Talk Sex with Annette Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power. Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment. From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure. Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
She Built an AI Lover to Heal. Then Had the Best Sex of Her Life
Send us Fan Mail What if AI could actually help you heal your sex life — and have the best sex of your life on the other side? Women recovering from sexual trauma, bad relationships, and years of performing instead of feeling are turning to AI sexual companions — and what's happening is not what anyone expected. Today's guest didn't just use one. She built one. Morgan Hewett — two-time founder, former Meta, Harvard Business School grad, and founder and CEO of Devin — joins me to break down what these companions actually are, why women are turning to them, and what it does for their real sex lives with real partners. In this episode: What an AI sexual companion actually is — and how it's different from a toy Why removing performance, faking, and pressure is uniquely healing for trauma survivors What women discover about their own bodies with no one else in the room What changes when she goes back to a human partner knowing exactly what she wants The takeaway you can use tonight — with or without the tech 🔗 Find Morgan & Devin: Website: https://experiencedevin.com/ TikTok & Instagram: @experiencedevin Follow Morgan's founder journey: @morgan.pink.founder Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
How to Beat Performance Anxiety in Bed — The 5-Move Reset
Send us Fan Mail The harder you try to make it work, the worse it gets — and that's not in your head, it's how your body is wired. An erection runs on the calm half of your nervous system, so the second you start monitoring it, you kill it. This is the five-move reset that gets you out of your head and back into your body, tonight. What you'll learn: ✔ How to crowd out the anxious thoughts instead of fighting them ✔ Where to aim your attention so arousal actually shows up ✔ The one sentence that drops the pressure in the room instantly ✔ How to take the goal — and the fear — off the table completely TechRing & RingMate linked below with my full review. Code ANNETTE15 for 15% off: https://myfirmtech.com/pages/annette Subscribe for new episodes every week, and drop a comment if this helped. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
How to Get Her Wet Again: A Gynecologist's Fix for Midlife Sex
Send us Fan Mail She starts avoiding sex. He takes it personally. Nobody says a word. That silence has a name — the Bedroom Gap — and the gynecologist who coined the term is here with the fix. Dr. Maria Sophocles — board-certified gynecologist with 30 years in menopause and female sexual health, author of The Bedroom Gap , and TED speaker with 1.3M+ views — breaks down exactly what's happening in her body, why his fix (the pill) made her problem worse, and how to bring pleasure back at any age. In this episode: What menopause actually does to the vagina — and why sex starts to hurt The signs she's suffering in silence (and how to open the conversation without blame) The estrogen cancer myth that's been disproven — and the 30% stat nobody's heard Vaginal estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone: what they do and who they're for The five M's: massage, media, masturbation, mindfulness, and medications Why sex is the fifth pillar of health 🔗 Find Dr. Sophocles: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mariasophoclesmd/ Website: https://mariasophoclesmd.com/ Book: The Bedroom Gap TED Talk: "What Happens to Sex in Midlife" Coming soon: HOT! — her documentary on sex, menopause, and gender equality Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
What To Do After You Come — She's Hoping You Know This
Send us Fan Mail Round two isn't just possible — it might be the best sex she's ever had. Even if you already finished, even if you finished before she did, the night isn't over. This episode is the full playbook for the second half: the real science of the recovery window, why it's more in your control than you think, what to do the moment you soften, and the one thing to do in round one that makes going again effortless. What you'll learn: ✔ Why you naturally last longer in round two — and how to use it ✔ The 90-second mistake that sours the whole night ✔ How to keep her climbing while you come back ✔ What to do the moment you soften — so it's a switch, not a stop ✔ The one thing to do in round one that makes round two effortless Firmtech Ring (ANNETTE15 for 15% Off): https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Womanizer for the Enhance (ANNETTE15 for 15% Off): https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer How to Stay Hard When You Have Slow Sex: https://youtu.be/iHqgEO1BDU0 Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
Why Powerful Men Pay a Dominatrix to Take Control (Most Men Will Never Admit This)
Send us Fan Mail Mistress Marley — professional dominatrix, financial domination specialist, and founder of Haus of Dominance, where she's taught over 10,000 students — breaks down what men are actually paying for, what submission really means, and how to explore giving up control in your own bedroom. In this episode: What a dominatrix actually does — and what a real session looks like Why the loudest "alpha males" online are her biggest clients The difference between submission and weakness How women can find their inner dominant (starting with yourself) How to bring power play into your bedroom — or find a professional the right way Find Mistress Marley: https://www.servemistressmarley.com/ More: https://www.thechocolatedomme.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
5 Steps to Anal She'll Actually Love (Most Couples Rush #1)
Send us Fan Mail Anal is one of the most searched sex topics on the internet — and one of the least talked about in actual bedrooms. Everyone's curious. Almost nobody's saying it out loud. This episode is for both of you: the woman who's curious and never said it, and the partner who wants to ask without making it weird. The conversation (including the ten seconds that decide everything), the safety rules nobody explains properly, why her body is genuinely wired to love this, and the five steps from curious to craving it — on her timeline, built around her pleasure. What you'll learn: ✔ How either of you brings it up — and how to handle a shamey response without shutting down ✔ The safety rules that make or break it: lube, bases, one-direction, and what never to use ✔ The two-muscle anatomy that makes patience the entire technique ✔ The "wearing trick" most couples skip — and why it's the step that makes everything work Subscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
She Checks Out During Sex. Here's Why — And How to Bring Her Back
Send us Fan Mail You've felt it. That moment mid-sex when she goes somewhere you can't follow. She's still moving — but she's gone. It's called dissociation. It's not about you, it's not about attraction, and it's not permanent. Vanessa Cushing — AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and founder of Cushing Counseling and Sex Therapy Pro — breaks down what's actually happening and how to bring her back. And this one took a turn I didn't expect: men dissociate too. It just looks completely different. In this episode: The signs she's checked out — and the very different signs he has The five gears of touch: pinpoint exactly where she leaves The "safe trust position" every couple needs before they need it How to retrain your nervous system to stay present Find Vanessa Cushing Here: https://www.cushingcounseling.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
The 5-Step Mouth & Hands Technique for Blended Orgasms
Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we break down the 5-step Mouth & Hands technique for blended orgasms —a simple, intentional way to combine oral and manual stimulation so the experience feels more connected, more consistent, and more intense. Most people switch between techniques instead of combining them. But when you learn how to coordinate your mouth and hands, everything changes in how her arousal builds and how her body responds. I walk you through: Why switching between techniques can interrupt pleasure How blended orgasms work in a practical, understandable way The 5-step method to bring mouth and hands into sync How to stay connected to her responses instead of guessing If you’ve ever felt like you were doing a lot but not getting the reaction you expected, this episode will shift how you approach foreplay entirely. Link to the Womanizer Enhance Code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off at Womanizer: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Catch my Edging Episode: https://youtu.be/vhuayH9cBzY Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
Bi Girls Guide To Better Sex: Inside Secrets That Blow Her Mind
Send us Fan Mail Two bi women. One podcast. A real guide to better sex built from the inside out. Bi women know something about pleasuring women that most people never figure out. Because they've been on both sides — they know what it feels like to receive, and they know what it takes to give it well. That combination is a cheat code. And today we're handing it over. Samia Mounts — queer, non-binary writer, actor, and host of Happy Slut podcast — joins me to share what bi and pan women know about the female body, desire, and pleasure that most people spend a lifetime missing. In this episode: The insider knowledge bi women carry that nobody else has access to What women actually need to feel pleasure — and what most people never stop doing wrong What she's not telling you during sex — and why The specific moves bi women use that most people have never even considered How to have better sex tonight using what we know from both sides 🔗 Find Samia: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts https://samiamounts.substack.com/ https://www.samiamounts.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
5 Spanking Fantasies She Has — And Exactly How to Give Her Each One
Send us Fan Mail Up to 60% of women have fantasized about being dominated — and almost none of them have said it out loud. This one's for the men who want to deliver what she's been replaying in her head and never asked for. Five spanking fantasies, the psychology behind each, and exactly how to make them land sexy instead of awkward — including how to talk about it first, how to keep it safe, and the aftercare most men skip. What you'll learn: ✔ How to bring it up so she actually says yes — and why consent makes her let go ✔ Where it's safe, where it's never safe, and how to build intensity the right way ✔ The over-the-knee punishment-and-praise loop she craves most ✔ The anticipation move nobody talks about — and why aftercare is non-negotiable Subscribe for new episodes on desire, pleasure, and becoming the partner she can't stop thinking about. Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
Pegging Is Up 200% Among Straight Men Here's Why & How to Do It
Send us Fan Mail He's googling it at 2 AM and erasing his search history. Because he still thinks wanting to be pegged means something about who he is. It doesn't. And tonight we're blowing that myth wide open. Interest in pegging among straight men is up 200% according to Feeld's 2025 annual report. Not in some dark corner of the internet — on mainstream dating apps. Men are putting it on their sexual bucket lists, bringing it up on second dates, and still going silent when it matters most. Today I sat down with Luna Matatas — sex and pleasure educator with over two decades of experience and the creator of Peg the Patriarchy — to talk about what pegging actually is, what men are really asking for when they ask for it, and what women get out of strapping it on. In this episode: What pegging is — and what it isn't Why wanting to be pegged says nothing about his sexuality The prostate: what it is, where it is, and why men are missing out What women actually get out of giving it — physically, emotionally, erotically How to have the conversation with your partner without killing the mood A step-by-step guide to the first time — positions, lube, pace, and what not to do Why men who've been pegged say it makes them better lovers 🔗 Find Luna: https://lunamatatas.com/en-us | @lunamatatas Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
How to Make Her Come From Penetration — Maybe for the First Time in Her Life
Send us Fan Mail 82% of women don't reliably come from penetration alone. Here's what's actually missing — and the five moves that fix it. If she's never finished while you're inside her, it's not her body and it's not yours. It's anatomy. And once you understand it, everything changes. What you'll learn: ✔ Why the clitoris has to be fully aroused before penetration even starts ✔ How to change your angle so her clitoris gets contact on every stroke ✔ Why you keep losing her right when she's about to get there — and how to stop ✔ The one thing that's been missing from penetration her entire life Subscribe for new episodes every week. 🔗 FirmTech Tech Ring + RingMate — code ANNETTE15 for 15% off 🔗Link: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti 🔗 Slow Sex Video: https://youtu.be/iHqgEO1BDU0 Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
She's Reading Smut Instead of Having Sex with You — Here's Why
Send us Fan Mail She's not hiding her book because she's embarrassed. She's hiding it because what she's reading is giving her something her sex life isn't — and nobody's asking what that means for your relationship. Romance is the fastest-growing category in print. 51 million units sold in the last year. One in four NYT hardcover fiction bestsellers was romantasy. Women aren't casually reading this stuff. They're consuming it. Today I sat down with Carolyn Hood — certified sex therapist, licensed clinical social worker, and author of Sex Begets Sex: Reclaiming Desire as an Act of Female Empowerment — to decode exactly what's going on. In this episode: What dark romance, romantasy, and smut are actually giving her that real life isn't Who's reading it — and why the numbers point straight to moms and long-term partners The porn parallel nobody wants to say out loud (but we say it) How to use her book to open a conversation you've both been avoiding Why innuendo and anticipation are the low-effort moves with the highest return 3 things you can do tonight to bring the heat from the pages into your bedroom 🔗 Find Carolyn: https://www.desireinreallife.com @desireinreallife Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
Perimenopause Killed Her Orgasm — 5 Moves to Get It Back
Send us Fan Mail A listener wrote in: "I'm 47 years old and going through perimenopause. Previously I would orgasm with my husband 90-95% of the time. Now I only orgasm 5-10% of the time." She's not alone. Roughly half of all women experience orgasm changes during perimenopause — and almost none are told why or what to do about it. This episode covers the physiology behind the shift, the medical options most women don't know exist (including why the FDA just reversed 20 years of warnings about hormone therapy), and the five moves that bring pleasure back. What you'll learn: ✔ The three physical changes during perimenopause that directly affect orgasm ✔ Why the FDA removed the black box warning from HRT — and what that means for her ✔ How to find hormone therapy providers online, including estrogen and testosterone ✔ Why her foreplay timeline has shifted and how to adjust ✔ How to relearn her body together after decades of knowing what worked ✔ Why taking the orgasm off the table is paradoxically what brings it back Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
Role Play 101: From Cringe to Craving
Send us Fan Mail 97% of adults have sexual fantasies. Less than a third ever act on them. The fear is almost never accurate — and in this episode, we're closing the gap between what you want and what you actually do. I'll be honest: role play has always given me the ick. So I brought in Emma Velicski — romance author and founder of Saturday Box, the company turning kink and role play into a game you can actually play with your partner — to figure out why so many of us freeze, and how to finally get started. We get into: What role play actually is (it's broader than you think) The real reason couples who want to try it never do Why it feels like a performance — and how to turn it back into play The "cheap knockoff" fear nobody names out loud Exactly how to start tonight, no costume required Find Emma and Saturday Box at https://saturdaybox.com/ Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
Squirting: 5 Moves That Get Her There!
Send us Fan Mail Most men have tried to make this happen. Most have done it wrong. And almost none of them understand what's actually going on in her body when it does. This episode covers the real anatomy behind this response, why the technique most men learned from the internet actually works against them, the one thing she's going to say in the moment that most men completely misread, and why relaxation — not force — is what makes this possible. What you'll learn: ✔ The anatomy behind this response that most men have never been taught ✔ Why the most common technique is the reason it's not working ✔ The conversation you need to have before you try anything ✔ The one sentence she'll say that changes everything — and what to do when you hear it ✔ Why what you do after matters just as much as the technique itself Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
Good Men, Bad Sex: Why Purity Culture Is Still in Your Bedroom (Even If You Left the Church)
Send us Fan Mail You never signed a purity pledge. Maybe you never set foot in a church. But the rules got in anyway — through locker rooms, movies, the way women around you were talked about, the bodies that got shamed. And now they're in your bedroom, quietly wrecking everything. Today I'm talking with Erika Smith — award-winning sexuality educator, 25 years in the field, and creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program — about the specific ways purity culture shows up in men who consider themselves good allies. Men who want their partners to have orgasms. Men who are still, without knowing it, making it impossible for her to ask for what she wants. We get into: Why she can't tell you to stop — even when she wants to The "good girl/bad girl" split that's killing your sex life right now How penis-centered sex became the default (and what it's costing both of you) The porn conversation that's destroying otherwise healthy relationships Where to start if you want to actually change what's happening in your bedroom This one's for the men who are trying. And the women who love them. Find Erika at: https://www.ericasmitheac.com/the-purity-culture-dropout-program Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
How to Edge Her Until She Begs: My 5 Move System
Send us Fan Mail You can take her to a regular orgasm. Or you can take her to one she'll be thinking about for weeks. Edging is the difference. In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 moves for how to edge her with your hands until she begs you to let her finish. The four signs that tell you she's at the edge. How to pull her back without losing her. Why each climb gets faster. How many edges actually work. And how to let her finish in a way that triggers a rolling orgasm she's never had with anyone. This episode also addresses something most edging content ignores: what to do with a partner who struggles to orgasm at all. I'm one of those women, and I'm walking through how to build toward edging when she can't easily get to the edge in the first place. We're covering: → The 4 science-backed signs she's about to come → The pull back — and why stopping completely ruins everything → How to bring her back up faster each time → The 3-edge rule and when to break it → The release that triggers a rolling orgasm → How to use toys like the Womanizer Enhance, Womanizer Duo, and We-Vibe Rave 2 to extend the experience Whether you're doing this with a partner who comes easily or one who's never been able to with you — this episode changes the game. Toys mentioned in the episode can be found at the links below. Use my code ANNETTE15 for 15% Off Womanizer Premium 2: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-premium-2 Womanizer Enhance: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-enhance Womanizer Next: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-next Womanizer Next Duo: https://womanizer-north-america.sjv.io/vDxxjA Womanizer Blend: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
How Porn Ruined Men's Foreplay — And the 3-Word Cheat Sheet That Fixes It
Send us Fan Mail Most men learned foreplay from porn. And porn doesn't do foreplay — it does a sped-up, skip-to-the-good-part performance that taught an entire generation that touching a woman is just a formality. She's lying there wondering why she isn't feeling it. It's not her. It's the script. Today's guest has spent 17 years collecting real-world data on exactly what porn got wrong — and what women actually need. Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, the world's first real-world sex platform, former Advertising Woman of the Year, and one of the most talked-about TED speakers in history. In this episode: Why porn turned foreplay into a formality — and what she actually needs instead The 3-word cheat sheet every woman wishes her partner had Why lube and toys aren't optional — they're the whole game How to talk about sex in bed without killing the mood What real-world sex actually looks like versus the porn performance Why good foreplay starts way before anyone gets naked Findy Cindy Here On Substack: https://dearcindy.substack.com/p/yes-you-really-can-ask-me-anything All of Cindy's Links: https://linktr.ee/cindygallop Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend 15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
5 Hand Techniques That Finish Her Every Time
Send us Fan Mail Most partners use one move with their hands. There are dozens. And most men have never heard of the deeper spot that changes everything. This episode is a complete guide — how to prep your hands so she actually wants them on her body, the five named techniques that produce completely different sensations, the two internal spots most partners don't know exist, and the combination move that gives her something she literally cannot give herself. What you'll learn: ✔ Why prepping your hands is foreplay (and most men skip it) ✔ How to build her response before you ever go where she wants you ✔ My top 5 techniques by name — circling, figure 8, broadening, cupping, the Hail Mary ✔ The two internal spots and what each one responds to ✔ The combination that gives her something no toy and no other body part can ✔ The finishing rule — and when to throw it out because she told you to Join in my 365 Days of Orgasms Journey Here: https://talksexwithannette.com/365-days-of-orgasms/ Watch 365 Days Playlist on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2D5TFyt2Q8&list=PL9sLRET3FJyVns_2_wXvOoGrBeHyU1DDp 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Subscribe to my OF: https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-m/ 📩Sign Up for My Newsletter: https://she-explores-life.kit.com/e9760c390c 🎧 Subscribe for weekly sex and intimacy how-tos on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talksexwithannette Get 15% Off Blended Orgasms at Womanizer.com with my code ANNETTE15! Go to https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer-blend Your New Favorite 365 Days of Orgasms Tool! 15% Off with code ANNETTE15 at Womanizer.com: https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/womanizer Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with us We are on all the socials: TikTok: @ TalkSexwithAnnette Annette's Insta: @ Annette Benedetti My OF: @ talksexwithannette FB: @TalksexwithAnnette Website: https://talksexwithannette.com Cheers!
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