Sue McGarvie is best known as "Sex With Sue!" A sex therapist, relationship expert, coach, author and speaker. Her Sunday night call-in radio show took Canada by storm in 1993. John is a freelance radio host heard across North America, and a champion for mental health, knowing all too well how fears about revealing our sexual kinks, desires and orientations can affect us. He has normalized conversations about sex on his show for years! Together, these longtime friends now bring you an outrageously fun, weekly, immersive, grown up sex education course that is unique in the world of podcast. This is Turned On With Sue & John. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sue is back from Swingathon UK with a first hand account of this growing swinger festival, plus details of Naughty N'Awlins which was also a HUGE success! And, we dive into what is NEW in the world of swinging, or ENM or any of the newer "lables" being attached to the lifestyle. Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week helps you with squirting! Some tricks to encourage more fluid. We also answer the question, "Does non-monogamy drive us or are we just bored?" Sue will get you all caught up with the most fun an interesting stories about sex that have been in the news recently and we answer two listener questions - one from someone wondering if they are at risk of being "stretched out" by their very large handed partner... And another, from an exotic dancer who would like our opinions on how people view sex workers... And a request for John to sing more? Ummmm what? Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Questions for John: funwithmilkman@gmail.com Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com Us on Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: @ Megahurts Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sue McGarvie has been talking sex on the radio, in seminars, and in print since the early 90s! And now on this podcast - Turned On With Sue And John - the sex education you WISH someone would have pulled you aside and given you decades ago. This week... Pleasure! And why receiving is harder than giving. We'll talk about getting out of your head and getting into sex while GIVING, we'll talk about the science of pleasure and why it matters, and why, when it comes to receiving pleasure, so many people are not able to just let go. For our swinger friends this week: The lifestyle runs on reputation. Some of the things you need to know before you are "that" person. And we answer two questions from you, our audience including someone who is now finding video sex with their partner to be a little "same ol', same ol'" and wants some help to change things up. And our second question deals with someone expressing the need for foreplay, while their partner just wants to get in and get out. We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com - get in touch, send a voice note, subscribe to our newsletter, listen to past episodes and more! And on Fetlife we are @ TurnedOnPodcast (John on FL is @ Megahurts) Your questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What is the best kind of sex? This week on Turned On With Sue and John we’ll help you answer that, including a list of the 10 best kinds, according to therapists around the world. Plus, we’ll discuss some types of sex that you may not believe are good, although, they actually are! Sue’s Sassy Sex Secret this weekdays with Spectatoring is the act of overthinking sex while having sex. And listener questions this week seek Sue’s advice on how to deal with, what they call “a broken clit” and another person wants to know if it’s normal to sneeze (a lot) when she is close to orgasm. And, for our upside down pineapple friends - The things that surprise the “vanillas!” It’s time to get Turned On With Sue And John www.turnedonpodcast.com Us on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: Megahertz Sue’s email: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
1... 2... 3... How many sex partners have you had? Don't answer that. Because, the reality is, it doesn't matter. Your sexual history isn't a report card, or a scoreboard. Today Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss "The Body Count." Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week: The "Pulse and Pause" Edging Hack For swingers, a conversation with Bob from Naughty N'awlins plus... Hollywood Gets the Lifestyle Wrong. Again. And in sex in the news: The "wholesome" creator with more than 2,500 partners, and our friend Bonnie Blue is back in the news! Always pushing boundaries, always making headlines, and always fun to talk about! And Raven from the Adult Fun Superstore introduces you to her sex toy pick of the week - The Stroker / Main Squeeze from Doc Johnson! (www.adultfun dot ca) To connect with us: Website: www.turnedonpodcast.com Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: @Megahurts Email Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com To subscribe to Sue's Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work! Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! And she'll introduce you to the "gum job" a candy that actually helps you give a better blow job! We're also going to send Hollywood to the naughty corner because a lot of what it has taught us is just... Well... Hollywood fiction. For our swinger friends - a new mega-swinger-centre is being built - we'll tell you where and we'll also tell you how to explore it FREE! You're welcome! This week's sex in the news includes a man arrested for stealing and then trying to re-sell boner pills at one of the largest swinger hot spots in the world, and a strongman who not only pulled car with his dick, he did it while his dick was on fire. And, a question about face sitting from someone worried that her partner may suffocate. Finally, our friends from the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada (adultfun dot ca) introduce us to the new Delightful Vulva And Breast Pump from Shots! We're online @ www.turnedonpodcast.com On Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: Megahurts Email Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Have you ever just been in the presence of someone, even just in passing, and get an undeniable, overwhelming feeling of desire for them? Instantly? Today's conversation is all about lust. Merrium-Webster defines it as: usually intense or unbridled sexual desire : lasciviousness an intense longing : craving to have an intense desire or need : crave specifically : to have a sexual urge We'll also reveal what sex workers have to say about the subject. Sue's experienced lust. John too. Have you? Tell us your story of lust at our links below! Also today... We dispel some swinger myths - and there are a lot of them! We talk to the team at Lelo about some of their incredible toys, and Raven from The Adult Fun Superstor (adultfun.ca) introduces you to her toy of the week - the Aluna Femme Fun! Plus - The three secrets that will make your sex life better immediately, sex in the news this week and loads more of the sex education you wish someone would have given you years ago! Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com (subscribe to Sue's newsletter, send your questions, rate our podcast and more) Turned On on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: Megahurts Sue's email: sue@sexwithsue.com John's email: turnedonsuejohn@gmail.com Cover Photo: Photo by Klara Kulikova on Unsplash https://unsplash.com/@kkalerry?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want. We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation. Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode. Also today, the exit strategy for swingers, because sometimes you've had enough of the lifestyle, need to take a break, or have discovered that it's just not for you anymore. You always hear about how to get IN, but how do you gracefully find your way out? We even get you caught up on sex in the news - including the latest about sex in space, 83 year old Iris is banging a lot of younger men, a new survey looks at what is ruining things in the bedroom for Canadians, and outdated sex laws that are still on the books in the USA right now. And our friends at The Adult Fun Superstore introduce us to the latest a fun, new toy for couples from WeVibe! Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com On Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral! We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex! As a working professional, she’ll let you in on all kinds of tips (pardon the pun) and tricks! Sue also discusses some of the biggest oral sex myths on this episode as well as her “sassy sex secret” of the week; the frozen grape trick! This sounds SOOOO fun! For our swinger friends, we get into all the things swinging has taught us, and others in the lifestyle. If you’re new to swinging, these are some of the things you’ll experience as you play more! Some incredible questions from YOU again this week. One listener cannot visualize things in their mind and wants to know if that’s normal. We promise you, it is, and we have some work-arounds for you to try! Another listener is frustrated trying to orgasm, often spending up to an hour with no success. They’d like Sue’s recipe for “scream cream” please. Sue happily shares that today. Finally, we address some comments found on Reddit on the topic of oral sex and also what research has to say on the matter! Sue’s Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Our website: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com Us on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/Megahurts And our friends at the Adult Fun Superstore: www.adultfun.ca Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever. Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today. Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual, loads of questions about grooming in advance of a live seminar Sue is conducting this week about oral sex, and another listener wants to know about swinger burnout. Sue will also let you in on what she'd include in your summer sex festival survival pack, and on her Sassy Sex Secrets it's the $4 Hardware Store / Drug Store toy that you can't pass up! Plus, the gang at the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada introduce us to the toy their employees chose as this week's staff pick! Subscribe to Sue's newsletter and hear every episode of Turned On at www.turnedonpodcast.com Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: Megahurts Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy! On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected. Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things you can put into practice to develop that closer bond, and we'll discuss the things that men and women want when it comes to desire. They're not always the same, and, some of the things you have been doing to express your desire, may not be things that your partner even recognizes as your love language. On our "So You're A Swinger" segment this week, we'll help you go from chatting to scoring at the next swinger event you attend. PLUS - John shares details of his tour of what he calls "the most perfect, elegant, and fully equipped exclusive lifestyle club" he's ever seen! Indulgence VIP in Owen Sound, Ontario Canada. https://www.indulgencevip.com This is a fun conversation that we hope helps you have some fun conversations of your own this week! Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John! Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcast (show) | @ Megahurts (John) Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com John: turnedonsuejohn@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about. For a variety of reasons, people love to experiment with their privates! From injecting saline into the balls, to inserting sounding instruments into the urethra, to weights, to rings, to pills and countless other things that many find make things feel oh-so-much-better. We'll even share some of the things people on Reddit have admitted they're into or have tried. A Barbie arm? Really? Really! For our swingers this week, a talk about bio-hacking to be a player.... And a look at some of the weird things that are bound to happen in the lifestyle. Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week: the fake exit and other things that will get you smacked or have the O of your life. Online: www.turnedonpodcast.com On Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: @Megahurts Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com John: turnedonpodcast@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
It's a hot topic on Reddit right now... How awkward and weird humans are about our sexual desires, kinks, and behaviors around sex. On this episode we get into WHY we're so weird. From how we eroticize, literally, everything from spread sheets to bed sheets, to aliens. We discuss what it is that attracts so many of us to people who many would refer to as "the crazy ones" and our weird sex quirks. For our swinger friends, a conversation about herpes and Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week introduces you to the KIVIN METHOD. And, we have a VERY fun guest on the show today - Ted Buras - creator of CollabGPS , a creator networking app designed to help content creators find collaborators, plan shoots and manage projects. CollabGPS.com | TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@collabgps | IG: https://www.instagram.com/collabgps | X: https://x.com/collabgps And find us on your preferred podcast platform, on Youtube and on Fetlife @TurnedOnPodcast - our website where you can subscribe to Sue's newsletter, interact with the show, and read hundreds of kinky confession from our listeners is www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Today, in a nutshell, we're going to address why most sex feels... Fine... But not amazing. You're going to get amazing tips on how to slow things down, how to connect better, and by the end of this episode you'll have incredible tools to put to use to better understand why your body responds the way it does before, during and after sex, and Sue will even set you up with 14 things you can do to up your pleasure all over. We answer two incredible questions from you, our listener/viewer this week. One person wants to know about post-orgasm clarity, and another is looking for tips on how to manage their sexual energy so that nobody in their dynamic feels short changed. Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week is a tip she learned from the other "Sex With Sue" Sue Johansen... It's the Pulse & Peanut Butter Trick! For our swinger friends, this week's So You're A Swinger Segment is an absolute eye opener - The laundry list. The things you should discuss after every lifestyle encounter and WHEN you should discuss them. This is invaluable! Thank you clubm4.com in Toronto for partnering with us for our swinger segments! Plus - we have two of the HOTTEST Kinky Confessions we've ever received on this show! WARNING: Your panties will get wet. You may want to remove them now as a preventative measure. This and so much more on the podcast that gives you the sex education you wish someone pulled you aside years ago and gave you! We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: @Megahurts Sue: www.sexwithsue.com Email: sue@sexwithsue.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
It's National Superhero Day today and your Superhero Of Sex - Sue McGarvie is here to talk about the sex that feels like a drug. The kind that can turn into a problem. Sue and John discuss what people mean when they say "sex addict" plus compulsive masturbation and the "addictive partner phenomenon." What is is about that person who you can't stop thinking about? Also how early porn use can predict your mental health and, Sue's Sassy Sex Secret of the week: The chapstick / lip gloss trick! We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast Email Sue at: sue@sexwithsue.com Email John at: funwithmilkman@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Bigger, Better… or Just Louder? What actually creates enlarged parts - and what is complete BS! This episode of Turned On With Sue And John is all about size! Including - Can you actually change your body, or just how it performs? The difference between growing and enhancing - including breast size (we'll speak with Demora Avarice - whose chest is so big, there isn't a bra size big enough - and dick size - why erection quality beats size!" On this week's So You’re a Swinger segment - What real world bodies teach you... And the pitfalls of sites like Adult Friend Finder. And, Sue dives into the mail bag this week to answer questions from you about where to go to "try out a sex worker" and another question regarding what to do when your partner is into things that feel... Weird. Find us on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast Find us online: www.turnedonpodcast.com And for all things Demora Avarice: DemoraAvarice.com and Linktr.ee/DemoraAvarice Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Your sex drive. It can be a crazy ride. From highs to lows and often, you can be completely distracted. Let's get you back in your lane! In this conversation, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie gives you 5 Ways to Turn Up the Heat (Without Trying Harder) AND you'll also hear TEN things you can do if your libido has gone MIA. In our So You're A Swinger segment this week - a question who feels that what they see represented online doesn't quite align with the reality they, and other couples seem to experience. Why do real life couples seem to crash and burn? This conversation should not only answer that, but offer you some hope! And there is an incredible new report out that shares close to 250 reasons why people have sex! Think about it. Why do YOU have sex? Would your bestie, if they were sitting next to you, answer the question the same way you just did? Fascinating! Controlled chaos leads to wet panties. You'll find out why when you click PLAY! Be sure to sign up for our Turned On Newsletter - you'll find the link in the menu on our website at www.turnedonpodcast.com We're on Fetlife at @TurnedOnPodcast Thanks to M4 Toronto (www.clubm4 dot com) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Orgasm Control - What You Can Do When You Just Can't Get There
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Orgasms. What do you do when you just can't get there? It happens! Today's conversation with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie, and John, is all about the BIG O. And Sue will even share with you her 10 Fixes for Orgasm Roadblocks! We'll also discuss the refractory period and how to come back faster and without any weird supplements. A new segment this week... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret: Do the "3-3-3" if your orgasm is elusive. On this week's So You're A Swinger Segment, (thanks to club M4 in Toronto) - The Single Guy Problem And Survival Guide "Bimbofication" has been in the news - was this your first time hearing that term? We'll define it for you and discuss the appeal to cross dressing for so many men. Plus - we answer several questions submitted by people just like you - people who are tuned in and getting Turned On With Sue And John! Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TurnedOnWithSueAndJohn Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/TurnedOnPodcast Sue's Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Welcome to another sex ed lesson that nobody gave you in high school. Sex ed for grown ups with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and co-host John. Today we talk sperm. And testosterone. And why your body is, frankly, weird. Plus we introduce you to an incredible new app called Moanr™ with its creators, Kevin & Tracy Daly! Moanr™ is the first privacy-first relationship app designed for your total well being. From secure STI verification to tracking libido,fertility and more.. You think you’re in control of your sex life… Meanwhile your body is running a chemical circus with hormones, swimmers, boy bits, girl bits and decisions you didn’t approve. On this episode you'll learn how sperm wars are affecting your sex life and how your body is turning your desire up and down. For your swinger friends (hi!) we look into the rise of soft swapping. If you're in the lifestyle, then you are well aware that it’s happening everywhere! We get to a number of your very hot, kinky confessions this week, and answer a question from one of our listeners who gets turned on in unusual locations and wonders why. For more on Moanr™ see www.moanr.app For more on Club M4 Toronto see www.clubm4.com We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and on Fetlife.com @TurnedOnPodcast (plus connect with John on Fetlife @Megahurts) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Men... We are about to change your life on today's podcast. You're welcome! Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John share the best tips you'll find anywhere on what you need to do in order to generate the response from her that you've been hoping for. It comes down to being engaged, invested and interesting. If she's interested, she'll give you all kinds of signs. And we reveal what to watch and listen for! Plus... We respond to a listener's question about BDSM. They want to know why people fantasize about it, but then panic when opportunities present themselves. Another listener finds themselves very drawn to vintage porn and wants Sue's opinion on why it's so captivating. For our swinger friends (hi!) Sue and John address the "I didn't expect THAT effect." Why 1,000 different people have 1,000 different ideas of what to expect in the lifestyle and what to do so you don't feel overwhelmed. Baby steps my friend. Our swinger segment is thanks to Club M4 in Mississauga Ontario (google Club M4 to find their website - currently offering $300 off your annual membership renewal!) Get Sue's newsletter and hear/watch past episodes at www.turnedonpodcast.com Follow us on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast or John on FL: Megahurts Your questions to sue@sexwithsue.com or turnesonsuejohn@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
It's the St. Patrick's Day edition of Turned On With Sue And John... Today is all about getting lucky! Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie offers some of her best tips on what works to get you laid... Beginning with understanding the three little brain hormones that can make that happen! Plus sex, scent and subtle power - chemistry hacks that no one has taught you, until now! We also do a deep dive on Hotwifing after reading a new study that reveals 71/% of couples who have tried it, say that it improved their marriage! We examine some of the reasons why! And because it is St. Patrick's Day as we record this - we look at Ireland's sex history, and find out why redheads may be hornier! Our Naught-E-Mail box was full this week with questions about how an aging swinger can stay in their "banging form." Another person wants information on how to last longer, and John reveals that he sometimes can, but, at other times, can finish too fast. Sue walks us through some of the reasons why! A voice note this week from one of our regular listeners about what she's getting out of our conversations PLUS she wants to know how she (and you) can become Fuck Reporters for us! Oooh! Fun! And - Sue offers up a FREE 5 minute one on one call with you... Listen to find out more! Thanks to our friends at M4 Toronto (Google ClubM4 to find them online). You'll find us online at www.turnedonpodcast.com where you can contact us, send voice notes and subscribe to our weekly newsletter filled with freebies! And, as promised, here's a link to the Lucky Charms Sex Quiz: http://www-cs-students.stanford.edu/~dufour/HUMOR/LuckyCharms.html Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
