Swapping Secrets invites you behind closed doors—into a world of open-minded love, queer glances, and unapologetic connection. Hosted by Jess and Lawrence, this podcast unveils juicy real-life stories, fierce-first tips, and playful provocations from inside the Our Secret Spot community. Whether you’re lifestyle-curious or full-time kinky, expect sharp insights, consent-driven conversations, and the kind of laughter that lasts long after the microphone turns off. Released biweekly. Tune in, subscribe, and never miss a secret.
What if better intimacy had less to do with technique and more to do with understanding your body? In this episode of Swapping Secrets , Jess and Lawrence are joined by Miranda Cheng , founder of We The Femme and a practitioner in pelvic care and holistic sexuality. Together, they explore how the pelvic floor, nervous system, stress and breath can influence desire, arousal and pleasure. Although many people focus on what they should do during sex, Miranda explains why noticing what is already happening in the body can be just as important. Find Miranda and We The Femme: Website Instagram Use SECRETS10 for 10% off We The Femme packages or SECRETS15 for 15% off a single session. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Body Hacks for Better Sex with Miranda Cheng appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess, Lawrence and producer Gabe revisit the movies, television shows and characters that quietly shaped how they understood queerness, gender, relationships and acceptance. They discuss the difference between meaningful representation and tokenism, why some of the strongest queer characters are simply allowed to exist without their identity becoming the entire storyline, and how children’s television can normalise different relationships without turning them into a lesson. The conversation also examines masculine stereotypes, gender expression, family attitudes and the impact of seeing people live outside traditional expectations on screen. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Movies & TV Shows That Were Queer Before Their Time appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
For Pride Month, we’re diving into the realities of modern queer relationships with elite gay matchmaker and relationship expert Daniel Cooley . From dating app burnout and modern matchmaking to monogamy, non-monogamy, communication, and the biggest misconceptions people have about LGBTQIA+ relationships, this conversation goes far beyond the stereotypes. Daniel shares what thousands of conversations with gay men have taught him about love, loneliness, dating, commitment, and why many people are still searching for genuine connection despite having more options than ever before. We also explore what heterosexual couples could learn from the way many queer relationships approach communication, boundaries, relationship structures, and emotional honesty. Whether you’re queer, straight, monogamous, non-monogamous, dating, partnered, or simply curious about modern relationships, this episode offers fresh perspectives on what meaningful connection really looks like today. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Queer Relationships Beyond the Stereotypes w/ Daniel Cooley appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with renowned sexologist and relationship counsellor Alice Child to answer one of the biggest questions facing modern couples: Why does intimacy break down, even in loving relationships? From mismatched libidos and emotional labour to communication challenges, parenting, stress, resentment and screen-time overload, Alice explains the most common reasons couples seek professional help and what actually works when it comes to rebuilding connection. Alice’s Links: Instagram Website Use code: LAUNCHSALE – and get 20% off across all physical products and online courses (Sale ends June 30th 2026) Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Why Your Sex Life Isn’t Working (And How To Fix It) with Alice Child appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with internationally recognised dominatrix, sex educator, and somatic practitioner Eva Oh for one of the deepest and most psychologically fascinating conversations the podcast has explored yet. From power dynamics and long-term psychological play to shame, erotic liberation, BDSM, submission, embodiment, and human desire — Eva opens up about the hidden emotional worlds behind kink and why so many people crave control, surrender, punishment, connection, and acceptance. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Eva’s Links: IG https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me YT https://www.youtube.com/evaoh Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Erotic Power, Shame & Kink w/ Eva Oh appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
Jess and Lawrence are diving into Reddit’s wildest open relationship stories — and things get messy fast. From ethical non-monogamy dating struggles and first-time anxiety to sex club boundaries, changing rules mid-play, safer sex debates and questionable couple behaviour, this episode unpacks the Reddit posts that made them laugh, cringe and ask: is this real or is this a troll? Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Reddit’s Wildest Open Relationship Stories appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In this episode of Swapping Secrets , we explore people, policy and pleasure podcast conversations with Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller , unpacking the hidden history of sex-on-premises venues in Sydney and how thoughtful legislation has shaped safer adult communities. From the legacy of the Disorderly Houses Act to the Bodyline precedent, police discretion, planning reform, and the role of local councils, this conversation explores how rules and boundaries can actually create safer, more expressive spaces. The episode also draws powerful parallels between policy, consent, communication, and freedom — both inside adult venues and across society more broadly. If you’ve ever wondered how sex-positive spaces are protected, why policy matters, or what Sydney can teach the wider world about safety, autonomy and respect, this one’s for you. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Jess Miller’s links: Instagram Website Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post People, Policy and Pleasure: Deputy Lord Mayor Jess Miller explains how Sydney built safer adult spaces appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by Dr. Leigh Barlow for a candid conversation about sex stigma, sexual health, STI testing, condoms, herpes, BV, and the choices that help people stay safe without shame . Together, they unpack why stigma around sex still exists, where sex education still falls short, and how open, informed conversations can reshape the way we think about sexual health in modern relationships and communities. Dr. Leigh shares practical insight into common STI myths, the importance of barrier protection, why testing should be based on risk, and how better education can help people make more confident decisions about their bodies and sexual wellbeing. If you’ve ever felt awkward talking about testing, disclosure, or sexual health, this episode is a powerful reminder that information, communication, and care should always come before shame. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Dr. Leigh Barlow’s Links: Instagram Hey Fella Roid Safe Stigma Health Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Sex Stigma and Smart Choices with Dr. Leigh Barlow appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In this episode of Swapping Secrets , Jess and Lawrence unpack one of the most relatable (and chaotic) parts of modern relationships — red flags in dating and why we ignore them when attraction takes over. We’ve all been there… The red flags are obvious, but the chemistry is too strong to walk away. From cocky behaviour, poor communication, ignoring boundaries, and unsafe sex practices , to the difference between dating vs the lifestyle , this episode dives deep into the psychology of desire and decision-making. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Red Flags We Ignore Because We’re Horny appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! In this exclusive, sneak-peek clip from our new segment, Raunchy Recaps , Jess and Lawrence share some of the wildest swingers club stories from inside Our Secret Spot. From dungeon encounters and orgy room chaos to hilarious behind-the-scenes moments, these real lifestyle stories reveal what actually happens inside a swingers club. From a school-themed party that started with a wardrobe malfunction… to a hilariously mismatched dungeon scene where one guy looked completely bored while the other was having the time of his life — this episode is full of unforgettable moments from behind the scenes at Our Secret Spot. What Really Happens Inside a Swingers Club? Lifestyle clubs are often misunderstood. While movies portray them as chaotic or purely sexual environments, the reality is usually far more social, respectful, and community-driven. At Our Secret Spot, every night brings unexpected moments — from hilarious misunderstandings to unforgettable connections. In this episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack several real swingers club stories including: – A school-themed party that started with a wardrobe malfunction – A dungeon scene where one participant was wildly enthusiastic and the other looked completely bored – A five-person shower scene in the orgy room – An influencer couple who seemed to turn their night into a performance These swingers club stories are just a small glimpse into the unexpected moments that happen behind the scenes at lifestyle venues like Our Secret Spot. If you enjoy real, uncensored conversations about relationships, sexuality, and community, Swapping Secrets delivers stories you won’t hear anywhere else. The post Dungeon Anal, Orgy Showers and Schoolgirl Chaos | Wild Swingers Club Stories appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with Genevieve LeJeune, founder of Skirt Club — the world’s largest women-only community for bisexual and bi-curious women. With over 27,000 members worldwide, Skirt Club has created a safe, empowering environment where women can explore sexuality, identity, and desire without pressure or judgement. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Genevieve’s link: Website Instagram (Skirt Club) Instagram (Genevieve) Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post What Happens at a Women-Only Sex Party? (w/ Genevieve LeJeune) appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from the lifestyle podcast space. This episode is raw, honest and unfiltered — but always rooted in consent, communication and curiosity. If you’re exploring non-monogamy, swinging, open relationships, or just curious about how real people navigate sex-positive spaces — this one’s for you. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship? appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
What happens when curiosity turns into lived experience — and desire reshapes your identity, relationships, and sense of self? In Part 1 of this raw and reflective episode, Jess and Lawrence unpack how sexual desire can both liberate and destabilise. From early curiosity and boundary-blurring moments to the emotional hangovers no one prepares you for, this conversation dives into the grey areas between empowerment, regret, growth, and self-awareness. They explore how desire evolves, the difference between fantasy and reality, and why some experiences leave us feeling more confused than fulfilled — especially when communication, emotional readiness, or self-understanding lag behind sexual exploration. This is an honest, nuanced look at what desire can unlock… and what it can quietly undo. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Did Our Sexual Desires Mess Us Up? appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
Midlife used to be framed as the beginning of the sexual slow-down. Less desire. Less energy. Less spark. But what if that story is completely wrong? In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence are joined by globally renowned intimacy expert Susan Bratton to unpack what she calls The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance — a powerful phase where confidence deepens, communication sharpens, and pleasure expands in ways younger generations rarely expect. Together, they explore how desire actually evolves with age, why libido isn’t meant to be constant, and how understanding arousal as a ladder (not a switch) changes everything. Susan breaks down the science behind expanding orgasmic capacity, the role of blood flow, hormones, and nervous system health, and why many people report the best sex of their lives in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Susan Bratton Links Website: https://betterlover.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post The New Midlife Sexual Renaissance – Why Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Susan Bratton (BetterLover) appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
In this episode of Swapping Secrets , Jess and Lawrence are joined by Bradford and Angela from the By The By Podcast to unpack the emotional mechanics of jealousy, envy, fear of missing out, and the boundaries that keep open relationships healthy, sexy, and sustainable. Together, they explore why jealousy often has more to do with insecurity than possession, how unmet needs amplify emotional reactions, and why clear boundaries don’t restrict freedom — they protect connection. From real-world club experiences to long-term lessons learned across 15 years of ethical non-monogamy, this episode dives into how communication, emotional awareness, and post-play check-ins can transform conflict into growth. The conversation also tackles the crucial difference between rules and boundaries, why boundaries should never be renegotiated mid-moment, and how to communicate limits without shame, control, or killing the vibe. Whether you’re new to non-monogamy or deeply experienced, this episode is a masterclass in emotional resilience, consent-driven communication, and why boundaries might just be the sexiest skill you can learn. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Bradford & Angela’s links: Website: https://www.bythebi.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/bythebipodcast FB: https://www.facebook.com/bythebipodcast/ Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post The Sexiest thing YOU can do is Set a Boundary appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
Naughty Christmas swinger stories are the unofficial love language of the holidays — and OSS has plenty to unwrap. In this extra-spicy Christmas special, Jess and Lawrence dive headfirst into naughty Christmas swinger stories sent in by the community, opening listener gifts, reading filthy confessions, and reliving the most outrageous festive moments of the year. From toy reveals and cheeky fan letters to edible lube taste tests and full-blown holiday chaos, this episode is equal parts heartfelt and unhinged. They also reflect on the growth of the club, the evolution of the podcast, and the wild experiences that defined 2025 — capped off with a present swap that absolutely should’ve stayed off HR’s radar. If you’ve ever wondered what the holidays look like inside a swingers club, these naughty Christmas swinger stories deliver everything you hoped for… and then some. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Naughty Christmas Special: Listener Gifts, Wild Stories and OSS Holiday Chaos appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
Self-pleasure has quietly shifted from a whispered taboo to a full-blown cultural reclamation — and few people have championed that transformation more powerfully than Rosie Rees . In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive deep into the world of empowered intimacy, slow pleasure, mindful masturbation, and the quiet revolution happening in bedrooms everywhere. Rosie opens up about the origins of Yoni Pleasure Palace , how crystal and glass toys are reshaping internal pleasure, and why slowing down can unlock deeper, more connected, more embodied orgasms. They explore the healing power of self-touch, why shame still lingers around solo pleasure, and how early “be quick, be quiet” conditioning shapes adult sexuality. Rosie also unpacks the creation of Splash Blanket , the booming global culture around squirting, and why having permission to “make a mess” can be the key to letting go. From myth-busting and toy talk to navigating pleasure in relationships and reconnecting with your sensual body, this episode is equal parts grounding, expansive, and joyfully liberating. If you’ve ever wanted to explore sensuality, pleasure, body confidence, or inner connection without shame — this is your invitation. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Rosie’s Links: FREE 7-Day Self Pleasure Course: https://yoni-pleasure-palace.teachable.com/p/7-day-self-pleasure-training Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosie.rees Yoni Pleasure Palace: https://yonipleasurepalace.com Splash Blanket: https://splashblanket.com (use promo code: secretspot) Women’s Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yonipalace Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
Consent is easy when it’s a bright, enthusiastic “yes.” But what about the murky moments — the mixed signals, the non-verbal cues, the awkward pauses, or the moments you only realise after the fact that something felt… off? In this episode, Lawrence, and our guest Prue, dive into the real-world grey areas of consent — the ones that don’t show up in manuals but absolutely show up in bedrooms, clubs, and parties. Drawing from lived experiences and stories from the community, they explore how misunderstandings happen, how to slow things down without killing the vibe, and how to handle “oops, that didn’t feel right” with accountability and compassion. They unpack why consent is more than “no means no,” how power dynamics and group situations complicate things, and why emotional readiness is just as important as physical willingness. This is an honest, nuanced conversation about communication, boundaries, repair, and self-awareness — because great s*x isn’t just about enthusiasm, it’s about empathy. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Reading the Signals — When Consent Isn’t Clear-Cut appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
Jess and Lawrence pull back the curtain on one of the most real, raw challenges in the lifestyle: how to balance parenting with swinging, non-monogamy, and staying sexy. From babysitters to bedtime, stigma to scheduling — this episode is a candid look at the juggling act of raising toddlers while still embracing fun, intimacy, and freedom. With real stories from parents in the community (and a few cheeky confessions of their own), they unpack how families make it work without letting love or lust take a back seat. Inside this episode: How parents in the lifestyle juggle childcare, sex lives, and relationship time. Why scheduling and planning ahead is the secret weapon for sexy parents. Dealing with stigma at daycare, the school gate, and in the wider community. Why keeping connection alive as partners makes you better parents. PLUS — in this week’s Just the Tip segment, Jess & Lawrence play a hilarious game of Parenting or Sex Toy? with items from their very own survival kit. Spoiler: not everything is as innocent as it looks… Whether you’re a parent curious about the lifestyle or a listener who just loves real talk about sex, stigma, and balance — this episode proves that with creativity (and the right babysitter), you really can have it all. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post Swinging Parents: Tackling Stigma and Scheduling Sex appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
Get your Safer Sex Checklist Jess and Lawrence are diving into the practical side of love, lust, and lifestyle — how to stay safe, healthy, and confident in open and non-monogamous relationships. From STI checks to mental health, condoms to communication, this episode busts myths and flips stigma on its head with real talk and real tools. Because it’s not about being “dirty swingers” — it’s about being sexy, safe swingers . Inside this episode: Why “flying the lifestyle plane” is safer than most people think. How to normalize the safe sex talk — and why it can actually turn you on. The must-have health check routine that keeps you and your community safe. Why mental health is just as important as physical health in the lifestyle. The ultimate “go bag” essentials every sexy adventurer should pack. PLUS — Jess & Lawrence build their very own Safer Sex Checklist (with a cheeky demo of dental dams you won’t want to miss). Whether you’re a newbie, a seasoned swinger, or just curious, this episode shows why communication, safety, and self-care are the hottest turn-ons of all. Want more of this smut? Join our Patreon for extra spicy content! Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast) Reddit (Podcast) TikTok (Podcast) Facebook (Club) Instagram (Club) X (Club) Our Secret Spot is a multi-award-winning swingers club. Want to join the party IRL? Purchase your tickets here: UPCOMING EVENTS Want to connect with other open-minded folks? Join our Online Member’s Area — where you can share stories, plan meetups, and stay in the loop on all things OSS. Get in touch with us: Email | Phone – 1300 OSS 069 Love the pod? A 5-star Google review goes a long way. Leave yours [ here ]. The post 6 Health and Safety Secrets for Non-Monogamy appeared first on Our Secret Spot .
