Wear Who You Are

Finding a great tailor can completely change the way you shop—and the way you feel in your clothes. In this episode, Natalie is joined by two of her trusted style friends, Nick, a third-generation tailor and founder of Beyond Bespoke, and Stacie, who oversees client experience and operations. Together, they pull back the curtain on the world of tailoring, from the difference between a dry cleaner's alterations and custom tailoring to what to look for when searching for someone you can truly trust. You'll also learn what terms like bespoke, made-to-measure, and custom actually mean, why tailoring is worth the investment, and how finding the right tailor can help you buy better, buy less, and wear your clothes longer. Nick and Stacie will be back throughout the season to answer more of your tailoring questions, so consider this your introduction to two of Natalie's favorite experts. Episode Notes & Resources: Follow Beyond Bespoke on Instagram for tailoring tips or visit their website to schedule an appointment. Mention this podcast to get 10% off at Beyond Bespoke Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode Join BU Style Circle online membership for more of Natalie’s style resources, live Q&As, and more. Use code BUCIRCLE for one month off your subscription. Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Is there still a dress code for Broadway, the West End, or live theater? Officially, no. Unofficially? Natalie has some very (very) strong thoughts. As a personal stylist, lifelong theater lover, and Broadway co-producer/investor, she shares her take on what to wear, why she still believes dressing for the theater is part of the experience, and how to strike the balance between comfortable, polished, and authentically you. Episode Notes & Resources: Need help with smart casual options, see my denim and core’drobe shopping guides Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode Join BU Style Circle online membership for more of Natalie’s style resources, live Q&As, and more. Use code BUCIRCLE for one month off your subscription Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

I love a good packing strategy. But sometimes, when you've traveled enough, you forget the little things—the questions you no longer think to ask and the lessons that have become second nature. After returning from Europe together, I loved hearing my niece Ashley reflect on her very first trip abroad. What was she so glad she packed? What never left the suitcase? What would she do differently next time? How did she approach shopping in Europe? And what surprised her most about the realities of international travel? Ashley had such thoughtful takeaways and learned so much from the experience that I knew you, as a listener, would enjoy hearing them, too. Whether you're planning your own European adventure or simply love a good post-trip debrief, this conversation is full of practical tips, honest reflections, and the kinds of observations that seasoned travelers often forget to mention. Episode Notes & Resources: Get the BU Style packing guide for Nat’s packing tips. Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode Join BU Style Circle online membership for more of Natalie’s style resources, live Q&As, and more. Use code BUCIRCLE for one month off your subscription. Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Feeling stuck defaulting to the same cardigan or blazer? In this Nat Chat, Natalie shares fresh, practical ways to layer your outfits without losing your style. From button-downs worn open to shirt dresses as dusters, vests for dimension, and creative scarf styling, this episode is all about rethinking pieces you already own—and using them in more interesting ways. Episode Notes & Resources: See Allison’s Style Strategy for creative styling tips. Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode Join BU Style Circle online membership for more of Natalie’s style resources, live Q&As, and more. Use code BUCIRCLE for one month off your subscription. Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Clothing prices are up—and yes, it’s frustrating. In this Nat Chat, Natalie gets honest about the reality of rising costs and how we navigate it together. While we can’t control pricing, we can pivot. She breaks down how to spot quality (fabric, construction, finishing details) and where she’s currently finding strong options that don’t require the same old go-to brands. Practical, real-time guidance for shopping smarter right now. Editor's Note: This episode was recorded before Everlane was acquired by Shein. References to Everlane reflect Natalie's opinions at the time of recording and do not represent her current views on the brand's quality or ethics. Episode Notes & Resources: Listen to episode 41 , “How Do I Find Affordable, Ethical Clothing?” Follow Andrea Cheong on Instagram for up-to-date quality reports Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode Join BU Style Circle online membership for more of Natalie’s style resources, live Q&As, and more. Use code BUCIRCLE for one month off your subscription. Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Fabrics can make or break how your clothes look, feel, and function. In this guest episode, Natalie sits down with Wear Who You Are style friend Farida Raafat of DALYA to break down natural vs. synthetic fibers, when blends actually work in your favor, and how to think about seasonality. Plus, a deep dive into why wool might be the most underrated fabric in your wardrobe (yes, even year-round), what those “Super 120s” labels really mean, and how to navigate linen without the wrinkling frustration. Episode Notes & Resources: Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode Join BU Style Circle online membership for more of Natalie’s style resources, live Q&As, and more. Use code BUCIRCLE for one month off your subscription. Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Planning a Europe trip and tempted to buy brand-new “walking shoes”? Pause. Straight off a trip to Europe with her niece, Natalie shares how to stay comfortable and avoid the stereotypical tourist look. From why those bulky new sneakers aren’t the move to what actually works on the ground, this episode helps you travel with intention—and still feel like yourself. Episode Notes & Resources: See the BU Style Shoe Guide to help give you inspiration Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode Join BU Style Circle online membership for more of Natalie’s style resources, live Q&As, and more. Use code BUCIRCLE for one month off your subscription Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Feeling like everyone suddenly looks the same? You’re not imagining it. In this Nat Chat, Natalie breaks down why algorithms are shaping our style more than we think—and how to break out of the cycle. From rethinking influence to building a wardrobe rooted in personal history, favorite brands, and signature pieces, this episode is your reset for creating a style that actually feels like you (and not the internet). Episode Notes & Resources: Revisit episode 3 , “Inspiration vs. Aspiration” Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode Join BU Style Circle online membership for more of Natalie’s style resources, live Q&As, and more. Use code BUCIRCLE for one month off your subscription. Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Summer work style comes with a unique challenge: it’s sweltering outside and freezing inside—and you still need to look polished. In this episode, Natalie is joined by custom womenswear designer Farida Raafat to answer your real questions about what actually works for summer office dressing. From navigating temperature swings and summer suiting to exploring color (even if you’re hesitant) and yes, whether black still has a place, this is a practical conversation to help you get dressed with more ease, intention, and alignment this season. Episode Notes & Resources: Follow DALYA on Instagram and visit the website to create your summer custom clothing Get my Dress for Your Day guide to help you make practical and thoughtful decisions when getting ready every morning. Submit style questions you’d like answered in a future Wear Who You Are episode. Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Starting a new role and tempted to buy an entirely new wardrobe overnight? Take a breath. Natalie breaks down what actually matters, what to buy first, and how to build a professional wardrobe that fits your environment and still feels like you. Episode Notes & Resources: Read more on our website: "How to Navigate Dress Codes at the Office: A Personal Stylist’s Guide" Sign up for the BU Style monthly newsletter to get more style tips straight to your inbox. (I promise, we don't spam you every day . . . or even every week!) Submit your style questions to be answered in a future Nat Chat Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

How much should you really budget for spring workwear? Natalie gives you tips on how to create a plan that works for you. We'll walk through a real scenario using the cost per wear and the Strategic Shopping List framework to help you spend intentionally, prioritize what matters, and avoid chaotic seasonal shopping this spring. Episode Notes & Resources: Revisit episode 32 of Wear Who You Are: "How to Calculate Cost Per Wear to Shop Smarter" Read more on "How to Apply the Cost Per Wear Formula" Join BU Style Circle to get your own Strategic Shopping List tool and size guide along with other useful resources for your style journey. Submit your style questions to be answered in a future Nat Chat Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Every list says you need a white button-down. Natalie says: not necessarily. In this episode, she shares versatile alternatives to wear under blazers and other layers . . . or solo, so your workwear foundation actually reflects your personal style while aligning to the dress expectations Episode Notes & Resources: Check out our 'Core'drobe Style Guide to help you create your own unique wardrobe foundation Join BU Style Circle to get more style resources, live Q&A sessions with Natalie, and more Submit your style questions to be answered in a future Nat Chat Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Looking polished doesn’t have to mean spending more. In this episode, Natalie breaks down how to look luxe on a budget—from fit and fabric to finishing details—and why intention (not price) is what actually elevates your style. Episode Notes & Resources: Revisit episode 11 of Wear Who You Are: "What's the Deal with 'French Chic'?" Visit BU Style's Wardrobe Care Heroes catalog for tools to keep you looking polished, no matter how long you've had an item Join BU Style Circle to get more style resources, live Q&A sessions with Natalie, and more Submit your style questions to be answered in a future Nat Chat Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

We need to talk about fitting rooms. Not the lighting (okay, maybe a little), but what actually happens inside—the habits, the hang-ups, the helpful tips, and the unspoken rules that no one teaches you. In this episode, we’re pulling together insights from both sides of the dressing room door. You’ll hear what sales associates wish shoppers would stop doing, what most of us are guilty of (yep, even stylists), and the five key things I teach clients to make the fitting room a more empowering experience. Because trying clothes on shouldn’t feel like a test—it should feel like a tool for discovery. Let’s make it work for you. Resources: —Join the BU Style Circle to get access to our curated shopping guides, exclusive resources, and more. Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Personal stylists are more visible than ever—but if you’ve never worked with one, you might be wondering: Is it worth it? Is it only for celebrities or fashion people? Will someone really get my style—or just try to make me over? In this episode, Natalie breaks down what personal styling actually is (and isn’t), how to know if you’re ready, and how to find a stylist who’s the right fit for you . She walks through common industry terms (hello, fashion stylist, image consultant, and personal shopper), red and green flags when researching stylists, and listener-submitted questions about budget, virtual services, and what to expect from the process. Whether you’re curious, cautious, or already style-committed, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and informed. Resources: — Free Spring/Summer Layering Guide : tips, picks, and strategies to layer smartly this season — Instagram Giveaway: Win a Year of BU Style Circle : follow BU Style, like the giveaway post, and tag two friends to enter! Ends May 25; winner announced May 30 — Join the BU Style Circle : the membership for real-world wardrobe strategy, community Q&As, exclusive guides & more Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

This episode is as engaging as it is educational . I am joined by Farida Raafat, founder of DALYA, for a rich conversation about personal style, the meaning behind materials, and the art of intentional design. We talk about what it looks like to “dress the way you want to be addressed,” the bespoke process she’s created specifically for women, and how she builds silhouettes that balance strength and ease. Farida also pulls back the curtain on the business side—sharing the complexities of working across borders, navigating tariffs, and staying grounded in your values while growing a brand. Whether you love fashion or just want to feel more like yourself when you get dressed, this one’s full of insight and inspiration. Show Notes: —Visit DALYA's website and follow on Instagram —Connect with Farida on LinkedIn —Join our newly launched BU Style Circle paid membership and resource hub -- Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

At 89 years old, Marin Foster is proof that style has no age and that life’s next chapter can always be rewritten—one outfit at a time. After losing her beloved husband of 70+ years, Wayne, this lifelong performer didn’t retreat; she reinvented, heading out to refresh her wardrobe and embrace a new way of being. In this episode of Wear Who You Are, we dive into her story of love, loss, and the power of personal style to connect and celebrate life. From bold fashion choices to even bolder hugs, Marin reminds us that joy is something you can wear—and share. Show notes: — Join our newly launched BU Style Circle paid membership and resource hub -- Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

In the newest episode of Wear Who You Are, Natalie opens up about her month-long adventure through Asia, sharing some valuable lessons she picked up along the way. With stops in Thailand, Cambodia, and Japan, she reflects on the theme of respect. It can be strange, reconciling life in America with the incredible cleanliness and respect for public spaces she witnessed in places like Tokyo and Bangkok. Nat shares how the principle of loving-kindness influences interactions with both the environment and each other. There’s a refreshing take on shopping, too (of course!)—she noticed how shopping in these countries feels more social and community-focused, rather than just transactional. Where do you go to gather in a public space? The mall, of course! It’s like a return to the 80s and 90s. In terms of what Nat packed for her trip, she shares her strategy. No secrets here. Her choices emphasized comfort and versatility in the scorching Bangkok heat and cool Tokyo nights. She leaned on breathable fabrics and versatile pieces that could serve different purposes, perfect for navigating the varied climates and activities of her trip. There are also some revelations about how some of her outfits might just have to be “good enough,” rather than fixating on clothes too much to the point that it distracts from the real reason you’re there. To enjoy traveling and be part of another culture! All of this emphasis on community and respect ties into the BU Style Circle community, a membership-based platform where people can connect, share resources, and discover fashion inspiration together. We hope you check it out! Show Notes & Resources: Link to Photos of Cambodia Natalie's Packing Strategy Brands: Epoi Garden of Desire Mon Panama Sucette Thai Silk Shaka Jim Thompson GoodGoods Tutti and Me -- Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

Welcome to our "Party on the Bottom!" In this town-hall format Nat Chat, Natalie tackles the world of denim. (And, yes, she addresses the Gen Z backlash against skinny jeans.) With a focus solely on jeans (no skirts or shorts here!), Natalie aims to demystify denim by discussing everything from raw denim and sizing intricacies to maintenance and cleaning tips, ensuring that by the end of the episode, you'll feel informed and confident on your next shopping expedition. One of the critical areas explored in the episode is the concept of raw denim. Natalie explains that raw denim refers to fabric that hasn't been washed or distressed, giving it a distinctive dark, uniform look. She emphasizes the importance of understanding terms like "once-washed" and "unsanforized," which can be particularly intimidating for first-time buyers. Moreover, she reminds listeners that the sizing can vary greatly across brands and types of denim. The key takeaway? When in doubt, reach out for guidance from sales associates or customer support teams to ensure you’re making an informed decision. And listen to Wear Who You Are (obviously!). Remember that jeans can be versatile pieces for personal expression! Whether you're holding on to your beloved skinny jeans or experimenting with wider fits, the ultimate goal is to wear what makes you feel great. So tune in and join the conversation—by the end, you just might discover your inner denimhead! Show Notes & Resources: Selvedge Jeans Slubs in Denim Raw denim companies: Momotaro Pure Blue Japan Naked & Famous Nudies Oni Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods

In a world that often feels chaotic, finding order can be a transformative experience. This episode of the Wear Who You Are podcast is here to help you get your new year off to a good start, with an Industry Adjacent episode with Camilla Frederico of The Personal Helpers. Our guest is a passionate advocate for decluttering and creating spaces that foster well-being and clarity, and she's also just incredibly warm and funny. Camilla, a seasoned organizer, emphasizes that organization is not just about tidiness; it’s an essential tool for improving focus, reducing stress, and enhancing productivity. Whether it’s your closet, workspace, or kitchen, a thoughtfully organized area can lead to a more harmonious living experience. A crucial part of Milla's approach is the mindset shift she advocates. She believes that organization should not feel like a chore but rather an act of self-care and empowerment. Creating a space that reflects who you are can lead to greater happiness and satisfaction in your daily life. This episode also explores the psychology behind clutter. Perhaps a client is holding onto an item because of some emotional attachment or a fear of loss. Camilla suggests that if it's really time to let go, perhaps you can ease that pain by gifting that item to someone you really love? This episode is full of wonderful pieces of advice as you start the sometimes difficult work of simplifying your life. By questioning our belongings, we can make informed decisions about what to keep, toss, or donate. And then that change and simplicity will feel like a sustainable shift, and not a disruption. To make it even easier for listeners to embark on their organizational journey, BU Style has put together a downloadable PDF. This handy cheat sheet guides you through the process of assessing your belongings, helping you decide what to keep, throw away, or donate—making it simple to tackle that overflowing closet or cluttered drawer. Take a look in the show notes below to download yours. Resources: Free Closet Organization Flow Chart Download (to be created) The Personal Helpers Website The Personal Helpers instagram Follow Us: Follow the podcast on social media, and submit your questions by sending us a message here! @bustyle @natalie_tincher Check out the website for more info at www.bu.style Sign Up for Nat’s Newsletter Rate, Review, & Subscribe to the podcast on Apple & Spotify This Podcast is brought to you by Upstarter Pods