The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast
Published by Northern guy and Southern Girl
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The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!
Send us Fan Mail Our First Full Swap | Episode 256 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take listeners back to the very beginning of their story and share how they first met—not through a dating app, mutual friends, or a traditional first date, but as two singles already exploring the lifestyle. Unlike many couples who discover non-monogamy years into their relationship, Dan and Lacy entered their relationship with an understanding of the lifestyle from day one. But that didn’t mean everything was easy. They open up about the unique challenges they faced while building a new relationship in a world filled with attraction, boundaries, jealousy, communication, and plenty of unexpected situations. They also tell the story of their very first full-swap experience together, including what went wrong, what surprised them, and the important lessons they carried forward. From learning how to communicate honestly to understanding that every experience will not go perfectly, Dan and Lacy share how those early moments helped shape the couple—and the lifestyle partners—they are today. Whether you entered the lifestyle together, met while already in it, or are simply curious about how it all began for Dan and Lacy, this episode offers an honest, funny, and revealing look at their journey from lifestyle singles to The Swing Nation. Tune in now to hear the story of how it all started! Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Vibe
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Lifestyle Vibe | Episode 119 Not every lifestyle couple enjoys packed venues, booming music, and crowded dance floors—and that’s perfectly okay! In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a listener shares that he and his wife are struggling to find lifestyle events that match their more relaxed personality. They want to connect with others and enjoy new experiences, but the traditional party atmosphere just isn’t their vibe. Dan and Lacy offer practical suggestions, including exploring smaller gatherings, traveling to different lifestyle destinations, and connecting with like-minded couples nearby to find out where they socialize. Tune in for helpful advice on finding your place in the lifestyle without forcing yourself into environments you don’t enjoy. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Naughty N'awlins Part 2: Parades, Parties & Pure Chaos
Send us Fan Mail Naughty N'awlins Part 2: Parades, Parties & Pure Chaos | Episode 255 Naughty N’awlins Part 2 is here—and Dan and Lacy are wrapping up their unforgettable trip to New Orleans with even more wild stories, meaningful moments, and nonstop partying. They begin with the Sexual Freedom Parade, sharing why the experience is about so much more than costumes and celebration. Surrounded by a community proudly embracing freedom, acceptance, and authenticity, the parade becomes one of the most emotional and moving moments of the entire event. From there, the energy turns up at the Glow Night Party, where Dan and Lacy connect and play with some new couples before preparing to host their own party the following day at The Boot Scoot’n Rodeo. Between mechanical bull rides, line dancing, great music, and a packed crowd, their party brings a little country chaos to Naughty N’awlins. But the night is only getting started. Immediately after, they head to the Secrets Party, where things get even crazier with shots galore, wet T-shirt contests, crowd surfing, and plenty of unforgettable moments. Finally, everyone gets dressed up for the Mardi Gras Ball before Dan and the other DJs officially shut down Naughty N’awlins with an epic after-party lasting from 2:00 to 4:30 in the morning. Pour yourself a drink and join Dan and Lacy as they recap the final days of Naughty N’awlins—filled with connection, community, new experiences, and just the right amount of debauchery. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: How to Know if They Want You
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Know if They Want You | Episode 118 How do you know when another couple is actually interested—or if they’re just being friendly? In this episode of Tuesday Talks, a listener asks Dan and Lacy how to recognize the signs that another couple may want to take things beyond casual conversation. Dan and Lacy share practical advice for reading the room, noticing mutual effort, and recognizing when flirting and connection seem to be reciprocated. They also explain why it can be difficult to tell in the lifestyle, where people are often naturally friendly and open. Sometimes, the only way to get a clear answer is to take a chance, put yourself out there, and simply ask. Dan and Lacy discuss how to express interest respectfully and handle the answer gracefully—whether it’s an enthusiastic yes or a polite no. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Naughty N'awlins Party 1: Drinking, Dancing, and DJing
Send us Fan Mail Naughty N'awlins Part 1: Drinking, Dancing and DJing | Episode 254 Dan and Lacy are back from Naughty N’awlins—and they have plenty of stories to tell! In Part 1 of their New Orleans recap, they take listeners along for the beginning of their wild weekend filled with old friends, unforgettable parties, plenty of drinks, and a little bit of trouble. The trip kicks off with a visit to Colette’s New Orleans, where Dan and Lacy reconnect with friends they have missed and settle into the Naughty N’awlins energy. From there, they dive into the event’s daytime festivities, sharing what it was like to spend their afternoons drinking, dancing, socializing, and soaking up the party atmosphere. Dan also steps behind the DJ booth for one of the nighttime parties and helps host one of the biggest events of the entire weekend—Kasidie’s legendary Foam Party at The Beach. Between the music, foam, drinks, and packed dance floor, the party definitely lives up to the hype. Of course, it would not be a Naughty N’awlins recap without sharing a little of the naughty. Dan and Lacy open up about an encounter involving two other couples and how the experience unfolded. This is only the beginning of their New Orleans adventure, so make sure you come back for Part 2 to hear about the rest of their trip, the moments they are still talking about, and even more Naughty N’awlins stories. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: Cruise Together, Play Apart?
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Cruise Together, Play Apart? | Episode 117 A newer lifestyle couple is preparing to set sail on a Bliss Cruise with another couple they have played with before—but so far, their experiences have only involved parallel play. Since the other couple is comfortable with full swap, the listeners are wondering whether everyone has the same expectations for the trip or if their friends may be hoping for something more. Dan and Lacy explain why this is a conversation that needs to happen before anyone boards the ship. They also discuss the reality that most people do not spend the time and money to attend a lifestyle cruise with plans to only play with one couple. From setting clear boundaries to avoiding assumptions and leaving room for new experiences, they share their advice for navigating expectations, communication, and play on a Bliss Cruise. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Hedo 101: Everything You Need to Know Before You Go
Send us Fan Mail Hedo 101: Everything You Need to Know Before You Go | Episode 253 Thinking about a trip to Hedo but not sure what to expect? In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the full Hedo 101. From the legendary pool parties and nightlife to the rooms, food, beach, and overall resort vibe, they break down what a first-time trip to Hedonism II in Jamaica can really look like. They also share why getting off the resort for an excursion can be one of the best parts of your vacation, along with a few of their favorite experiences to add to your itinerary. Plus, for couples who are curious about Hedo but still private about being in the lifestyle, Dan and Lacy offer practical advice for keeping your trip discreet around family, friends, coworkers, and anyone else who does not need to know the details. Whether Hedo has been on your bucket list for years or you are only beginning to wonder what all the hype is about, this episode is packed with honest insight, helpful tips, and everything you need to know before booking that Jamaican getaway. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: When It's Time to Move On
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: When It's Time to Move On| Episode 116 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy respond to a listener question from a couple who thought they had found a great match for a full swap—until their first attempt took an uncomfortable turn. When the male half of the other couple was unable to perform, it led to an argument between him and his wife, leaving the listeners feeling like they had seen a major red flag and decided to step away. Since then, they have considered giving the connection another chance, but the other couple has repeatedly become too intoxicated when they make plans. Now they are wondering: Is it time to cut their losses and move on? Dan and Lacy share their honest perspective on recognizing compatibility issues, respecting your own boundaries, and knowing when a situation may bring more stress than fun. They also normalize something that happens more often than people talk about in the lifestyle: performance anxiety and difficulty performing in new, high-pressure situations. The key is not whether it happens—it is how everyone handles it. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation about red flags, communication, alcohol, grace, and protecting the kind of experiences you want to have in the lifestyle. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
What’s Actually Hard in the Lifestyle—and What Isn’t
Send us Fan Mail What’s Actually Hard in the Lifestyle—and What Isn’t | Episode 252 What do people think will be the hardest part of the lifestyle… and what actually is? In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy break down some of the biggest assumptions people make before entering the lifestyle. Is it really difficult to watch your partner with someone else? How much jealousy actually comes up? And do boundaries and rules make everything easier—or can they sometimes create new challenges? Dan and Lacy share their honest perspective on the things couples often worry about most, versus the realities that tend to be more difficult once you are actually living the lifestyle. From communication and expectations to navigating emotions, mismatched comfort levels, and the unexpected situations that can come up along the way, this episode is a candid conversation for anyone curious about what lifestyle relationships are really like behind the scenes. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: What to Wear for Splash Atlanta
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: What to Wear for Splash Atlanta| Episode 115 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, a listener writes in with a question many Splash Atlanta attendees are probably asking: what exactly are we supposed to wear for Eroticon? With each themed night described a little differently, Dan and Lacy break down the dress codes in a way that makes them easier to understand—and a lot less intimidating. Lacy shares her interpretation of each theme, ideas for putting together an outfit, and ways to participate whether you want to go all out or keep it simple. Then Dan and Lacy reveal what they’re planning to wear themselves, how they approach themed events, and why the best outfit is always the one that makes you feel confident, comfortable, and ready to have fun . Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Too Much of a Good Thing? Avoiding Lifestyle Burnout
Send us Fan Mail Too Much of a Good Thing? Avoiding Lifestyle Burnout | Episode 251 In this full episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy get real about something that can happen to anyone in the lifestyle: burnout. Between traveling, attending events, socializing, keeping up with messages, and trying to make the most of every opportunity, the lifestyle can sometimes start to feel more like an obligation than an escape. Dan and Lacy share their own experiences with feeling burned out this year, including how overcommitting to events and constantly being “on” can take a toll. They also talk about why other couples may be hitting that same wall, from pressure to play, packed social calendars, comparison, dating-app fatigue, and feeling like they have to say yes to every invitation. Most importantly, they offer practical advice for recognizing burnout early, communicating with your partner, setting boundaries, taking a break without guilt, and finding your way back to enjoying the lifestyle on your own terms. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: Exploring without Being Exposed
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Exploring without Being Exposed| Episode 114 On this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question from a couple who are curious about exploring the lifestyle but need to keep things private because of their careers. How do you dip your toes in without putting your personal life on display? They share practical, real-world advice for protecting your privacy while still finding community, making connections, and deciding whether the lifestyle is right for you. From being thoughtful about where and how you meet people to skipping lifestyle-specific social media accounts altogether, Dan and Lacy talk through ways to keep your boundaries intact without letting fear keep you from exploring. Whether you are brand-new to the lifestyle or simply more private by nature, this episode is a reminder that you get to decide how visible—or invisible—your journey looks. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Electric Pleasures: Chattanooga After Dark
Send us Fan Mail Electric Pleasures: Chattanooga After Dark| Episode 250 In this episode, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable weekend at Chattanooga Electric Pleasures! From learning the hard way what it takes to set up their own stage, to appreciating just how much work Dan puts into making the event experience come together, they share the behind-the-scenes moments that made the weekend even more memorable. They rave about the pool parties both days, complete with DJs spinning beside the pool on the outdoor stage, and give major love to the incredible DJ lineup at the night parties—including some amazing local Chattanooga talent. Of course, it wouldn’t be a Dan and Lacy recap without a little spicy story time, and they share how they snuck away to their room Friday night for 40 minutes of hot playtime with two other couples. Overall, Chattanooga Electric Pleasures was an amazing weekend, and they are already looking forward to coming back for another round in October! Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Full Swap Couple
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Finding Your Full Swap Couple | Episode 113 In this Tuesday Talks episode, Dan and Lacy answer a listener who says he and his wife have yet to experience a full swap because they struggle to find couples where everyone feels equally matched and attracted to both partners. They thought they may have found the right couple, but after getting to know the woman more, he realized he wasn’t attracted to her personality — while his wife is still very interested in playing with the husband. Dan and Lacy share their perspective on whether the listener may be putting too much pressure on finding the “perfect” couple. They explain that full swapping doesn’t have to feel like choosing lifelong partners — sometimes it’s about chemistry, fun, openness, and enjoying the experience for what it is. They talk through how to manage expectations, avoid overthinking every detail, and decide when it may be worth giving a connection a chance instead of waiting for everything to line up perfectly. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
The Ultimate Guide to Naughty N'awlins
Send us Fan Mail The Ultimate Guide to Naughty N'awlins | Episode 249 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are giving listeners the ultimate Naughty N’awlins 101 guide! Whether you’re attending for the very first time or you’re a returning guest looking to make the most of the experience, this episode is packed with helpful tips, personal advice, and insider insight. Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before heading to New Orleans in July, including what to wear for the events, which parties are worth checking out, when to book your room, and where to grab dinner during the weekend. They also share their advice on how to plan your schedule, pace yourself, and make the most of such a big lifestyle event. Plus, they give listeners an inside look at the playrooms, what guests can expect, and how to feel more comfortable navigating the experience. From practical planning tips to spicy event advice, this episode is the perfect prep guide for anyone getting ready for Naughty N’awlins! Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: Advice for Trying DP & DVP
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Advice for Trying DP & DVP | Episode 112 In this week’s Tuesday Talks, Dan and Lacy are answering a listener question about exploring the fantasies of DVP and DP. They share their best advice from personal experience, including the importance of communication, comfort, chemistry, and making sure everyone involved is relaxed and on the same page. They also talk about why performance anxiety can make these experiences harder to pull off, especially when both male partners need to feel confident and comfortable. More than anything, Dan and Lacy encourage listeners to be open and honest about their fantasies. You never know who might be curious about the same things — but you won’t find out unless you’re willing to put yourself out there and have the conversation. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Splash Houston Recap: DJ Booths, Pool Parties, and Dance Floors
Send us Fan Mail Splash Houston Recap: Dj Booths, Pool Parties, and Dance Floors | Episode 248 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy are recapping their weekend at Splash Houston — and it was one for the books! Dan spent a big part of the weekend behind the DJ booth for his first official paid DJ gig, which means he’s officially gone pro! While Dan was busy keeping the party going, Lacy found herself navigating parts of the event solo and feeling a little lost at times — but, in true Lacy fashion, she made the best of it and still found plenty of fun along the way. They talk about the daytime pool parties, the hilarious and sexy games Dan helped host for attendees, and the high-energy nights filled with dancing, connection, and good vibes. From sunshine and swimsuits to music and late-night fun, Splash Houston gave them a weekend full of memories. Overall, Dan and Lacy had an amazing time and are sharing all the highlights, honest moments, and behind-the-scenes stories from their Splash Houston experience. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: Our Friends Played Without Us...Now What?
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: Our Friends Play Without Us...Now What? | Episode 111 In this Tuesday Talks episode, a listener shares that she and her husband have a couple they play with regularly — but when that couple recently played with someone else, she found herself feeling left out, hurt, and unsure how to handle it. Dan and Lacy unpack why these feelings are completely valid, while also explaining that unless there is a polyamorous or exclusive agreement in place, their friends didn’t do anything wrong. In the lifestyle, couples often build close connections while still having the freedom to explore with others. This episode offers practical advice on managing jealousy, keeping perspective, protecting the friendship, and having an open, honest conversation without placing blame. Dan and Lacy also share how to approach these moments with curiosity instead of insecurity, so one uncomfortable feeling doesn’t turn into unnecessary drama . Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
The Sanctuary SLC: Bass Drops, Buffalo & Bad Decisions
Send us Fan Mail The Sanctuary SLC: Bass Drops, Buffalo & Bad Decisions | Episode 247 In this special bonus episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their unforgettable trip to Salt Lake City, Utah for the latest Swinger Society takeover at The Sanctuary — a non-monogamy-friendly church unlike anything they’ve experienced before. The adventure starts with a massive 30-hour road trip across the country before arriving in Utah to explore everything from the surreal pink waters of the Great Salt Lake to spotting wild buffalo roaming the open landscape. But once the weekend festivities begin, things quickly turn up a notch. From high-energy DJ sets and packed dance floors to late-night connections, hot play sessions, and unforgettable orgies with friends, Dan and Lacy break down all the wild moments, funny stories, and behind-the-scenes chaos from one of the most unique lifestyle events they’ve attended. Whether you’re curious about The Sanctuary, lifestyle takeovers in unexpected places, or just love hearing raw and hilarious travel recaps, this is one episode you won’t want to miss. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
Tuesday Talks: How to Make the Move from Chat to Play
Send us Fan Mail Tuesday Talks: How to Make the Move from Chat to Play | Episode 110 In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy answer a listener question about one of the most common moments couples face: how do you smoothly transition from normal “get to know you” conversation into play time? Dan and Lacy share their most practical advice for reading the room, building comfort, and remembering that most of the time, everyone is there for the same reason — they may just be waiting for someone to make the first move. They also talk about how the more experienced couple can help lead the way and offer smooth, respectful ways to shift the vibe without making things awkward. Whether you’re newer to the lifestyle or just want to feel more confident navigating that transition, this Tuesday Talks episode is full of real-world tips to help couples move from conversation to connection with confidence. Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures - The Swing Nation - Main Website Quick Navigation Website: -- (Find all our social media links & more!) - Swinger Society - Our Website to meet, connect & events Swinger Society Discord Our Facebook Group - Swinger Websites - Kasadie 90 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation SDC 14 day free trial Username: TheSwingNation ** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! ** SLS Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl - Merch & More - Order Your Merch Here! - Lacy’s Fun Links - VIP OnlyFans PREMIUM OnlyFans -- THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS -- Wisp : Making sexual healthcare inclusive, cost-effective, and accessible—for everyone Use Code SWING at checkout for 15% off your oder! Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order! Promescent® Make Love Longer, It’s Time for Great Sex Use Code SwingNation for 5% off! Support the show - Thank you for the support! -
