Liz Yaps

In this episode, we’re breaking down the pervasive issue of online abuse within religious and post-religious spaces—specifically targeting Muslim women. From Dawah bros and "unpaid security guards of the patriarchy" to digital gang stalking, DARVO, dog-whistling, and honor-based cyber violence, we examine how religious texts are weaponized and how abusers exploit public humiliation for clout and control. Plus, my proposal for a collective legal fund and professional network to help women protect themselves against online harassment, slander, and doxxing. 🔗 CONNECT & SUPPORT 📱 TikTok: Tiktok.com/@lizyapping ☕ Buy Me a Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/lizyapping 📩 Paid DMs / Priority Messages: https://paydm.app/lizyapping 💬 COMMUNITY QUESTION How can we better organize resources to support women facing digital harassment and honor-based cyber violence? Leave your thoughts and ideas in the comments below. 🔔 LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE EPISODES! #LizYaps #Deconstruction #Feminism #SocialCommentary #WomenRights #Cyberbullying #ExMuslim #Podcast

*Requested episode* Note: This video features a lot of lag I didn't notice until editing. Please disregard! Support my efforts by buying me a coffee, please! buymeacoffee.com/lizyapping In this episode, I’m tackling one of the biggest talking points thrown around in dawah spaces: the claim that "Islam gave women the right to divorce 1,400 years ago." But is conditional permission really a "right" when a man can end a marriage with three words, while a woman has to buy her freedom or prove extreme suffering to a male judge? I’m breaking down the actual legal mechanics and societal stigmas surrounding divorce—from unilateral talaq and the financial ransom of khul' to court-ordered faskh and post-divorce custody traps. We’re cutting through the apologetic spin to look at the massive power imbalance built into these contracts, why you shouldn't need a catastrophic reason to leave a relationship, and why true autonomy is an inherent human right—not a privilege granted by an institution. Takeaways Divorce is stigmatized in Muslim communities Men hold more power in divorce proceedings Divorce processes differ significantly between the genders Women's rights in divorce are limited Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Feminism in Islam 02:43 Divorce in Islamic Context 06:26 Stigmatization of Divorce 11:51 Secular vs. Religious Divorce 13:35 Men's Control Over Divorce 22:21 Patriarchal Collusion in Counseling 29:18 Hadith and Women's Rights 35:31 The Replaceability of Women in Marriage 39:15 Divorce in Islam: A Closer Look 46:47 The Process of Divorce: Men vs. Women 01:03:24 Understanding Khula and Tafwid al Talaq

Wow this was a huge yap session! Today I discuss smear campaigns, the lies spread by Inayah Beldeen's slander, Fatima Begum/Besobeti. We also talk about my brief journey through islam, reclaiming my blackness, and take a peek into the Quran to remind everyone of how to properly find and disseminate information about others. This one is a wild one so buckle up! Some Key Highlights 00:00 Introduction to Cultural Exposures 02:19 The Smear Campaign Incident 04:31 Understanding Hadith Rejection 08:15 The Role of Women in Religious Discourse 12:01 Emotional Responses and Racial Dynamics 18:08 Discourse vs. Echo Chambers 24:00 The Impact of Social Media on Influence 25:31 Debating the Hijab's Significance 27:12 Community Projection and Emotional Responses 28:53 Navigating Identity and Acceptance 30:42 Performative Islam vs. Genuine Belief 32:32 Critique of Hadith and Scholarly Discourse 35:26 Personal Journey and Spiritual Disillusionment 39:49 The Role of Discourse in Islam 40:11 The Impact of Social Media on Perception 42:45 Addressing Personal Attacks and Integrity 46:40 Cultural Expectations and Ageism 49:57 Body Image and Self-Acceptance 53:23 Functional Fitness and Health Goals 55:21 Unmasking Online Personas 59:05 The Dangers of Doxxing and Stalking 01:02:01 The Impact of Honor-Based Violence 01:05:41 The Role of Healthcare Professionals in Community Safety 01:12:58 Community Responsibility and Women's Safety 01:15:10 The Illusion of Feminism in Religious Contexts 01:22:02 Empowering Women Against Misogyny 01:31:14 Slut Shaming and Its Consequences 01:32:14 The Role of Theatrics in Islam 01:34:18 The Quran's Warnings Against Misleading Others 01:36:30 Gratitude and Its Importance 01:39:30 The Dangers of Comparison and Envy 01:42:40 Reclaiming Identity and Culture 01:48:43 The Journey of Leaving Islam 01:51:44 The Impact of Reputation and Slander 01:56:25 Taking Action Against Online Harassment

The conversation delves into the complex relationship between religion, particularly Islam, and the entitlement men feel towards women's bodies. It explores how religious texts and teachings contribute to the subjugation of women, the concept of marital rights, and the implications of these beliefs on women's autonomy and rights. The conversation delves into the themes of ownership, sexual relations, and the treatment of women in Islamic texts, highlighting the dichotomy between Muslim and non-Muslim women. It emphasizes the need for deconstructing patriarchal structures within religious contexts to empower women and challenge misogyny. Chapters 00:00 The Entitlement of Men's Bodies in Religion 02:57 Islam's Role in Women's Subjugation 05:54 Divine Authority and Marital Rights 08:46 The Concept of Mehr and Ownership 11:59 Marital Rape and Religious Justifications 15:12 The Intersection of Religion and Women's Rights 18:02 Modern-Day Slavery and Women's Ownership 21:21 The Ethics of Slavery in Islam 31:46 Exploring Ownership and Sexual Relations 34:41 The Role of Women in Islam 39:02 Dichotomy of Muslim and Non-Muslim Women 46:14 Concubinage and Financial Independence 51:29 The Treatment of Women in Islamic Texts 01:01:00 Deconstructing Patriarchy and Religion Support me by buying me a coffee! buymeacoffee.com/Lizyapping

"It's kind of chic to never let a man see your body." "Woke up one day and decided to never let a man see my hair again." In this episode of LIZ YAPS , we're discussing the trend where muslim creators rebrand hyper-modesty as a flex. Hosted from an ex-revert perspective, we unpack why slapping an aesthetic onto religious compliance is lowkey a cope sis—and why hiding your body under threat of social and divine pressure can never be "chic." Or can it?