We’re not here just to “fix” marriages. We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together. To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team. We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.” But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together. This isn’t therapy. This is transformation. This is the new paradigm of marriage. This is the Save My Marriage Podcast. Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you: Rebuild trust Rekindle connection Communicate without conflict Overcome resentment And recreate a marriage you both love being in New episodes every Tuesday . Submit your question: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com/podcast Learn more: https://www.savemymarriageschool.com Start listening now and discover what’s possible when you Recreate Your Relationship.
Why Men Avoid in Relationships (It's Not Because They Don't Care)
Most couples mistake distance for indifference. This episode names what's actually happening when your husband goes silent — and why chasing him makes it worse. In this episode: Why avoidant men are driven by deep insecurity — not a lack of care How fight-flight-freeze-fawn shuts down the prefrontal cortex mid-conversation Why pursuing an avoidant partner reinforces the exact pattern you want to break The mindset shift that creates space for real change — for both of you READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Hidden Reason Couples Struggle With Affection
Most couples aren't struggling with affection because one partner is "just not affectionate" they're struggling because of childhood attachment patterns that rewired how safety and closeness feel. This episode breaks down the hidden reason affection disappears in marriage and gives you a practical path back to real connection. In this episode: Why affection avoidance is a protective strategy formed in childhood — not a personality trait — and how to recognise it in yourself or your partner The pursuit-withdrawal dynamic that turns affection into a battlefield, including how anxious attachment and hypervigilance make it worse How Adam went from being physically uncomfortable holding hands in public to completely rewiring that blueprint — and what that process actually looked like The 1% behavioural shifts that rebuild affection safely, and why demanding more affection always creates the opposite result. READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
The 5 Daily Habits That Make or Break Your Marriage
Most couples have habits for work, health, and parenting but nothing for their marriage. This episode names the five daily habits that either build connection or quietly destroy it. In this episode: Why your marriage reflects what you repeatedly practise not what you intend The five key marital habits: Connect, Appreciate, Repair, Prioritise, and Dream How the five-minute coffee check-in prevents the slow drift into roommate territory The warning signs you have no marital habits and what it's costing your relationship READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
How to Stop Fighting About Money in Your Marriage
Money fights in marriage are rarely about money — they're about the hidden beliefs and childhood patterns driving your behaviour. If you and your partner keep hitting the same wall over finances, this episode will show you why — and how to fix the real problem: your money blueprint. 📂 Download Money Marriage Excercise https://recreateyourrelationship.com/money-and-marriage In this episode: The saver vs spender dynamic and where it really comes from Why the fight is never actually about the $500 How high-achieving couples still carry a lack mentality How Adam and Aston rewired their money blueprints READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Why Modern Life Is Making Couples Emotionally Disconnected
Modern life is quietly pulling high-achieving couples apart — not with one big event, but through the slow accumulation of dual-career pressure, hyper-independence, mental overload, and an attention economy designed to keep you distracted. This episode names what's really behind emotional disconnection in marriage, and what it actually takes to fix it. In this episode: Why external success and relationship success require completely different skill sets — and how confusing the two leaves high achievers feeling emotionally alone How the mental load, 24/7 work culture, and the attention economy are eroding connection one distraction at a time Why hyper-independence — often mistaken for a strength — is one of the biggest barriers to intimacy, and how interdependence changes everything The relationship vision planning approach Adam and Aston use with couples to reclaim time, energy, and genuine connection READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Why Intimacy Dies in Long-Term Marriages
Most high-achieving couples aren't failing to communicate because they lack intelligence. They're failing because they carry deep childhood trauma patterns that taught them having needs is weakness, asking for help means failure, and their partner should "just know." In this episode: Why your needs feel unmet — and why it's usually the story you're telling, not your partner Why "no" doesn't mean your need is invalid The myth that your partner should "just know" How to move from hyper-independent or co-dependent to interdependent READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Why Your Needs Aren't Being Met in Your Marriage (And How to Get Them Met)
Most high-achieving couples aren't failing to communicate because they lack intelligence. They're failing because they carry deep childhood trauma patterns that taught them having needs is weakness, asking for help means failure, and their partner should "just know." In this episode: Why your needs feel unmet — and why it's usually the story you're telling, not your partner Why "no" doesn't mean your need is invalid The myth that your partner should "just know" How to move from hyper-independent or co-dependent to interdependent READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Why High-Achieving Couples Have the Worst Marriages
You've handled the career, the business, the money. So why does your marriage feel like the one problem you can't crack? Adam and Aston Simmonds dig into something most successful people don't want to hear: the habits that got you here are the same ones pushing your partner away. If your life looks great from the outside and still feels hollow at home, listen to this one. In this episode: High standards, fix-it mode, efficiency. Brilliant at work. Quietly corrosive in a marriage There's a "science of achievement" and an "art of fulfilment." Nailing the first one teaches you nothing about the second "Dirty fuel" is fear, proving yourself, the dread of sliding backwards. It keeps you producing and it keeps you disconnected. Adam and Aston explain how to run on clean fuel instead Put the marriage first and the rest tends to fall into place. They walk through how that reorder actually works READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Your relationship doesn’t have a communication problem… it has a boundary problem.
Most couples struggling with marriage communication think they just need to get better at talking to each other. But what's really driving the arguments, the withdrawal, and the resentment is a lack of shared agreements. In this episode, Adam and Aston break down what boundaries actually are, why couples conflict keeps repeating without them, and how to build a boundary agreement that creates safety, respect, and real connection. In this episode: Why most relationship disconnection is a boundary problem, not a communication problem The game analogy that reframes boundaries as structure rather than walls or control How to create a shared boundary agreement that both partners actually buy into Why self abandonment masquerading as unconditional love is quietly destroying your marriage READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Hidden Reason You Feel Disconnected (You Haven't Chosen Your Relationship)
If you've been telling yourself "I just feel disconnected" and pointing at your partner, this episode will redirect that conversation back to the one place real change starts: you. In this episode: Why disconnection is more common than couples admit What "fully choosing the relationship" actually means Acceptance is the first step, not a sign you're settling How rejection shows up without a single word being spoken Story first, evidence second - why you keep finding what you don't want The two pathways and why you have to choose one ———— READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session ———— LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds ———— LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. ———— CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsimmonds → Facebook (Adam): https://www.facebook.com/AdamSimmonds11 → Website: https://savemymarriageschool.com/ READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Why Your Partner Won’t Take Accountability (And What Actually Works)
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ "I thought I was helping. I was actually making it worse." In this episode, we're getting real about one of the most common patterns we see in struggling relationships: The one who tries harder. The one who over-functions. The one who holds everyone accountable — except themselves. "You cannot control someone into accountability. And the moment I stopped trying, everything started to shift." If you're the one doing all the work and your partner just won't meet you there… This episode will change the way you see that dynamic forever. Save this for the next time you feel like you're carrying it all alone. Share it with the partner who says "I just want them to step up." Full episode: "Why Your Partner Won't Take Accountability (And What Actually Works)" is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #accountability #marriagetalk #couplesdynamics #realtalk #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #relationshipstruggles #truthbomb #podcastclip #emotionalconnection #loveafterpain READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
How to Inspire a Man to Step Up (Without Pushing Him Away)
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ "Why won't he just step up?" If you've said this out loud or just thought it quietly, exhausted and frustrated… This episode is for you. Because the truth is, the harder you push, the further he pulls away. The more you do, the less space he has to rise. And none of it is working. Not the initiating. Not the withdrawing. Not the silence you call "giving him space." "Men don't step up when they feel like they're failing. They step up when they believe they can win." If your man is disappearing into work, going quiet, or just fading into the background… He's not lazy. He's losing. And the shift that changes everything? It's not a conversation you need to have with him. It's the one you need to have with yourself. Save this. Because the next time you feel that pull to push harder, come back here. Share it with the woman in your life who's exhausted from carrying it all. Full episode: "How to Inspire a Man to Step Up (Without Pushing Him Away)" is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #healingjourney #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #loveafterpain #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
The Mental Load Is Not the Problem (And Why Most Conversations Make It Worse)
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ "I realised if something happened to me… I wouldn't trust he could look after our kids." That was the wake-up call. Not a fight. Not a breakdown. Just a quiet, terrifying moment in the kitchen. And instead of blaming him… She asked herself: How did I create this? Because the mental load isn't just about tasks. It's about the dynamic you've both quietly built. Without even realising it. "It's not that he doesn't care. It's that you've made it so he doesn't need to." And that's the hardest truth to hear. But also the most freeing one. Because if you created it… You can change it. Not by doing more. By finally doing less. Save this for the next time you feel like you're carrying it all alone. Share it with the woman who needs to hear this today. Full episode: "The Mental Load Is Not the Problem — And Why Most Conversations Make It Worse" is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #mentalload #marriagetalk #healingjourney #defaultparent #relationshipstruggles #viralreel #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #workingonus #modernmarriage #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #marriagecoach #relationshipcoach #highperformers #powercouple #perthcouples #goldcoastcouples #australiacouples #couplesretreat #emotionalintimacy #fixyourmarriage #marriageproblems #loveafterpain #realconnection READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Why Your Marriage Needs a Retreat (Not Another Counselling Session)
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “Counselling didn’t fix it…” In Episode 36, we break down the truth most couples don’t want to hear: Why you can spend months… even years in counselling And still feel stuck in the same patterns “It’s not that you’re not trying hard enough… It’s that talking alone doesn’t change emotional patterns.” We share what actually shifts a relationship: Not more conversations But a different environment Real safety And doing the work in real time If you’ve been going in circles… Having the same arguments Feeling like nothing is changing This episode will show you a different way Save this for when you feel stuck Share it with your partner if you’re both trying… but not getting anywhere Full episode: “Why Your Marriage Needs a Retreat (Not Another Counselling Session)” is live now. Comment “episode 36” and we’ll send it to you #marriagetips #relationshipgrowth #marriagepodcast #relationshipadvice #emotionalconnection #marriagehelp #couplestherapy #relationshipstruggles #fixyourmarriage #relationshiphealing #modernmarriage #marriagegoals #communicationinrelationships #realmarriage #loveandconnection #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast #podcastclip #truthbomb #realtalk #highperformercouples #powercouple #australiacouples #perthcouples #goldcoastcouples #viralreel #relationshipreset #deepconnection #intimacy READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
8 Patterns Quietly Destroying Your Marriage
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ 👉 Book a Call: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session “We thought our partner was the problem…” But it wasn’t them. It was the pattern. The same fight. The same tension. The same feeling of going in circles… over and over again. “We see this every single day… couples stuck in patterns they don’t even realise they’re co creating.” The growth gap. The chaser and avoider. The over functioning and burnout. The roommate phase. The silent shutdown. None of these mean your relationship is broken. They mean you’re stuck in patterns you haven’t learnt how to see… or shift yet. And here’s the truth most couples miss: 👉 It only takes ONE of you to change the pattern. If you’ve been feeling disconnected… If you keep having the same arguments… If you’re starting to wonder “is this just how it is now?” This episode will wake you up. Save this for when you feel stuck. Share it with your partner… or someone who needs it. Full episode: “8 Patterns Quietly Destroying Your Marriage” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #relationshippatterns #savemymarriage #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #coupleswork #marriagehelp #relationshippodcast #realtalk #communication #relationshipstruggles #healingtogether #modernmarriage #workingonus #savemymarriagepodcast READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
The Manosphere Lied To You About Being a Man (And It’s Costing You Your Relationship)
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “The manosphere lied to you about being a man… and it’s costing you your relationship.” In this episode, we break down the truth most men were never taught: The pressure to prove yourself. The mask of control, dominance, and “having it all together.” The quiet insecurity underneath it all. “Real masculinity doesn’t need to perform, control, or tear others down to feel powerful.” If you’ve ever felt confused about what it actually means to be a man… Or you’re in a relationship that feels disconnected, tense, or off… This episode will hit. Because the problem isn’t you. It’s the model you were given. Save this for when you need a reset. Share it with a man who needs to hear this. Full episode: “The Manosphere Lied To You About Being a Man (And It’s Costing You Your Relationship)” is live now. Link in bio. #masculinity #modernman #relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #marriagehelp #marriageadvice #emotionalintelligence #menswork #selfleadership #personalgrowth #relationshipgrowth #intimacy #communication #healingjourney #couples #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Why You Feel Misunderstood in Your Relationship & How To Fix It
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ 👉 Free Relationship Breakthrough Session Book Here: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session 👉 Recreate Your Relationship Retreat Check Here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/events/ “We keep having the same argument… and getting nowhere.” That’s what most couples say before they realise the truth. You’re not actually arguing about the problem. You’re arguing because you don’t understand each other. In this episode, we break down why you feel so misunderstood in your relationship: The way men and women communicate differently. Why one of you shuts down… while the other keeps pushing. Why fixing the problem isn’t actually fixing the relationship. “Your differences aren’t the problem. Your inability to understand them is.” If you’ve ever felt like: “I’m not being heard” “They just don’t get me” “We’re speaking completely different languages” This episode will shift everything. Save this for your next argument. Share it with your partner. Full episode: “Why You Feel Misunderstood in Your Relationship & How To Fix It” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #relationshipadvice #communicationinrelationships #emotionalconnection #relationshipgrowth #couplescommunication #marriagehelp #relationshippodcast #realtalk #relationshipproblems #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
Why Talking More Is Actually Making Your Relationship Worse
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ Book Your Breakthrough Session Here: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session “Talking more is actually making your relationship worse…” Most couples think they have a communication problem. They don’t. They talk more. They try harder. They say all the “right things.” And still… Nothing changes. “We kept having the same conversation… just in different ways.” The real problem? It’s not communication. It’s that it doesn’t feel safe to be honest. So you filter. You hold back. You walk on eggshells. Or you come in harder… and they shut down. And now you’re stuck in the same pattern… Just louder. If you’ve ever felt like: “Why are we talking so much… but getting nowhere?” This episode will hit home. Save this for the next time you’re stuck in the same argument. Share it with your partner… this could change everything. Full episode: “Why Talking More Is Actually Making Your Relationship Worse” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagehelp #relationshipadvice #communicationproblems #emotionalconnection #relationshippatterns #marriagepodcast #coupleswork #relationshipgrowth #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
How to Rebuild Trust (Even After It’s Broken)
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ “Saying sorry isn’t what rebuilds trust…” In this episode, we break down what actually repairs a relationship after trust is broken: The avoidance The fear based decisions The patterns that keep repeating “It’s not the mistake that keeps hurting your relationship… it’s the lack of real repair.” If you’ve been stuck in the same argument or feel like nothing is actually changing… This episode is for you. ❤️🩹 Save this for when things feel tense. Share it with your partner if you’re trying to rebuild. Full episode: “How to Rebuild Trust (Even After It’s Broken)” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #relationshipgrowth #trustissues #emotionalconnection #marriagehelp #coupleswork #realtalkrelationships #healingtogether #communicationiskey #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
How to Build Trust in a Relationship
Apply to Work With Us If you and your partner are successful on paper but feel disconnected, resentful, or like the relationship has slipped to the bottom of the priority list, you can apply to work with us inside Save My Marriage School. This is not therapy. This is for action-taking couples ready to lead their relationship the same way they lead their life. 👉 Apply here: https://savemymarriageschool.com/save-my-marriage-school/ Trust in a marriage rarely breaks in one big moment. It erodes in the small ones. The promise you didn’t follow through on. The truth you didn’t fully share. The conversation you avoided. “Trust isn’t built with words. It’s built through consistent actions.” In this episode we break down the 8 pillars of trust every relationship needs. If your partner feels like they can’t rely on you, trust is already eroding. The good news is it can be rebuilt. Save this for when you need the reminder. Full episode: “How to Build Trust in a Relationship” is live now. Link in bio. #marriagetips #relationshipadvice #marriagepodcast #relationshipgrowth #emotionalconnection #marriagetalk #realtalk #workingonus #savemymarriage #savemymarriagepodcast READY TO GO DEEPER? → Recreate Your Relationship Online (RYRO) — the starting point: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/online-3-part-series-928281 → Book a free Breakthrough Session with Adam: https://recreateyourrelationship.com/breakthrough-session LISTEN ON: → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/save-my-marriage-podcast/id1596639860 → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2lo7rjkwnJADthIAgDO6wn?si=a5701812ef9e4b1a → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@astonsimmonds LEAVE A REVIEW: If this episode helped you, a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts helps us reach more couples. Apple Podcasts → Save My Marriage Podcast → Ratings & Reviews → Write a Review. CONNECT: → Instagram (Aston): https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds/ → Instagram (Adam): https://Instagram.com/adam__simmonds → Facebook (Aston): https://www.facebook.com/coachastonsim...
