PAPA | Family Court Voice

In this honest and grounding conversation, divorce coach, author, yoga teacher, and wellbeing advocate Gabs Brown joins the podcast to discuss the realities of separation, co-parenting, family court, dating after divorce, and rebuilding your life after a relationship ends. Chapters 00:00 Introduction & Funny Opening Moments 01:22 Meet Gabs Brown 03:33 Divorce Coaching Explained 05:43 Grounding Techniques & Emotional Regulation 08:06 Co-Parenting Challenges 09:20 Dating After Divorce 17:02 Why Gabs Shares Vulnerably on Social Media 19:16 The Viral Dating Stories 22:54 The Book of Rest 28:00 Separation & 50/50 Custody Arrangements 36:03 Mediation, Solicitors & Family Court 40:51 Advice for Parents Facing Family Court 48:20 Mental Health & Relationship Dynamics 54:52 Recognising False Narratives in Relationships 1:03:38 Advice for People Going Through Separation 1:07:48 Where to Find Gabs Brown

What happens when a leading psychology professor discovers he personally lived through parental alienation as a child? In this educational and emotional episode of the PAPA Family Court Voice Podcast, Mark sits down with Professor Ben Hine — one of the UK’s leading researchers on parental alienation, alienating behaviours, domestic abuse, family breakdown and child psychology. Professor Hine opens up about: ⏱ Topics Covered: 00:00 Introduction 02:16 Ben Hine’s personal story 07:53 Research into parental alienation 10:08 Shocking statistics revealed 12:04 Is parental alienation abuse? 13:26 Why do some claim parental alienation isn’t real? 15:57 Ben’s new book explained 21:38 Family court research and failures 25:47 New global study with PAPA 31:49 Mental health impacts 38:05 Is the family court broken? 42:18 Repeal of parental involvement discussion 54:52 Three things Ben is grateful for 57:55 Three reforms needed for family court If this conversation resonated with you, please: 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📢 Share ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

In this unfiltered episode of the Papa Family Court Voice Podcast, viral social media creator Emily Cutter joins Mark for a raw discussion about: Topics Covered: 00:00 – Viral opening moments 01:13 – Meet Emily Cutter 02:22 – Why shared parenting matters 04:19 – TikTok growth & viral content 06:29 – The videos that sparked debate 11:27 – Family court discussion 19:27 – Parenting, control & conflict 26:31 – Mental health & court pressures 33:34 – Social media plans & future content 48:49 – Three words to describe family court 49:46 – Advice for parents in conflict This episode tackles difficult topics including family court, allegations, co-parenting disputes, financial stress, parental conflict, and the long-term emotional impact on children and parents. 👇 Join the conversation respectfully in the comments. ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

On April 25th, something powerful is happening in Portsmouth, UK. The iconic Spinnaker Tower will be lit up in PAPA Teal to raise awareness for parental alienation and the growing movement pushing for family court reform and support for alienated parents. In this episode, PAPA Founder Simon Cobb and Mark discuss the plans for the day, including: • Why Portsmouth was chosen • The message behind lighting the Spinnaker Tower • Why supporters from across the UK are being encouraged to attend • Live podcast interviews happening on the night • Volunteers abseiling down the tower to raise awareness • Music, community support, and media coverage Last year was the proof of concept. This year the goal is to make it bigger, louder, and impossible to ignore. With over 200,000 UK followers, even 1% showing up could bring thousands together in one place to send a powerful message. 📍 Location: Old Portsmouth – near the Spice Island Inn ⏰ Abseil Event: 5:00 PM – 6:15 PM at Gunwharf Quays 🎙 Podcast Interviews: Still & West Pub 🎵 Live Band: Kiss by Vultures (8 PM) This event is about community, awareness, and building momentum for change. If you’ve been affected by parental alienation or want to support those who have, this is an opportunity to stand together and be heard.. 👍 Like, Subscribe and Share to help spread awareness.. 🎙️ ABOUT THE PODCAST The PAPA Family Court Voice Podcast explores family court reform, parental alienation, co-parenting, mental health, and accountability — with real conversations that challenge the system. ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

In this episode of the PAPA Family Court Voice Podcast, we speak with Stephen Carpenter, the creator behind the upcoming “Love V Law” documentary, about the realities many parents say they experience inside the family court system. 00:00 LOVE V LAW Trailer 02:36 Introduction & Background 06:26 The Financial Incentives Behind Family Courts 10:43 The Impact of Family Court Decisions 15:01 The Need for Systemic Reform 23:19 Parental Alienation and Its Consequences 28:50 Transparency in Family Courts 35:13 The Call for Change and Conclusion 40:38 The Challenge of Change in Family Courts 44:22 The Role of Parents in Child Alienation 47:38 Understanding the Family Court System 52:08 The Complexity of Family Court Experiences 56:41 The Psychological Impact of Family Court 01:00:12 Parental Alienation and Its Consequences 01:01:19 Urgent Reforms Needed in Family Courts ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

Is the family court system broken? In this powerful episode of the Family Court Voice Podcast, Mark sits down again with activist and campaigner Michael Love to discuss the realities of family court, parental alienation, and the growing movement demanding transparency and reform. Michael reveals the results of his investigation into the system — including freedom of information requests to government bodies, courts, and agencies involved in family law. The shocking response? No one can prove the system actually works. In this conversation we discuss: • Why some people compare family courts to the Post Office Horizon scandal • The truth behind Section 7 reports and court decisions • Why transparency in family courts is still almost impossible • The growing movement demanding reform • The documentary “Love V Law” exposing the system • The fight for accountability and evidence-based decisions We also talk about activism, journalism inside courtrooms, and why more parents around the world are speaking out about their experiences. This episode is a raw, honest discussion about family courts, parental alienation, and the need for systemic change. 00:00 Introduction and Context 09:55 Project Travis: Transparency in Family Courts 14:32 Navigating the Section 7 Report Process 19:01 Advocacy and Media Engagement in Family Law 23:27 Documentary Insights and Future Directions 27:49 Reflections on Systemic Issues in Family Courts 34:24 The Misleading Section Report 41:23 Critique of Family Court Reports 47:52 Political Perspectives on Family Courts 54:51 The Role of Advocacy and Support ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

In this powerful episode of the PAPA Family Court Voice Podcast, we speak with Mark Ludwig, Executive Director of the National Council for Equal Shared Parenting. Mark has spent decades in politics and has helped pass legislation supporting equal shared parenting in multiple U.S. states. After experiencing his own custody battle, he dedicated his life to exposing the systemic issues inside family courts and advocating for reform. 02:17 The Shared Parenting Community and Personal Journey 06:34 Transition from Politics to Parenting Advocacy 10:17 Educating and Empowering Advocates for Change 21:20 Understanding Parental Alienation and Its Impact 29:40 Navigating the Challenges of Co-Parenting 30:59 The Importance of Equal Parenting 32:30 The Adversarial Nature of Family Law 33:57 Allegations and Their Consequences 35:11 The Financial Incentives in Family Law 40:21 The Role of Fathers in Child Development 44:01 Advocating for Legislative Change 52:03 Building a Collaborative Movement 📖 Mark Ludwig’s Work Mark is also the author of “The Parental Alienation Playbook”, which outlines common manipulation tactics parents should recognize during custody disputes. 🔗 Learn More National Council for Equal Shared Parenting https://ncesp.org YouTube Channel STL Mark Ludwig

In this explosive episode of the PAPA Family Court Voice Podcast, attachment specialist and forensic consultant Melanie Gill speaks openly about parental alienation, family courts, and the controversy surrounding the “Unregulated Psychologist” headline. 03:31 The Role of Parental Alienation in Policy 06:09 Impact of Separation on Children 09:08 Political Shifts and Their Effects on Child Policy 17:01 Global Perspectives on Parental Alienation 21:45 Melanie's Journey in Psychology and Advocacy 30:59 The Importance of Mental Health Screening 44:40 Challenges Facing Experts in Family Court 48:22 The Consequences of Ignoring Parental Alienation 52:45 The Development of Narcissism in Children 58:50 The Need for Informed Experts in Family Law ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

In this powerful episode of the PAPA Family Court Voice Podcast, we sit down with David Pisarra, U.S. family law attorney, founder of Dads Law School, and one of the most outspoken advocates for fathers’ rights worldwide. 🔗 Connect with David Pisarra Website: https://dadslawschool.com TikTok: @DadsLawSchool Instagram: @DadsLawSchool YouTube: Dads Law School 🎧 Chapters 07:31 The Evolution of Family Law and Its Impact 10:29 David's Journey into Family Law 15:31 Understanding the Family Court Dynamics 25:29 Empowering Dads with Resources 30:35 The Enforcement of Child Support Orders 32:55 The Push for 50/50 Custody 35:44 Parental Alienation and Its Consequences 38:17 The Impact of Family Courts on Men's Mental Health 41:37 The Need for Support and Community for Fathers 51:44 Proposed Changes for Family Court and Domestic Violence ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith

In this powerful and emotional episode of the Papa Family Court Voice Podcast, we sit down with Robert Garza, a national family court reform advocate and the architect behind 500+ legislative bills across the United States. 02:27 Understanding Family Court Challenges 04:54 The Impact of False Allegations in Family Courts 07:32 Child Support and Its Historical Context 12:02 The Role of Media and Transparency in Courtrooms 14:46 Legislative Changes and Their Implications 17:16 The Global Perspective on Family Law 19:53 The Future of Family Law Reform 25:55 Navigating Protective Orders and Legal Amendments 28:40 The Emotional Toll of Family Court 30:16 Advocating for Legislative Change 34:31 The Importance of Evidence in Family Court 42:40 Personal Experiences and Relationships “The largest civil rights movement since the civil rights era — affecting every man, woman, and child.” 🔗 FIND ROBERT GARZA Website: robertgarza.us Facebook: Robert Garza ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

In this powerful and unfiltered conversation, Haley Rochelle joins the PAPA Family Court Voice Podcast to discuss accountability, masculinity, feminism, co-parenting, faith, and the realities of modern family court. 00:00 Hayley Rochelle What to Expect 01:15 Introduction 03:17 The Impact of Social Media on Family Dynamics 06:56 Navigating Family Courts and Child Support 12:15 Exploring Feminine and Masculine Roles 17:57 Personal Accountability and Growth 23:21 The Journey of BC Hayley 29:05 The Dynamics of Modern Relationships 29:54 The Importance of Accountability 32:09 Haley's Journey and E-book Insights 35:36 Coaching and Community Building 39:47 Navigating Co-Parenting Dynamics 45:38 Feminism, Masculinity, and Societal Expectations 📍 CONNECT WITH HALEY ROCHELLE 🔹 Website & Ebook: HaleyRochelle.com 📘 Accountability Is a Woman’s Kryptonite (and Her Cure) — available on Amazon 📸 Instagram: @therealhaleyrochelle 📘 Facebook: Haley Rochelle

SOURCE: PAPA FAMILY JUSTICE TRANSPARENCY REPORT Court orders are supposed to protect children. But what happens when courts refuse to enforce them? In this episode of PAPA Family Court Voice, we break down PAPA's newly released FAMILY JUSTICE TRANSPARENCY REPORT, exposing a systemic failure in the enforcement of child arrangements orders across England and Wales. ⏱️ CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Enforcement Without Consequence 01:20 – Introduction to the Papa Transparency Report 03:10 – Why This Isn’t Just a UK Problem 05:00 – “98% Go Unpunished” Explained 13:40 – Only 1.7% Result in Punishment 16:10 – Repeated Breaches Tolerated by Courts 19:30 – Delays and Loss of Child Contact 25:40 – Abuse Allegations: 80% Raised, 90% Not Upheld 33:30 – The Financial Cost to Taxpayers 36:10 – Impact on Children and Stability 39:40 – Why Courts Benefit From Prolonged Conflict 44:00 – The Constitutional Crisis 47:10 – Final Conclusions & Call for Reform 🔗 Learn more & get involved: https://www.papaorg.co.uk Check out PAPA on social media and their website for information, support, and upcoming events. ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the host only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members.

In this episode, host Mark welcomes special guest Kerry Little to discuss the challenges and injustices faced by parents in the family court system. Kerry shares her personal experiences with the system, highlighting issues such as parental alienation, false reporting, and the lack of transparency. 00:00 Introduction to Kerry Little 01:36 Raising Awareness on Parental Alienation 04:07 The Family Court System: A National Scandal 09:21 Kerry's Personal Story: Children Taken Away 17:54 The Role of Social Services and Police 35:09 The Allegations and Their Consequences 40:07 Challenges with Authorities 41:02 The Role of the Police 44:27 The Impact on Families 46:19 The Financial Aspect of Child Services 49:04 Coping with the Emotional Toll 52:36 The Need for Systemic Change 55:01 A Call to Action for Reform ⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

What really happens inside the Family Court system — and how does it impact fathers, mothers, and children? In this powerful episode of the Family Court Voice Podcast , Mark sits down with Jason Appleyard , founder of the Alienated Dads Network and an experienced McKenzie Friend , to talk candidly about family court, parental alienation, institutional bias, and the psychological realities parents face when navigating the system. Jason shares his deeply personal journey through family court, how it led him to support other parents, and why he believes the system operates more like theatre than justice. From litigating in person to challenging false allegations, managing fear in court, protecting children’s wellbeing, and maintaining mental health — this conversation pulls no punches. ⚠️ Content Warning: This episode discusses family court, parental conflict, emotional abuse, mental health, and child welfare. 🔗 Links mentioned in this episode: Alienated Dads Network (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/@alienateddadsnetwork McKenzie Friend Near Me website: https://mckenziefriendnearme.uk/ 💬 If you’re a parent navigating family court, or supporting someone who is, this conversation may help you feel less alone. 👍 Like, comment, and subscribe to support the podcast and help raise awareness. ⏱️ Chapters / Timestamps 00:00 – “It’s all just theatre” – Jason’s opening view of Family Court 00:47 – Three words to describe the Family Court system 01:01 – Introduction to the Family Court Voice Podcast 02:17 – Jason’s background & why he began raising awareness 03:15 – Fathers for Justice, protest culture & early mistakes 05:40 – Learning the system & “playing the game” 07:40 – Court outcomes, difficult decisions & prioritising his daughter 10:15 – Letting go of anger, accountability & personal growth 12:09 – Relationships, self-awareness & emotional maturity 15:59 – Why solicitors escalate conflict 18:50 – Jason’s relationship with his daughter today 20:17 – Helping others through Family Court 21:19 – Family Court psychology & “professional gaslighting” 24:08 – Institutional bias & how fathers are treated 25:12 – Alienated Dads Network: YouTube & messaging 28:29 – Protecting children & reducing conflict 32:05 – Becoming a McKenzie Friend & supporting litigants in person 35:48 – New McKenzie Friend DME website & AI tools 38:40 – Solicitors vs McKenzie Friends: pros & cons 40:27 – Law changes, contact centres & financial incentives 43:49 – False allegations & why safe parents lose contact 46:51 – Enforcement bias & double standards in court 49:00 – Bigger picture: systemic issues & long-term impact Family Court UK, Parental Alienation, McKenzie Friend, Alienated Dads, Family Court Bias, Fathers Rights UK, Litigant in Person, Child Contact Orders, CAFCASS, Domestic Abuse Allegations, Family Law Podcast

In this episode, Mark sits down with author and advocate Jared to talk about male victims of abuse, parental alienation, family court failures, and the healing journey after trauma. Jared shares the shocking reality of being abused, disbelieved, and arrested after defending himself — and how writing helped him rebuild. This conversation dives deep into evidence, court bias, mental health, and how men can safely navigate abusive relationships. ⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Abuse Begins & Police Dismissal 00:50 – Podcast Introduction 01:09 – Jared’s Background & Career Change 02:25 – Leaving Corporate Life & Writing About Abuse 03:59 – Discovering a Community of Male Survivors 04:11 – Writing His First Book & Continuing the Series 05:57 – Abuse Is Not a Gender War 06:27 – “The Words We Never Heard” 08:30 – Character Awareness & Writing Style 10:56 – Empaths & Abusive Dynamics 11:53 – Escalation of Abuse & Self-Blame 13:08 – Plot Twist & Reader Experience 14:03 – How Abuse Gradually Builds 15:30 – Overview of Jared’s Other Books 17:34 – The Indifference of Good Men 18:42 – Why Men Stay Silent 20:17 – Misandry & The Forgotten Fathers 21:12 – Jared’s Parental Alienation Story 22:00 – How Contact Was Restricted 23:31 – “I’m Scared of Him” & Court Weaponization 24:32 – Perjury & No Accountability 26:08 – Child Arrangement Orders Ignored 27:25 – Non-Molestation Order Process 29:03 – Going to the Police About Abuse 30:07 – Advice for Male Victims Reporting Abuse 31:32 – Hidden Cameras & Evidence Collection 33:17 – The Arrest Incident 34:53 – Court Ignores Evidence 37:38 – Courts Empower High-Conflict Individuals 38:32 – Judges Ignoring Evidence 39:16 – Court Is a Money Machine 40:12 – Mental Health & Therapy 41:51 – Good Days & Bad Days 43:02 – Writing as Therapy 44:32 – Public Victim-Blaming 46:00 – Gym, Exercise & Healing 47:19 – Strongman Training 48:28 – Strongman Figures 49:52 – New Crime Novel Coming Soon 50:42 – Three Things Jared Is Grateful For 51:17 – Three Reforms Needed for Family Court 52:34 – Three Words to Describe Family Court 53:01 – Repeal of Parental Rights Discussion 56:49 – Where to Find Jared 🔗 Connect with Jared 📚 Books: amazon.co.uk/dp/B0D4VVJSSR 🌐 Website: linktr.ee/jwhitakerauthor 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/jwhitakerauthor 🐦 Twitter/X: x.com/JWhitakerAuthor 💬 If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship Document everything. Collect evidence safely. Reach out to support services. You’re not alone. 🔥 Hashtags #FamilyCourt #ParentalAlienation #MaleVictims #DomesticAbuse #MenMatter #Podcast #JaredAuthor #FamilyCourtReform #AbuseAwareness

Join John and Mark as they delve into the emotional and challenging journey through the family court system. In this candid conversation, they discuss the personal toll, the systemic hurdles, and the resilience required to navigate such a complex process. Whether you're facing similar challenges or simply seeking to understand the intricacies of family law, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt stories. Don't miss this compelling discussion on the realities of family court. 00:00 Introduction to the Family Court Podcast 01:09 Raising Awareness Through Social Media 06:07 Navigating the Family Court System 11:51 Challenges of Mediation and Court Proceedings 17:16 The Impact of Allegations and Misunderstandings 25:05 Final Hearing and Its Consequences 27:40 Courtroom Challenges and Legal Representation 31:41 Navigating the Legal System: Self-Representation and Support 33:59 Final Dispute Resolution: Decisions and Outcomes 38:52 The Impact of Allegations and Family Dynamics 44: Concerns and Their Implications 50:28 Finding Peace on the Road: Coping Mechanisms and Hobbies 52:22 Navigating the Challenges of DJing at Events 53:41 The Most Requested Songs and Artists 56:06 The Therapeutic Nature of DJing 57:42 Mental Health Struggles and Seeking Help 59:55 The Impact of Counseling and Medication #FamilyCourt #ParentalAlientation #Politics #Podcast #Cafcass

In this episode of the Family Court Podcast, host Mark speaks with Deano, who shares his personal journey through the family court system and the challenges he faced as a father. Deano discusses his experience with TikTok as a platform for sharing his story, the impact of false allegations, the role of schools in family disputes, and the involvement of CAFCASS. The conversation highlights the struggles fathers face in navigating the family court system and the emotional toll it takes on them. In this conversation, Mark and Deano delve into the complexities of family court systems, parental rights, and the emotional toll on fathers. They discuss the challenges faced by fathers in navigating court orders, the impact of mental health, and the need for reform in the family court system. The conversation emphasizes the importance of support for fathers and the need for accountability within the system. 00:00 Overview 01:03 Introduction 03:49 Deano's TikTok Story 12:04 False Allegations and Arrest 18:12 Child Removed From School 26:24 CAFCASS Involved 36:26 C100 Court Application 43:58 Meeting Other Fathers in London 48:11 Deano's New TikTok Channel 50:25 Lack of Support in Court 55:56 Gratitude 58:53 What's needed to Reform Family Court? 01:09:10 Family Court in 3 Words

Mark discusses the APPG report on family separation, highlighting systemic issues in the family court system. He critiques the lack of official recognition of the report, the repetitive nature of its findings, and the ineffectiveness of proposed reforms. Mark emphasises the need for accountability, better training for professionals, and a focus on the welfare of children. He shares personal experiences and frustrations with the current system, advocating for transparency and real change. 00:00 Introduction to Family Court Issues 01:55 Overview of the APPG Report 04:38 The Family Court System: Problems and Challenges 08:56 The Role of Training and Expertise in Family Courts 10:29 Desired Outcomes and Cost Implications 11:50 Learning from International Practices 13:47 The Need for Consistency in Judicial Processes 16:37 The Impact of Delays and Accusations 18:43 Addressing Domestic Abuse Allegations 21:11 The Financial Burden of Family Courts 24:02 The Consequences of Prolonged Court Proceedings 27:10 The Role of Legal Aid and Financial Incentives 29:29 Exploring Alternative Parenting Models 31:30 The Need for Accountability in Family Court 33:18 The Importance of Data Transparency 35:21 The Flaws in Family Court Incentives 37:44 Domestic Abuse and Its Complexities 41:10 The Best Interest of the Child: A Misnomer 45:13 Training Deficiencies in Family Court Professionals 48:53 Systemic Issues in Family Law 52:37 Proposals for Reform and Improvement #familycourt #parentalalienation #domesticabuse #reform

Join us in the inaugural episode of the Family Court Voice Podcast, where we dive deep into the challenges and triumphs of navigating the family court system. Our special guest, Michael Love, shares his inspiring journey of walking the coast of Britain to raise awareness for family court reform. Discover the personal stories, the fight for equal parenting, and the movement towards change. Don't miss this heartfelt conversation that sheds light on the struggles faced by many and the hope for a better future. #FamilyCourtReform #EqualParenting #Podcast 00:00 Introduction to the Family Court Voice Podcast 02:40 The Walk for Awareness 10:49 Encounters Along the Journey 16:56 The Call for Reform 27:09 The Protest Speech and Its Impact 31:19 Reflecting on the Past: The Speech and Its Impact 34:27 The Reality of Protests and Petitions 36:52 Shifting Strategies: From Protests to Information 39:32 Innovative Ideas for Change in Family Courts 42:41 Introducing Project Travis: A New Movement 46:45 Personal Struggles: Navigating Family Court Experiences 54:47 Finding Hope and Moving Forward

Each month we will have a special guest sharing thought leadership on Family Court Corruption, Parental Alienation and Mental Health topics