Welcome to Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch ! In this podcast, we’re here to bring sex, insight, and real-world education to the table—unapologetically. Think of it as having those important, unfiltered brunch conversations with your closest friends, about sex, relationships, and everything in between. With over 55 years experience combined in the intimacy industry helping individuals and couples focusing on breaking down barriers, reducing shame, and empowering people to embrace their desires and relationships with confidence.
Episode: 86 - Can an Orgasm Manifest Your Dream Life? The Truth About the O Method
Send us Fan Mail Can an orgasm help you attract success, confidence, money, or even love? The O Method has exploded on TikTok, claiming that combining orgasm with manifestation can help turn your goals into reality. But is there any science behind it, or is this just another viral wellness trend? In this episode, we break down what the O Method actually is, why so many people swear by it, what psychology says about visualization and goal setting, and whether the real power comes from the orgasm... or from changing how you think and act. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 85 - National Hand Job Day: Why Men Won't Tell You What They Like
Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered why your partner says "whatever you want" instead of telling you what actually feels good? For National Hand Job Day, we're skipping the step-by-step advice and talking about something much more important: communication. Why don't more men speak up? Is it to protect feelings? Avoid awkwardness? Or do they simply not care as much as we think? We dive into why feedback in the bedroom feels so uncomfortable, why every partner is different, and why asking questions beats assuming every single time. 💬 We'd love to hear from you. Do you think people avoid giving feedback in the bedroom because they're trying to protect feelings... or because talking about sex still feels awkward? Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 84 - Female Masturbation: What Nobody Ever Taught You
Send us Fan Mail Most women were never actually taught how their bodies work. In this episode, we're talking about female masturbation, why so many women struggle with solo pleasure, and practical techniques that can help you enjoy your body without shame, pressure, or unrealistic expectations. Whether you're completely new to exploring your body or you've been relying on the same routine for years, this conversation might change the way you think about pleasure. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 83 - Emotional Cheating: Is It Worse Than Sex?
Send us Fan Mail Is emotional cheating actually cheating... or is it just friendship? This week we're diving into one of the biggest relationship debates: emotional vs. physical cheating. Where's the line? Why do emotional affairs hurt so much? And are we quietly replacing our partners with someone else without even realizing it? We talk about secrecy, texting, emotional intimacy, social media, trust, and why the answer isn't nearly as black and white as most people think. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 82 - NSFB Quickie - The One Muscle Every Man Should Be Training
Send us Fan Mail Most men never think about their pelvic floor... until something starts going wrong. In this NSFB Quicky, Coralie explains why these overlooked muscles affect bladder control, core strength, pelvic pain, and even erectile function. Plus, she shares one surprisingly simple exercise you can start doing today. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 81 - Are Women's Dating Standards Really Too High? ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Send us Fan Mail Are women asking for too much... or are we finally asking for the right things? In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch , we're talking about dating standards, emotional maturity, the infamous "bare minimum," younger men, mental load, and why more women are choosing peace over settling. Plus, we play a game of Bare Minimum or True Partnership? You might start scoring your own relationship. 👇 Let us know... what's one dating standard you'll never lower? Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 80 - Bigger Isn't Always Better: What Really Matters in Bed
Send us Fan Mail Does size really matter? It's one of the most common questions people ask, but the answer is a lot more complicated than a simple yes or no. In this episode, we're talking about penis size, girth versus length, the impact of arousal, how porn has shaped expectations, and what actually creates great sex. Spoiler alert: connection, communication, confidence, and paying attention to your partner matter a lot more than most people think. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 79 - Less Sex, More Loneliness? The Truth About the Sex Recession
Send us Fan Mail One in three young men reported having no sex in the past year, and overall sexual activity has been declining for decades. But is this really about sex... or is it about stress, loneliness, dating fatigue, and a lack of connection? In this episode, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki dive into the growing "sex recession," why people are having less sex, and what it says about modern relationships. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 78 - Pegging, Shame, and Why We're Still Afraid to Talk About It
Send us Fan Mail Pegging is one of the most misunderstood topics in sexual wellness. In this episode, we're breaking down the myths, the stigma, how to bring it up with a partner, beginner tips, and why pegging has absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or just here for the conversation, we're diving into it all without the shame. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 77 - NSFB Quickie - Creating Space for Pleasure
Send us Fan Mail Welcome to the very first NSFB Quickie! A few months ago we sent a chellenge out to our listens of having 200 orgasms this year. Now that the first quarter is over, Vicki is checking in and sharing an important reminder: pleasure isn't about keeping score. It's about making space for joy, connection, and feeling good in your own body. How's your year going so far? Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 76 - Sex Toys, Relationships, and the Fear Nobody Talks About
Send us Fan Mail Are sex toys replacing partners, or are they helping couples build stronger, more satisfying relationships? In this episode of Not Safe For Brunch, we tackle one of the biggest myths about sex toys and intimacy. We discuss why some people feel threatened by toys, how they can actually improve communication and connection, and when they might be masking deeper relationship issues. Whether you're curious about bringing toys into the bedroom, worried about how your partner might react, or simply wondering if toys help or hurt relationships, this conversation is for you. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 75 - How the Internet Is Teaching Boys to Hate Women
Send us Fan Mail This week we’re diving headfirst into the world of the manosphere after watching Netflix’s Inside the Manosphere documentary with Louis Theroux and honestly… we have thoughts. From Andrew Tate and red pill culture to incels, pickup artists, and algorithm-driven radicalization, we unpack how online spaces are targeting young boys with messaging disguised as “self-improvement.” We talk about why this content is so effective, how social media algorithms fuel it, and why so many women instantly recognize the rhetoric when they see it. We also get real about what parents, partners, and even friends can do when someone they care about starts slipping into these toxic online spaces. This conversation isn’t about attacking men. It’s about recognizing manipulation, protecting young people, and creating healthier conversations around masculinity, relationships, and identity. Because this isn’t just internet drama anymore. It’s shaping real relationships, real beliefs, and an entire generation in real time. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 74 - We’ve Been Masturbating Wrong for Decades
Send us Fan Mail Shop Canada Shop USA Most of us figured out masturbation before we even understood our own bodies… and then never talked about it again. In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe For Brunch, we’re getting honest about masturbation, shame, midlife pleasure, body changes, stress relief, partner communication, and why so many women were never actually taught how to explore what feels good. We talk about: ✨ Why masturbation still feels “taboo” ✨ The shame many women grew up with ✨ Why your body changes over time ✨ How self-pleasure can improve intimacy ✨ Stress relief, nervous system regulation, and orgasms ✨ Why communication with partners matters ✨ Why pleasure is NOT selfish Plus… yes, we talk about the Womanizer 😆 👇 Tell us in the comments: What’s something nobody taught you about pleasure or your body? Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 73 - The Pink Pill vs. The Blue Pill: Why Women Had to Fight for Desire
Send us Fan Mail Take the HSDD quiz: https://addyi.com/quiz/ There’s a pill designed to help increase women’s sexual desire… and most people barely know it exists. This week on Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, Amber, Coralie, and Vicki dive into the story behind Addyi, often called “the pink pill,” and why its journey looked nothing like Viagra’s. We break down what HSDD actually is, how Addyi works differently from Viagra, the shocking approval process, and the double standards surrounding women’s sexual health. We also get real about antidepressants, libido loss, hormone therapy fear-mongering, and why women’s desire is still treated differently in medicine. This episode is funny, frustrating, eye-opening, and honestly? A little rage-inducing in the best way. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 72 - Why Sex Isn’t Just “Male or Female”
Send us Fan Mail We’re tackling a topic that gets people heated online—but we’re leaving the comment section energy out of it. In this episode, we break down what intersex actually means, why sex isn’t as simple as “male or female,” and how biology is way more complex than what most of us were taught growing up. We’re keeping it real, science-based, and easy to understand—because this conversation doesn’t need more confusion… it needs clarity. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 71 - Are Blue Balls Real? Sex Myths We Need to Unlearn
Send us Fan Mail What if most of what you learned about sex growing up was wrong? In this episode of Taboo Talks: Not Safe For Brunch , Amber, Coralie, and Vicki unpack the biggest sex myths many of us were taught through school, movies, magazines, religion, locker room talk, and pure misinformation. From the truth about “blue balls” to why painful sex is not something you should just accept, we’re breaking down outdated beliefs and replacing them with honest, empowering conversation. We also talk about poor sex education, pleasure gaps, men’s libido myths, women’s orgasms, masturbation shame, and why learning about sex often starts way later in life than it should. Because no... good sex is not supposed to be confusing, painful, or based on myths. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 70 - Can You Recycle Sex Toys? The Frustrating Truth
Send us Fan Mail What happens when your vibrator dies? Toss it in the garbage? Hide it in a drawer forever? Try to recycle it and hope nobody makes eye contact? For this Earth Day episode, we tackle a surprisingly frustrating question: how do you responsibly recycle sex toys? We dug into lithium batteries, e-waste programs, provincial differences across Canada, stigma, safety concerns, and why consumers are being asked to solve a problem manufacturers and systems haven’t caught up with yet. This episode is funny, honest, and way more important than it sounds. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 69 - Does the Green Stuff Help Sex… or Hurt It?
Send us Fan Mail Can a little relaxation help your love life… or ruin the mood completely? In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch , we’re diving into the plant everyone whispers about and asking the real questions. Can it help arousal, lower stress, improve connection, and make intimacy better? Or can it leave you distracted, dry, anxious, or asleep before anything starts? We’re talking dosage, strains, midlife libido, perimenopause, communication, and why no product or substance can fix relationship problems. If you’ve ever been curious, cautious, or wondering why so many women are experimenting with it now, this episode is for you. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 68 - Moving In Without an Agreement? Big Mistake
Send us Fan Mail FREE Digital Download: Prenup/Cohab Agreement Checklist Nothing kills the vibe faster than “we should talk about a prenup”… or does it? In this episode, we’re breaking down prenups and cohabitation agreements without the drama. Because let’s be real—love is great, but clarity is better. We’re talking about: What prenups and cohab agreements actually are Why they’re not a “breakup plan” The biggest myths that keep people avoiding them Real-life situations where NOT having one goes sideways And how to have the conversation without ruining your relationship Because being grownups in love sometimes means choosing paperwork over pretending vibes are legally binding. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
Episode: 67 - The Pressure to Perform is Killing Your Sex Life
Send us Fan Mail Have you ever been in the middle of sex and suddenly started overthinking everything? Am I taking too long? Do I look okay? Am I doing this right? Just like that… you’re out of the moment and stuck in your head. In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch , we’re talking about the pressure to perform in the bedroom, where it comes from, how it affects your body, and how to actually enjoy intimacy again. Because sex isn’t supposed to feel like an audition… it’s supposed to feel like connection. Support the show Connect with us! Sign up for our newsletter here Email us your questions or topic suggestions: notsafeforbrunch@gmail.com Follow us on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notsafeforbrunch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notsafeforbrunch/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@NotSafeforBrunch YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@NotSafeforBrunch
