My Girl Life Podcast

Send us Fan Mail Some people spend years wondering why they never quite fit. Mylissa Leigh spent decades hiding it—until one devastating loss, one honest conversation, and one irreversible realization changed everything.Her story moves from a childhood of confusion and self-loathing to the first secret moments raiding her mother’s closet, the early internet chatrooms that gave her language, and the relationship that temporarily buried her identity for nearly 18 years. Then everything cracks open after her wife’s sudden death, and Melissa finally stops asking whether she is “just a crossdresser” and starts understanding what she has been carrying all along.Maddie Taylor and Melissa discuss gender dysphoria, suppression, transition, online communities, family acceptance, dating, confidence, mental health, and the courage it takes to stop pretending.This is a raw, honest episode about gender, reinvention, family, and what it costs to live as somebody you are not. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail What if “retiring” from cross-dressing is not really about stopping at all? Maddie Taylor tackles a question few people in the community say out loud - when the effort, energy, and emotional weight start to outweigh the reward, what do you actually do next? Maddie opens up about the realities that can quietly change everything: age, health, mobility, privacy, relationships, finances, and the simple fact that your motivations may look very different at 25 than they do at 55 or 65. If you’ve ever felt guilt about dressing less, wondered whether you are “giving up,” or felt pressure to keep doing it the same way forever, this conversation will hit home.You’ll discover: - Why the effort-to-reward ratio is the real question behind slowing down or stopping - How physical changes like stamina, pain, makeup time, heels, and body changes affect the experience - Why life circumstances like marriage, kids, caregiving, work, or losing privacy can force a reassessment - The emotional side of letting go of a feminine persona, memories, and community - Why a break, a shift, or a simpler routine may be healthier than an all-or-nothing decision Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail When a curious childhood habit is buried under years of guilt, religion, and fear, what finally sets it free? Michelle Kaytee shares the deeply personal story of how cross-dressing went from secret stockings as a kid to a full-bodied journey of self-acceptance, public outings, and a marriage that only got stronger because of it.Raised in a tiny, highly religious town in rural southeast Appalachia, Michelle grew up with almost no exposure to the outside world. That isolation shaped everything - including the shame she carried for decades - until one unexpected moment with her wife cracked the whole thing open and changed the course of their relationship forever.You'll discover: ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Would You Still Crossdress If Nobody Ever Saw You? It's a simple question, but the answer may reveal more about our motivations than we'd like to admit. In this deeply personal episode, Maddie explores our search for validation through compliments, passing, attention, social media, and the constant desire to be accepted. Why do likes and comments feel so good? When does validation become addictive? And what happens when we stop dressing for ourselves and start dressing for approval? Join Maddie for an honest conversation about self acceptance, authenticity, and discovering that the most important validation doesn't come from strangers, social media, or even other crossdressers. It comes from within. 🎙️ Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the truth about AI in social media—should you embrace the digital deception or stand for authenticity? In this candid, insightful conversation, Dr. Gwen Patrone and Maddie Taylor dissect the blurred lines between digital enhancement and genuine self-presentation. They reveal how AI is reshaping how we create, perceive, and validate images and personas in our online worlds—and why true authenticity might be more valuable than ever. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail You've heard the term "looksmaxxing" — but what if you've been doing it all along? In this episode, Maddie Taylor breaks down the universal pursuit of looking and feeling your best, and why the crossdressing and transgender community might just be the original looksmaxxers. From the pressure women carry to the double standard most men never see, she explores what it really means to optimize your appearance from both sides of the aisle. Plus, she gets honest about the attention factor, the slippery slope of procedures, and the one question you need to ask yourself before you go too far. Whether you're a skincare newbie or a seasoned queen, this one's for you. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail This episode explores the spectrum of partner acceptance in cross-dressing relationships, from resistance and tolerance to support and participation, and what each level feels like for both partners. Maddie shares honest, compassionate insight on loneliness, gratitude, communication, and the importance of being seen and loved at every stage of the journey, all while encouraging listeners to stay true to themselves and grow together with honesty and care. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Most of us overlook the profound power of AI for something we do every day—thinking. In this eye-opening episode, Maddie explores how AI can serve as a surprisingly effective thinking partner, offering more than just tools for writing or research. Discover how a simple chat with AI unexpectedly turned into a two-hour breakthrough moment, helping her face unprocessed grief and deepen her understanding of herself—something even traditional therapy couldn't achieve. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail This episode makes the case that male to female crossdressing can deepen empathy by giving the crossdresser firsthand insight into the pressure, preparation, and judgment women often face. Through personal reflection and relatable examples, it argues that “walking in her shoes” can make someone a more understanding partner, friend, and listener. It works because it taps into a universal emotional idea — empathy — and connects it to vivid lived experience, which makes the message feel both personal and persuasive. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail The real secret to confidently stepping out as your authentic self? It’s all about mastering three stages — and the unexpected mindset shifts that make each step easier. If public outings still feel daunting, or if you’re ready to embrace your identity fully and fearlessly, this episode is your ultimate guide. Maddie shares her personal journey from nervous first steps to total confidence, with proven strategies for navigating the world as a crossdresser or trans woman. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Join Kelli and Maddie as they explore vibrant living after 50, fueled by their dynamic chemistry and engaging banter. Dive into discussions on aging gracefully with style tips, mindset shifts, and the rejuvenating power of travel and concerts. Discover how community events and shared experiences among crossdressers and trans women create lasting connections. Perfect for anyone ready to break stereotypes and embrace a confident, fun-filled life. Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Most women spend a lifetime trying to hide the signs of aging — but what if the real power lies in embracing it? Maddie Taylor reveals how aging as a crossdresser or trans woman can be an extraordinary journey of confidence, authenticity, and sisterhood.In this heartfelt episode. Maddie shares her raw, personal insights on turning the wrinkles and sagging into symbols of wisdom and strength. You'll discover how shifting your mindset from trying to hide aging to celebrating it can unlock a deeper sense of femininity and self-love. Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Unlock the secret to commanding every room you enter—without relying on looks or glamour. Maddie reveals five powerful, practical steps to boost your feminine confidence and live authentically. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Karen Holmes' journey from a childhood in Washington D.C. to embracing her true self at age 53 is a testament to resilience, authenticity, and the power of patience. After decades of dressing in secret, she finally transitioned fully, revealing a story filled with emotional breakthroughs, hard-won wisdom, and unwavering bravery. TEDx TALK: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3wzFDdfJ8sc Karen's Book - 40 Years And Wandering No More: https://a.co/d/00GKHYrb ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Maddie's Patreon: www.patreon.com/maddietaylorcd Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail It’s a complex dance, isn't it? On one hand, there is this incredible liberation. Many sisters I talk to feel that starting crossdressing or transitioning later in life is actually easier because we finally know who the hell we are. We have the resilience that only comes from surviving life’s ups and downs. But on the other hand, the physical side of aging can feel like a ticking clock. Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Discover the inspiring story of Sidra Starr, a multifaceted individual who shares her unique path embracing her identity, passions, and lifestyle. This episode offers candid insights into gender expression, sexuality, the kink community, swinger lifestyle and the power of living your truth, all set against the rich backdrop of music and personal growth. ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Join Maddie Taylor as she chats with Gina Bigham, a pioneer in creating vibrant LGBTQ+ community events like Wildside. In this heartfelt conversation, Gina shares her personal journey through gender identity, the evolution of Wildside, and her vision for the future. This episode celebrates the resilience, community, and milestones of LGBTQ+ individuals navigating gender identity. Whether you're early in your journey or looking for inspiration to keep moving forward, Gina’s story offers hope and meaningful insights. Resources & Links: - Trans Lounge - Wild Side Eventbrite Page - Support Groups and Community Support Connect with Gina: - Trans Lounge.org - for support and resources - Follow Gina on social media platforms - https://www.facebook.com/WildSideWorldwide In this episode: - Gina’s early experiences with gender identity and childhood memories in San Francisco - The significance of Wild Side in building confidence and community for trans and gender non-conforming people - The emotional impact of supporting others and breaking down stereotypes within the LGBTQ+ community - The story behind the creation of Wild Side and how it grew into a major event - Personal challenges including gender dysphoria, purges, and transitioning in a time before widespread awareness and resources - How community support and visibility help facilitate self-acceptance and resilience - The importance of authentic self-expression and living true to oneself at any age - Future plans for Wild Side and the role of community in creating safe spaces ______________________________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: / mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #transitiontips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Join Maddie Taylor and Kelli Perry as they share personal stories, dating, socializing, cruising (not that kind of cruising ;-), discuss community events, and explore confidence and authenticity in this lively conversation. From travel adventures to legal encounters, this episode offers insights into living unapologetically and building supportive networks. ___________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #TransitionTips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Join Maddie Taylor in this vibrant episode as she welcomes Maria Konner tells all—dressing, dating, kink, sex and musical...oh and a very talented musician, writer, and performer. Her journey through gender expression, artistic pursuit, and personal empowerment unfolds through candid stories and philosophical insights. Discover how embracing authenticity can fuel creativity and transform lives. ___________________________________________________ ***If this conversation resonated with you, please subscribe, like the episode, and share it with someone who might need to hear it. Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mygirlife Email: mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #TransitionTips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com

Send us Fan Mail Most people underestimate the complexity—and the beauty—of embracing your true gender identity. Alicia Mullins shares her raw, heartfelt journey from childhood to full womanhood, revealing how her challenging background, early signs of gender dysphoria, and societal pressures shaped her path. Discover the powerful moments that led her to finally embrace herself fully, including the surprising ease and struggles of presenting authentically in her day-to-day life.You'll learn about the signs Alicia saw early on, what it feels like to experience gender euphoria, and how her transition influenced her relationships, faith, and social life. Keystone 2026 Workshop March 20th at 1:30 pm Agenda: 1. Background - Where did you grow up? - Tell me what your childhood was like - Where do you live currently? - In a relationship? - Kids? - Work? - Dressing or Transitioning? (part-time, full-time) - Are you out at any level? 2. Tell me about when you started dressing 1. Age 2. Where 3. What articles of clothing & who's were they 4. Ever get caught? Tell me about that 5. How often 6. Any gaps between first few times and later in life 7. Did you dressing interests change over time 3. Do you know why do you dress? (can be influenced by personal, social, psychological, and cultural factors) If yes, would you care to share what you've learned 1. Autogynephilia (derived from Greek for "love of oneself as a woman") is a term coined by Blanchard for "a male's propensity to be sexually aroused by the thought of himself as a female" 2. Gender Dysphoria 3. Gender Fluidity 4. Artistic & creativity expression 5. Attention or entertainment (extrovert) 6. Only way to socialize (introvert) 7. A way to connect with a gender that interests you 8. Don't know why 4. Do you want to know why you dress? 5. Social Life 1. Do you go out in public or just online or both 1. LGBTQ establishments Only (what's that like for you) 2. Mainstream establishments (what's that like for you) 1. Local or only out of town 2. How do you feel when mainstream people clock you? (explain getting clocked) 3. Have you ever been misgendered (if yes, how do you respond?) 4. Which bathroom do you use 5. Any bad experiences in a mainstream establishments? 6. The Future 1. What do you think the future looks like for you 2. If you could wave a magic wand what would your life look like with regard to your dressing or transition _________________________________________________________ Website: www.MyGirlLifePodcast.com Instagram: @mygirllifepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mygirlife Email:mygirllifepodcast@gmail.com #Crossdresser#CrossdressingLife#GenderExpression#GenderNonConforming#TransCommunity#TransVoices#TransWomen#TransExperience#GenderDiversity#LGBTQVoices#RealLifeStories#PersonalGrowth#EmpathyMatters#SeeingDifferently#authenticliving #Crossdressing #transgenderwoman #MyGirlLife #GenderJourney #TransitionTips Support the show Check out www.mygirllife.com Write to Maddie at MyGirlLifePodcast@gmail.com