Published by Alyssa Stalker
Most real estate podcasts tell you what to post—the trends, the templates, the strategies everyone swears by. Above Asking is different. This is a perspective-driven show for the next-gen real estate agent who wants to build a brand that stands out by learning how to think, not just what to do. If you're showing up, posting consistently, doing all the things, but you're starting to wonder if any of this is actually going to work, you're in the right place. Everyone's giving you the what. Nobody's teaching you the how. So you're out here with no real strategy behind any of it, and it's way harder than it looked. That's exactly what I'm here to help you change. On Above Asking, I help you stop copying what everyone else is doing and start building a content and brand strategy you actually trust. One that attracts the right clients and feels like yours. We're talking about what's working right now, what's coming next, and how to build a business clients are drawn to without chasing every trend or burning yourself out trying to keep up. I'm Alyssa Stalker. I started as a solo agent, built my business through content and connection, and now I help other agents do the same as Head of Member Education and Strategy at Coffee & Contracts. This show is where I break down what's working, what's changing, and how to move your business forward through it all. If you're ready to think differently, cut through the noise, and build a brand you're obsessed with, hit play! Popular Topics Include: Content marketing for real estate agents, real estate branding, real estate marketing strategy, social media marketing for realtors, how to stand out as a real estate agent, real estate agent content strategy, real estate marketing that actually works, modern real estate marketing, personal branding as a real estate agent, content that converts in real estate, building a brand on Instagram, generating real estate leads on social media
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. You don't need more hours in the day. You need more leverage. In this episode, I'm sharing why so many real estate agents feel like they're constantly behind. We'll unpack what's actually creating that overwhelm, why doing more is not the answer, and how to use AI tools to take work off your plate without losing the personal connection that grows your business. You'll walk away with practical ideas for creating more space in your schedule so you can focus on the conversations, relationships, and opportunities only you can pursue. So if you want to stop feeling like your business's most overworked employee, hit play and let's get into it. 00:00 – Why so many real estate agents feel overwhelmed and what they're getting wrong about it 01:30 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 03:56 – Why switching from high stress deals to everyday business tasks feels almost impossible 08:53 – Why doing more isn't the answer and how leverage changes everything 11:43 – How I'm using AI to create more leverage in my business every day 18:24 – The ways AI can take work off your plate without replacing your personal touch 27:44 – Why feeling overwhelmed doesn't mean you're failing and the shift that changes everything OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 25: What Real Estate Agents Can Learn From Successful Creators with Katelyn Rhoades 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/P2a9nnpcHI4 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. What do successful creators understand that so many real estate agents are still missing? In this episode, I'm joined by Katelyn Rhoades, CEO of Enfluence Marketing Studio and host of the Call Her Creator podcast. We talk about why chasing trends keeps so many agents stuck, why real growth comes from small, consistent actions, and how to stop waiting until everything feels perfect before you show up online. You'll walk away with a simpler way to think about building your brand, more confidence to take messy action, and a reminder that you don't have to do what everyone else is doing to be successful. So if you want to get out of your own way and start building real momentum, hit play and let's get into it. 02:27 – How a scarcity mindset from childhood still shapes how many entrepreneurs approach success 09:30 – The “money walk” habit that can help you think, learn, and grow 14:28 – How to pinpoint what's actually keeping you stuck and start moving forward 17:32 – A perspective shift that makes delegating your time feel a whole lot easier 22:02 – How the 1% rule creates more momentum than waiting for a big breakthrough 28:13 – Why showing up online matters more than following the latest social media trends 44:10 – Membership for Real Estate Agents: Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Katelyn: Website | Instagram Check out Katelyn’s podcast: Call Her Creator OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 21: How Much Time Should Real Estate Agents Spend on Social Media? 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/sW9ADcWYpV0 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. Why does content feel so much harder than everyone else makes it look? We asked you what we can yap about, cry about, or solve together, and you delivered. Today, I'm answering your biggest questions, from comparing yourself to other real estate agents and feeling awkward on camera to finding your way back after time away or wondering if your story is interesting enough to stand out. You'll walk away with more confidence, a fresh perspective, and the reminder that you're not alone in what you're navigating. So if you want to stop overthinking your content and start showing up like yourself, hit play and let's get into it. 00:45 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 02:35 – Why copying what every other real estate agent is posting could be holding you back 04:55 – How to come back with confidence after taking time away from your real estate business 08:28 – Why your real estate story doesn't have to be dramatic to build a memorable brand 10:43 – The mindset shift that finally helps you stop comparing yourself to other real estate agents 13:11 – Why you become a completely different person on camera and how to sound like yourself 16:38 – The simple recording trick that instantly makes your videos feel more natural OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 23: If I Were a New Real Estate Agent Today, Here's How I'd Build My Brand 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XqmEip8p5ns 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If you were a brand new real estate agent today, where would you even start? In this episode, I'm sharing exactly what I'd focus on if I were building a real estate brand in today's market. So much has changed since I got started, and that means my advice has changed too. We'll talk about what actually matters when you're starting from scratch, the mistakes I'd avoid, why I care more about frameworks than rules, and where I'd spend my time and energy if I were building a brand today. If you've been feeling like there's only one right way to build a real estate brand, this episode might change the way you think about it. So if you want to build a brand that feels like yours from the very beginning, hit play and let's get into it. 01:18 – What I'd focus on if I were a brand new real estate agent today 03:15 – Why showing more of yourself might be the missing piece in your brand 08:00 – Why I stopped following social media rules and started thinking differently 14:51 – The content mistake that's keeping too many agents stuck 19:37 – Why the little details in your content matter more than you think 20:47 – How to build a brand people actually want to connect with 22:12 – Why starting over isn't always the answer when your brand isn't growing 25:10 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/wCm6qBxbPf0 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. Is your real estate brand actually memorable or are you just adding to the noise? In this episode, I'm joined by Wendy Forsythe , Chief Marketing Officer at eXp Realty, to unpack the framework behind identifying your unique advantage. As AI changes the way agents build their brands, we dive into what really separates the agents people remember from the ones who blend in, along with the mindset and systems that lead to long term growth. So if you want to stand out for the right reasons and build a real estate brand people actually remember, hit play and let's get into it. 03:18 – Why agents have more opportunity than ever to build a personal brand 05:56 – What inspired Wendy to write her book about leveraging your unique X-factor as an agent 10:14 – How successful agents lose their spark and how it shows up in their content 17:35 – Why AI content makes agents sound the same 21:15 – The real game-changer for standing out as an agent 31:01 – How to build a personal brand that lasts EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Wendy: Website | Instagram Check out Wendy’s book: Leverage Your X-Factor Listen to Wendy’s podcast: X-Factor Marketing with Wendy Forsythe 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/FJvC5Ye5h-M 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. A lot of agents think social media takes too much time. But most people quit before they ever get to see what that effort can turn into. In this episode, I'm answering one of the biggest questions agents ask me. How much time should you actually be spending on social media, and when can you realistically expect results? We're getting into why so many agents quit right before things start working, the hidden payoff most people completely miss, and how to think about content creation in a way that feels sustainable instead of overwhelming. You'll walk away knowing where your time is best spent, what consistency really looks like, and how to build momentum without feeling like social media has become a full-time job. So if you want to stop wondering whether social media is worth the effort and start building momentum that compounds over time, hit play, and let's get into it. 00:50 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 01:46 – Why most agents quit before content pays off 06:27 – What agents get wrong about instant social media results 11:20 – The reason content creation needs a real spot on your calendar 13:06 – Why building the skill of content creation gets easier with practice 17:42 – How to batch content and simplify your workflow 21:08 – Why your content skills and effort compound over time 25:32 - A realistic breakdown of how to spend your time creating content OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 18: Why Your Content Isn't Converting (Even When You're Posting Consistently) with Chelsea Peitz 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6xurg2bqnRM 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If you've ever felt like you're showing up consistently and posting the content but people still aren't reaching out, this episode is going to give you a huge lightbulb moment. The problem might not be your content strategy. It might be that people still don't know who you actually are. In this conversation with brand strategist Candice Carcioppolo , we unpack what personal branding really means for real estate agents, why it's so much bigger than logos and colors, and the reason some agents become unforgettable while others blend into a sea of sameness. We also get into attracting clients who genuinely fit you, building trust before someone ever reaches out, and why trying to copy someone else's brand will always leave you feeling stuck. By the end of this episode, you'll look at your brand differently and walk away with a clearer understanding of how to stand out as yourself instead of trying to be what everyone else is doing. If you want to build a business that feels more aligned, attracts better clients, and actually feels like you, hit play and let's get into it. 1:18 – Why building a personal brand goes way beyond logos and social media presence 3:59 – Why agents confuse social media presence with having a personal brand 6:35 – A common mistake realtors make when creating their brand identity 9:17 – The real difference between visual branding and brand experience 13:04 – Why agents should focus on building a personal brand rather than relying on brokerage branding 17:43 – What new real estate agents should invest in learning 25:22 – Why consistency alone won’t help your brand grow EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Candice Carcioppolo: Website | Instagram Check out the Brand Starter Kit HERE 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/H-SHxYaCEwQ 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If your reach has been dropping lately, it might not be because your content is bad. It might be because Instagram has stopped trusting you. In this episode, I'm sharing a lesson I learned from my own account after going through a season of inconsistency and watching my reach take a hit. We all know consistency matters, but I don't think most people realize how much repeated inconsistency can affect the way Instagram distributes your content. We'll talk about why consistency matters more than posting every day, how Instagram decides who gets pushed to new audiences, and the simple shift that's helping me rebuild momentum. You'll walk away with a better understanding of how consistency, engagement, and reach actually work together on Instagram. So if you want to get more eyes on your content without feeling like you need to post every day, hit play and let's get into it. 1:38 – How transitioning your personal account to a real estate account takes time and strategy 3:23 – Why niching down is key for the algorithm 5:33 – How repeated inconsistency actually kills your reach 7:23 – Why the “trust score” matters for Instagram growth 12:24 – A simple strategy to help boost your reach 16:10 – Why building trust is more important than posting daily 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/xNCSi-XQoDM 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If you've ever felt like you're doing everything right on social media but it's still not turning into real conversations or clients, this episode is going to hit. Because the problem might not be your consistency, your content strategy, or the algorithm. It might be that people still don't know who you actually are. That’s why I invited Chelsea Peitz, a social media educator, best-selling author, and keynote speaker to break down the psychology behind trust online, why posting more isn't always the answer, and the biggest mistake real estate agents make when they're trying to build a brand that stands out. We get into why people follow your content without ever reaching out and what to do differently if you want to change that. By the end of this episode, you'll have a completely different perspective on what makes people trust you online and how to create content that actually builds connection, not just visibility. So if you're ready to stop wondering why your content isn't converting and start building a brand people remember, hit play and let's get into it. 00:47 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 02:04 – The real estate trust factor hasn’t changed but the way we build relationships has 06:43 – The disconnect between online and offline behavior when it comes to building trust 10:38 – How our brains decide to trust someone we've only seen on a screen 15:01 – Why most agents don’t actually have a content problem but a content balance problem 19:24 – The three Ps that form an uncopy-pasteable personal brand: person, personality, perspective EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Chelsea: Website | Instagram 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RZX_8JaDDxI 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. You can have a million views and still be the agent nobody thinks to call. And honestly, that’s the part no one on social media is talking about. In this episode, I’m breaking down why reach is not the goal anymore and what actually makes people remember you when it’s time to buy or sell. We’re getting into the difference between visibility and connection, why some agents are creating nonstop inbound leads without massive followings, and how your personal brand is the thing turning content into clients. Plus, I’m sharing the simple shifts that make your content feel way more relatable, recognizable, and impossible to scroll past. You’ll walk away knowing exactly how to create content that feels like you and actually builds trust with the right people. So if you are ready to stop chasing reach and start becoming the agent people instantly think of, hit play, and let’s get into it. 01:15 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 2:14 – Why follower count and reach don’t bring real estate clients 3:33 – How building real relationships drives conversions 5:39 – Why name recognition alone doesn’t work on social 8:13 – Posting personal content beats business-only posts 10:54 – The attract, nurture, convert framework for social media 14:56 – Using the nine-post test to check your brand clarity 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PfbkY5xMUyc 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If posting more of your life was the secret to growing your real estate brand, wouldn’t social media feel a whole lot easier by now? In this episode, I’m sitting back down with Haley Ingram, the CEO and founder of Coffee & Contracts , to unpack the pressure real estate agents feel to be everywhere online, constantly visible, and always sharing more. We’re talking about how to actually build a personal brand that attracts clients without feeling performative, exhausting, or like your entire life has to become content. Plus, we get into choosing the right platform for your season of business, the mistake most agents make with “personal” content, and how to create content that feels authentic while still growing your audience. So if you want to build a brand that stands out online without oversharing your entire life, hit play and let’s get into it. 01:11 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 2:14 – The pressure agents feel to be on every social media platform 4:19 – Why you should focus on one platform for 90 days before adding more 5:26 – Choosing a medium that matches your interests and strengths 7:31 – The importance of showing up where your sphere actually hangs out online 11:17 – Deciding if you should keep personal and business accounts separate 14:39 – Rethinking the 80/20 rule and making your business content more personal EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Haley: Website | Instagram OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 15: How Real Estate Agents Can Stay Consistent on Social Media Without Spending Hours Online with Haley Ingram 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Q338ThXffeA 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If you feel like social media is turning into a full-time job instead of a lead source, this episode is going to change the way you approach your marketing. I’m sitting down with Haley Ingram, CEO and founder of Coffee & Contracts , to talk about how real estate agents can actually batch their work week, stay consistent with marketing, and stop spending hours creating content that burns them out. We’re getting into talking head reels, hooks that keep people watching, time blocking, local content ideas, and the biggest mistakes agents make when they try to “just wing it” on camera. This episode is going to help you simplify your process, work with the time you actually have, and create content that feels more intentional without turning into a full-time content creator. So if you want a marketing routine that feels sustainable and actually helps grow your business, hit play and let’s get into it. 1:46 – Why most agents never stick to a consistent marketing routine 4:17 – How a simple scheduling tweak can help you tackle the tasks you keep avoiding 5:19 – What weekly marketing commitment actually works for real estate agents 8:06 – The content tool changing the game for talking head reels 13:13 – How your on-camera intro could be costing you engagement 21:13 – When new agents and seasoned pros should rethink their approach to local marketing 28:27 – Membership for Real Estate Agents: Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 6: The Real Reason Your Instagram Isn’t Generating Real Estate Leads with Haley Ingram 🎙️ Episode 7: The Simple Systems That Turn Instagram Followers Into Real Estate Clients with Haley Ingram 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XsfhF6tGQOc 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If your real estate content is starting to feel like everyone else’s, this episode is your wake up call. Because the truth is, most agents are not struggling because they “aren’t posting enough.” They’re struggling because their content has no personality, no perspective, and no reason for someone to remember them. In this episode, I’m sitting down with Haley Ingram, CEO and Founder of Coffee & Contracts , Eric Simon, Co-Founder of Broke Agent Media , and Jason Cassity, Chief Growth Officer at Real Broker , for a real conversation about what’s actually working on social media right now and why so many agents are blending into the noise. We’re talking AI overwhelm, content that feels forced, the pressure to “keep up,” and the subtle shifts that make people actually stop scrolling and pay attention to you. This episode feels less like a strategy session and more like sitting in on the conversation every agent wishes they could have behind closed doors. If you want your content to feel more natural, more you, and way more memorable without overthinking every post, hit play now because there’s a good chance you’re making this harder than it needs to be. 01:25 – Why Most Agents Feel Behind on AI Even When They Use It Every Day 03:20 – How Using AI for Local Guides and Roleplay Actually Saves You Time 09:22 – Why Raw, Off-the-Cuff Videos Outperform Polished Templates on Social 13:06 – The Real Reason Content with Fast Hooks and Personal Stories Connects 16:54 – How Documenting Your Real Life Makes Content Instantly Stand Out 20:12 – Why Blending Personality with Business Posts Builds Real Trust Online 30:20 – Membership for Real Estate Agents: Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Jason: Website | Instagram Connect with Eric: Website | Instagram Connect with Haley: Website | Instagram 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/G2ylCQBynQo 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If you’ve ever thought, “this listing just isn’t pretty enough to market,” I want to challenge that, because what if that’s actually your edge? In this episode, I’m breaking down why “perfect” homes are easier to market, but not necessarily the ones that connect, and what today’s Pinterest-trained buyers are really looking for instead. I’ll show you how to shift from surface-level aesthetics to emotional storytelling, and how to use the small, overlooked details to make buyers feel something before they ever step through the door. You’ll walk away knowing exactly how to turn any listing into something people connect with, not just scroll past. So if you want to make your listings stand out without needing them to be perfect, hit play and let’s get into it. 00:43 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 1:40 – How the Pinterest generation shapes buyers to want curated vibes, not perfection 3:39 – Why most buyers are looking for character and personality over flawless homes 5:58 – How agents stand out by highlighting real, raw details in their listings 9:54 – Why selling the vision means showcasing unique and emotional home moments 12:11 – What turning every listing into a “Pinterest board” does for your marketing 14:45 – How storytelling and emotional details beat just checking buyer boxes 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/UBX5-OhFjec 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. What if the reason your content isn’t attracting high-end clients has nothing to do with your strategy and everything to do with how you’re showing up? In this episode, I’m sitting down with Aaron Grushow, the Senior Marketing Manager at Luxury Presence , to unpack what luxury actually means and why most agents get it wrong. We’re diving into why polished content can backfire, what high-end clients are really looking for when they find you online, and how to shift from trying to “create” content to simply documenting your life in a way that builds trust and connection. If you want your content to finally start attracting the right clients… the ones who feel like a perfect fit, this will change the way you think about everything you post. Hit play and let’s get into it. 0:41 – Membership for Real Estate Agents: Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 1:48 – What the real meaning of luxury is (and it’s not the price point) 6:33 – Why luxury clients want to see if you can "hang in their circle" on social media 9:05 – The trap of overproduced content and the underused power of simple Instagram Stories 12:23 – Using everyday documentation rather than traditional influencer-style content to connect with your ideal clients 15:35 – Why cohesive branding and authenticity across your website and social channels matter more than ever for discoverability 19:14 – How storytelling, not just sales stats, creates desire for luxury homes and elevates your digital resume EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Aaron on Instagram @aarongrushowhomes Check out Luxury Presence: Website | Instagram OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 1: I Hung Up My Lockbox (And Found What I Was Actually Meant to Build) 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4QXohEfXdv4 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If you’re posting consistently, gaining followers and still wondering “why isn’t anyone actually reaching out?” this is the episode you didn’t know you needed. I’m breaking down the invisible middle that happens between someone finding you and becoming your client… the part no one talks about, but everything depends on. You’ll start to see exactly where people are dropping off, why more content isn’t the answer, and how trust (not followers) is the real game you should be playing. So if you’re ready to stop guessing and finally connect the dots between your content and actual clients, hit play because once you see this gap, you can’t unsee it. 01:32 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 02:32 – Why posting more and gaining followers isn’t what brings in clients from social media 03:23 – How getting followers and getting clients are two different games with a hidden journey in between 04:37 – What actually happens from the moment someone finds your content to when they decide to reach out 07:06 – Where most agents lose potential clients on social 09:35 – How to fix your strategy by auditing your profile and balancing your content mix 10:49 – Why consistent, intentional content leads to real growth over time OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 10: The Content Framework That Turns Views Into Real Estate Clients 🎙️ Episode 7: The Simple Systems That Turn Instagram Followers Into Real Estate Clients with Haley Ingram 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/DT-yiro_HVo 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If your content is getting views but not turning into clients, you’re not missing consistency… you’re missing a framework. In this episode, I’m breaking down why your posts feel random (even when you’re doing everything right) and what’s actually driving performance behind the scenes. We’re getting into the real reason some content takes off, how to stop measuring every post the same way, and the simple shift that makes your content start working for you instead of against you. If you want to create content that actually attracts, builds trust, and converts into real clients and finally understand why your posts aren’t performing the way you expect, hit play and let’s get into it. 02:20 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 03:34 – The Attention Economy Is Changing Real Estate Content Forever 06:20 – The Attract, Nurture, Convert Framework Every Agent Needs 07:21 – How “Nurture” Posts Build Real Authority and Trust With Your Audience 10:55 – Why Your Hook Is Everything (And Determines Whether the Algorithm Helps You) 12:23 – Watch Time and the “Second Hook”: Secrets to Increasing Post Performance 16:43 – The Action Audit: How to Review Your Last Nine Posts and Actually Improve OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 9: The Strategy No One Talks About That Makes You Stand Out as a Real Estate Agent with Kristen Cantrell 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qU3agz70Px4 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If you’re doing all the “right” things to grow your real estate business… posting consistently, showing up to networking events, following the strategies everyone else is using, but still feel like nothing is really setting you apart, this is the piece you’ve been missing. In this episode, I’m sitting down with Kristin Cantrell, founder of Hello Culture and a community builder who’s grown multiple nationwide communities rooted in real relationships to unpack the strategy that actually builds a brand people feel — not just follow. We get into why community isn’t separate from your brand (it is your brand), what most agents get wrong about networking, and how to create rooms that lead to deeper relationships, referrals, and long-term business growth. So if you’re ready to stop chasing transactions and start building a brand that people want to be part of, hit play and let’s get into it. 00:49 – Why Community Building Is Essential for Your Brand, Not Just an Extra 00:55 – Membership for Real Estate Agents : Coffee & Contracts Content Templates, Marketing Tools, and Community 07:07 – How Branded Local Communities Create Connection and Open Doors 08:03 – The Real Reason Community Building Turns Into Business 08:43 – Networking That Doesn’t Feel Gross: How to Put Connection Before Transactions 17:41 – Your Reputation Is Your True Brand. Focus on Service, Not Just Design 21:39 – The Secret Difference Between Having a Network and Feeling True Belonging in a Community 24:11 – Why Embracing the Awkwardness Is the Secret to Building Real, Lasting Community 26:19 – Building Community Means Inviting Others to Share Their “Lane of Genius” EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Kristen: Website | Instagram Learn more about Hello Culture: Website | Instagram Check out Kristen’s Podcast: Moms in Real Estate 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6NOyM48KNsw 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If your content looks good, sounds polished, and you’re still not getting clients, this might be the real reason why. I’ve been noticing a pattern that’s quietly holding so many agents back, and it’s not inconsistency or the algorithm. It’s the way we’ve been taught to build content in the first place. In this episode, I’m breaking down what actually happens when you build your strategy around trends instead of your own voice, why your feed can feel “full” but still disconnected, and how to shift into content that actually makes people feel like they know you. We’re getting into the subtle ways trend-chasing erodes your brand (without you realizing it), and what it really looks like to create from a place that’s yours. So if you’re tired of posting consistently but still not seeing real connection or clients coming through, and you’re ready to finally understand what’s actually going to move the needle, hit play and let’s get into it. 03:40 – How Trend-Based Content Turns Your Feed Into a “Sea of Sameness” 06:36 – Why Agents Keep Copying What’s Trending 12:06 – The Hidden Cost of Outsourcing Your Creative Direction to the Algorithm and How It Leaves You Feeling Stuck and Voiceless 16:36 – How to Recognize the Three Signs of Real Brand Clarity (and Why Your Audience Feels It) 24:05 – The Practical Audit: How to Tell if Your Last 5 Posts Came From You or the Algorithm OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 6: The Real Reason Your Instagram Isn’t Generating Real Estate Leads with Haley Ingram 🎙️ Episode 7: The Simple Systems That Turn Instagram Followers Into Real Estate Clients with Haley Ingram 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/e6hxvii0RL8 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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🔗 Ready to join Coffee & Contracts? Use code ABOVE20 to get $20 off your first month HERE . The membership platform for real estate agents who want content, strategy, and a community that actually gets it. If your Instagram is finally working but it still isn’t turning into clients, we need to talk. Because the problem isn’t your content, it’s what happens after someone hits “follow” or slides into your DMs. In this episode, I’m sitting back down with Haley Ingram, CEO and founder of Coffee & Contracts and we’re breaking down the simple systems most agents are missing once the leads start coming in. We’re getting into why your DMs feel chaotic, the biggest mistake agents make when someone shows interest, and how to actually move people off Instagram and into a process that converts without sounding salesy or relying on complicated tools. Plus, we’re having a real conversation about automation vs. human connection, and what actually builds trust (and closes deals). By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly how to turn conversations into clients and finally feel in control of your leads instead of overwhelmed by them. If you’re ready to stop leaving opportunities on the table, press play because this might be the missing piece. 01:15 – Why Social Media Presence Has Become a Standard for Real Estate Agents (and Why Leads Can Feel Chaotic) 02:47 – The Most Common Mistake Agents Make With Social Media Lead Capture (And How to Fix It Fast) 04:14 – The First System Every Agent Needs That Gets Contacts Out of the DMs 05:52 – Relationship-Building vs. Automation: Why Personal Touch Outperforms Bots (Especially for New Agents) 15:04 – The Surprisingly Powerful Print and Campaign Resources Agents Overlook Inside Coffee and Contracts 23:16 – Why Building Consistent Marketing Habits Creates Long-Term Stability In Your Real Estate Business EPISODE LINKS: Connect with Haley: Website | Instagram OTHER EPISODES YOU’LL LOVE: 🎙️ Episode 6: The Real Reason Your Instagram Isn’t Generating Real Estate Leads with Haley Ingram 🎥 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/n5-wBd22RLc 💌 Subscribe to the official newsletter for Above Asking Podcast, The Hot Sheet: https://above-asking.captivate.fm/hot-sheet COME HANG OUT WITH ME: ❤️ Follow Above Asking: @aboveaskingpodcast ❤️ Let's be Instagram friends: @thealyssastalker 💭 Got any questions? Submit your question for advice from me on the show HERE FOLLOW & REVIEW: Are you loving the podcast? I'd appreciate it if you could take a few seconds to do these two things: 👉🏻 First, follow this podcast wherever you listen. That way new episodes hit your feed automatically and you won't miss anything. 👉🏻 Second, leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop a comment on Spotify This helps me reach more agents who are ready to build a bingeable brand with intentional real estate branding and content marketing for real estate agents. Thanks for tuning in to the Above Asking podcast! I'll catch you next week. New episodes drop every Thursday!
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