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Send us Fan Mail Planning your wedding budget and wondering where to spend, where to save, and what’s actually worth it? In Part 2 of our special supplier interviews from The Hub Show, Paul and Rhian chat to wedding professionals about the decisions that can make a real difference to your big day. From wedding flowers and venue styling to mobile fizz bars, wedding entertainment and preserving your bouquet, we’re getting honest advice straight from the suppliers who know weddings best. In this episode, we discuss: 🌸 Wedding flowers & bouquet preservation: Is it worth preserving your wedding bouquet? How can you make your wedding flowers more affordable, and is Pinterest setting unrealistic expectations? 🏡 Wedding venues & styling: Do you need flowers on every table? Can DIY wedding decor look just as good as professional styling? And what should you consider when choosing a venue for your guest list? 🤵 Wedding suits & outfits: How important is it for the groom’s outfit to match the wedding theme, and are coordinated suits worth the investment? 🥂 Wedding drinks & mobile bars: Is a free bar really the best use of your budget? Could a fizz bar add that extra wow factor, even when your venue already provides drinks? 🎰 Wedding entertainment ideas: Are casino tables worth it for a smaller wedding? And what should you plan for that awkward gap between the wedding breakfast and the evening reception? Plus, we’re sharing listener Planning Panics, hilarious Wedding WTFs, and real-life wedding scenarios involving mismatched suits, fire alarms, signature cocktails and family members rearranging the wedding flowers! Whether you’re newly engaged, choosing your wedding suppliers or trying to make your wedding budget go further, this episode is full of practical ideas, honest opinions and things to think about before your big day. 🎧 Listen to Totally Absolutely Engaged wherever you get your podcasts. Have a wedding dilemma or a funny wedding story? Send it to us and we might feature it on a future episode! Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Wedding planning can feel overwhelming, so we’re bringing you honest advice straight from the people who know weddings best! 💍 In this special episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged , Paul and Rhian head to The Hub Show to chat with a brilliant line-up of wedding suppliers about the questions couples really want answered before their big day. 🎧 In this episode, we’re talking about: 🎵 Wedding DJs and music: Should your DJ stick to your do-not-play list, even if the dance floor is empty? How many songs should you give your DJ, and should you let them have some creative freedom? 💍 Personalised wedding ceremonies: Are personal vows better than traditional vows? How long should your ceremony be, and do you really have to write everything yourself if you book a celebrant? 🎤 Live wedding music: Does a live singer create a better atmosphere than a playlist? Can you have both a live singer and a DJ, and what happens if you and your partner have completely different music tastes? 🍫 Wedding favours and personal touches: We chat about personalised chocolate, edible wedding favours and how to make your details feel thoughtful without adding unnecessary stress. 🏰 Wedding venue planning: From menu deadlines and communication with your venue coordinator to backup plans and evening timings, we get into the practical details couples need to think about. As always, expect honest opinions, real supplier experiences, wedding dilemmas and a few laughs along the way. Whether you're newly engaged, planning your wedding reception or choosing your final suppliers, this episode is packed with advice to help you feel more confident about your decisions. Planning a wedding? Follow Totally Absolutely Engaged for honest wedding advice, trusted supplier conversations and the questions you might not have thought to ask. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Wedding dress shopping is meant to be exciting… but between budgets, family opinions, social media, alterations and suddenly questioning every decision you make, it can also feel VERY overwhelming. In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian are joined by Jez and Jacob, the directors of SayOui, a bridal boutique in Sandbach, Cheshire, to get the honest truth about what actually happens when you go wedding dress shopping. From why around 70% of brides arrive with a completely different dress in mind to the one they eventually choose, to whether you really should bring six people to your first appointment, Jez and Jacob share plenty of advice for brides who don't know where to start. We chat about: 👰 How to know which wedding dress style actually suits you 💷 What you should realistically budget for a wedding dress ✂️ Why wedding dress alterations can cost more than you expect 👠 When you actually need to choose your wedding shoes 🤍 What underwear you should wear to your bridal appointment 👯 How many people you should take wedding dress shopping 📱 Why social media can cause serious wedding dress FOMO ✨ What to do if you suddenly think you've chosen the wrong dress 💡 How bridal boutiques can help you stay within your budget 🎀 Customising and bespoke wedding dresses 🥂 Why smaller bridal appointments might actually be better 🚨 And some very relatable Wedding WTF moments from the bridal shop! Plus, we tackle listener dilemmas including falling in love with a dress that's £900 over budget, worrying you've chosen the wrong dress after seeing other gowns online, and bringing a whole crowd of opinions to your first bridal appointment. If you're wedding dress shopping or about to start this is one to save. Find SayOui at @sayoui.uk and online at sayoui.co.uk And don't forget to send us your wedding dilemmas and stories, we might answer yours on a future episode! Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail What does it REALLY take to be a wedding singer? This week, Paul and Rhian are joined by Tasha Bennett, a wedding singer, songwriter and former successful photographer who has built a huge following online and now has a diary that stretches years into the future. But being a wedding singer isn't just turning up, singing a few songs and going home. Tasha talks honestly about everything couples don't necessarily see, learning songs, preparing tracks, protecting her voice, travelling to weddings, dealing with song requests, managing enquiries and why booking a wedding singer isn't simply about the number of hours they spend performing. With over 850 songs in her repertoire, Tasha explains what she will and won't learn for couples, why she has had to put boundaries around new song requests, and why the songs that sound easy can sometimes be the hardest ones for a singer to perform. We also get into her journey from chasing a record deal and working in the music industry, to building a successful photography business, before eventually returning to singing, something she originally thought she'd never be able to make a living from. Plus: 🎤 How many songs does a wedding singer actually know? 🎶 Can you request ANY song for your wedding? 💷 Why wedding singers cost what they do 🫖 How singers actually look after their voices 📱 Why Tasha prefers WhatsApp voice notes to phone calls 👗 Why she doesn't want to look like every other wedding singer 💍 How far in advance should you book? 🎧 Why being yourself matters when choosing a wedding supplier 😂 The reality of performing when your voice is exhausted 🎵 Jazz, Spice Girls, 90s R&B and some very questionable song requests And, as always, we get the honest, unfiltered version of what it's really like working in the wedding industry. Follow her on Instagram/TikTok and Spotify @tashabennett Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Thinking about coming to The Hub Show? Here’s exactly what you can expect. In this special episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian go behind the scenes and talk through everything happening at the next Hub Show on Saturday 4th October, 12–3pm. With 27+ trusted wedding suppliers, free entry, free parking, food, drinks, entertainment, demonstrations, samples and plenty of advice, this isn’t your typical wedding fair. Paul and Rhian explain: 💍 Who will actually be there: From venues, photographers and florists to cake makers, makeup artists, hair stylists, DJs, singers, celebrants, bridal wear, jewellery and more. 🎁 What’s in the luxury gift bags: Including samples, exclusive supplier offers, an emergency kit, treats and even the chance to win a prize. 🥂 What happens when you arrive: Including prosecco, orange, registration and how the whole show is laid out. 💬 Why The Hub Show is different: There’s no pressure to hand over your details or be dragged around supplier stands. Come in, ask questions, take your time and get honest advice. 🎧 The live podcast: We will be recording at the show, with a post-show debrief coming too. 🍰 Food, cake samples and entertainment: Including coffee, noodles, sweets, cake samples, a singer, DJ and more. ✨ What you can actually get sorted in one afternoon and how to make the most of your time if you're seriously planning your wedding. Paul and Rhian also chat about how The Hub Show has grown from just six suppliers to more than 27, why they wanted to create a relaxed, non-pushy wedding event, and what couples can expect when they walk into the warehouse. Whether you're newly engaged, halfway through planning or just want to meet some genuinely helpful wedding suppliers, this episode gives you the full lowdown before you arrive. 📍 The Hub Show 📅 4th October ⏰ 12pm–3pm 🎟️ Free entry + free parking Register in advance for the chance to get one of the luxury gift bags or just turn up on the day! Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Wedding photography is about so much more than simply showing up for eight hours and taking a few pictures. In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Rhian are joined by Maddie Farris Photography, a Manchester-based wedding photographer known for her relaxed, natural approach and alternative wedding style. Maddie chats honestly about finding your people, why she doesn’t follow wedding trends too closely, and how couples can make sure their wedding day reflects who they actually are, rather than what they think a wedding should look like. We get into the questions couples really want to ask, including: 📸 Candid vs posed wedding photos, can you have both without spending the whole day taking pictures? 💍 Do you really need an engagement shoot? Who benefits from one, and when might it actually be worth doing? 🌧️ What happens if it rains on your wedding day? Why embracing the weather can sometimes create the best photos. 👰 How to handle a groom who hates having their photo taken, including Maddie's very honest approach! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family group photos, how to stop them taking 45 minutes because nobody knows where anyone is. 💷 Why wedding photographers cost what they do and why you’re paying for much more than the time they spend taking photos on the day. 🌅 First looks, sunset portraits and wedding-day timelines, what couples should consider before deciding how they want their photos captured. 🐶 Plus, we chat about dogs at weddings, content creators, twilight weddings, working alongside videographers and why finding a photographer whose personality matches yours can make such a difference. Maddy also shares why being upfront about who she is, from her interests to her alternative style, has helped her attract couples who genuinely feel like her people. Expect honest advice, a few controversial opinions, plenty of wedding dilemmas and a reminder that your wedding photos should feel like you. 🎧 Listen now and follow Totally Absolutely Engaged for more honest wedding advice, real supplier conversations and absolutely none of the wedding planning fluff. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Season 3 is officially here! And we're kicking things off with a proper catch-up with Paul and Rhian as we get to know our new co-host, settle into the brand-new set and dive straight into some very honest wedding opinions. In this episode, we're asking the questions engaged couples are actually thinking about: - Do you really need to invite everyone who invited you to their wedding? - Do you need a £30,000 wedding to have an amazing day? - Can Pinterest actually make wedding planning more stressful and more expensive? - Is your photographer one of the suppliers worth spending more money on? - Are wedding favours a waste of money? - Would you rather lose your first dance or your vows? - Should you have an unplugged ceremony? - And how do you stop your guest list spiralling out of control? Plus, we're introducing our brand-new Listener Dilemmas, Planning Panic and Wedding WTF segments, where we're tackling real wedding questions, planning problems and the things that have left recently married couples thinking... WTF?! We'll also reveal the first five things we'd tell a friend who got engaged tomorrow, including the one thing we think couples should sort BEFORE they start booking everything. Expect honest opinions, plenty of disagreements, questionable wedding traditions and advice from people who have actually been there. Real suppliers. Honest advice. No wedding planning fluff. This is Totally Absolutely Engaged. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Planning a wedding and wondering what you actually need, what’s worth spending your money on, and which wedding rules you can completely ignore? Welcome to Totally Absolutely Engaged! The wedding podcast for couples who want honest answers, real advice and none of the wedding planning fluff. From wedding insurance and budgets to bridesmaids, wedding guests, suppliers, traditions and everything in between, Paul & Rhian are here to tackle the questions couples are actually asking. Should you really get wedding insurance? How do you tell a bridesmaid she can’t bring her boyfriend? What happens if you hate your wedding photos? And who decided weddings had to cost this much?! Each episode, we chat to people who actually work in the wedding industry, including wedding photographers, florists, entertainers, venues, cake makers and other trusted wedding suppliers, to find out what couples really need to know before their big day. Expect honest opinions, behind-the-scenes stories, wedding planning tips, money-saving advice, wedding myths and plenty of laughs along the way. Because planning a wedding should be exciting, not overwhelming. Real suppliers. Honest advice. No wedding planning fluff. Your wedding. Your way. Listen to Totally Absolutely Engaged wherever you get your podcasts. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Does anyone actually eat the wedding cake? How much should you budget? And is fruitcake finally dead? 🍰 We are looking back on one of our favourite episodes of season 2, and we're joined by Cheshire wedding cake designer Rhian, who shares everything couples should know before booking their wedding cake. From choosing flavours your guests will actually eat to avoiding expensive mistakes, this episode is packed with honest advice, behind-the-scenes secrets and practical wedding planning tips. We discuss: Why couples should stop under-ordering wedding cake Wedding cake trends for 2026 & 2027 Buttercream vs fondant The biggest mistakes couples make How far in advance to book your cake Wedding cake budgets explained Why your wedding cake probably won't melt in summer Whether supermarket wedding cakes are worth it Why nobody wants fruitcake anymore The truth about saving your top tier If you're currently planning your wedding, this episode is full of useful advice that could save you money while helping you choose a cake your guests will actually remember. Subscribe to Totally Absolutely Engaged for weekly conversations with trusted wedding experts, honest supplier advice and practical planning tips. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail It's time for the final I Do or I Don't? episode, where the Totally Absolutely Engaged team give their brutally honest opinions on some of the biggest wedding planning debates. Would you wear a black wedding dress? Are weekday weddings actually worth it? Should children leave the dancefloor after 9pm? Is a champagne tower a must-have or a complete waste of money? This episode covers some of the most talked-about wedding trends of 2026, with plenty of laughs, disagreements and controversial takes along the way. In this episode we discuss: Black and coloured wedding dresses Weekday weddings vs weekend weddings Champagne towers Spending more on your dress than your honeymoon Dogs and pets as ring bearers Adults-only dancefloors after 9pm Asking guests not to wear certain colours Outfit changes during the reception Drone photography Private vows before the ceremony Sparkler exits Splitting wedding costs between families Eloping vs having a big wedding Whether you're newly engaged, halfway through planning your wedding, or simply love hearing different opinions from wedding professionals, this episode is packed with ideas that might just change your mind. 🎧 Subscribe for weekly wedding planning advice, real supplier insight and honest conversations from inside the UK wedding industry. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Planning your wedding flowers? In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're joined by Jen from Peony Rose Florist to answer the questions every engaged couple wants to know before booking their florist. From how much wedding flowers actually cost to choosing seasonal blooms, avoiding expensive trends and making the most of your budget, this episode is packed with honest advice that could save you money and help you get the look you've always wanted. Jen takes us behind the scenes of being a wedding florist, revealing everything that happens before your flowers arrive on the big day, from ordering and conditioning flowers to dealing with unpredictable British weather and creating bespoke floral designs that perfectly complement each couple. We also answer your listener questions, including whether DIY wedding flowers are worth it, how to maximise your floral budget, when to book your florist, which flowers photograph beautifully, and why trusting your wedding suppliers can make all the difference. If you're planning your wedding and want expert advice on bridal bouquets, buttonholes, ceremony flowers, table centrepieces and creating beautiful wedding flowers without overspending, this episode is a must-listen. In this episode: • How much should you budget for wedding flowers? • Why seasonal flowers save money • The biggest wedding flower mistakes couples make • Fresh vs artificial wedding flowers • Can you DIY your wedding flowers? • How to get the biggest impact from your floral budget • Why trends could end up costing you more Whether you're newly engaged or finalising your wedding plans, this episode will help you make informed decisions and get the most from your wedding florist. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged , we're joined by Lee from Henry D. Johnstone Jewellers, an award-winning family run jeweller known for helping couples find engagement rings, wedding rings and bespoke jewellery they'll treasure forever. We discuss: • How engagement ring shopping actually works • Lab-grown diamonds vs natural diamonds • Current engagement ring trends • Choosing the right wedding rings • Creating bespoke jewellery • How to get the most value from your budget • Expert advice for newly engaged couples If you're planning a proposal, shopping for wedding rings or simply looking for expert wedding advice, this episode is packed with insights to help you make confident decisions. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged , wedding professionals Paul, Isla and Esme are back with Part 2 of I Do or I Don't?, debating some of the biggest wedding trends couples are talking about right now. From first looks and destination weddings to personalised vows, unplugged ceremonies, matching bridesmaid dresses, signature cocktails and choreographed first dances, the team shares honest opinions, real wedding industry insight and practical advice for engaged couples planning their big day. Whether you're newly engaged, deep into wedding planning or simply looking for fresh wedding inspiration, this episode will help you decide which wedding traditions and modern trends are right for you. 🎙️ Topics covered: • First look wedding photos • Destination weddings • Unplugged ceremonies • Personalised wedding vows • Matching bridesmaid dresses • Choreographed first dances • Signature wedding cocktails • Modern wedding trends for 2026 If you're looking for wedding planning advice, wedding ideas and expert insights from experienced suppliers, this episode is for you. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Wedding awards are everywhere in the wedding industry but what do they actually mean for engaged couples? In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we're unpacking our experience at the latest wedding awards, discussing what goes on behind the scenes, what judges are really looking for, and whether awards should influence your supplier decisions. From industry recognition and supplier credibility to the realities of entering awards and what couples should focus on when choosing their wedding team, this is an honest conversation about one of the most talked-about topics in the wedding world. Whether you're newly engaged, planning your wedding, or currently searching for wedding suppliers, this episode will help you understand how wedding awards work and what really matters when booking the people who will bring your day to life. Topics covered: • Wedding industry awards explained • Are wedding awards important? • Choosing wedding suppliers • Award-winning wedding businesses • Wedding planning advice • What couples should look for when booking suppliers • Behind the scenes of wedding awards • UK wedding industry insights 🎧 Available wherever you listen to podcasts. 📲 Follow Totally Absolutely Engaged for weekly wedding planning advice, supplier insights and real wedding conversations. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged, Paul and Isla are joined by Matt and Joey from Dirtbag Entertainment and The Hustle to discuss everything couples need to know about wedding entertainment. From building one of the UK's most exciting alternative wedding entertainment companies to performing hundreds of weddings, Matt and Joey share their expert advice on choosing the right wedding band, creating an unforgettable wedding reception, and avoiding some of the biggest mistakes couples make when planning their big day. The conversation covers live music, wedding venues, sound limiters, venue curfews, alternative weddings, wedding trends, father-daughter dances, crowd surfing, mosh pits, and why your wedding should reflect you rather than everyone else's expectations. If you're currently planning your wedding and want to create an incredible atmosphere that your guests will talk about long after the day is over, this episode is packed with practical tips, honest opinions, and plenty of laughs. Topics covered: • Wedding bands vs DJs • Alternative wedding entertainment • Venue sound restrictions explained • How to choose the perfect wedding band • Wedding reception planning tips • Creating an unforgettable guest experience • Modern wedding trends • Wedding music advice • Live entertainment ideas • Wedding planning mistakes to avoid Totally Absolutely Engaged is the wedding planning podcast helping couples navigate the world of weddings with expert guests, honest conversations, and real-life advice from the industry's leading suppliers. Available wherever you listen to podcasts. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail This week on Totally Absolutely Engaged , Paul and Isla are joined by Pete and Philip, the brilliant duo behind Crazy Nine Golf, the multi-award winning wedding entertainment company transforming drinks receptions across the UK with their handcrafted mobile crazy golf course. From a chance conversation at a family gathering to becoming one of the most sought after wedding suppliers in the country, Pete and Philip share the incredible story behind Crazy Nine Golf, the secrets to creating unforgettable guest experiences, and why they've never had to cancel a wedding despite the unpredictable British weather. The conversation dives into: How Crazy Nine Golf was created What makes their wedding entertainment unique The importance of guest experience at weddings Funny wedding day stories and memorable moments Why crazy golf appeals to all ages Wedding planning advice from experienced suppliers How to keep guests entertained throughout the day The challenges of building a premium wedding business New obstacles and exciting developments coming to Crazy Nine Golf You'll also hear plenty of laughs, behind the scenes insights from hundreds of weddings, and practical tips for couples planning their big day. If you're looking for unique wedding entertainment ideas, planning a wedding in the UK, or simply love hearing stories from passionate wedding professionals, this episode is for you. ⭐ Follow the podcast for weekly episodes ⭐ Leave a review if you enjoy the show ⭐ Share with anyone planning their wedding Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Would you ban kids from your wedding? Should bridesmaids pay for their own dresses? And are wedding favours actually pointless? 👀 In this hilarious and brutally honest episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we’re joined by Esme from behind the scenes as we play “I Do or I Don’t” — the ultimate wedding debate game where we blind react to some of the most controversial wedding trends and traditions. From open bars and DIY weddings to videographers, plus ones, save the dates, wedding websites and live bands, nothing is off limits. Expect strong opinions, chaotic debates, wedding planning tips, supplier insights and plenty of laughs along the way. In this episode: ✨ Wedding playlists vs DJs reading the room ✨ Child-free weddings — rude or reasonable? ✨ Should bridesmaids pay for dresses? ✨ Open bars: dream wedding or total disaster? ✨ DIY weddings and wedding websites ✨ Videographer vs content creator ✨ Wedding favours, save the dates & bridesmaid proposals ✨ Cash gifts vs traditional wedding presents ✨ Suit hire for grooms and groomsmen Whether you’re newly engaged, planning your wedding, or work in the wedding industry, this episode is packed with relatable wedding chat, unpopular opinions and real talk from people who see weddings every single day. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify & Apple Podcasts 📺 Watch on YouTube 📲 Follow us on TikTok & Instagram: @totallyabsolutelyengaged Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail In this special bonus episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged , we dive into the business side of the wedding industry with Duane from County Brides — one of the North West’s most recognised wedding marketing platforms. Following on from our previous County Brides episode dedicated to engaged couples, this supplier-focused special is packed with honest advice, marketing strategies, wedding fair tips, networking insights, and industry truths for wedding professionals looking to grow in 2026 and beyond. Duane shares decades of experience from attending over 200 wedding fairs a year, running the famous County Brides Wedding Awards, and helping suppliers build visibility, bookings, and long-term success in an increasingly competitive wedding industry. In this episode, we discuss: ✨ Why too many venue open days could be damaging the wedding industry ✨ How wedding fairs should actually work for suppliers and venues ✨ The biggest wedding trends for 2026 including sage green, monochrome weddings & tropical colour palettes ✨ Why consistent marketing beats “being the best” ✨ The truth about supplier networking and referrals ✨ How to stand out as a new wedding business ✨ Why suppliers MUST ask for the booking ✨ The importance of LinkedIn, TikTok, YouTube & Google for wedding marketing ✨ County Brides Wedding Awards explained — and how finalists are chosen fairly ✨ Why visibility, consistency and relationships matter more than ever in the wedding industry Whether you're a wedding photographer, DJ, florist, venue stylist, content creator, celebrant, videographer, entertainment supplier, venue owner, or just starting your wedding business — this episode is full of practical advice, real industry insight, and honest conversations. If you work in the wedding industry in the North West or beyond, this is an episode you won’t want to miss. 🎧 Listen now and discover how to market smarter, network better, and grow your wedding business in 2026. Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged — the wedding podcast created specifically for engaged couples planning their big day 💍 This special BONUS episode follows on from our previous County Brides episode with wedding industry expert Duane, but this time we’re diving even deeper into advice specifically for brides, grooms, and newly engaged couples. If you're planning a wedding in the North West, chances are County Brides has already helped shape your wedding journey — from discovering suppliers and venues to helping couples understand how to plan a smooth, stress-free wedding day. In this episode, Duane shares: ✨ How to structure and timeline your wedding day ✨ The biggest wedding planning mistakes couples make ✨ Wedding entertainment ideas for every part of the day ✨ Speech tips, music advice & ceremony planning ✨ Why DIY weddings can become overwhelming ✨ Current wedding trends for 2026 ✨ Real wedding stories from over 40 years in the industry ✨ How to actually enjoy your wedding day instead of stressing through it We also discuss: Wedding fairs & supplier advice Budget expectations Wedding traditions that have disappeared Tips for making lasting memories Why communication with suppliers matters The importance of planning your wedding in stages Whether you're newly engaged, deep into wedding planning, or just looking for expert wedding advice, this episode is packed with practical tips, funny stories, and insider knowledge from one of the UK wedding industry's most experienced voices. 🎙️ Guest: Duane from County Brides 💒 Podcast: Totally Absolutely Engaged 📍 Wedding planning advice for engaged couples across the North West & beyond Produced by TAEPodcast - www.taepodcast.co.uk Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Unpacked, we sit down with wedding videographer Laura from Vision Wave Weddings to talk all things weddings, filming love stories, and the reality of working in the wedding industry. From starting out filming £400 weddings to capturing over 450 wedding days, Laura shares how she built her business, what really happens behind the scenes, and why wedding videography is so much more than just “content creation.” We also dive into: Wedding videographer horror stories The biggest wedding guest icks Why guests should NEVER wave at the camera Confetti disasters Content creators vs videographers Wedding regrets couples have after the big day Advice for brides and grooms planning their wedding Funny wedding supplier stories What makes a great wedding film If you're planning a wedding, work in the wedding industry, or just love hearing hilarious behind-the-scenes stories, this episode is packed with laughs, advice, and real wedding industry insights. 🎥 Guest: Laura – Vision Wave Weddings 🎙️ Podcast: Unpacked #WeddingPodcast #WeddingVideographer #WeddingPlanning #WeddingTips #WeddingIndustry #Videographer #WeddingContentCreator #BrideToBe #WeddingAdvice #VisionWaveWeddings Support the show Get social and follow us on I nstagram where you can get in touch with any questions https://www.instagram.com/totallyabsolutelyengaged/ Or check out our website https://www.totallyabsolutelyengaged.co.uk for blogs, contact information and more! Check out theaddedextra.co.uk or follow here https://www.instagram.com/theaddedextra?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Rhian here https://www.instagram.com/bake_a_licious_cheshire?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&stkn=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==