The Amicable Divorce Network Podcast

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with Joerika Stitt , Illinois-based attorney, certified mediator, and collaborative divorce professional, for one of the most honest conversations we've had about what traditional litigation actually does to families and why there is a better way. Joerika brings a perspective that is truly one of a kind. Before becoming a lawyer, she spent nearly a decade as a psychiatric social worker. She then built her legal career at Prairie State Legal Services doing legal aid work for domestic violence survivors. And then she went through a decade-long divorce herself. She has seen this system from every possible angle, and what she has to say about it will stop you in your tracks. In this episode you'll learn: Why Joerika's own divorce lasted 10 years — and what she wishes she had known going in How the court system is structurally designed to be adversarial, and why that is actively harmful to families What a "status hearing" actually is, why you keep having them, and why your lawyer bills you every single time How lawyers can — intentionally or not — create and escalate conflict between parties Why even "winning" in court often leaves clients emotionally and financially depleted The real timeline and cost difference between a litigated divorce and an out-of-court process Why AI-generated divorce agreements almost never hold up in court What limited scope representation is and how it can help if you can't afford full representation 💻 Work with Joerika at joerika.com 🌐 Find Joerika and other vetted Illinois professionals at amicabledivorcenetwork.com 🌐 Check your state's divorce waiting period at divorceamicably.com 📧 Connect with ADN directly at info@amicabledivorcenetwork.com 👉 If this episode opened your eyes, share it with someone who thinks court is their only option. It might be the most important thing you send them.

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with ADN board member, coaching chair, and certified life coach Nicole Comis for an honest, hopeful conversation about what comes after divorce — and how to stop reacting to life and start intentionally creating it. Nicole works with people at every stage of the divorce journey, but her real passion is helping people on the other side — the ones who have made it through and are now asking the question nobody prepared them for: who am I now, and what do I actually want? This is one of the most human episodes we've recorded. If you're feeling stuck, scared, resentful, or just not sure what's next — this one is for you. In this episode you'll learn: Why forgiveness is not about the other person — it's about freeing yourself How "marinating" in anger and resentment keeps you in partnership with your pain instead of your future The difference between a life coach, divorce coach, health coach, and business coach — and which one you actually need Why the best decisions in divorce come from vision and values, not fear and scarcity The Whole 30 mindset lesson that will change how you think about your divorce journey How to identify the "negative advocates" in your life — even when they love you deeply Why simply making one phone call to a coach could change everything 💻 Work with Nicole at nicolecomis.com — free discovery sessions available 🌐 Find Nicole and other vetted coaches at amicabledivorcenetwork.com 🌐 Divorce resources for clients at divorceamicably.com 👉 If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that their best chapter hasn't been written yet.

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with ADN board member, amicable ambassador, and certified family law paralegal Cassi Brown for a candid, practical conversation about what really goes on behind the scenes of your divorce case and exactly what you can do to make the process smoother, faster, and less expensive. Cassi brings seven and a half years of strictly family law paralegal experience to the table, and she's seen it all. The banker's box dumped on the desk, the client who posts vacation photos while claiming financial hardship, and the 20 phone calls a week that have nothing to do with the case. She's sharing her top five tips so you don't have to learn the hard way. Find Cassi Brown in the ADN Member Directory under Georgia at amicabledivorcenetwork.com Know someone going through a divorce who needs to hear this? Share this episode!

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with Chloe Oudiz , divorce coach, founder of Divorce Differently , and ADN Amicable Award winner, for a conversation that most people never think to have. Should you tell your employer you're going through a divorce? It sounds simple, but the answer is more nuanced than you might think. Chloe breaks down the stigma, the statistics, and the very real professional risks of staying silent and gives practical, thoughtful guidance on how to navigate this conversation with confidence. Work with Chloe at divorcewithchloe.com and book a free consultation call🌐 Find an amicable divorce professional near you at amicabledivorcenetwork.com 🌐 Divorce resources for clients at divorceamicably.com

In this powerful episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry , high conflict divorce strategists and founders of Been There Got Out , to discuss their new book When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You — and the very real, very painful issue of parental alienation . Lisa and Chris work daily with clients they describe as battling their own personal terrorists through the family law system — and in this conversation, they pull back the curtain on what alienation actually looks like, how it starts, and what parents can do to protect their children and themselves. 💻 Find Lisa & Chris at beentheregotout.com | 📧 lisa@beentheregotout.com | chris@beentheregotout.com 📚 When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You — available on Amazon 🌐 Find an amicable divorce professional near you at amicabledivorcenetwork.com

Can EMDR Therapy Help You Heal Through Divorce? In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with licensed clinical social worker and mediator Will Smith of the Atlanta Marriage and Mediation Clinic to explore one of our most-read blog topics ever EMDR therapy and its powerful role in divorce recovery. Will breaks down what Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) actually is, how it works with your nervous system, and why it may be one of the most effective tools available for people stuck in grief, anger, or trauma during or after divorce. He shares a compelling real-life success story and explains the difference between "Big T" and "Little T" trauma and why both matter in the divorce process. In this episode you'll learn: What EMDR is and how the light bar therapy works Why divorce can be a form of trauma (even without violence) How EMDR helps "unstick" painful memories so you can think clearly and move forward How many sessions to expect and what to look for in a qualified EMDR therapist How co-mediation and flat-rate divorce packages are changing the game for amicable divorces 💻 Find Will Smith at atlmmc.com or atlantaemdr.org | 📞 770-421-5271 🌐 Find an amicable divorce professional near you at amicabledivorcenetwork.com 👉 If this episode helped you, share it with someone navigating divorce. You are not alone.

In this episode, host Tracy Moore Grant sits down with family law attorney Hannah Hembree Bell to discuss the intricacies of navigating divorce, with a special focus on empowering women. ✨ What You’ll Learn: Hannah’s inspiring journey into family law The critical importance of financial independence during divorce Emotional challenges and practical advice for women considering divorce Common pitfalls to avoid and tips for preparing for life after divorce Hannah shares invaluable insights from her personal experiences and offers essential resources to support women throughout this journey. For more empowering content and resources, follow us on Instagram: @divorceamicably . 💬 Join the conversation and take the first step towards an amicable divorce!

Divorce isn’t just emotional, it’s financial. And the decisions made during this transition can impact your future for decades. In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast , host Tracy Moore-Grant sits down with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® Michelle Muhammed to unpack the critical financial choices couples face during divorce — and the costly mistakes many people don’t realize they’re making. They discuss: • Why hiring a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) can dramatically change outcomes• Common misconceptions about dividing retirement accounts, real estate, and investment assets• The hidden long-term risks of DIY divorces and rushed settlements• Why “50/50” doesn’t always mean equal — or financially smart• How an amicable approach can protect both parties’ long-term financial stability Michelle shares practical insights on evaluating settlement options, avoiding common financial traps, and making informed decisions that align with your future goals — not just short-term emotions. Whether you are navigating divorce personally or professionally, this episode offers essential guidance on protecting your financial future and making confident, informed choices. 🎧 Subscribe to the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast for expert conversations on navigating divorce with clarity, strategy, and dignity. 📲 Follow @divorceamicably on Instagram for resources, education, and insights on amicable divorce and life beyond it.

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast , host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with intimacy coach Jen MG for an honest, thoughtful conversation about intimacy during—and after—divorce. Together, they explore how aging, evolving desires, emotional shifts, and life transitions can reshape intimacy in ways many people aren’t prepared for. Jen shares why self-reflection and honest communication are essential, especially for individuals redefining themselves after divorce, and offers practical guidance for rebuilding intimacy with clarity, confidence, and intention. Whether you’re navigating divorce, supporting clients through it, or reimagining connection in a new chapter of life, this episode offers grounded insight and compassionate perspective on creating fulfilling relationships post-divorce. 🎧 Subscribe and follow the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast for more expert conversations on navigating divorce with clarity and dignity. 📲 Follow @divorceamicably on Instagram for education, resources, and real-world guidance on amicable divorce and life beyond it.

In the first episode of Season 3 of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant speaks with co-parenting coach Jay Skibbens about the complexities of co-parenting after divorce. They discuss the emotional challenges faced by parents, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for child-focused decision-making. Jay shares his personal journey and insights on navigating co-parenting dynamics, emphasizing the significance of understanding emotions and expectations. The conversation also touches on the impact of labels like 'narcissism' in co-parenting relationships and offers practical tips for managing triggers and fostering healthier communication. You can find more from Jay on IG: @jayskibbens And more from ADN: @divorceamicably

In this episode, host Tracy Moore-Grant and guest Suzanne Winlove-Smith discuss the final chapter of the Divorce Amicably book, focusing on closure and healing after divorce. They explore the emotional trauma associated with divorce, the importance of seeking help, and the transition from a shared identity to an individual one. Suzanne shares insights on managing emotional triggers, the grieving process, and practical tips for transforming negative energy into positive action. The conversation emphasizes the need for support, planning for the future, and modeling healthy behavior for children during and after divorce. If you're navigating the emotional chaos of divorce and ready to step into a more grounded and empowered version of yourself, Suzanne can help. Based in Canada – working internationally www.thecleandivorce.com Free consultation available on her website Check out her Divorce Journal for just $10 – a step-by-step tool to process pain and accelerate healing.

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, Tracy Moore-Grant and Stephanie Robins discuss the journey of moving forward after divorce. They explore the emotional challenges faced during and after the divorce process, emphasizing the importance of embracing emotions, rediscovering passions, and setting healthy boundaries. The conversation highlights the significance of building a support system and embracing the unknown as individuals navigate their new lives post-divorce. The episode concludes with a focus on celebrating personal growth and the opportunities that arise from the end of a marriage. Connect with Stephanie: www.alpharettafamilytherapy.com Call/Text: 404-849-5505 Based in Alpharetta, GA (offering in-person and virtual sessions)

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, Tracy speaks with Andrew Hatherley, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and host of The Gray Divorce Podcast . Together, they discuss Chapter 76 of Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution — focusing on how to rebuild your financial life after divorce. Andrew shares both personal and professional insight into the financial realities many face post-divorce. From organizing accounts and dividing retirement plans to estate planning and budgeting for the future, this episode offers practical steps to help individuals regain control and move forward with clarity. Connect with Andrew Hatherly: Website: www.transcendretirement.net Email: andrew@wiserdivorcesolutions.com Podcast: The Gray Divorce Podcast Find him in the Amicable Divorce Network directory. Learn more at: www.amicabledivorcenetwork.com www.divorceamicably.com

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with seasoned appraiser Mike Congemi, SRA, to uncover what divorcing homeowners really need to know about the valuation of their marital property. Mike explains the critical differences between tax assessments and appraisals , why Zillow is never a reliable valuation tool , and how emotions can often cloud judgment when dividing one of the most valuable assets in a divorce: the family home. Whether you’re trying to divide real estate amicably, preparing for court, or simply want to understand your options, this episode offers practical and professional insight to help you protect your financial future. Mike is based in Georgia and provides expert residential appraisals for divorce, probate, estate planning, and more. 🌐 Visit: www.CongemiAppraisalGroup.com 📧 Email: mike@congemiappraisalgroup.com 📍 Service Area: Georgia (and referral connections nationwide) 📘 Want more insights like this? Grab your copy of Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution on Amazon—featuring chapters by top professionals like Mike. Learn more at:🔗 www.divorceamicably.com 🔗 www.amicabledivorcenetwork.com

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast , host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant is joined by Las Vegas-based attorney and holistic family law practitioner Dara Marias , author of Chapter 70 in the book Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution . Together, they dive into what it truly means to prioritize your children during and after divorce. From modeling emotional intelligence to creating consistent routines and shifting into a business-style relationship with your co-parent, Dara shares tangible, compassionate strategies to help parents reduce conflict, strengthen communication, and raise resilient, emotionally secure children. Whether you're in the thick of custody discussions or simply want to co-parent more effectively, this episode offers actionable advice to help you center your children—and your values—through it all. Want to connect with Dara Marias? Visit: https://daramariaslaw.com Email: contact@daramariaslaw.com

Navigating a divorce is never easy—but trying to co-parent with someone who actively undermines or antagonizes you can feel impossible. In Chapter 72 of Divorce Amicably , holistic family law attorney and Amicable Ambassador Dara Marias brings a powerful reminder: “You don’t need a cooperative co-parent to have an amicable divorce. You just need an ecosystem of professionals who are.” In this episode, host Tracy Moore-Grant and Dara discuss how to stay calm, centered, and child-focused—even when the other parent is anything but. Dara practices with Kainen Law Group in Las Vegas. 📍 Las Vegas, Nevada 📧 Email: Dara@kainenlawgroup.com 📞 Phone: (702) 823-4900 📲 Instagram: @nv_holistic_divorce

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, Tracy discusses the complexities of taxes in divorce with tax expert Jason Wiggam. They cover essential topics such as tax filing status after divorce, the implications of alimony and child support, property transfers, capital gains, and the importance of professional tax advice. They emphasize the need for individuals going through divorce to understand the tax consequences of their decisions and to seek expert guidance to navigate these challenges effectively. Jason Wiggam is an experienced tax attorney and founder of Wiggam Law in Atlanta, Georgia. He specializes in helping clients resolve tax issues with the IRS and state agencies. Contact Jason at: Phone: 404-233-9800 Website: www.wiggamlaw.com 📚 Find him in Chapter 64 of Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution

In this episode, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant discusses the intricacies of drafting a good settlement agreement with attorney Kathryn Harry. They cover essential topics such as the importance of specificity in agreements, the legal requirements for child support, tax considerations in divorce settlements, and the role of Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs) in dividing retirement accounts. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of legal advice to ensure that agreements are clear, enforceable, and protect the interests of both parties. How to Work with Kathryn Harry If you’re divorcing in Illinois or Georgia , Kathryn can help you prepare a detailed, enforceable, and fair settlement agreement—and make sure your QDRO and financial documents are handled properly. 📍 Website: https://www.oakbrooklaw.com 📞 Georgia Office: 678-208-9200 📞 Illinois Office: 630-472-9700 👤 Real humans answer the phone—Kathryn’s long-time assistant is always ready to help. Kathryn’s tips appear in: Chapters 62 and 63 of the Amazon bestselling book: 👉 Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution Available now on Amazon in paperback, hardback, and Kindle. You can also find Kathryn and other vetted professionals at: 🌐 AmicableDivorceNetwork.com 🌐 DivorceAmicably.com 📚 Want to Learn More?

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant discusses the role of the marital balance sheet in divorce proceedings with attorney Traci Weiss. They explore the importance of accurate financial disclosure, the organization of financial information, and the impact of valuation dates. The conversation emphasizes the need for transparency and trust between parties, the role of financial experts, and the complexities involved in navigating financial situations during divorce. The episode concludes with practical tips for ensuring clarity and accuracy in financial documentation. If you’re in Georgia and seeking an experienced, resolution-minded attorney or guardian ad litem, Traci A. Weiss is a trusted name in amicable divorce. Her practice, Weiss Family Law , is based in Atlanta. 📍 Website: www.weissfamilylaw.com 📧 You’ll find her contact info and services available directly on the site. Traci is also a proud member of the Amicable Divorce Network , where clients can benefit from a team of collaborative professionals all working toward the same goal: peaceful, efficient, child-centered divorce. This episode is based on Chapter 50 of the book Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution , authored by members of the Amicable Divorce Network. It’s a must-read for anyone going through divorce—whether you’ve already filed or you’re just beginning to explore your options. 📚 Get the book: Available in hardcover , paperback , and Kindle on Amazon. 👉 Buy it here on Amazon (No judgment—we even offer discreet delivery.) Follow along with the podcast series as each chapter is brought to life in conversation with the experts who wrote them. And if you’re ready to stop the chaos and start your amicable path forward, visit www.AmicableDivorceNetwork.com to get matched with a professional today.

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, host Tracy Moore-Grant speaks with realtor Morgan Fulcher about the intersection of real estate and divorce. They discuss the importance of using professionals who specialize in divorce, the emotional complexities involved in selling a home during this time, and the challenges faced in the current real estate market. Morgan shares her experiences and insights on how to navigate these transactions smoothly, emphasizing the need for clear communication and neutrality in dealing with clients. 📞 Want to Work with Morgan Fulcher? ✅ Morgan is a vetted member of the Amicable Divorce Network and works with clients in Barrow, Jackson, Walton, and surrounding counties in Georgia. 📱 Call or text her directly: 678-446-6564 🌐 Or visit DivorceAmicably.com or AmicableDivorceNetwork.com and search for Morgan Fulcher to view her full profile and contact details. 🧭 For more episodes and resources, subscribe to the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast or explore our book Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution . 🎧 Available wherever you listen to podcasts.