out shotatlovebook.com, and purchase on Amazon. If you’d like to be a guest on Shot At Love go to shotatloveguest.com. Follow on Instagram at @kerry_brett and @shotatlovepodcast. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
On this episode of Shot At Love , Kerry Brett sits down with Anne Gollert Hill for a powerful conversation about manipulation, identity, resilience, and what it takes to rebuild your life after walking away from a controlling environment. Anne opens up about surviving divorce before joining Scientology, spending 20 years inside the Sea Org, and the emotional toll of losing herself inside an organization that promised freedom but operated through control, fear, and isolation. Anne shares the moment she finally escaped with nothing but her purse and the clothes on her back, leaving behind the only world she had known for two decades. Kerry and Anne discuss love bombing, grooming, narcissistic abuse tactics, future faking, and why so many intelligent people can become trapped in toxic systems and relationships. But this episode is ultimately about hope, healing, and reinvention. Despite losing years of her life, Anne proves it is never too late to reclaim your voice, rebuild your confidence, and find love again. Her story is raw, inspiring, and deeply human. In this episode: How narcissistic abuse tactics operate inside organizations and relationships Why love bombing and future faking are so dangerous The psychological impact of losing your identity over time What finally pushed Anne to leave Scientology Rebuilding confidence after emotional control and isolation Why it’s never too late to start over and find love again The power of resilience, self-trust, and personal freedom If you’ve ever questioned a toxic relationship, ignored red flags, or wondered how people get trapped in controlling dynamics, this episode will stay with you long after it ends. Follow Kerry Brett: Instagram: @kerry_brett Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast Website: Shot At Love #ShotAtLove #Scientology #NarcissisticAbuse #DatingAndRelationships #HealingJourney #LoveBombing #EmotionalAbuse #PersonalGrowth Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Shot At Love — Episode: How Your Thoughts Create Your Reality with Positivity Expert Lori Rogers In this uplifting episode, Kerry Brett sits down with Lori Rogers—positivity expert, entrepreneur, and mindset mentor—whose journey from overwhelm to empowerment transformed every area of her life. When Lori’s world became filled with uncertainty, family challenges, and fear, she discovered a life-changing truth: your thoughts, words, and emotions shape your reality. Lori shares how joy, gratitude, and simple daily mindset practices can shift your energy, strengthen your relationships, improve your business, and open new doors. From raising a neurodiverse child to reprogramming generational “scarcity” thinking, Lori explains how she built a life rooted in abundance, self-love, and trust. What You’ll Learn Why happiness is the foundation—not the reward—of success Lori explains why waiting for accomplishments to feel good keeps us stuck. How the words you hear (and speak) shape your future A childhood label of “worrywart” became a belief Lori carried for years—until she learned to rewrite her story. The power of visualization and “I am” statements Inspired by Abraham-Hicks, Lori shares how shifting from “I want” to “I am” changes everything. How to access the emotion of what you desire—now Learn why your brain can’t distinguish between imagination and reality, and how tapping into the feeling accelerates manifestation. Why you can’t manifest for others—but you can support them Lori discusses helping her children, especially her son Craig, through intention, faith, and aligned emotional energy. Letting go of scarcity thinking From her husband Neil’s easygoing nature to reconditioning old beliefs, Lori reveals how changing mindset changes outcomes. Authenticity over perfection Lori opens up about parenting, vulnerability, and embracing the real (not curated) version of life. Simple, free practices that change your life From morning affirmations to mindset tools, Lori shares the routines that anchor her day. Mentioned in the Episode Lori Rogers – Positivity expert and founder of Positive Activity Neil Rogers – Lori’s husband and author of Bar Tips Cam Rogers – Lori’s son and part of the Believe network Abraham-Hicks – Source of Lori’s transformational “I am” practices Positive Activity Website: positiveactivity.net Instagram: @LaurieARogersPositiveActivity This Week’s Dating Tips (Inspired by Lori Rogers) Network intentionally You never know who someone else knows. Your next connection could come from their circle. Feel the relationship before it arrives Visualize the joy, the partnership, and the fun—your emotions are magnetic. Declutter your life and your energy Create space for what you want. Vision boards, crystals, and journaling can help you get clear and align your energy. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Shot At Love — Episode: How Your Thoughts Create Your Reality with Positivity Expert Lori Rogers In this uplifting episode, Kerry Brett sits down with Lori Rogers—positivity expert, entrepreneur, and mindset mentor—whose journey from overwhelm to empowerment transformed every area of her life. When Lori’s world became filled with uncertainty, family challenges, and fear, she discovered a life-changing truth: your thoughts, words, and emotions shape your reality. Lori shares how joy, gratitude, and simple daily mindset practices can shift your energy, strengthen your relationships, improve your business, and open new doors. From raising a neurodiverse child to reprogramming generational “scarcity” thinking, Lori explains how she built a life rooted in abundance, self-love, and trust. What You’ll Learn Why happiness is the foundation—not the reward—of success Lori explains why waiting for accomplishments to feel good keeps us stuck. How the words you hear (and speak) shape your future A childhood label of “worrywart” became a belief Lori carried for years—until she learned to rewrite her story. The power of visualization and “I am” statements Inspired by Abraham-Hicks, Lori shares how shifting from “I want” to “I am” changes everything. How to access the emotion of what you desire—now Learn why your brain can’t distinguish between imagination and reality, and how tapping into the feeling accelerates manifestation. Why you can’t manifest for others—but you can support them Lori discusses helping her children, especially her son Craig, through intention, faith, and aligned emotional energy. Letting go of scarcity thinking From her husband Neil’s easygoing nature to reconditioning old beliefs, Lori reveals how changing mindset changes outcomes. Authenticity over perfection Lori opens up about parenting, vulnerability, and embracing the real (not curated) version of life. Simple, free practices that change your life From morning affirmations to mindset tools, Lori shares the routines that anchor her day. Mentioned in the Episode Lori Rogers – Positivity expert and founder of Positive Activity Neil Rogers – Lori’s husband and author of Bar Tips Cam Rogers – Lori’s son and part of the Believe network Abraham-Hicks – Source of Lori’s transformational “I am” practices Positive Activity Website: positiveactivity.net Instagram: @LaurieARogersPositiveActivity This Week’s Dating Tips (Inspired by Lori Rogers) Network intentionally You never know who someone else knows. Your next connection could come from their circle. Feel the relationship before it arrives Visualize the joy, the partnership, and the fun—your emotions are magnetic. Declutter your life and your energy Create space for what you want. Vision boards, crystals, and journaling can help you get clear and align your energy. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this episode, Love Is Not Luck: Divorce, Grief & Relational Literacy with Real Love Ready Author Robin Ducharme, this week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett welcomes Robin Ducharme, founder of Real Love Ready, creator of the In Bloom relationship summit, and author of her new book Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy. This conversation is not about fairy tales or finding “the one.” It’s about learning how to love better, communicate deeper, forgive harder, and stop calling every relationship that ends a failure. Robin opens up about the loss of her twin brother, her spiritual relationship with love, her Catholic upbringing, and how grief taught her that love does not disappear — it simply changes form. Kerry and Robin also discuss divorce, friendship breakups, relational literacy, faith, self-abandonment, and why love is not just a feeling — it is a skill, a discipline, and a practice. In this episode, we talk about: Why Robin considers herself a lifelong student of love How losing her twin brother transformed her understanding of connection Why love continues even after death How divorce can be an act of self-rescue, not failure The grief carried by the person who chooses to leave Why some relationships complete their purpose instead of “failing” The pain of friendship breakups and why we need to grieve them too How fear-based thoughts block love Why relational literacy should be taught like a life skill Robin’s In Bloom summit and the world-renowned relationship experts she has worked with Her new publishing company, Soul Print The mission behind Real Love Ready Episode Theme: Love is not luck. Love is readiness. Love is literacy. Love is a practice. About Robin Ducharme: Robin Ducharme is the founder of Real Love Ready, a platform dedicated to helping people build healthier relationships through education, community, and honest conversations about love. She is also the creator of In Bloom, an annual relationship summit in Vancouver featuring some of the world’s leading voices in love, healing, and relational growth. Her book, Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy, offers a roadmap for learning how to love ourselves and others with more awareness, courage, and compassion. Where to find Robin: Visit: realloveready.com Book: Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy Event: In Bloom — held every April in Vancouver and online Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Survivor Season 49 Winner on Love, Trust & Winning at Relationships with Savannah Louie What does it really take to win—in love, life, and on one of the toughest shows on television? This week on Shot At Love, Kerry Brett sits down with Survivor Season 49 winner Savannah Louie for a powerful conversation about confidence, resilience, vulnerability, relationships, and trusting your instincts when everything is on the line. Savannah shares how she manifested her Survivor journey from childhood, applying for the show for years before finally stepping onto the island—and winning. She opens up about the power of visualization, mental preparation, and why believing in yourself is often the first step toward success. Kerry and Savannah explore how Savannah’s background as a journalist helped her dominate the game. From reading body language and building trust quickly to staying calm under pressure, Savannah explains why people skills matter just as much in dating as they do in Survivor. The conversation also takes a deeper look at Savannah’s real-life relationship, including how competing on Survivor tested her partnership, what anxious attachment taught them both, and how communication helped them grow stronger together. They also discuss: Why confidence starts with asking “Why not me?” How vulnerability builds deeper connection Why observation is power in dating and life The danger of being physically present but emotionally distracted What reality TV fame taught Savannah about relationships Why timing matters more than forcing outcomes How to know when the right opportunity is finally yours Savannah Louie is sharp, inspiring, strategic, and refreshingly honest. Whether you're navigating dating, rebuilding confidence, or chasing a dream that feels impossible, this episode will leave you thinking bigger. This is one conversation you don’t want to miss. 3 Dating Takeaways from Savannah Louie Believe You’re the Prize Confidence changes everything. Stop asking “Why would they choose me?” and start asking “Why not me?” Vulnerability Creates Intimacy People connect with what’s real—not perfection. Let people see the truth of who you are. Observe Before You Invest: Not every opportunity is meant for you. Watch actions, trust patterns, and choose wisely. What does winning Survivor and finding love have in common? Everything. This week, Survivor winner Savannah Louie joins me to talk confidence, trust, vulnerability, relationships, and why believing in yourself is the real game-changer. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Keep Swinging: What Beep Baseball, Blind Athletes & Fearless Living Teach Us About Love, Confidence & Possibility Episode Overview What if the only thing standing between you and a completely different life… is one swing? This episode doesn’t just land—it hits . Recorded after an unforgettable moment at Fenway Park, Kerry sits down with Wynter Pingle and Johnny Coe —two people who redefine what it means to show up, trust the process, and go after something before you feel ready. Wynter is a blind musician, runner, athlete, and chef. Johnny is her teammate, guide, and creative counterpart. Together, they pull you into the world of beep baseball —a sport built on trust, instinct, and courage. But this conversation goes way beyond the field. It’s about identity. It’s about fear. It’s about the moments where you decide— I’m doing this anyway. What You’ll Hear in This Episode • The powerful story behind playing beep baseball at Fenway Park • Why “being a little scared” might actually mean you’re living right • How Wynter redefined what she thought she was capable of—at every stage of life • The surprising connection between movement, confidence, and finding love • What trust really looks like (on the field and in relationships) • Why community is the missing piece for so many people feeling stuck • The truth: you don’t fail by trying—you fail by never stepping up to the plate Standout Moments • “Until you’re dead, you can always discover new parts of yourself.” • “People living their lives right are always just a little bit scared.” • “It doesn’t matter if I beat someone else. What matters is if I beat what I thought I could do.” • “You miss every shot you don’t take—so keep swinging.” What is Beep Baseball? A fully adaptive version of baseball designed for blind and visually impaired athletes—where sound replaces sight, trust replaces hesitation, and courage drives every play. • Players hit a beeping ball • Bases buzz to guide runners • Teammates rely on rhythm, communication, and instinct Learn more: • National Beep Baseball Association (NBBA) • Achilles International (adaptive running community) • Adaptive Sports New England The Takeaway This episode is your wake-up call. You don’t need more confidence. You don’t need more time. You don’t need permission. You need one move. One risk. One moment where you decide: I’m getting in the game. Because love, opportunity, and everything you’re looking for? They’re not waiting for you to be ready. They’re waiting for you to show up. Connect with Kerry Follow, connect, and stay in the loop for live events, new episodes, and Shot@Love Society drops: • Instagram: @kerrybrett • Podcast: @shotatlovepodcast • Website: shotatlovebook.com Grab the Book Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love Available now on Amazon Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
What Love on the Spectrum Teach es Us About Finding Love, Confidence, and Authentic Connection with Pari Kim and Tina Zhu Xi Caruso If you’ve been searching for love—and wondering why it feels so hard—this episode will change how you see connection. With the growing popularity of Love on the Spectrum Season 4 , this powerful conversation revisits one of the most authentic love stories from the series: Tina Zhu Xi Caruso and Pari Kim. When Tina and Pari met on Love on the Spectrum , audiences around the world were drawn to their honesty, vulnerability, and genuine connection. But their story goes deeper than reality TV—it reveals what it truly takes to find love in today’s dating world. In this episode of Shot At Love , host Kerry Brett explores how Tina and Pari’s relationship highlights the keys to meaningful connection: radical self-acceptance, emotional honesty, and the courage to show up exactly as you are. From Pari’s fearless self-expression—living life unapologetically—to Tina’s strength as a photographer and disability advocate, their connection is built on something many people struggle to achieve in modern dating: authenticity. Their shared experience of loss creates a deeper emotional bond, proving that empathy, resilience, and understanding are often the foundation of lasting love. This episode is for anyone navigating dating, feeling discouraged, or searching for a more meaningful connection. Because finding love isn’t about perfection—it’s about being real, being seen, and being accepted. If you’re a fan of Love on the Spectrum or looking for real dating advice that actually works, this episode will leave you inspired—and thinking differently about love. Love on the Spectrum Season 4, Love on the Spectrum cast, Tina Zhu Xi Caruso, Pari Kim, finding love, dating advice, how to find love, authentic relationships, neurodivergent dating, dating with autism, self-confidence in dating, real love stories, modern dating struggles #LoveOnTheSpectrum #FindingLove #DatingAdvice Website: www.shotatlovebook.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love Podcast with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Astrology and Love: Aries Season, and How to Find Love in 2026 with Jill Jardine . Your Astrology Dating Guide for Spring 2026 What does astrology say about love right now —and how can you use this moment to finally find love, take action in dating, and stop repeating old patterns ? In this powerful episode of Shot At Love , Kerry Brett sits down with astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine to break down the astrology of love, dating, and relationships during one of the most pivotal seasons of 2026. If you’ve been feeling stuck in modern dating , questioning your path to finding love , or wondering when things will finally shift—this is your moment. Because, according to this astrology love forecast , everything is changing. After months of emotional heaviness, retrogrades, and reflection, the energy has officially turned. As Jill explains, all planets are now moving direct , creating a rare window for movement, clarity, and momentum—especially when it comes to love and relationships . This isn’t a “wait for love” season. This is a take action, find love, and change your dating life season. April’s Aries energy brings bold, fast-moving momentum into modern dating , pushing you to confront what’s not working and take real action toward finding love . This is the kind of astrology that sparks first dates, bold decisions, and new beginnings—but it also requires awareness. Because in this phase of astrology and love , people are moving fast. Which means: Connections ignite quickly Attraction builds instantly But people can also dismiss potential love just as fast That’s why this episode breaks down how to navigate dating during Aries season without sabotaging your chances of finding real love . One of the biggest themes in this astrology dating forecast ? A complete shift in tolerance. People are no longer settling in relationships that don’t align. In today’s dating world , emotional unavailability, mixed signals, and red flags are no longer being ignored—they’re dealbreakers. This is a season of: Choosing yourself Raising your standards Letting go of misaligned relationships Creating space to find real, aligned love And that’s exactly why so many people are either breaking up—or finally breaking through—in their love lives right now. But timing matters. This episode walks you through how to work with the astrology of love from April through June so you can actually succeed in dating and relationships : April is about action and exploration in dating May brings grounding, stability, and deeper connection June reveals clarity—showing you who is right for you and who is not If you’ve been trying to find love , this timeline is everything. Another major shift in this astrology love forecast is how we communicate and connect. With Uranus entering Gemini, there’s a rapid evolution in dating, communication, and connection . This impacts: Dating apps and online dating Texting and communication patterns How quickly people form connections The desire to find aligned, like-minded partners But there’s a catch in dating . While people want deeper connection and real love , they’re also becoming more selective—sometimes overly focused on surface-level traits instead of true compatibility. The key to finding love in this astrology cycle ? Stay open, but stay aligned. Kerry brings it back to what matters most in dating and relationships : You have to put yourself in the right rooms to find love. Because finding love isn’t about luck—it’s about action, energy, and environment . This episode is your roadmap to navigating modern dating through astrology , understanding the energy of this moment, and finally taking aligned action toward real love . The biggest takeaway from this astrology and love conversation : Don’t sit this one out. Say yes to the date. Say yes to new opportunities. Say yes to meeting new people. Because the energy right now is designed to support finding love, creating connection, and building something real . And as Kerry always says— Take your shot. Because love isn’t about perfect timing. It’s about showing up when the energy is finally aligned. #FindingLove #AstrologyLove #DatingAdvice Website: www.shotatlovebook.com www.kerrybrett.com Podcast: Shot At Love on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and BLEAV Instagram: @kerry_brett @shotatlovepodcast Facebook: Shot At Love Podcast TikTok: @shotatlove LinkedIn: Kerry Brett Substack: https://shotatlove.substack.com YouTube: Shot At Love Podcast with Kerry Brett Book: Shot@Love: A Celebrity Photographer’s Lens on Dating and Finding Love (Available on Amazon) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Love Story takes us inside one of the most iconic and misunderstood relationships of our time—Carolyn Bessette Kennedy and John F. Kennedy Jr., through the lens of someone who knew her personally. This episode offers a rare and intimate look beyond the headlines and into the truth of who Carolyn really was. Kerry Brett sits down with celebrity writer Jonathan Soroff, who shared a real friendship with Carolyn before and during her rise into the global spotlight. Together, they revisit the 1990s, a time before social media, when mystery still existed—and how that intrigue became part of Carolyn’s allure. This conversation explores the tension between love and fame, the pressure of constant media attention, and the emotional cost of being in a relationship that the world is obsessed with. Jonathan shares behind-the-scenes stories that reveal Carolyn’s character, her boundaries, and the quiet strength that made her unforgettable. They also discuss the current cultural fascination with their relationship and what gets lost when real lives are turned into entertainment. It raises important questions about privacy, perception, and the way society projects meaning onto couples we don’t truly know. At its core, this episode is about more than a famous love story—it’s about understanding the power of boundaries, the importance of self-worth, and why the most compelling relationships aren’t always the most visible. Kerry Brett closes the episode with dating insights inspired by Carolyn’s approach to love, reminding listeners that attraction grows over time, boundaries set the tone, and the right person will rise to meet you when you hold your value. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Today’s guest is Evan Marc Katz, a trailblazing dating coach who has spent more than two decades helping women understand men and create lasting relationships. Often described as the world’s first dating coach, Evan built his career on one central mission: helping women stop repeating painful dating patterns and start attracting the kind of partner who wants commitment. Evan shares how his own experiences as a serial dater led him to study relationship dynamics and eventually build a coaching practice devoted to helping women navigate the modern dating landscape. His insights have been featured in major media outlets including CNN, The New York Times, and The Wall Street Journal. During the episode, Kerry and Evan talk about why chemistry alone is not enough to sustain a relationship, how to identify the difference between attraction and compatibility, and why many successful women unknowingly choose partners who are emotionally unavailable. Evan also discusses the mindset shifts that can transform someone’s dating life, including learning to recognize red flags early, focusing on consistency over intensity, and understanding the qualities that lead to long-term partnership. If you feel like you’ve done everything right in life but still haven’t found the right relationship, this conversation offers powerful insight into why—and what you can do differently moving forward. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this episode of Shot@Love , Kerry Brett sits down with author of the popular book Bar Tips by Neil Rogers for a powerful conversation about human connection, dating, and what the hospitality industry can teach us about finding love. Neil shares how decades behind the bar shaped his understanding of people, respect, and first impressions—and why dating, like bartending, is ultimately a people business. From the importance of a proper greeting to the power of listening more than you speak, this episode explores how small, intentional actions can completely change the way we connect with others. The conversation dives into transferable skills from hospitality that apply directly to dating, including preparation, punctuality, reading the room, and meeting people where they are. Neil explains why being “right” is overrated, how kindness builds trust, and why showing up without an agenda creates deeper, more authentic connections. Kerry and Neil also discuss loneliness, modern dating challenges like ghosting, and how technology has made it easier to hide instead of engage. They explore why respect, compassion, and presence are more attractive than perfection—and how confidence grows when we focus less on impressing and more on genuinely connecting. This episode is a reminder that love doesn’t come from performance or pressure. It comes from listening, kindness, and the courage to be yourself. Whether you’re dating, rebuilding confidence, or simply wanting better connections in your love life or in business, this conversation offers timeless lessons that can change how you show up—for dates, relationships, and life itself. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
How to Rebuild Confidence and Find Love Again: The Connection Between Self-Worth, Healing, and Attraction with Dr. Ann Doggett Struggling with confidence, healing after heartbreak, or wondering why love hasn’t worked out yet? This episode connects the dots. In this powerful episode of Shot At Love , celebrity photographer, author, and dating expert Kerry Brett sits down with Dr. Ann Doggett of Whole Body Solutions to explore how self-worth, healing, and confidence directly impact your ability to attract and sustain love. If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating, disconnected from yourself, or like you’ve lost your spark after a breakup, divorce, or major life change—this conversation offers a new path forward. Dr. Ann shares how true transformation starts from within, combining science-backed treatments like non-invasive cold fiber laser technology with holistic healing practices including nutrition, acupuncture, and energy work. The result? Not just physical renewal—but emotional confidence, clarity, and a stronger sense of self. Because finding love isn’t just about meeting the right person—it’s about becoming the version of yourself who’s ready to receive it. This episode will show you how to rebuild confidence, reconnect with your worth, and step back into dating with a completely different energy. If you're ready to feel like yourself again—and finally attract the love you deserve—this is where it starts. finding love, how to find love, rebuild confidence after heartbreak, dating after divorce, self-worth and relationships, how to attract love, healing after breakup, confidence in dating, emotional healing, self-love journey #FindingLove #DatingConfidence #SelfWorth Follow Kerry Brett for more dating and relationship advice: Instagram: @shotatlovepodcast @kerry_brett Website: www.shotatlovethebook.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
The start of a new year isn’t just about resolutions. It’s about acceleration. In 2026, the heaviness of the last few years begins to lift. The exhaustion, the repeating patterns, and the familiar question of why we keep ending up in the same place are finally giving way to movement and possibility. Astrologically and energetically, we are entering a rare window that supports forward momentum, emotional openness, and new beginnings. In this episode of Shot@Love, Kerry Brett is joined by astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine for a deep look at what the planetary shifts of 2026 mean for love, connection, creativity, and personal growth. Jill explains why this year marks the official transition into Aquarian age energy and how the collective move from heavy earth and water influences into lighter air and fire elements creates space for inspiration, innovation, and emotional renewal. Together, Kerry and Jill explore why 2026 is a year of acceleration rather than hesitation. The Year of the Horse arrives with momentum, encouraging people to stop dragging the past into the future and instead align with what is meant for them now. This episode breaks down why January sets the tone for the entire year, why intention-setting early matters more than ever, and how grounding practices help navigate a faster, more dynamic energetic landscape. Jill offers a detailed snapshot of the first quarter of 2026, including the powerful Aquarius activations in January, the intensity of eclipse season and retrogrades in February, and the integration and forward motion that begins to take shape in March. She explains how these shifts may impact relationships, dating, creativity, and emotional readiness, while also offering guidance on how to stay centered during periods of rapid change. This conversation is especially meaningful for anyone who has felt stuck, cautious, or emotionally weighed down in recent years. It offers clarity on how to work with the energy of 2026 rather than resist it, and why love becomes more accessible when timing and readiness finally align. As Kerry and Jill discuss, love is not about perfect circumstances. It is about being prepared when opportunity meets intention. Listeners will walk away with a clearer understanding of why 2026 represents a collective reset, how to approach love and connection with optimism instead of fear, and what it means to move forward without carrying old emotional baggage. This episode is an invitation to trust the momentum, stay grounded, and allow the year ahead to unfold with purpose. Guest Bio: Jill Jardine is a professional Western and Vedic astrologer with more than 35 years of experience. She holds a master’s degree in counseling psychology, is a Sanskrit mantra instructor and yoga teacher, and is the host of the internationally acclaimed podcast Cosmic Scene with Jill Jardine . Jill blends psychology, spiritual insight, and ancient wisdom to help individuals navigate life transitions with clarity and empowerment. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
The holidays can feel like a perfect storm — emotionally, mentally, and physically. In this timely and deep conversation, Surviving the Holiday Bermuda Triangle: Dry January & the 12 Steps—Kerry Brett is joined once again by comedian, mom, and nearly nine-year-sober Laurie Hurd Ferreira for part two of their series on the 12 Steps — and why they’re not just for recovery, but for anyone craving peace, and real change. Together, they unpack what Laurie calls the Holiday Bermuda Triangle—Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s — a season that amplifies loneliness, temptation, comparison, and emotional overwhelm. With humor, honesty, and hard-earned wisdom, Laurie explains how the 12 Steps offer a practical framework for sobriety, self-trust, and community support — especially during the holidays or as Dry January is upon us. Or in moments when willpower alone isn’t enough. This episode isn’t about perfection or labels. It’s about transformation — the desire to change, to slow down, to stop repeating patterns, and to choose a different way forward, one day at a time. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
