Mato just raised pre-seed Read more
Podcast charts
Published by Coton House Farm
From the first "Yes!" to the magical "I do," we're here to guide you through every step of your journey. Join us as we chat with real couples, top wedding suppliers, and industry experts, sharing inspiration, practical tips, and heartwarming stories to make your big day unforgettable. Whether you're just starting your planning or finalising the details, Yes to I Do is here to help you say "yes" with confidence, every step of the way. Make sure you hit subscribe and share this podcast with fellow brides, grooms, and wedding enthusiasts. Ready to bring your dream wedding to life? Visit our website - https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ to book a tour of our breathtaking venue or schedule a planning meeting with our expert team. About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On the charts
Every published chart this podcast appears in, in the snapshot behind this page. Each one links to the chart it came off.
The Mato Topic Intelligence Platform does not report this podcast as charting in a published category in this snapshot.
From the feed
The latest episodes published to this podcast’s own RSS feed. Titles and descriptions are the publisher’s.
Episode 35 - The Most Important 20 Minutes: How to Make Your Ceremony Feel Really Yours In this episode of Yes to I Do, Lydia and Lauren turn their attention to the part of the wedding day that couples spend the least time planning - and probably should spend the most. The ceremony. From choosing the right music and writing personal vows to navigating the aisle walk, managing awkward silences and a truly memorable story involving an owl that the bride was not entirely expecting. Key Takeaways Most couples under plan the ceremony and overfocus on everything else. Because it only lasts around twenty minutes, it often becomes an afterthought. But it is the legal and emotional heart of the day - and a little planning goes a long way toward making it feel effortless. Music sets the tone for everything that follows. At minimum, couples need four pieces - the aisle song, two for signing the register and one for the exit. Each one shapes how the room feels, and silence at the wrong moment can make even the most relaxed ceremony feel suddenly awkward. Personal vows and meaningful readings are what guests remember. The words that only the two of them understand, the poem chosen by a best friend, the moment of laughter in an otherwise emotional room - these are the details that make a ceremony feel genuinely theirs rather than anyone else's. Phones down during the ceremony is non-negotiable. Guests leaning into the aisle to get a shot, screens appearing in the photographer's images, people experiencing the moment through a lens rather than through their eyes - it is a genuine pet peeve and the registrars will say so if asked. Tell your coordinator everything - including the surprise ring bearer under the chair. The drip-feeding of information through the morning, the quiet check-in about bridesmaid order three hours before - all of it prevents a last minute panic. If in doubt, just ask. Key Moments "Some people want to cry. Some people want it to be funny. Music decides which way it goes." "It's like immediately after the kiss - silence. Just crickets. Get the music on." "Put your phone away. I would be throwing it back in your bag as I came down the aisle." "At the end you'll be like - can I do that again? Because it wasn't actually that bad." About Yes to I Do Yes to I Do is the podcast from Coton House Farm for couples planning their perfect wedding. Hosted by Lydia and the team, each episode covers everything from food and drink to styling, planning tips and real wedding insights. The goal is simple - to help couples feel confident, informed and excited at every stage of their wedding journey. How to Get in Touch To find out more about Coton House Farm or to book a show round: Website: www.cotonhousefarm.com If you enjoyed this episode, hit subscribe and share it with anyone planning their big day. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, Lydia and Lauren sit down for a practical and reassuring conversation about the one week that couples fear most - the seven days before the wedding. From last minute guest drop-outs and weather obsessing to beauty prep, food safety and the very real chance you will not sleep the night before, the pair share what they have seen from the venue side and what they genuinely wish every couple knew before that final countdown begins. Key Takeaways The final week feels intense because unexpected things crop up - not because you have failed to plan. Everything seems to be in hand and then suddenly it is not. Accepting that surprises will happen, rather than expecting a smooth run, is the first step to keeping your head. Stop trying to control the things you cannot control. Weather tops the list. Every forecast says something different, rain can still make for a beautiful day and burying a sausage in the garden apparently works - just not at the venue, for obvious reasons. Leave your suppliers alone - they know what they are doing. A check-in email two weeks out is fine for peace of mind, but after that, trust the process. They have done this before and they will show up. Delegate early and delegate properly. Give each person in the bridal party a specific task. It keeps them occupied, makes them feel involved and - crucially - it means they are less likely to be in your ear asking if there is anything they can do. Accept that you probably will not sleep the night before - and that is fine. Do not spiral into worrying about being tired on top of being nervous. Every couple arrives exhausted and every wedding still turns out well. It always does. Key Moments "Don't panic. That is our advice. So easy for us to say." "Bury a sausage - just not here. The cattle will have it." "Do not eat any chicken the night before. I mean it." "Take your own pillow. And your teddy bear. We're admitting a lot today." "It always turns out well. Always, always, always." About Yes to I Do Yes to I Do is the podcast from Coton House Farm for couples planning their perfect wedding. Hosted by Lydia and the team, each episode covers everything from food and drink to styling, planning tips and real wedding insights. The goal is simple - to help couples feel confident, informed and excited at every stage of their wedding journey. How to Get in Touch To find out more about Coton House Farm or to book a show round: Website: www.cotonhousefarm.com If you enjoyed this episode, hit subscribe and share it with anyone planning their big day. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do , hosts Lydia and Lauren share their top tips for creating a calm, organised and enjoyable wedding morning. Drawing on their experience at Coton House Farm, they discuss everything from choosing the right people to be around you, planning hair and makeup, and creating the right atmosphere, to avoiding common last-minute stresses. They also explain why preparation suites, timelines and a few thoughtful details can help couples start one of the biggest days of their lives feeling relaxed rather than overwhelmed. Key Takeaways The People Around You Matter: A calm wedding morning isn't just about good planning—it's about surrounding yourself with people who help you feel relaxed and supported. Don't feel obliged to include everyone if you would prefer a quieter start to your day. Preparation Reduces Stress: Booking hair and makeup trials, listening to your suppliers' advice and creating a realistic morning timeline can prevent unnecessary pressure and help everything run more smoothly. Create the Right Atmosphere: Music, breakfast, snacks and a comfortable preparation space all contribute to setting the tone for the day. Small touches can make a big difference to everyone's mood. Think Beyond the Ceremony: Reserving seats for the bridal party, ensuring decorations are organised and double-checking essentials such as the wedding rings can prevent avoidable last-minute panic. Make the Morning Personal: Whether it's having a first look with your dad, siblings or bridal party, choosing who joins you while getting ready or putting together an emergency kit, the morning should reflect what makes you feel happiest and most comfortable. Key Moments "Sometimes it's not a planning issue—it's the people around you that make the biggest difference." "Always have a hair and makeup trial. If you don't like it, you can change it before the big day." "A little playlist goes a long way—it helps set the mood and eases the nerves." "The wedding morning should be about creating the right vibe for you—not what everyone else expects." About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, the team at Coton House Farm answer some of the most frequently asked questions they receive from couples planning their wedding. From choosing the right package and understanding venue access to accommodating dogs, booking registrars and working with suppliers, they share practical advice that helps remove the uncertainty from wedding planning. Packed with real-life examples and plenty of humour, this episode is an essential guide for couples wanting to feel confident and organised before the big day. Key Takeaways Understand Your Venue Package: Take time to compare what each package includes. Consider access times, catering options and the overall style of the day to find the package that best suits your wedding vision. Book Your Registrar Early: After securing your venue, booking your registrar should be one of your first priorities. Leaving it too late could mean missing your preferred ceremony time. Use Your Wedding Coordinator: Your coordinator is there to simplify the planning process, answer questions, coordinate suppliers and make sure every detail comes together smoothly. Don't be afraid to ask for guidance. Communicate with Suppliers: From arrival times and parking to catering and entertainment, good communication with suppliers helps avoid unnecessary stress and ensures everyone knows what to expect on the day. No Question Is Too Small: Whether it's bringing your dog, accommodating accessibility needs or asking about parking and accommodation, asking questions early helps avoid surprises and gives you confidence throughout the planning process. Key Moments "We've probably heard almost every wedding question imaginable—and if we haven't, we'll always find the answer for you." "Book your venue, then book your registrar. That's one thing you really don't want to leave until later." "Your wedding coordinator is there to make the whole process feel simpler, not more stressful." "There really is no such thing as a silly question when you're planning your wedding." About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, the team are back in the cosy indoor ceremony barn for a conversation that affects every couple and every guest - the thorny topic of wedding gifts. From how much to spend and whether hidden guest costs should change the calculation, to the great wedding registry debate and the best way to ask for cash without it feeling awkward, Lydia, Louisa, James and Ed talk through it all with their usual mix of honesty, banter and the occasional detour via IKEA meatballs and Isle of Wight donkeys. Key Takeaways Hidden guest costs are real and they are worth factoring in. Accommodation, taxis, bridesmaid dresses, hair and makeup - all of these add up quickly. A bottle of bubbly is a completely reasonable gift if you have already spent hundreds just to be there. The wedding registry divides opinion, even in the wedding industry. Lydia sees the logic but finds it morally uncomfortable. Louisa cannot be persuaded. The consensus is that if you do one, keep the price range broad and make sure there is something on there for everyone. Sometimes saying nothing is the best strategy. People who love you will ask what you want. And if they do not ask, they will still bring something. The card box at Coton House Farm has never been empty yet. Couples can trust that their gifts are safe at the venue. The lockable post box and secure gift cabinet mean nothing gets lost, damaged or mysteriously light on the way home. And yes - someone has almost certainly tried to get a hand in a post box somewhere. Key Moments "Your presence is enough - but cash is even more." "I'd rather say nothing and risk not getting anything than have to ask." "99% of couples ask for money. The times have changed." "Someone, somewhere in the world, has definitely stolen from a card box. I hope they feel horrible." "We've got to stop talking about food." About Yes to I Do Yes to I Do is the podcast from Coton House Farm for couples planning their perfect wedding. Hosted by Lydia and the team, each episode covers everything from food and drink to styling, planning tips and real wedding insights. The goal is simple - to help couples feel confident, informed and excited at every stage of their wedding journey. About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, the team are back in the cosy ceremony barn with the fire on to tackle a topic that affects every wedding - what guests should actually wear. From day guest attire to the trickier question of evening dress codes, the conversation covers the unwritten rules, the common mistakes and the small details that can make all the difference between feeling confident and feeling underdressed. Along the way the team debate sage green, satin dresses, polo shirts, socks with shoes, abandoned heels on the lawn and exactly how a couple should communicate their dress code without it feeling like a demand. Key Takeaways Bridesmaid colours are the one thing couples should always share. Guests turning up in the same colour as the bridal party can feel mortified. A quiet heads up about bridesmaid colours avoids any awkward clashes on the day. Evening dress codes are far more confusing without guidance. Without a steer, guests might turn up in jeans and a top while day guests are in cocktail dresses. A little direction helps everyone feel appropriately dressed. Satin is beautiful but risky for UK weddings. It shows sweat, marks easily and turns champagne coloured dresses into polka dot dresses in the rain. A sturdier fabric is a safer bet for both bridesmaids and male shirts. The venue and season should guide guest choices. A countryside barn wedding suits boots and warmer autumnal tones, while a hotel setting calls for something classier. Invitations and stationery colours often hint at the palette to avoid. Comfort matters as much as style for the evening. Heels frequently get abandoned on the lawn and forgotten for weeks. Flats or a pair of flip flops in the bag can save guests from a barefoot dance floor. Key Moments "Guest outfits are quite top tier now - people are going all out because it's a special occasion." "If it rains and you're in your champagne satin dress, it's now a polka dot champagne satin dress." "Don't go barefoot - imagine all the shoes that have been on that dance floor." About Yes to I Do Yes to I Do is the podcast from Coton House Farm for couples planning their perfect wedding. Hosted by Lydia and the team, each episode covers everything from food and drink to styling, planning tips and real wedding insights. The goal is simple - to help couples feel confident, informed and excited at every stage of their wedding journey. About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia is joined by wedding coordinators Louisa and Lauren for a slightly different kind of episode - one that puts the team themselves in the spotlight. As well as breaking down what makes Coton House Farm such a special place to get married, the three of them share how they each ended up in wedding coordination - from trainee police officer to Burton Albion events team to Southeast Asia and back. There is also a behind-the-scenes look at how a wedding day flows through the venue. Key Takeaways Exclusive use changes the whole feel of a wedding day. No strangers wandering in, no other wedding parties, no golfers being held up for photos. Couples have the entire venue to themselves from arrival to the last dance. The room reveal is one of the most popular options for a reason. Keeping the main barn closed until after the ceremony means the couple see it together for the first time - just the two of them, with a drink waiting and five minutes to breathe before the rest of the day begins. The Twilight package suits a different kind of couple entirely. No seating plan, no formal speeches required, no day and evening guest divide. It works brilliantly for relaxed couples, busy lives, second marriages and anyone who just wants to do something a bit different. Transparent pricing saves everyone time. All pricing is on the website. The team encourage couples to do their research online first and only book a show round when they already feel a connection - because traipsing around 100 venues helps nobody. The family feel is not just a selling point - it is genuinely how it works. Coton House Farm is a family business with the family on site. Couples pick up on that atmosphere from the moment they arrive, and it shapes everything from how show rounds feel to how wedding days are run. Key Moments "I slid the scrapbook across the table and said, look at this - I've done my homework." - Louisa on her interview "Some people get starstruck on show rounds - I saw someone the other day and they were like, you do the podcast!" "If you like the team, you want us to run your wedding. That's really what it comes down to." About Yes to I Do Yes to I Do is the podcast from Coton House Farm for couples planning their perfect wedding. Hosted by Lydia and the team, each episode covers everything from food and drink to styling, planning tips and real wedding insights. The goal is simple - to help couples feel confident, informed and excited at every stage of their wedding journey. How to Get in Touch To find out more about Coton House Farm or to book a show round: Website: www.cotonhousefarm.com If you enjoyed this episode, hit subscribe and share it with anyone planning their big day. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, hosts Lydia and Darren are joined by team members Lisa and Izzy to talk through one of the most exciting developments at Coton House Farm - the expansion of their in-house catering offering, Lugh & Paddy’s. What began as a street food concept for the Twilight package has grown into a full catering option for luxury day weddings too. The team walk through the new menu in detail, from low-and-slow smoked meats served on sharing boards to smoked pies, jacket potatoes in mess tins, and a bruschetta bar. The conversation is full of genuine enthusiasm, a few food debates, and plenty of reasons why informal, sharing-style food can make a wedding feel like a real celebration. Key Takeaways Listening to couples drives everything. The Lugh & Paddy’s concept was born from couples telling the team they wanted something between a traditional three-course meal and a basic buffet. The expansion into the luxury package follows that same logic - couples want more choice, more informality, and more interaction. Sharing food creates connection. The menu is deliberately designed to get people talking. Large boards of smoked meats, sharing platters and communal add-ons all encourage guests to engage with each other - especially useful for mixed tables where people may not know one another. The Twilight package now has three main options. Couples can now choose between the original pizza, hot dogs and nachos, smoked pie with chips and mushy peas or smoked beans, or jacket potatoes with a choice of fillings. All three options are included for 50 guests and each brings the same slow-smoked flavour and hearty feel. The luxury package gets the full Lou and Paddies experience. Couples on the luxury day package can now opt for Lugh & Paddy’s as their main meal - think joints of smoked meat, sausages, burnt ends, corn on the cob and coleslaw brought to the table on big boards. It is soul food done properly, with vegetarian options including smoked cauliflower steak and stuffed peppers. Food and drink are the foundation of a great wedding. The team return to a core belief - feed and water your guests well and everything else falls into place. The venue matters less than the experience, and the experience lives or dies by the food. Key Moments "It's like a big Sunday dinner coming to your table on a board - and that starts conversations." "Feed and water your guests well. You can have your wedding anywhere, but that's the golden rule." "We're always evolving. That's just how we work." About Yes to I Do Yes to I Do is the podcast from Coton House Farm for couples planning their perfect wedding. Hosted by Lydia alongside the wider team, each episode covers everything from food and drink to styling, planning tips and real wedding insights. The goal is simple - to help couples feel confident, informed and excited at every stage of their wedding journey. About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by co-hosts Louisa, Meg and Maggie for a lively (and slightly controversial) discussion all about wedding favours. Recorded in Rolo, one of Coton House Farm’s cosy preparation suites, the team dive into the big question: are wedding favours worth it? From personalised messages and scratch cards to drinks tokens and keyrings, no option is left undiscussed. With honest opinions, practical venue insight and plenty of laughter, this episode helps couples decide whether favours are a meaningful touch, a practical addition - or an unnecessary expense. Key Takeaways Favours aren’t essential. While some couples love including them, others feel they’re not a must-have. If budget is tight, this may be an area you can rethink. Practical favours work best. If guests can use it – like a drinks token or edible treat - it’s less likely to be left behind. Drinks tokens over bar tabs. Tokens help control budget, avoid awkward over-spending and ensure everyone gets the same opportunity to enjoy a drink. Scratch cards are a fun interactive option. They create a moment at the table and can even be adapted so each table has a winner. Personalised messages feel meaningful. Handwritten notes or thoughtful keepsakes can be incredibly special - but be prepared for the time commitment. Edible favours need planning. Always check allergies and ensure ingredients are clearly labelled to avoid last-minute removal by catering teams. Keyrings divide opinion. They’re cost-effective and look lovely on the day - but they’re also one of the most commonly left-behind favours. Whatever you choose, do it for you. Favours are personal. There will always be some left behind, so choose something you genuinely love. Key Moments “Favours shouldn’t feel like a waste of money - choose something people will actually use.” “Everyone loves a free drink.” “If you’re doing edible favours, check allergies first.” “You can’t make 100% of people happy - so make yourselves happy.” “Don’t let our opinion put you off your keyrings!” About Coton House Farm Nestled in the Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive luxury wedding barn venue offering couples a relaxed yet refined setting for their big day. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor ceremony spaces and a dedicated coordination team, the venue supports couples through every detail - from table styling to bar tabs and everything in between. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do , host Lydia Wakefield sits down with Brett James (Brett James Photography) to talk about how couples can choose the right wedding photographer — not just based on style and price, but on personality, trust and how comfortable you feel on the day . Brett shares how he got into weddings, why “vibing” with your photographer is everything, how he keeps couples relaxed (especially those who hate being photographed), and his honest take on things like second shooters, albums, first looks, engagement shoots, drones and guest cameras. Key Takeaways Your photographer’s personality matters as much as their portfolio. Brett’s biggest advice: speak to photographers properly (video call or in person). People can market themselves brilliantly online, but the real test is whether you feel at ease with them — because your photographer is with you all day and can genuinely influence how the day feels. Meet a few photographers — and book the one you “vibe” with. Brett says (even though it’s “terrible for business”) that couples should speak to a few photographers and choose the one they connect with most. If you’re not comfortable, you’ll tense up — and that shows in photos. Transparency reduces stress: prices, approach and FAQs should be clear upfront. He’s a big believer in putting prices and details online so couples can quickly see if it’s a good fit. It saves awkward conversations and helps couples plan within their budget. Group photos don’t have to take over the day — speed is your friend. Brett aims to get group shots done quickly so couples can get back to enjoying welcome drinks and chatting to guests. He also points out that while couples may not care about every group photo, parents and grandparents often treasure them for life. Rain isn’t a deal-breaker — it’s about timing and flexibility. His mindset is practical: in the UK, rain usually breaks. He’ll use covered areas, shoot under archways, or grab quick outdoor moments when the weather eases — even if it means dashing out for “four seconds” to get the shot. Previews the next day keep the wedding buzz alive. Brett often sends previews within 24 hours so couples have professional images to share (instead of a blurry iPad photo!), and he also likes to support other suppliers by sharing great images they can post while the wedding “bubble” is still high. Best Moments “Meet up with a few more photographers… and if you vibe with them better than you vibe with me, then book them.” “People are really good at selling themselves… and that’s not always who they are.” “I only work with people who put photography near the top of the list… if I’m an afterthought, I don’t want to work with them.” “There’s always a break in the rain… it doesn’t rain all day.” “Nothing beats a physical copy… it’s a great investment.” “Everyone please leave the room… let the dad have his moment.” “I don’t want my couples changing their profile picture to something their auntie’s taken on her iPad.” About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by co-host Meg and newly married couple Sam and Lauren, who tied the knot at Coton House Farm in November. Recorded in Rolo - the venue’s beautiful preparation suite - the conversation dives into their venue search, winter wedding magic and how they planned their day in just 10 months. From secret singers to lasagne wedding breakfasts and a raw Cumberland sausage buried in the garden for good weather (yes, really), this episode is packed with personality, organisation tips and honest reflections on planning a wedding that truly reflects you as a couple. With laughter, behind-the-scenes insight and plenty of practical advice, Sam and Lauren share why trusting your gut, planning early and staying true to your vibe makes all the difference. Key Takeaways Go with the feeling . You can look at multiple venues, but when it’s the one, you’ll know. For Sam and Lauren, it was the cosy winter atmosphere and instant connection to the space. Winter weddings have their own magic. Log burners, twinkly lights, blankets, sparklers and early sunsets create a cosy, romantic atmosphere and November guests tend to come prepared with coats. Plan early and stay organised. With just 10 months to plan, Lauren’s structured timeline and early supplier bookings made the whole process smooth and stress-free. Entertainment creates atmosphere. From a live ceremony singer and pianist to a magician, secret singing waiter and live band, their day felt like a full production - and guests loved it. Don’t be afraid to do something different with food. A hearty lasagne wedding breakfast felt personal, seasonal and memorable - proving you don’t have to stick to traditional options. Build moments into your timeline. Going table-to-table after the entrance for quick photos ensured they captured memories with every guest without losing momentum in the day. Trust your coordinators. Having an experienced team guiding the timeline means you can relax and enjoy the day - even if you’re a self-confessed “Type A bride”. Key Moments “It really is like a feeling when you walk into the right venue.” “I couldn’t face a long engagement because I was too excited.” “Is he here?” - the secret singer moment that had guests convinced a waiter had fallen over. “We buried a raw Cumberland sausage in the garden for good weather - and it worked.” “You can never please 100% of people, but you can 100% please yourself.” About Coton House Farm Nestled in the Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive luxury wedding barn venue offering couples a relaxed yet refined setting for their big day. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor ceremony spaces and a dedicated coordination team, the venue supports couples from their first show round through to the final dance – helping bring every vision to life, whatever the season. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined once again by the coordination team at Coton House Farm to tackle one of the very first - and often most emotionally charged - wedding planning decisions: who to invite. Recorded outside on the barbecue patio area (where guests can enjoy pre-ceremony drinks and evening food), the team dive into the realities of guest list politics. From venue capacities and budget restrictions to colleagues, children and plus ones. With real-life stories, practical advice and plenty of laughter, this episode reminds couples that while guest lists can feel like a battle in your brain, your wedding day should reflect your priorities - not other people’s expectations. Key Takeaways Start with your numbers. Your guest list impacts everything - venue choice, catering costs, décor, drinks and overall budget. You can’t make major decisions without at least a rough idea of guest numbers. Venue and budget restrictions matter. Some venues have minimums and maximums, and every additional 10 guests can significantly increase costs once you factor in food, drinks and styling. Don’t invite out of obligation. Whether it’s colleagues, distant relatives or your boss, don’t feel pressured. If you wouldn’t go for coffee with them, reconsider whether they need a daytime invite. Day vs evening guests is completely normal. Evening invitations are not a downgrade. Many guests are simply grateful to be included - especially with weekday weddings becoming more common. Children at weddings are personal preference. Child-free, close family children only, or everyone’s children - there is no universal rule. Think about the atmosphere you want and what feels authentic to you as a couple. Be realistic about little ones in the bridal party. Children under four can find the aisle overwhelming. If you include them, stay relaxed and flexible – sometimes the unplanned moments become the most memorable. Plus ones require balance. Long-term partners often feel like a natural inclusion, but budget plays a role. Consider whether the guest will know others and feel comfortable without a plus one. Keep a reserve list. If numbers are tight, have a backup list. Guests sometimes decline, and this gives you flexibility without stretching your budget from the start. You have to be a little selfish. It’s one of the first big decisions you make as a couple. Stand your ground and remember – it’s your day. Key Moments “If you added ten more people, that could genuinely cost you nearly a thousand pounds.” “If you wouldn’t go for coffee with them, maybe rethink the daytime invite.” “Don’t feel obligated to invite someone just because you’re related.” “Sometimes it’s like a battle in your brain – who am I going to upset?” “If someone is prepared to fall out with you over an invite, they probably shouldn’t have had one.” “We just need to win the lottery and invite everyone.” About Coton House Farm Nestled in the Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive luxury wedding barn venue offering couples a relaxed yet refined setting for their big day. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor ceremony spaces and a dedicated coordination team, the venue is designed to support couples from planning through to the final dance - helping navigate everything from guest lists to last-minute changes with calm, experience and care. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by Meg, Maggie and Louisa (out on the BBQ patio at Coton House Farm, complete with birdsong and Rob strimming in the background) to talk through five wedding “non-negotiables” couples should prioritise when planning and budgeting. From food and drinks to capturing the day, entertainment and décor, they share real examples they’ve seen at weddings, plus practical ideas for making each element feel personal without overcomplicating your plans. Key Takeaways 1) Food is a must, and it doesn’t have to mean a formal 3-course meal. They all agree that food is one of the biggest “people will remember this” parts of your day. While a traditional starter/main/dessert is still popular, they chat about more relaxed options like grazing tables, sharing starters, and alternatives that keep guests moving and chatting rather than sitting for hours. 2) Drinks matter, think about flow, flexibility and what your guests actually like. They recommend making sure guests are looked after from arrival through to the key moments. They discuss venue drink packages (and bespoke options), plus thoughtful extras like drinks in the prep suites, kid-friendly options, and personal touches (like a couple adding Guinness because it was “their” drink). 3) Capturing the day is a non-negotiable, and it can go beyond a photographer. They talk about photography as essential, but also mention ways to capture the evening once the photographer has left: disposable cameras, Polaroid guest books, QR-code upload apps for guest pics, videographers, drones, and even a relative filming on a classic camcorder. 4) Entertainment isn’t just music; it’s anything that keeps energy up. They cover DJs and bands (and how couples love being able to personalise playlists), but also point out low-cost fun: garden games, board games on tables, ring toss, mini golf, even silly interactive challenges that get guests mingling. 5) Décor brings your vision to life, but at Coton House Farm, “less is more” can still look stunning. They explain the venue is already beautifully styled (fairy lights, chandeliers, cosy spaces), so couples can go minimal and still get a wow factor, but they’ve also seen all-out themes: pumpkins everywhere, full-size trees in the room, bubble houses, ceiling installations, and seasonal styling (including Christmas trees and even a sleigh!). Best Moments “It’s those bits that people will go away and talk about.” “No one’s judging. You can have as many slices as you want.” “Everyone will remember the food.” “Just because it’s winter, you’re not restricted to just having to stay inside.” About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by Louisa (wedding coordinator) and Alex, one of Coton House Farm’s 2025 brides, who returns to share what her wedding day was really like. Alex talks through her August 2025 Monday wedding (yes, there was a little rain!), her bright-colour floral theme, how she built her guest list, and the suppliers and entertainment that made the day unforgettable, including live music and a magician. They also play Spend, Save, Skip, covering what Alex splashed out on, where she cut costs, and what she happily did without. Key Takeaways Alex arrived to some wet weather, but it quickly turned glorious, and she says the day was “perfect” from start to finish. The team also share how having a strong wet-weather plan (like moving confetti indoors) keeps everything flowing without panic. Alex had around 74 day guests and roughly 120 evening guests. Her approach was about comfort; she didn’t want to walk down the aisle in front of people she barely knew, so the day was immediate family, close friends and key people, with the bigger party in the evening. After visiting 7–8 venues, Alex walked down the path at Coton House Farm and instantly felt it was right. She loved the mix of indoor/outdoor options, the overnight accommodation (so no midnight taxis), and the ceremony barn, which reminded her of a little chapel. She also loved seeing the venue evolve during the two-year lead-up, which kept excitement high. Alex deliberately chose several suppliers she’d discovered through the venue’s socials and open days, because people who already work there understand the light, the layout and what works. She still brought in a florist she’d used for years as her non-negotiable, because they knew her style. Planning advice: book your registrar early, and breathe. Alex says the last couple of months can feel stressful as final payments land, but it’s all part of the process, try to enjoy it. Her practical must-do: once your venue is booked, book the registrar straight away because dates go quickly. Best Moments “It was a dream wedding day… from start to finish.” “As soon as I started to walk down the path, I was like… oh, this is a bit of me.” “You have to let it go… there’s nothing you can do about the weather.” “He just fluttered round people… you didn’t even know he was there — then everyone’s laughing going ‘what?!’” (on the magician) About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do , host Lydia Wakefield is joined once again by the coordination team at Coton House Farm to tackle a controversial but unavoidable wedding topic: bridezillas . Recorded in the Rolo preparation suite, the team explores whether bridezillas really exist, and why the label is often misplaced. Through real-life stories and behind-the-scenes insight, the conversation reveals that most wedding-day challenges stem from family dynamics, supplier influence and last-minute changes rather than the couple themselves. With honesty, humour and practical advice, this episode reassures couples that stress is normal, and that trusting your venue team and sticking to your vision can make all the difference. Key Takeaways It’s rarely the bride. Despite the term “bridezilla”, most difficult situations stem from family members, guests or suppliers rather than the couple themselves. Family involvement can complicate planning. Parents often have strong opinions - especially when they are contributing financially - which can sometimes conflict with the couple’s vision. Too many voices can cause confusion. Bringing large groups to venue viewings or appointing multiple decision-makers can lead to missed information and mixed expectations. Last-minute changes have a domino effect. Switching ceremony locations, layouts or timings on the day impacts staffing, catering, suppliers and coordination - even when intentions are good. Suppliers can unintentionally add pressure. Well-meaning suppliers may influence couples without fully understanding venue logistics, health and safety or time constraints. Trust your coordinator. Venue teams know the space, the timings and the contingency plans. Listening to their advice can prevent unnecessary stress and chaos. Keep calm and breathe. From walk-in fridges to quiet moments in the shed, the team shares their toolkit for staying grounded when things go off-plan. Key Moments “People are very quick to say ‘bridezilla’, but actually it’s rarely the bride.” “If you’re paying for something, you feel entitled to an opinion - and that’s where it gets tricky.” “We raise the red flag early so we can put things in place before the day.” “Please don’t leave your décor for us to set up - if you don’t like it, that’s a risk we can’t take.” “Stick to your guns and don’t let other people’s opinions derail your day.” About Coton House Farm Nestled in the Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive luxury wedding barn venue offering couples a relaxed yet refined setting for their big day. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor ceremony spaces and a dedicated coordination team, the venue is designed to support couples from planning through to the final dance - even when the unexpected happens. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by Maggie, Meg and Louisa in Coton House Farm’s indoor ceremony barn to talk through the big questions every couple should ask their venue, the ones that help you avoid hidden costs, planning headaches and last-minute surprises. From capacity and availability to what’s included in the hire price, wet-weather plans, catering options, access times, guest logistics and styling rules, they share the questions they’re asked most (and the ones couples often forget). Key Takeaways Before you fall in love with a space, check that it can hold your numbers and whether your preferred date (or similar alternatives) are actually available. They also flag that prices can vary hugely by season and day of the week. The team stress how important transparency is: some venues add surprise charges for things like staffing, lighting, heating, cake cutting, table linen, napkins, cutlery and glassware. Knowing what’s included upfront makes budgeting far easier and avoids awkward “by the way…” moments later. Their advice is simple: in the UK you can’t guarantee the weather, so make sure your wet-weather option feels just as special. They also talk about covered walkways/canopies helping guests move around without getting drenched, and that some couples choose indoors even in summer for certainty. Find out what food styles are available (formal wedding breakfast vs grazing/buffet vs relaxed evening food), whether the caterers can handle allergies/veggie/vegan properly, and when payments are due, because venue and catering schedules don’t always line up, and that can hit your cash flow. Ask what time you can arrive, what time suppliers can access the venue, any noise/licensing cut-offs, and the venue’s rules on bringing your own alcohol (some don’t allow it at all; others charge corkage). Couples should ask about decorating rules (especially candles, often LED-only), whether you can dress the venue yourself, use an in-house venue dresser, or bring external stylists. They’re all for personal touches — as long as it’s safe and workable. One you might forget: exclusivity and other people on-site. They mention checking whether you have exclusive use, whether there are show rounds earlier in the day, and when the venue becomes fully “yours”. Best Moments “Wedding planning can be a bit of a minefield… It’s sometimes the first time they’ve done this before.” “You don’t go to a bar and buy a drink and pay extra for the straw, the ice and the glass.” “It’s so important that you love both options [outdoor and indoor], because if it rains, you’ll end up inside.” “If the venue’s ticked 9 out of 10 boxes, you know you’re on to a winner.” About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by the coordination team at Coton House Farm once again, as they gather in the main oak barn to discuss one of the trickiest parts of wedding planning: the seating plan. Exploring the importance of seating arrangements, creative table naming, and practical advice for managing guest needs. The team covers how seating plans act as an “organised bible” for the wedding, ensuring every guest is considered - from allergies and children to wheelchair users and high chairs. Whether you’re planning a formal meal or a relaxed grazing table, this episode offers guidance to help couples organise their big day with confidence. Key Takeaways Guest Management: Collect RSVPs, dietary needs, and preferences early. Highlight under-18s and non-drinkers for appropriate service. Venue Layout: The barn accommodates round tables, straight tables, T-shapes, and sweetheart tables. Top tables can be traditional or personalised. Family Dynamics: Prioritise the couple’s comfort when arranging seating for blended families or divorced parents. Mixing Guests: Mixing guests encourages mingling, but seating friends and family together is also common. Consider language barriers and prior opportunities for guests to meet. Table Plan Displays: Popular options include A1 signs, Polaroids, themed bookshelves, vinyl records, and mirrors with pegs. Finalising Plans: Share seating plans with the venue and caterers as early as possible and communicate any changes promptly. Key Moments “You can still manage allergies and things like that, even with an open seating plan.” “Start small because it can be very overwhelming when you’ve got 80 guests.” “Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to get it perfect.” About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by Meg, Maggie and Louisa to talk directly to couples who got engaged over Christmas and are now thinking: “Right… what do we do next?” They share practical first steps (date, budget, guest numbers and wedding vibe), advice on shortlisting venues without overwhelming yourself, and how to start booking key suppliers in the right order. It’s a reassuring, funny, no-pressure chat designed to help newly-engaged couples feel excited, not stressed, as they start planning. Key Takeaways Before you book anything, decide what matters most and how it all links together. Your time of year impacts style (summer/outdoor vs winter/indoor), budget and availability, and guest numbers can quickly change costs. The team recommend doing your homework before you start touring. If you already know you want a barn venue (or a specific style), narrow it down online and then view a short list; otherwise, it can become confusing, overwhelming and hard to compare packages. Work out roles early: who’s the spreadsheet person and who’s the mood-board person? Planning is easier (and more fun) when you decide who’s handling what. Some couples share every task; others split jobs. Either way, having clarity prevents stress later, especially when it comes to logistics like timings and setup. Book in a sensible order and track payment dates. Venue usually comes first, followed by booking your ceremony (registrar or celebrant). After that, priorities vary (dress, photographer, catering, etc.), but the big watch-out is payment schedules: deposits, interim payments and final balances are all different by supplier, so keep a spreadsheet/diary to avoid surprise costs landing at once. Ask smart questions on venue tours. They suggest key tour questions like: If you want an outdoor ceremony, what’s the wet-weather plan and is the indoor option just as nice? What’s included vs not included (so your budget is accurate)? Are there minimum/maximum guest numbers, and what are the timings? Best Moments “The first thing you should do is pop the Prosecco and celebrate.” “If you go to loads of venues… it can be really overwhelming.” “People remember the food… and the drink.” “You have to make sure you like both, outdoor and indoor, because you can’t guarantee the weather. It’s Britain.” About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this Christmas special of Yes to I Do, host Lydia Wakefield is joined by Meg, Maggie and Louisa in the Main Oak Barn, chatting all things winter and December weddings at Coton House Farm. Warmed by the log burner (and plenty of festive energy), they explore what makes winter weddings feel so intimate and cosy, how the venue works brilliantly in colder months (covered outdoor areas, patio heaters and twinkly lights), and the fun seasonal touches couples can add, from LED candles and deep colour palettes to Santa appearances, sleighs and hot chocolate favours. Key Takeaways The team agree winter has a different kind of magic: darker evenings, warm lighting, log burners, and that natural urge to be surrounded by friends and family. It’s a relaxed, snuggly atmosphere compared to the bright, outdoorsy feel of summer. Even in colder weather, guests can still enjoy the outdoor areas because they’re covered and heated (patio heaters plus undercover walkways between spaces). The Main Oak Barn’s lounge area and fires add to the comfort, and blankets can be used outside for extra warmth. December weddings don’t have to be overtly Christmassy. Couples often lean into cosy styling (LED candles, warm lighting, deep winter tones), but many still use non-seasonal palettes like sage green, lilac and bright florals. There are no rules. Ideas mentioned include holly in florals, gold accents, velvet and sparkly outfits, Santa hats for the photo booth, cloaks/shawls for bridesmaids, crackers on tables, mistletoe moments, bauble name cards, and cute favours like hot chocolate packs or candy canes. (And yes, they’ve got couples bringing a sleigh and even Santa!) Best Moments “December is a lovely time to get married… winter feels a lot cosier.” “Christmas is a feeling… it doesn’t have to be super duper festive for it to be really lovely and cosy.” “Just because it’s winter, you’re not restricted to just having to stay inside.” “Do December weddings have to be Christmassy?… Definitely no.” “Bring a coat… it is crisp at that time of year, but that’s what makes it so lovely.” About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this episode of Yes to I Do, host Lydia sits down with coordinators Maggie, Meg and Louisa to look back at the standout weddings of 2025 at Coton House Farm and predict what couples will be loving in 2026. From wildflower-filled barns and glitter ball “disco weddings” to dog-themed table plans and pumpkin-centrepiece autumn days, they share the details that really stuck with them and how social media is shaping what couples choose. Key Takeaways Standout weddings this year leaned heavily into colour and fun: wildflower-filled spring barns, bright florals, fresh floral cakes, pearls, bows on dresses and even chair backs, plus “year of the disco” glitter ball styling from tiny table confetti to a giant mirror ball centrepiece. Couples increasingly built their whole look around a theme, especially pets. One memorable dog-themed wedding used the couple’s dog and its toys for table names and photos, with dog biscuits and even messages “from” pets who couldn’t be there. 2026 predictions: retro glam, monochrome and outfit changes. The team are expecting more retro-inspired black-and-white, black-tie party vibes, sleek hair, and a big comeback for ponytails. Brides changing into a second “after party” outfit, or transforming their look by removing part of the dress, switching into a jumpsuit or even cutting their hair into a bob mid-day, is set to grow. There’s also excitement around new colour stories like berry tones, soft moss greens and bold monochromes, alongside retro-style cakes with thick icing and bright cherries. Standout moments of 2025 at Coton House Farm. The team’s favourites include: a fully pumpkin-themed wedding with mini pumpkins and a pumpkin cake; a couple arriving by helicopter, landing in the field for a dramatic entrance; a full glitter ball “disco wedding”; and a dog dressed in an enormous silver glitter bow that matched the décor. Best Moments “It’s the year of the disco, the glitter ball weddings have just been incredible.” “People love audio guest books… imagine listening back to your nan’s little voice note years later.” “I just love a pumpkin; they keep coming back, but every year, couples use them in a new way.” “Someone hired a helicopter and landed in the field… it was such a grand entrance and so different.” About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Ranking source
Apple Podcasts rankings via the Mato Topic Intelligence Platform.
Observed September 10, 2026. Cached outside the daily freshness window; the positions keep the date they were taken on.
Apple and Apple Podcasts are trademarks of Apple Inc., registered in the U.S. and other countries.
Pairs with
Bring this source into Mato to read its transferable patterns, then turn them into an original show for your own audience.