Raising ADHD: Real Talk For Parents & Educators

Send us Fan Mail The ADHD middle school transition is a real risk point. Why symptoms spike, why medication isn't enough, and how to build the executive function bridge your child needs. __________________________________________________________ One or two teachers becomes six or seven. One classroom becomes a locker, a schedule, and a pile of deadlines. Somewhere along the way we started calling this "be more independent," walked our kids to the edge of a cliff, and hoped they'd grow wings on the way down. Let's build the bridge instead. Middle school is not elementary school with bigger kids. It's a major jump in executive function demands, and the research calls it a genuine risk point for kids with ADHD. In this episode I put on my former junior-high-teacher hat and walk through why symptoms can actually spike at this transition, why medication doesn't teach planner skills, and why parent involvement matters just as much now as it did in elementary school even though this is exactly when everyone tells you to back off. Then I reframe middle school as a practice window, the years before grades count, and give you a simple plan: pick one invisible skill, make it visible, practice it in a calm moment, and scaffold it for the first month. The core message: middle school success can't rest on reminders and hope. It rests on explicitly teaching the skills middle school suddenly demands. Inside this episode Why the move to middle school is a research-backed risk point, and why inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity can bump up right at this change. Why medication creates access to skills but does not teach a child to use a planner, manage a binder, or track six teachers' assignments. What scaffolding actually looked like in elementary school, and why all of that invisible support disappears overnight. Why writing the assignment in the planner is only the first link in a long chain of skills, and how every link can break. Why parent support tends to drop right when the research says it should stay steady, and how your role shifts from supervising to skill coaching. The three coaching questions that build time management and planning: what do you have, when will you do it, and how long will it take. A simple after-school rhythm: short rest, quick planner check while the day is fresh, then decompress or start. How to build a color-coded organization system without buying out the Amazon school aisle. How to find and fix the one link in the chain that keeps breaking, from lost homework to blank planners. Teaching time by measuring it, breaking big projects into visible next steps, and giving your child scripts for asking for help. Timestamps 00:00 Why middle school feels like a cliff 04:25 Why this transition is a risk point for ADHD kids 08:16 What elementary scaffolding really looks like 12:07 The planner is a chain of skills, not one skill 14:43 Why parent support drops right when it shouldn't 18:54 Independence is the goal, not the starting point 22:17 A simple after-school rhythm 28:01 Build a color-coded system 31:43 Fix the one link that keeps breaking 33:47 Teach time by measuring it 35:50 Scripts for asking for help 37:51 Your one-skill experiment for this week Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19682546-the-adhd-middle-school-transition-how-to-help-your-adhd-child-survive-and-actually-grow-in-middle-school/transcript One thing to do next Take the free Executive Function Check-In to see which of the eleven skills your child is strong in and which need support, so you know exactly which one to scaffold first. Get it at raisingadhd.org/quiz . Resources and related episodes Free Executive Function Check-In quiz: raisingadhd.org/quiz Ep27: Executive Function Skills and ADHD, Why Your Child Can't "Just Do It" Ep33: ADHD Executive Function in Real Life, Why Checklists Fail and the Scaffolding System That Actually Works Ep8: How to Help Your ADHD Child Actually Get Their Homework Done Without the Nightly Battles Impulsive Behavior in ADHD, Why Your Child Has No Pause Button and How to Build One Find me on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts I'm Apryl Bradford, a former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside my husband Dr. Brian Bradford, a child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail How to talk to your child's teacher about ADHD and start the year as a team. A former teacher's plan for one clear goal, positive feedback, and no double punishment. _________________________________________________________________ You're already bracing for it: the email, the phone call, the note in the folder. You can't sit beside your child all day, so the school tells you what went wrong and leaves you wondering what you're supposed to do with it once they walk in the door. Here's how to close that gap. This is Part 3 of the back-to-school series, and it's the one I can speak to from both sides, as a former teacher and as a mom. Today is about the teacher relationship: how to start the year as a team instead of waiting for the first hard email, and how to do it without becoming the person expected to punish your child all over again at home. I walk through giving your child a fresh start with a new teacher, explaining ADHD simply, handing over a strength map, letting the first few weeks give you data, and building a small school-to-home plan that actually gets used. The line to hold onto: home is not the second punishment location for school behavior. The principle underneath the whole series stays the same, support what your child's brain needs and let go of what it doesn't. Inside this episode Why a new teacher deserves a fresh start, and why you don't hand over last year's list of everything that went wrong. What ADHD support actually requires from a classroom, and what's realistic to ask of a stressed teacher. How to make teamwork explicit from day one, before anything has gone wrong. How to explain ADHD to a teacher in a few plain sentences that give behavior context without excusing it. How to give the teacher a strength map so they see your whole child, not just the hard parts. Why you let the first couple of weeks provide data instead of solving every possible problem before the first bell. The case against double punishing, and what to do at home instead of a second consequence. The simple school-to-home plan: one specific target behavior, quick tracking, a fast reward, and a short review at home. How to set healthy communication boundaries so the daily report doesn't become an emotional dump. A ready-to-use email script for open house or that first message to the teacher. Timestamps 00:00 Dreading the first message from school 02:40 A fresh start with a new teacher 06:41 What ADHD support really needs 09:35 Make teamwork explicit from day one 13:42 Explain ADHD simply and clearly 15:42 Share strengths and name skills 21:00 Let the first weeks provide data 24:26 Stop double punishing after school 27:16 Build a simple school-to-home plan 33:43 Set healthy communication boundaries 35:20 The email script and final encouragement Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19648745-how-to-talk-to-your-child-s-teacher-about-adhd-start-the-year-as-a-team-not-the-punishment-department/transcript One thing to do next Grab the free teacher-letter prompt. Plug it into your favorite AI tool, add a few details about your child, and it writes the letter to your child's teacher for you. Get it at raisingadhd.org/letter. Resources and related episodes Free teacher-letter prompt: raisingadhd.org/letter Free Executive Function Check-In quiz: raisingadhd.org/quiz Part 1 of the series: ADHD Back-to-School Burnout, How to Take the Weight Off Before the School Year Starts Part 2 of the series: Getting Your ADHD Child Ready for School Without Crushing Who They Are Ep1: The Truth About ADHD, Why the Name Gets It Wrong and What You Need to Know Ep24: ADHD School Behavior Problems, Why Nothing's Changing and the Framework That Will Find me on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts I'm Apryl Bradford, a former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside my husband Dr. Brian Bradford, a child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail Getting your ADHD child ready for school isn't about fixing their behavior. How to protect their self-esteem, set a boundary on teacher feedback, and plant one small support. ________________________________________________________________ A mom posted in an ADHD parenting group: "Anyone else so nervous for the first weeks of school? I'm not excited to hear about how challenging my kid is being." The comments blew up. If you've ever felt your stomach drop watching a teacher walk toward you with that look, this one is for you. This is Part 2 of the back-to-school series, and it's not the "fix your kid's behavior" episode the world expects. Getting your ADHD child ready for school is really about protecting their self-esteem and protecting your relationship with them in a season when it feels like everyone is pointing out what's wrong. I share a hard, personal story about my own son's kindergarten year, then walk you through a simple four-part approach: build an identity counter-story so a behavior report never becomes your child's identity, decide ahead of time what teacher feedback is allowed to mean, teach one small skill through playful role-play, and choose a single regulation anchor for the first few weeks. We are not installing a 27-step behavior system. We're planting a couple of small supports that can grow. Inside this episode The reframe for the whole season: the goal isn't perfect behavior, it's protecting your child's self-esteem, your connection, and one or two supports for school. How to name your child's true identity out loud so it becomes a counter-story to whatever email or report comes home. How to decide in advance what a teacher's feedback means, so other people's judgments don't become your child's identity at home. Teaching one skill with role-play, and why practicing both the wanted and unwanted behavior works. Choosing one regulation anchor: an after-school decompression window or a 30-second morning connection ritual. How to handle your own embarrassment and burnout, and how to repair with your child after you snap. The simple four-step plan you can start this week in two to three calm, playful minutes a day. Timestamps 00:00 The Facebook post every ADHD parent recognizes 02:30 A kindergarten story and the mom guilt that stuck 05:20 Reframing readiness beyond compliance 07:44 Build an identity counter-story 13:08 Teach one skill with role-play 18:31 Choose one regulation anchor 20:22 Handling your own embarrassment and repair 21:54 The simple four-step plan Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19609702-back-to-school-without-shame/transcript One thing to do next Take the free Executive Function Check-In to see where your child is strong and where they need support before the year starts. Get it at raisingadhd.org/quiz . Coming up next week Part 3 of the back-to-school series: preparing the teacher. How to communicate about your child's ADHD up front, so you start the year on the right foot instead of waiting for the first hard email. Resources and related episodes Free Executive Function Check-In quiz: raisingadhd.org/quiz Part 1 of the series: ADHD Back-to-School Burnout, How to Take the Weight Off Before the School Year Starts Impulsive Behavior in ADHD, Why Your Child Has No Pause Button and How to Build One Ep5: After-School Meltdowns and ADHD, A 3-Step Plan Parents Can Start Tonight Ep20: Why Your ADHD Child Thinks "I'm the Problem" and How Repair Changes Their Identity Find me on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts I'm Apryl Bradford, a former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside my husband Dr. Brian Bradford, a child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail Back-to-school prep for ADHD families starts with you. Simple decisions to make now, from meals to meds to bedtime, so you start the year less loaded and more regulated. ______________________________________________ It's late July. The kids are still in swimsuits, but the back-to-school bins are already at Walmart, and the school emails are landing. You know it in your bones: if you're stressed, everyone's stressed. So before we prep the kids or the teachers, this first episode is about you. This kicks off a three-part back-to-school series, and Part 1 is all about taking weight off your shoulders before the year starts. I walk through the two battle zones where school stress hits hardest (mornings and evenings), then give you the small, decide-it-once moves that quietly lighten the load: setting your school breakfasts and lunches on rotation, the launch pad and weekly clothes systems, outsourcing groceries and repeat purchases, handling the med check and school form now instead of on day one, and easing bedtime back in 10-minute shifts instead of one brutal Sunday night. The principle underneath all of it: support what your child's brain and your brain need, and let go of what neither one does. Pick one or two of the heaviest rocks and move them now. Inside this episode The Raising ADHD™ principle for back-to-school: support what your brain and your child's brain need, and let go of the rest. How to find your worst battle zone, mornings or evenings, so you focus your energy in one place. Decide breakfast once: build a short rotation that cuts decision load and makes grocery shopping easier. The launch pad method and the weekly clothes organizer, plus why doing it at night beats doing it in the morning. How to end the daily lunch negotiation by deciding home-lunch and school-lunch days ahead of time. Outsourcing that protects your nervous system: grocery delivery and subscriptions for the repeat items you always run out of. The two ADHD-specific tasks to knock out this week: the medication check and the school medication form. How to reset bedtime without a fight by shifting 10 to 15 minutes a night, dimming lights, and easing screens and reading back in. The one rule to close: pick one or two changes that take the biggest load off you, and let the rest go. Timestamps 00:00 Late July, the in-between, and why this episode is about you 02:56 The one principle: support what the brain needs, drop the rest 05:09 Making mornings easier before school starts 14:00 Ending the daily lunch negotiation 18:39 Outsourcing groceries and repeat purchases 24:24 Med checks and school forms to handle now 26:48 Resetting bedtime without a fight 31:27 Pick one change and share it Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19557708-beat-back-to-school-burnout-the-adhd-mom-s-prep-plan-for-a-calmer-school-year/transcript One thing to do next Grab the free Morning Toolkit, the decide-it-once system for calmer school mornings, at raisingadhd.org/morning. Coming up next week Part 2 of the back-to-school series: getting your ADHD kid ready. We'll dig into the routines, regulation, and expectations that help them start the year steady, without you turning into a drill sergeant. Resources and related episodes Free Morning Toolkit: raisingadhd.org/morning Free Executive Function Check-In quiz: raisingadhd.org/quiz Ep38: ADHD Summer Survival, 5 Small Things Saving My Life Right Now Ep34: The Best Daily Routine for a Child With ADHD (Summer Edition) Ep9: The ADHD Bedtime Battle, Why Your Child Won't Sleep and How to Finally Fix It Find me on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts I'm Apryl Bradford, a former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside my husband Dr. Brian Bradford, a child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail Is a packed weekend making ADHD behavior worse? Why kids start Saturday in regulation debt, and a simple weekend check-in for calmer Monday mornings. ____________________________________________ Soccer at nine, birthday party at two, block party after that. By Sunday night everyone's fried, and Monday morning feels like pushing a wet noodle out the door. You thought doing more would help. Here's the uncomfortable question I'm asking with zero judgment. Your child doesn't start the weekend fresh. After five days of holding it together at school, they start it in regulation debt, and a calendar packed with fun can feel like more of the same. In this episode I break down why ADHD kids hit Saturday already depleted, how both over-scheduling and under-scheduling backfire depending on your child's actual recharge style, and why hyperactivity gets misread as extroversion so often. Then I walk you through a three-step framework for designing a weekend around your child's nervous system instead of everyone else's expectations, plus the Friday night check-in that takes about two minutes. The reframe: plan your weekends around the nervous system, not around fear, guilt, or what every other family is doing. Inside this episode Why your child starts the weekend in regulation debt, and why after-school restraint collapse doesn't reset by Saturday morning. The good-intentions trap: structure, enrichment, and screen-avoidance all pushing you toward a fuller calendar. Why hyperactivity is a neurological symptom and not a personality type, and how that leads us to misread what our kids actually need. Why the bouncing-off-the-walls kid may be the one who needs low-stim time, and the quiet, spacey kid may be the true extrovert. Step one: observe one weekend on purpose and collect data on their recharge style, not your shoulds. Step two: name your child's recharge profile. Chiller or adventurer, with no moral ranking either way. Step three: do one thing less or one thing more. Start small instead of overhauling the calendar. Why your own recharge profile matters just as much, and what to do when yours and your child's don't match. The Raising ADHD™ Weekend Check-In you can run in two minutes on a Friday night. Timestamps 00:00 The packed weekend and the Monday morning that follows 02:03 The uncomfortable question, asked with zero judgment 02:28 What's actually happening by Friday 03:49 Restraint collapse and starting the weekend in regulation debt 05:13 The good-intentions trap 06:16 The light bulb moment that started this episode 13:16 The reframe: plan around the nervous system, not fear 13:49 The soccer guilt and the "good parent" trap 16:01 What does your brain need this weekend? 17:14 Two kids, two completely different recharge styles 17:39 Why hyperactive doesn't mean extroverted 20:23 Step one: observe one weekend on purpose 21:39 Step two: name your child's recharge profile 23:43 Step three: do one thing less or one thing more 26:27 You are the other half of their nervous system 27:47 The Raising ADHD™ Weekend Check-In 29:08 No guilt, just curiosity and data Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19500686-are-weekends-making-your-adhd-child-s-behavior-worse-why-monday-mornings-are-so-hard/transcript One thing to do next Take the free Executive Function Check-In to see where your child is strong and where they need support. It takes about five minutes and gives you a personalized snapshot. Get it at raisingadhd.org/quiz. Resources and related episodes Free Executive Function Check-In quiz: raisingadhd.org/quiz Ep39: ADHD Parenting Burnout, The 3 Stages, the Signs, and What Actually Helps Ep5: After-School Meltdowns and ADHD, A 3-Step Plan Parents Can Start Tonight Ep34: The Best Daily Routine for a Child With ADHD (Summer Edition) Ep22: ADHD Morning Routine Chaos, How to Find Your Battle Zone and Fix It Find me on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts I'm Apryl Bradford, a former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside my husband Dr. Brian Bradford, a child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail Impulsive behavior in ADHD kids isn't defiance, it's a delayed pause button. What's happening in the brain, the three types of impulsivity, and an 8-step way to help. ____________________________________________________ Your child does something so far past logic that you're left staring at the mess asking "why would you do that?" Here's the hard truth: they don't know either. Their brain generated "go" before it could generate "stop." I open with a powdered-sugar snowstorm in my kitchen, because impulsive behavior in ADHD kids is one of the most maddening things to parent. In this episode I break down what impulse control actually is (response inhibition), why the ADHD brain's pause button is delayed and underpowered, and the three types of impulsivity you're seeing at home and school. Then I walk you through an 8-step stop-and-think system you can teach in calm moments and prompt in hot ones, plus the environment tweaks that cut impulsive behavior fastest while the skill is still building. The reframe: a child who cannot pause cannot use the skills they already have. Inside this episode What impulse control really is, and why Peg Dawson and Dr. Russell Barkley call it the foundation the other executive function skills depend on. What's happening in the ADHD brain: the weaker, later stop signal and the role dopamine plays. The three types of impulsivity: verbal, motor/behavioral, and emotional, and how they show up at different times of day. The core reframe: your child isn't the kid who never thinks, they're the kid whose brain needs help building a pause. Why you teach the pause in calm moments and prompt it in hot ones, never mid-meltdown. The 8-step stop-and-think system, from picking one behavior to praising the pause instead of perfection. Why pairing the pause with a physical body cue helps the brain insert the delay. The environment changes that reduce impulsive behavior fastest while the skill develops. Your one-week plan: one behavior, one pause script, three calm practice reps. Timestamps 00:00 Why impulse control feels impossible 02:07 The powdered sugar morning story 03:55 What impulse control really means 08:10 The ADHD brain and the weak stop signal 12:21 The three types of impulsivity 14:55 The reframe: skills need a pause 16:29 Teach a pause script in calm moments 19:50 The 8-step stop-and-think system 27:33 Reduce risk by changing the environment 29:01 Your weekly plan and closing encouragement Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19488732-impulsive-behavior-in-adhd-why-your-child-has-no-pause-button-and-how-to-build-one/transcript Resources mentioned Free Executive Function Check-In quiz, to see where your child is strong and weak: raisingadhd.org/quiz One thing to do next Take the free Executive Function Check-In to find out whether impulse control is one of your child's weaker skills, and see how your profile compares to theirs. Get it at raisingadhd.org/quiz. Resources and related episodes Ep27: Executive Function Skills and ADHD, Why Your Child Can't "Just Do It" Ep31: ADHD Meltdowns vs Tantrums Ep36: Your ADHD Child Isn't Trying to Drive You Crazy Find me on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts I'm Apryl Bradford, a former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside my husband Dr. Brian Bradford, a child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail ADHD parenting burnout is real, and it's not the same as being tired. The three stages, why parents of ADHD kids burn out faster, and five research-backed ways to recover. __________________________________________________ You keep saying you're just tired. A good night's sleep should fix it, but it doesn't, and the moment your kid walks in the door your tank hits empty. That's not tired. That might be burnout, and there's a real difference. If you've felt stressed, checked out, or burned out from parenting, this one's for you. I break down what ADHD parenting burnout actually is (and what it isn't), the three research-backed stages, and why parents of kids with ADHD are over four times more likely to experience it. Then I walk through the emotional, physical, and behavioral warning signs, and five research-backed ways to start recovering in the life you actually have. The big reframe: your well-being isn't separate from your child's outcomes. It's part of the treatment plan. Inside this episode The real difference between stress and burnout, and the simple test that tells them apart. The three stages of parental burnout: physical and emotional exhaustion, emotional distancing, and loss of fulfillment. Why burnout is distinct from depression, and why that distinction changes what helps. Why ADHD families burn out faster: the hidden regulation load, the invisible mental load, social isolation, and the disproportionate weight mothers carry. What burnout looks like emotionally, physically, and behaviorally, including the snap-and-guilt loop. Five research-backed ways to recover: behavioral strategies, self-compassion, the right community, nervous system regulation, and micro recovery over macro recovery. Dr. Kristin Neff's three-line self-compassion practice you can do in the moment. The sticky-note brain dump that clears mental load when everything feels urgent. Why naming burnout is itself the first action step that lowers stress for your whole family. Timestamps 00:00 What you'll gain from this episode 01:45 Stress vs burnout, and why they're not the same 04:04 The three stages of parental burnout 08:47 Why ADHD families are uniquely vulnerable 17:52 The emotional, physical, and behavioral warning signs 20:44 Five research-backed ways to recover 34:05 Reducing your load with tools and respite 36:34 The reframe, a listener shout-out, and next steps Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19408255-adhd-parenting-burnout-the-3-stages-the-signs-and-what-actually-helps/transcript Resources mentioned ARCH National Respite Network , to find and fund temporary relief care by state: archrespite.org One thing to do next Get short, practical Raising ADHD™ reframes in your inbox each week, the kind you can read in under five minutes and use the same day. Join my email list at raisingadhd.org. Resources and related episodes Ep19: Stop Sitting in Mom Guilt, How to Repair With Your ADHD Child After You Lose It Ep23: ADHD Without Medication, What Actually Works Ep28: How to Discipline Kids With ADHD, What the Research Says Actually Works Find me on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts I'm Apryl Bradford, a former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside my husband Dr. Brian Bradford, a child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail Surviving summer with an ADHD kid? Here are five small, real-life things saving my sanity right now, plus a pep talk for when nothing feels like it's helping. ________________________________________________________________ It's week five of summer and you're holding on for dear life. Same. Here are the small, ordinary things keeping me afloat this ADHD summer, and why noticing what's working can shift a hard season. This one's a little different. Instead of a behavior or a strategy, I'm sharing the five things quietly saving my life this summer: independent outdoor play, my beloved air fryer, a hands-on project that gets me out of the house, nighttime reading, and a grab-and-go protein breakfast. Some are big, some are tiny, all of them are real. Underneath the list is a practice I want you to steal for any hard season with an ADHD kid: pausing long enough to notice what's actually holding you up, not just what's going wrong. I close with a pep talk for the parent who feels like nothing is saving their life right now. Inside this episode The practice of asking "what's saving my life right now," and why we rarely stop to notice what's working. Why independent outdoor play is a win for your kid's confidence and your own mental break. The air fryer (and paper plates) that make fast, low-cleanup summer meals possible when you work from home. Why a hands-on project of my own in a different space gives me a reset without needing a full day off. Reading at night as a no-guilt escape, no deep literary credit required. The grab-and-go high-protein breakfast that takes the morning off my plate. A mini pep talk and the one-small-thing practice for when it feels like nothing is helping. Timestamps 00:00 Week five of summer and holding on for dear life 01:02 Why noticing what works matters, and the practice behind this episode 02:51 Independent outdoor play 07:10 Fast, low-cleanup meals with the air fryer 09:59 A hands-on project of your own for a reset 12:20 Reading as a nightly escape 13:59 A high-protein breakfast shortcut 15:59 A pep talk for when nothing feels like it's saving your life 18:26 The one small thing to notice today Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19372851-adhd-summer-survival-5-things-saving-my-life-right-now/transcript Mentioned in this episode The Lazy Genius Podcast with Kendra Adachi , the inspiration for this format One thing to do next Get short, practical Raising ADHD™ reframes in your inbox each week, the kind you can read in under five minutes and use the same day. Join my email list at raisingadhd.org. Resources and related episodes Ep10: ADHD and Friendships, Why Your Child Struggles to Fit In Ep34: The Best Daily Routine for a Child With ADHD (Summer Edition) Ep9: The ADHD Bedtime Battle Find me on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts I'm Apryl Bradford, a former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside my husband Dr. Brian Bradford, a child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail Traveling with an ADHD child without the meltdowns is possible. A travel expert shares how to plan Disney, cruises, and trips that actually feel like a vacation. ______________________________________________________________ The thought of planning a vacation with your ADHD kid makes your stomach clench, so you either skip it or push through and come home needing a vacation from your vacation. There's a third option. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with travel expert Mary Katherine Brooks (MK) of MK's Magical Adventures, who designs vacations for families with ADHD, autism, and other complex needs. We cover why the "one perfect trip" pressure backfires, how to build margin into a Disney day so nobody melts down, why cruises and all-inclusives fit neurodivergent families so well, the truth about Disney's DAS pass, and a simple reset for when a day goes sideways. If you've looked at the logistics of traveling with an ADHD child and decided it wasn't worth it, this conversation is the reframe that makes vacation feel possible again. What you'll learn Why planning a trip with an ADHD child feels paralyzing, and the mindset shift that makes it doable. Why a rough trip is a data point for next time, not a reason to give up on travel for good. How to build margin into every day, and a full margin day into the week, so the trip actually feels restful. Why Disney deluxe resorts double as a safety feature for kids who bolt, plus how early entry and extended evening hours help ADHD families. Why cruises and all-inclusives work so well for neurodivergent kids: built-in structure paired with real voice and choice. The reality of Disney's DAS pass (Disability Access Service) and why you can't build a whole trip around it. A simple in-the-moment reset plan for when a vacation day starts going off the rails. Why a human travel advisor beats AI for planning, since AI is often years behind in the travel space. Timestamps 00:00 The vacation that leaves you needing a vacation from your vacation 02:27 Apryl's travel story: 40 states, a Greece flight, and the summer trip that never happened 04:16 Meet MK and the families she designs trips for 06:30 For the parent who's already given up on travel 06:43 The Christmas analogy: a bad trip is a data point, not a verdict 10:09 MK's planning process, from first call to hour-by-hour itinerary 13:21 Why "hit the ground running to get your money's worth" backfires 18:03 What your kid actually remembers, and it isn't the rides you skipped 20:49 What a well-paced ADHD-friendly week looks like, and why margin matters 26:09 Why cruises and all-inclusives fit neurodivergent families 28:08 The best destinations and trip formats, and why they work 29:30 A real ADHD itinerary: early entry, deluxe resorts, and VIP tours 35:17 Accommodations to ask for, and the truth about the DAS pass 40:00 A simple reset when a vacation day goes off the rails 44:13 MK's one big takeaway for tired parents 45:54 How to connect with MK One thing to do next Grab MK's best travel tips in one free, easy download so you don't have to hold it all in your head. Get it at raisingadhd.org/37. Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19332968-traveling-with-adhd-kids-how-to-plan-a-vacation-that-doesn-t-end-in-meltdowns-with-mary-katherine-brooks/transcript About our guest Mary Catherine Brooks (MK) owns MK's Magical Adventures, a travel agency she founded in 2022 that plans vacations for families with ADHD, autism, food allergies, and other complex needs. She grew up with ADHD herself and builds trips around how your family's brains and bodies actually work. Instagram: @mks_magical_adventures Website: mksmagicaladventures.com (book a consultation call directly from the site) Coming up next week What's saving my life right now. An honest roundup of the tools, tricks, and small finds making life with an ADHD kiddo easier this season. Hit follow so it lands the moment it drops. Resources and related episodes Free travel tips download : raisingadhd.org/37 Last week's episode on dopamine-seeking and sensory-seeking behavior Ep34: The Best Daily Routine for a Child With ADHD (Summer Edition) Find Apryl on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts Apryl Bradford, former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom raising a child with ADHD, alongside Dr. Brian Bradford, child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail Why your ADHD child kicks, hums, and can't sit still, and what to do instead of yelling. A simple reframe for sensory and dopamine-seeking behavior. _________________________________________________________ You're three minutes into the drive home, and your kiddo is already kicking the back of your seat, humming the same three notes on a loop, and poking their sibling until everyone's yelling. You're white-knuckling the wheel, wondering if they're doing it on purpose. They're not. In this episode, we're breaking down the ADHD behaviors that drive parents up the wall: kicking the car seat, rocking in the chair, fidgeting, tapping, stimming, and playing the same song on repeat. She explains why a child with ADHD often can't sit still, what the dopamine reward system and the sensory system are actually chasing in those moments, and why "just stop it" rarely works. You'll learn the difference between dopamine-seeking and sensory-seeking behavior, three quick questions to tell them apart, and a simple weekly experiment that channels the need instead of fighting it. Same kid, same energy, a lot less yelling. What you'll learn Why kicking, rocking, humming, and poking are usually a regulation attempt, not defiance or misbehavior. How the ADHD brain's understimulation drives both dopamine-seeking (chasing interest) and sensory-seeking (chasing movement, pressure, and sound), and why the two usually show up together. Three quick questions to tell whether a behavior is dopamine-driven, sensory-driven, or both. Why the goal is never zero movement, and how to protect people and property while giving the need a better job to do. Real swaps that work: a resistance band on the car seat, a wobble cushion, a car stimulation kit, and "yes here, no there" boundaries. Three decisions you make once and reuse forever: your non-negotiables, your family's okay stims, and a go-to script for high-stress moments. The one-week experiment: one situation, one behavior, one outlet, one sentence. Timestamps 00:00 The after-school car ride every ADHD parent knows 02:55 The anchor reframe: regulation attempt, not moral failure 04:42 A no-degree-required look at the two systems driving the behavior 07:54 Three behaviors we're putting under the lens 10:04 Behavior 1: kicking the car seat 15:28 Behavior 2: rocking and kicking at the table 18:21 Behavior 3: the song on repeat and the sibling poking 21:06 Three quick questions to tell dopamine from sensory 22:24 Three decisions you make once and reuse forever 26:30 Your one-week experiment: one situation, one behavior, one outlet, one sentence 29:10 The reframe to carry into your week Read the full transcript https://www.buzzsprout.com/2531405/19316217-adhd-regulation-in-the-real-world/transcript One thing to do next Get a short Raising ADHD™ reframe in your inbox each week, one you can read in under two minutes and use the same day. Join the email list at raisingadhd.org. Coming up next week Mary Katherine from MK's Magical Adventures is joining me to tackle traveling with ADHD kiddos: how to survive flights, road trips, and routine-wrecking vacations without the meltdowns. Hit follow so it lands the moment it drops. Resources and related episodes Free Executive Function Check-In quiz: raisingadhd.org/quiz Ep29: How to Manage ADHD Hyperactivity Without Fighting It Ep31: ADHD Meltdowns vs Tantrums Find Apryl on Instagram: @raisingadhd_org Hosts Apryl Bradford, former classroom teacher with a master's in education and mom to a child with ADHD, alongside Dr. Brian Bradford, child and adolescent psychiatrist.

Send us Fan Mail Traditional discipline doesn't work for ADHD kids—here's the brain science why, plus 6 research-backed strategies that do. ________________________________________________________________ Raise your hand if you've ever been told, "You just need to discipline your child more." Or maybe you've thought it yourself: Why won't they just try harder? This isn't that hard. Here's what no one told you: traditional discipline techniques—consequences, punishments, taking things away—don't work for ADHD kids. And it's not because you're doing it wrong. It's because the ADHD brain is wired differently, and the strategies we were all taught assume a brain that doesn't exist in your child. In this episode, Apryl breaks down the actual neuroscience (from Johns Hopkins, Harvard, NIH, and the largest ADHD treatment trial ever conducted) to show you exactly what's happening in your child's brain—and why punishment often makes ADHD symptoms worse, not better. Then she walks you through six discipline strategies that are backed by decades of research and tested in her own ADHD home. You'll learn: Why your child's prefrontal cortex is running up to 3 years behind (and what that means for expectations) The dopamine problem: why consequences don't "register" the same way Time blindness explained—and why "wait until your father gets home" was never going to work The 6 discipline strategies that actually work for ADHD brains Why the most-tested ADHD intervention has a 92% success rate (and how to use it at home) The one mindset shift that changes everything: from enforcer to executive function coach If you've tried everything and nothing sticks, this episode will finally explain why—and give you a new playbook. RESOURCES MENTIONED Behavior Breakthrough Week: raisingadhd.org/breakthrough – Kickoff June 7th

Send us Fan Mail What's the best daily routine for a child with ADHD? Not a rigid schedule, but a flexible anchor system. Get the research-backed summer framework that actually works. ___________________________________________________ School ends, and within 48 hours, your ADHD kid is dysregulated, bored, melting down, and you're wondering how you'll survive until August. Here's why: the school day has been doing invisible work for your child's brain all year. It offloads sequencing, time management, transitions, and task-switching. When summer hits, your child loses both the internal capacity AND the external support at the same time. But the fix isn't a color-coded hourly schedule you'll abandon by day three. It's building flexible anchors your child's brain can latch onto—without making you the full-time cruise director. In this episode, Apryl breaks down the Summer Anchor Framework and the three research-backed non-negotiables that protect your child's brain (and your sanity) all summer long. You'll learn: Why ADHD symptoms spike in summer—and what the research says about preventing it The Summer Anchor Framework: structure without rigidity The 3 non-negotiables every ADHD summer routine needs (backed by Harvard research) How to prevent the "summer slide" that consumes your child's entire fall semester Practical ideas for the daily learning block that don't feel like school What Apryl's own summer schedule looks like (real-life, not Pinterest-perfect) If you've been dreading summer or white-knuckling your way through it, this episode gives you a framework you can actually stick with. RESOURCES MENTIONED Free resource: Behavior Breakthrough Week waitlist – raisingadhd.org/breakthrough Previous episode: Managing ADHD Without Medication Summer Bridge Workbooks Read-alouds: The Lemonade War by Jacqueline Davies, Mr. Lemoncello's Library by Chris Grabenstein Practical ideas for the learning block: Math games Summer Bridge workbooks Reading (or captions-on movie watching) Sidewalk chalk math/shapes Read-alouds with chapter books

Send us Fan Mail ADHD executive function is why your checklist isn't working. Learn how to become your child's GPS and scaffold the skills that actually get things done at home. ________________________________________________________________________ You made the checklist. You laminated it. You hung it on the fridge. Your child used it for two days. Now you're frustrated because they won't even look at it, and you're wondering if anything will ever work. Here's the problem: the checklist was never the issue. Your child's ADHD executive function was. And nobody taught you how to scaffold a tool into a skill. ADHD executive function is the brain's GPS. It's what gets your child from "time to get ready" to actually being ready. Your child has the car, the engine, and the ability to drive. What's missing is the navigation. And handing someone a map when their GPS is broken doesn't fix anything. It just gives them one more thing to forget. In this episode, Apryl shows you exactly what ADHD executive function looks like in real life (including a hilarious melatonin-and-ant-trap story), walks through her actual morning routine step by step, and teaches you the scaffolding system that builds your child's internal GPS over time. You'll learn: What ADHD executive function actually is and why it's the real reason things aren't getting done The GPS analogy: Why your child knows WHERE they want to go but can't navigate HOW Why checklists add one more task to a brain already struggling with working memory How to become your child's GPS until their ADHD executive function catches up A real-life ADHD morning routine from start to finish (including the 40-minute breakfast that actually helps) The 3 layers of scaffolding: From full support to independence How to scaffold a checklist IF you want to use one (so it actually works) Why consistency builds ADHD executive function faster than any tool What to do when ADHD executive function skills slip back After this episode, you'll stop blaming the checklist and start building the scaffolding that makes ADHD executive function actually grow. RESOURCES MENTIONED Behavior Breakthrough Workshop Week – raisingadhd.org/breakthrough Blog post: How to Create a Morning Routine That Works for Your ADHD Child - https://raisingadhd.org/morning-routine Free ADHD Executive Function Quiz – raisingadhd.org/quiz

Send us Fan Mail Not sure how to talk to your child about ADHD? Get age-specific scripts, do's and don'ts, and the mom perspective on making the conversation feel natural, not heavy. _____________________________________________________________ Have you been putting off the ADHD conversation with your child? Maybe you're not sure what to say. Maybe you're afraid you'll say the wrong thing. Maybe you're worried it'll feel too heavy or make them feel like something is wrong with them. This episode is going to take that weight off your shoulders. Apryl shares her real-life mom perspective on how she talks to her daughter about ADHD, from tiny everyday car conversations to the bigger moments. She breaks it down by age group with actual scripts you can use, and shares the do's and don'ts that keep the conversation empowering instead of intimidating. You'll learn: How to use everyday moments to talk about ADHD naturally (not as a sit-down "talk") The race car brain and Model T brakes analogy that kids actually understand Age-specific scripts for preschool/early elementary (4-8), tweens (9-12), and teens (13+) How to frame ADHD as different, not broken Why books like My Brain is a Race Car and ADHD Rapped Up are so helpful How to build self-advocacy so your child can communicate what they need The do's and don'ts of language and tone (what to say and what to never say) How talking openly about ADHD reduced meltdowns in Apryl's home Why your teen should be in the driver's seat of their own treatment plan After this episode, you'll stop dreading the conversation and start having it. And your child will be better for it. KEY TAKEAWAYS The core philosophy: Be open. Make it normal. Use everyday moments. The more you talk about ADHD, the more regular it becomes. And the more your child understands their brain, the more they can advocate for themselves. Age-by-age approach: Ages 4-8 (Preschool/Early Elementary): Keep it simple. Use the race car brain with Model T brakes analogy. Normalize "crashes." Frame differences as just different, not bad. Introduce the idea of tools that help the brain (glasses analogy). Use books. Reassure them it's not their fault, they're not alone, and you love them no matter what. Ages 9-12 (Tweens): Add brain science (prefrontal cortex, executive function as the air traffic control system). Talk about strengths: creativity, hyperfocus, humor, risk-taking. Introduce self-advocacy. Let them have a voice in treatment decisions. Use books like ADHD Rapped Up by Mr. G . Pull up YouTube videos of the brain. Show them successful people with ADHD. Ages 13+ (Teens): Full transparency. Use the term "executive function skills" because it carries into adulthood. Discuss co-occurring issues (anxiety, depression). Put them in the driver's seat of their treatment plan. Co-create strategies together. Address stigma directly. Show them how successful adults manage ADHD. Do's and Don'ts: Do: Start early. Pick a calm moment. Keep it positive and realistic. Use their own language. Revisit often in small, casual ways. Don't: Say "you ARE ADHD" (say "you HAVE ADHD"). Make it shameful or secret. Focus only on deficits. Use ADHD as a blanket excuse for everything. Present it as a life sentence. Phrases to keep handy: "Your brain works differently, and different isn't bad. It just means we need different tools." / "ADHD explains why some things are hard. It doesn't define you." / "Lots of kids and adults have ADHD. You're not alone." / "Our job as your parents is to help you figure out how your brain works best." Ready to Build a Calmer Home? Start Here: 🧩 Take the Free Executive Function Quiz — Compare your skills with your child's and find out where the gaps are

Send us Fan Mail ADHD meltdowns aren't tantrums. Learn why they happen, the ABCs of behavior tracking, and a 5-step system to reduce meltdowns by building invisible skills. _________________________________________________________ You say "turn off the iPad" and your child loses it. Total, utter meltdown. Or you're at the store, you say no, and everything explodes. Or plans change on vacation and suddenly you're in the middle of a public scene that makes you want to disappear. If this sounds like your life, take a deep breath. Because these meltdowns aren't random. They're not your child being spoiled. And they're not a reflection of your parenting. They're a nervous system that has hit absolute capacity. And once you understand the pattern, you can actually do something about it. In this episode, Apryl breaks down the brain science behind ADHD meltdowns, teaches you the ABCs of behavior tracking, and gives you a 5-step system to become the detective who solves the case instead of the fireman constantly putting out fires. You'll learn: The critical difference between a meltdown and a tantrum (and why it matters) The volcano analogy: what's really building under the surface before the eruption The ABCs of behavior: Antecedent, Behavior, Consequence, and how to track them The 4 most common meltdown triggers for ADHD kids Which executive function skills are behind screen time, homework, and transition meltdowns A 5-step detective system to identify patterns, build skills, and reduce meltdowns over time Why punishment stops behavior in the moment but never fixes it long term How to create a plan WITH your child when everyone is calm Walk away from this episode knowing that meltdowns aren't mysterious. They have patterns, triggers, and missing skills. Ready to Build a Calmer Home? Start Here: 🧰 Grab the Free Meltdown Toolkit — This printable toolkit has everything you need to start tracking and reducing your child's meltdowns. Inside you'll get ABC behavior tracking sheets, a trigger pattern tracker (time of day, transition type, demand level, sensory environment), a meltdown-to-skill matching chart that shows you which executive function skills are behind each type of meltdown, and space to build your child's personalized plan. Grab it free at raisingadhd.org/meltdown 🧩 Take the Free Executive Function Quiz — Compare your skills with your child's and find out where the gaps are creating friction in your home. 👉 https://raisingadhd.org/quiz 📲 Come Say Hi on Instagram — Real talk, ADHD strategies, and the stuff nobody else is saying out loud. 💛 @raisingadhd_org SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW If this episode helped you see your child differently, we'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Every review helps another overwhelmed parent find the support they've been searching for. 💛

Send us Fan Mail There's something that happens in parenting around elementary school age, and no one talks about it. Learn the parenting pivot that change how you parent today...and reduce meltdowns and defiance. _______________________________________________________ You've tried the chore charts. You've labeled the bins. You've explained what a clean room looks like a hundred times. The result? Meltdowns, avoidance, the same fight on repeat. Here's what no one tells you: there's a pivot that happens in parenting, one that neurotypical families coast right through without noticing. For ADHD families, it hits like a wall. In this episode, Apryl breaks down the invisible parent pivot: the shift from coaching the visible skills (walking, talking, colors) to building the invisible skills (executive function) that run 30% behind in kids with ADHD. The meltdowns aren't defiance. The avoidance isn't laziness. They're skill gaps. Once you see it that way, everything changes. You'll learn: What the "invisible parent pivot" is and why ADHD families get blindsided by it Why reward charts burn out fast (and what to pair them with instead) The "brain and the brawn" strategy for scaffolding without doing it for them How to identify which executive function skills are underneath any visible task What body doubling looks like at home and how to use it to build skills A real example of how Apryl adapted her daughter's reading routine when it stopped working Why starting where your kid can succeed is the secret to reducing meltdowns After listening, you'll see the frustrating moments differently. Your child isn't refusing. They're missing a skill you can now help them build. Ready to Build a Calmer Home? Start Here: 🧩 Take the Free Executive Function Quiz — Compare your skills with your child's and find out where the gaps are creating friction in your home. 👉 https://raisingadhd.org/quiz 📲 Come Say Hi on Instagram — Real talk, ADHD strategies, and the stuff nobody else is saying out loud. 💛 @raisingadhd_org SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW If this episode helped you see your child differently, we'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Every review helps another overwhelmed parent find the support they've been searching for. 💛

Send us Fan Mail ADHD hyperactivity isn't a behavior problem to suppress. Learn 5 neuroscience-backed strategies to channel your child's movement, including the PINCH framework. ______________________________________________ Your child can sit completely still for an hour playing a video game. They cannot sit for five minutes doing math. And you're wondering... is this a choice? It's not. Their nervous system is running on empty and their body is trying to tell you. In this episode, Apryl breaks down why the old model of "suppress the hyperactivity with consequences and stillness" doesn't work and what neuroscience says to do instead. You'll learn the PINCH framework from Dr. William Dodson that explains WHY your child can focus on some things and not others, plus five practical strategies you can start using today to channel the movement instead of fighting it. You'll learn: Why hyperactivity is a nervous system signal, not a behavior problem The PINCH framework: 5 neurological triggers that activate the ADHD brain How heavy work and proprioceptive input calm hyperactivity from the inside out Why trying to suppress movement actually makes attention WORSE Polyvagal theory: What's really happening when your child is "stuck" in overdrive The science of productive fidgeting (and which fidgets actually help) Novelty engineering: How to use dopamine architecture to reduce hyperactivity Practical strategies for the car, homework, mornings, and the classroom After this episode, you'll stop saying "sit still" and start asking "what does their body need right now?" Ready to Build a Calmer Home? Start Here: 🎓 Want the full system? Raising ADHD Foundations is the step-by-step course that took our home from chaos to calm. Research-backed strategies, coaching with Apryl, and a system you can actually stick with. 👉 https://raisingadhd.org/foundations 🧩 Take the Free Executive Function Quiz — Compare your skills with your child's and find out where the gaps are creating friction in your home. 👉 https://raisingadhd.org/quiz 📲 Come Say Hi on Instagram — Real talk, ADHD strategies, and the stuff nobody else is saying out loud. 💛 @raisingadhd_org SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW If this episode helped you see your child differently, we'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Every review helps another overwhelmed parent find the support they've been searching for. 💛

Send us Fan Mail Traditional discipline fails ADHD kids. Learn what research from Harvard, Yale, and the AAP says actually works, plus the strategies that changed our home. ________________________________________________________________ If you've ever taken away the iPad, watched your kid escalate, so you took it away for the rest of the week, watched them escalate MORE, and thought... nothing works with this child. This episode is going to change everything. Here's what nobody told you: traditional discipline strategies were designed for neurotypical brains. Your ADHD child's brain is wired differently. They experience punishment more intensely but become desensitized to it faster. They can't connect delayed consequences to behavior. And every time you escalate, their thinking brain goes offline. Apryl breaks down what the research from Harvard, Yale, the American Academy of Pediatrics, and the CDC actually says works for disciplining kids with ADHD. Spoiler: it starts with YOU, not your child. You'll learn: Why traditional discipline plans fail for ADHD kids (the neuroscience) The punishment escalation cycle and how to break it Why behavioral parent training is the #1 recommended first-line treatment The stat from Boston Children's Hospital that will change how you parent: positive attention alone addresses 80% of behavioral challenges How to set up a token economy that actually works (and doesn't backfire) The 5:1 praise-to-correction ratio from the Mayo Clinic Why you should never re-discipline your child at home for something that happened at school What the research says about harmful discipline practices (and what to avoid) After this episode, you'll stop trying to punish your way to better behavior and start building a system that actually works. RESOURCES MENTIONED Dr. Russell Barkley – ADHD and executive function research American Academy of Pediatrics – Behavioral therapy recommendations National Institute of Mental Health – ADHD treatment guidelines Boston Children's Hospital – Structure as the "magic ingredient" for ADHD behavior management Mayo Clinic – 5:1 praise-to-correction ratio CDC – Positive vs. punitive disciplinary strategies for ADHD Ohio State University – Study on reducing harsh discipline practices Harvard, Yale – Behavioral parent training research Peg Dawson – Executive function skills research READY TO BUILD A CALMER HOME? START HERE: 🎓 Want the full system? Raising ADHD Foundations is the step-by-step course that took our home from chaos to calm. Research-backed strategies, coaching with Apryl, and a system you can actually stick with. 👉 https://raisingadhd.org/foundations 🧩 Take the Free Executive Function Quiz — Compare your skills with your child's and find out where the gaps are creating friction in your home. 👉 https://raisingadhd.org/quiz 📲 Come Say Hi on Instagram — Real talk, ADHD strategies, and the stuff nobody else is saying out loud. 💛 @raisingadhd_org SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW If this episode helped you see your child differently, we'd love it if you'd subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts. Every review helps another overwhelmed parent find the support they've been searching for. 💛

Send us Fan Mail ADHD kids are 30-40% behind peers in executive function skills. Learn what that means, which skills matter most, and how to build them at home. _______________________________________________________________ You've said "stop bugging your brother" 47 times. It's not even 7 a.m. and you're already yelling. Your child KNOWS how to put on their shoes. So why does it feel like nothing is happening? Here's the thing: the skill that's missing isn't shoe-tying. It's the invisible skills underneath. Task initiation, impulse control, working memory. These are called executive function skills, and kids with ADHD are 30 to 40% behind their peers in developing them. That means your 10-year-old is operating with the executive function of a 7-year-old. Your 16-year-old? More like an 11-year-old. In this episode, Apryl breaks down the 11 core executive function skills, explains what's happening in your child's brain, and gives you real ways to start building these skills at home (including one that's as simple as a weekly family game night). You'll learn: Why Dr. Russell Barkley says ADHD is actually an executive dysfunction disorder The 11 executive function skills and which 3 matter most for ADHD kids Why your child "not listening" is a brain problem, not a behavior problem How to build scaffolding at home so the environment does the heavy lifting What to do when YOUR executive function strengths clash with your child's weaknesses Simple ways to build executive function skills through board games and everyday moments A free quiz to compare your skills with your child's and find the gaps causing tension After this episode, you'll stop seeing "won't" and start seeing "can't yet." RESOURCES MENTIONED Free Executive Function Quiz – raisingadhd.org/quiz Free Workshop: The 3-Step System for ADHD Mornings – raisingadhd.org/training Harvard Center on the Developing Child – Building the Brain's "Air Traffic Control" System: How Early Experiences Shape the Development of Executive Function

Send us Fan Mail Your ADHD child is on multiple meds and you're not sure why. Two psychiatrists explain how to prevent the drug cascade and advocate at every appointment. _________________________________________________ You took your child to the doctor for ADHD. One medication turned into two, then three—and now you're staring at a pill organizer wondering how did we get here? You're not a bad parent for feeling uneasy about that. A recent Wall Street Journal article confirmed what many families quietly fear: kids who start ADHD medication young often end up on multiple psychiatric drugs within a few years. But here's the reframe—this isn't a reason to avoid medication. It's a reason to become a better advocate. In this episode, Apryl sits down with two psychiatrists—Dr. Brian Bradford and guest Dr. Kate Trapani, a child psychiatry resident—to break down exactly why the drug cascade happens and what you can do to prevent it. You'll learn: Why ADHD medication often becomes the "gateway" to additional prescriptions—and when that's actually appropriate vs. a red flag The one question to ask before any new medication is started How to respectfully request a second opinion (and why good doctors actually welcome it) What psychiatrists do when a child arrives on a long medication list The critical difference between treating symptoms and treating the root cause Specific questions to ask at your child's very first medication appointment Why your pediatrician may be one of your most powerful allies After this episode, you'll walk into your child's next appointment knowing exactly what to say—and feeling confident enough to say it. RESOURCES MENTIONED Wall Street Journal article, " Millions of Kids are on ADHD Pills. For Many, It's the Start of a Drug Cascade. "