Probing In The Sheets

Lisa Flanders discusses the importance of pelvic health physiotherapy, breaking down the stigma surrounding pelvic health issues, and the need for education on these topics. Lisa shares her journey into pelvic health, the common misconceptions about who can benefit from pelvic floor therapy, and the various issues that can arise for all genders. Lisa, Jamie and Miel speak candidly about the value of open conversations about sexual health, pleasure, and the power of curiosity in overcoming shame. Key topics Exploring pelvic floor health across all genders and life stages Breaking the stigma through education and openness Pelvic floor therapy treats more than incontinence Body literacy, pleasure, and understanding orgasm Consent, breathing techniques, and curiosity over shame Get your tickets for CLIMAX Conference. Click Here () 15% Off With Code: SPEAKERSPECIAL *Episode produced by Nicole Hurtubise About Lisa Flanders Lisa Flanders (she/her) is a Registered Physiotherapist and co-owner of Bloom Integrative Health & Movement in Ottawa, Ontario, with expertise in pelvic health, sexual health, and pelvic pain. She holds a Bachelor of Arts and a Bachelor of Kinesiology from the University of Manitoba, and a Master of Science in Physical Therapy from Queen’s University. Lisa began her career in orthopedic physiotherapy and continues to integrate this foundation into her pelvic health practice. She has completed extensive post-graduate training in pelvic floor dysfunction, with advanced focus on persistent pelvic pain, sexual health, and the care of transgender and gender-diverse individuals, including post-operative, gender affirming rehabilitation. Lisa is passionate about smashing the stigma and creating safe, inclusive spaces for care. Through clinical work, education, and mentorship, she empowers individuals to better understand their bodies, reconnect with their pelvic health, and return to meaningful movement and participation in life. @bloom_health_ottawa @lisaflandersphysio @cliterally_obsessed_podcast Website: Bloom Integrated Health About Jamie Walker As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work with Jamie Connect on IG @walkerxox About Miel Nannini Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work with Miel Connect on IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all genders and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

Dr. Keiko Chan discusses various aspects of sexual health for people with vulvas and vaginas, particularly focusing on perimenopause, menopause, hormone treatments, and misconceptions surrounding testosterone therapy. The conversation explores the complexities of desire, intimacy, and sexual health. Delving into relationship dynamics, the importance of emotional connection, and the impact of societal expectations on libido. Dr. Chan emphasizes the need for a biopsychosocial approach to understanding sexual health and the role of communication in fostering intimacy. Key topics Understanding perimenopause, menopause and hormonal changes Rethinking testosterone therapy and sexual health Exploring spontaneous vs. responsive desire Building intimacy through emotional connection and communication Taking a biopsychosocial approach to desire, arousal, and sexual wellbeing Get your tickets for CLIMAX Conference 15% Off With Code: SPEAKERSPECIAL *Episode produced by Nicole Hurtubise About Dr. Chan Dr. Keiko Chan (she/her) is a local women’s health GP in Ottawa. She carries a Focused Practice Designation in gynecology and is a certified Menopause Society Practitioner. She prides herself on providing evidence-based care to patients of all age groups, whether it be at her women’s health clinic or Carleton University family practice. Dr. Chan is also passionate about education in family medicine and serves as a clinical preceptor for medical students and family medicine residents at the University of Ottawa. IG @ottawa_girl_doc About Miel Nannini Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work with Miel Connect on IG @daddy.miel About Jamie Walker As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work with Jamie Connect on IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all genders and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

Natalia shares how her personal sexual reawakening evolved into Kinks and Coffee, House of Kink, Climax, and a larger role in Ottawa’s sex-positive community. This candid episode explores moving beyond shame, discovering pleasure, building safer spaces, and turning personal pain into purpose. Natalia also discusses creating inclusive events, making kink more approachable, and why collaboration is essential to a thriving community. Key topics Reclaiming pleasure after divorce Moving beyond shame and insecurity Sexual education and self-discovery Building sex-positive communities Creating House of Kink and Climax Get your tickets for CLIMAX Conference Here 15% Off With Code: SPEAKERSPECIAL *Episode produced by Nicole Hurtubise About Natalia Jaczkowski (she/her) A sex educator and founder of Kinks & Coffee, a sexual wellness brand dedicated to making conversations around intimacy, desire, pleasure, and kink more approachable, inclusive, and stigma-free. She is also the co-founder of CLIMAX Conference and an event producer behind Singles Mingle and House of Kink, creating community experiences that bring sexuality, connection, education, arts, and nightlife together. Her work is grounded in curiosity, community, and evidence-informed sexuality education, with professional training through the Kinsey Institute, Sexual Health Alliance, and advanced mentorship in kink and power exchange. @kinksandcoffee @climax.conference @singlesmingle.events @events.houseofkink About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie Connect On IG @walkerxox About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel Connect On IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

For this episode, Miel and Jamie got together to chat about the joys of being alone and the many ways solo play can be explored in kink. TW/CW: This episode mentions eating disorders. About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Jamie and Miel share their experiences with dirty talk and their thoughts on how to get past the awkward stage where we don’t know what to say for fear of being cringey, offensive or downright triggering. About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Miel and Jamie delve into the intricacies of public exhibitions of kink and D/s dynamics. What is appropriate in public and what constitutes a violation of consent for those who bear witness. About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Jamie and Miel continue their chat with Rae Szereszewski (Share with Rae, Wife Bae Rae, Raezor). In Part Two, they discuss boundaries and triggers in ENM partner dynamics, a radical solution to the male loneliness epidemic, and healing trauma through kink https://www.sharewithrae.com/kinkandtrauma About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Jamie and Miel are taking their show on the road and welcoming someone new into their hotel room bed. Rae Szereszewski (Share with Rae, Wife Bae Rae, Raezor) is a certified sexual health educator and relationship coach with a background in latex fetish wear design. In Part One of their chat, they learn about Rae’s history with the kink community and navigating ENM dynamics. About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Miel and Jamie dominate the conversation, converse about dominance and ask themselves: What are the main types of dominants? What makes a good dom/domme? What green flags should you look out for when vetting a dom/domme? What questions should you ask them? About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In Manifesting, Part Two, Miel and Jamie go deeper on the steps required to bring dreams and ideas into reality. About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

Jamie and Miel have manifested another wonderful two-part episode. In Part One, they open up about what manifesting means to them and share examples of how to put it into practice in kink and in the real world. About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, our very first guest jumps into bed with Jamie and Miel. Maddy wears many tantalizing hats, from sex educator (@sexedwithmadds) to sex shop owner (@wickedwandas) and event manager (@events.houseofkink & @climax.conference). She talks about being raised by a domme and sex shop owner, finding her own space in the kink community and shares some insights on the culture and business of pleasure. About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Miel and Jamie answer more questions from listeners. How did they meet their partners? How do they feel about how kink and BDSM are portrayed in the media? What spicy books do they recommend?…and more! About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Miel and Jamie answer questions from listeners. What have they learned from their journey through kink? What unusual toy/implement do they recommend? What safe word should people use, other than “red”? …and more! Continued next time in Part 2. Kink Playlists: Beat The Ones You Love x Femme Fatale x About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Miel and Jamie chat about kink without sex, sex without kink, kinky sex and sexy kinks. Choose your own adventure and join us as we venture to disambiguate and validate the realm of possibilities. About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

This episode is all about shame. Jamie and Miel talk about coming out as kinky, vulnerability and openness about our needs and desires, working through internal shame about our kinks, attractions and preferences, social pressure, critics and outside opinions. Who do we think we are? About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Miel and Jamie continue their discussion about the masks we wear in life and BDSM. Topics include the importance of self awareness and flexibility, neurodivergence and masking when we’re outside our window of tolerance, and finding our custom mask through introspection and experience. About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Miel and Jamie discuss the masks we wear in life and BDSM. Topics include the importance of self awareness and flexibility, neurodivergence and masking when we’re outside our window of tolerance, and finding our custom mask through introspection and experience. About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

Burnout in Kink In this episode, Jamie and Miel discuss the signs of burnout, how burnout affects our kink dynamics, supporting partners who are experiencing burnout, how to listen to our natural cycles and cultivate the power of saying no. About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

In this episode, Miel and Jamie share their experiences with health issues, how illnesses and injuries can affect kink dynamics, the importance of advocating for yourself when communicating with health professionals about kink and BDSM, and how health issues can impact D/s dynamics. About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxox About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa