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Imagine if you could follow your ambition without drowning in it – how much more fulfilling life would be? That’s what Pause Purpose Play is all about – finding balance over burnout by setting you free from needing to be perfect, so that you can take action and get started with what matters to you, instead of getting stuck in procrastination and holding yourself back with self-limiting beliefs your inner critic tells you. In this podcast, Michaela Thomas, Clinical Psychologist, Couples Therapist and founder of The Thomas Connection, shares bite-sized learning around psychology of performance, habits, self-confidence, stress, anxiety, perfectionism, parenthood and couples relationships. The podcast will mix solo episodes with guest interviews; diving deep into their professional zone of genius and learning about how they have found pause, purpose and play in their life and in their work. My new book, The Lasting Connection, is available now from all good bookshops.
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When two ADHD experts get together to talk about neurodivergence, we can skip the basics and go so much deeper. In this episode, I'm joined by Kate Moryoussef — ADHD coach, EFT practitioner, author of The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit, and host of the ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast — to explore what it really takes to navigate life as a late-identified neurodivergent woman. We dive into the complex reality of managing your capacity, navigating perimenopause alongside ADHD, unlearning lifelong perfectionism, and why true well-being goes far beyond quick social media hacks. Kate shares openly about her own lived experience, the reality of post-event energy crashes, and how she builds a supportive ecosystem to burn bright without burning out. In this episode, we cover: The deep need for in-person connection and finding "your people" as a late-diagnosed woman The intersection of ADHD, perimenopause, and lifelong hormonal struggles Protecting your energy, honoring bodily cues, and navigating post-adrenaline crashes Why self-identification is valid and how to support yourself while on long assessment waitlists Moving beyond the binary of ADHD as either a "superpower" or a curse Setting boundaries around sleep, screen time, and constant dopamine consumption The hidden perfectionism behind workaholism, people-pleasing, and the internal "not enough" narrative Why coaching, therapy, and nervous system regulation work together as a holistic toolkit The future of neurodivergence assessments and moving toward more fluid, holistic diagnostic pathways Key reminder You don't need to tick every box, fix everything, or prove your worth by pushing past your limits. Whatever you have done today is enough, and you are worthy of rest. About Kate Moryoussef Kate is a Women's ADHD Lifestyle and Wellbeing Coach, EFT practitioner, author, and podcast host. Diagnosed at 40, she combines lived experience with professional expertise to help women understand themselves with clarity, compassion, and realistic, sustainable strategies. Connect with Kate Website: www.adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk Listen to Michaela’s guest episode on Kate's podcast: https://www.adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk/podcast Resources & Links ✨ Join my free Nervous System Reset to help you move from overwhelm to calm (without having to sit still!): www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/reset ✨ Golden Event (London, October 9th): An intimate day for nine women to pause, restore capacity, and build purpose without burnout: https://thethomasconnection.thrivecart.com/golden-in-person-event-oct-2026/ Enjoyed this episode? Please follow the podcast, leave a rating or review, and share this episode with someone who is navigating a new diagnosis or trying to find the words to speak to the doubters. It helps more people discover Pause, Purpose, Play and supports the podcast to reach those who need it most.
Have you recently received an ADHD diagnosis and immediately thought, "Who do I tell - and how?" After all the relief, validation, and processing, sharing your diagnosis can feel like a massive, terrifying leap of vulnerability. You might wonder what to say to your partner, family, or colleagues, while secretly dreading responses like, "But you're so organized!" or "Isn't everyone a little bit ADHD these days?" In this solo episode, I share how to navigate disclosing your neurodivergence, how to protect your emotional safety, and what to do when faced with doubters, critics, or classic ADHD myths. In this episode we explore: • Why sharing your diagnosis is entirely your choice - and why you don't owe anyone a "big reveal" • The importance of starting with your "green light" safe people before tackling harder conversations • Why the first person you need to share and integrate this diagnosis with is yourself • Reframing ADHD as a lens to see yourself through rather than a restrictive label • How diagnosis helps you unpeel old, harmful labels like "lazy," "careless," or "flaky" • The crucial difference between an explanation and an excuse • Unpacking high masking, perfectionism, and why "you don't look like you have ADHD" is a common response • Why you don't need to enter "courtroom mode" or prove your diagnosis to anyone • Practical scripts and responses for handling common comments from doubters • What other people’s reactions reveal about their ability to hold safe, compassionate space for you If you've been feeling overwhelmed about how to navigate these conversations - or if the biggest doubter you're facing is the voice inside your own head - this episode is your reminder that you get to set the boundaries and go at your own pace. Join me in person at Golden – 9th October in London A space to connect, unmask, and be around women who get it - without having to explain yourself. Golden In Person Event October 2026 Enjoyed this episode? Please follow the podcast, leave a rating or review, and share this episode with someone who is navigating a new diagnosis or trying to find the words to speak to the doubters. It helps more people discover Pause, Purpose, Play and supports the podcast to reach those who need it most.
Do you ever feel like you're so busy trying to keep up that you can't actually think? When you have ADHD, a busy brain, or you're juggling work, family and everyone's needs, it can feel impossible to find the mental space to make decisions. Ironically, the harder you push for clarity, the harder it becomes to find it. In this solo episode, I share why slowing down isn't the opposite of productivity - it's often the fastest route to clear thinking, creativity and problem-solving. Using the story of hosting my very first Summer Reset in my garden (complete with an impulsively purchased hot tub!), I explore what happened when I stopped rushing, trusted the process and allowed my nervous system enough space to think differently. In this episode we explore: Why your brain struggles to solve problems when you're stuck in threat mode The psychology behind slowing down to gain clarity ADHD, creativity and why spaciousness matters How regulating your nervous system improves decision-making Why "having a go" often works better than waiting until you feel ready Practical ways to create moments of mental space in everyday life The surprising power of walking, showers and quiet reflection for unlocking new ideas How perfectionism keeps us stuck - and what to do instead If you've been feeling overwhelmed, mentally blocked or like you're constantly reacting rather than creating, this episode is your reminder that sometimes the most productive thing you can do is pause. ✨ Join the September Summer Reset in Leighton Buzzard (limited to just eight women): https://thethomasconnection.thrivecart.com/hot-tub-reset/ 🎧 Enjoyed this episode? Please follow the podcast, leave a rating or review, and share it with someone who could use permission to slow down today. It helps more people discover Pause Purpose Play and supports the podcast to reach those who need it most.
Have you ever looked at your child and thought, "They're incredibly bright... so why are they finding school, friendships or everyday life so hard?" If so, this episode is for you. I'm joined by Emma Hetherington, founder of Kind of Extraordinary, to unpack what it really means to be Twice Exceptional (2e) – when a child is both gifted and neurodivergent, such as ADHD, autism, dyslexia or another learning difference. We talk about why these children are so often misunderstood, why their strengths can hide their struggles (and vice versa), and why so many bright neurodivergent children fall through the cracks. As both clinicians and parents of twice exceptional children ourselves, this conversation is packed with practical examples, personal stories and plenty of reassurance that you're not imagining things. In this episode we explore: What Twice Exceptional (2e) actually means How giftedness is also being differently wired, or neurodivergent Why gifted children can also have ADHD, autism or dyslexia as part of neurodivergence How bright children can mask their struggles at school Why schools sometimes miss both giftedness and neurodivergence The "spiky profile" that many 2e children have Perfectionism, anxiety and burnout in bright neurodivergent children Why 2e children ask "why?" about everything Parenting strategies that build connection instead of conflict How to better understand and advocate for your child Whether you're parenting a gifted ADHD child, wondering if your autistic child is also highly able, or recognising parts of yourself in this conversation, I hope this episode helps you feel seen. Resources & Links ✨ Join my free Nervous System Reset to help you move from overwhelm to calm (without having to sit still!): www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/reset . Connect with Emma: www.kindofextraordinary.co.uk Instagram @kindofextraordinary TikTok @emma_kindofextraordinary 💛 If you enjoyed this episode, please follow the podcast, leave a review and share it with another parent who needs to hear this conversation.
Parental burnout isn't the same as feeling tired after a difficult day. It's an evidence-based psychological syndrome that can develop when the demands of parenting consistently outweigh the resources available to meet those demands. In this episode, I'm exploring what parental burnout actually is, why ADHD and neurodivergent families may be at greater risk, and the hidden role that perfectionism can play in keeping us stuck. If you've ever found yourself thinking, "I don't recognise the parent I've become," this episode is for you. In this episode, we explore: What parental burnout is (and how it's different from everyday parenting stress) The four signs of parental burnout, based on the research of Professors Moïra Mikolajczak and Isabelle Roskam Why ADHD parents and parents of neurodivergent children may be particularly vulnerable How perfectionism quietly fuels parental burnout Three practical, evidence-informed ways to begin recovering from parental burnout Why support is scaffolding, not failure If this conversation resonates, I hope you'll remember one thing: Parental burnout isn't a sign you've failed your children. It's often a sign you've been trying to be a good parent for too long without enough support. 🥘This episode also mentioned Simmer Eats - not a paid affiliate, but genuinely a useful resource I treat myself to. As someone who knows that ADHD brains often struggle with meal planning, cooking and decision fatigue, I'm delighted to partner with Simmer Eats. Their high-protein, chef-made frozen meals have become a genuine staple in my freezer for those days when I need something nourishing without the mental load. You can save 50% off your first order using my link: www.simmereats.com/r/michaela-SJU 💛Free nervous system reset If you're feeling overwhelmed, constantly "on", or like your nervous system never gets a chance to switch off, I've created a free guided Nervous System Reset to help you pause, regulate and reconnect with yourself. Join it here: www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/reset If you found this episode helpful, I'd be so grateful if you could follow the podcast, leave a review, or share it with another parent who might need to hear that they're not alone.
When your child is excluded from childcare, after-school club or wraparound care, the practical impact is obvious. But the emotional impact is often hidden. In this episode, I'm talking about the shame, grief and isolation that many parents experience when the support they rely on suddenly disappears. Because for families raising neurodivergent children, losing childcare isn't just an inconvenience – it can remove one of the few opportunities parents have to work, recover or simply catch their breath. If you've ever received that difficult phone call, been told a setting "can't meet your child's needs", or found yourself wondering, "What happens now?", I hope this episode helps you feel a little less alone. In this episode, we explore: The hidden emotional impact of being excluded from childcare or wraparound care Why parents often carry shame when their child is struggling The difference between a child whose needs exceed a setting's capacity and a child who is "too difficult" Why losing childcare also means losing vital support for parents Letting go of self-blame when systems aren't able to meet your child's needs Why grieving the loss of support is a completely valid response If this episode resonates, I hope you'll remember this: Your child's needs are not a reflection of your worth as a parent. Sometimes families need more support than the systems around them are able to provide. 💛Free nervous system reset If you're carrying the emotional weight of parenting and your nervous system feels constantly on high alert, I've created a free guided Nervous System Reset to help you pause, regulate and reconnect with yourself. Join it for free here: www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/reset If you found this episode helpful, I'd be so grateful if you could follow the podcast, leave a review, or share it with another parent who might need to hear that they're not alone.
Ever felt guilty for using after-school club, holiday club, childcare, or asking for help? In this episode, I'm talking about something many parents carry quietly: the guilt and shame of needing support. Whether you're the last parent at pickup, relying on wraparound care to make life work, or trying to parent an intense, sensitive, or neurodivergent child without a village around you, this episode is for you. I explore why support isn't failure, why childcare can be a form of scaffolding rather than a sign you're not coping, and why taking care of yourself is often one of the most caring things you can do for your child. Because your child isn't in childcare because you don't care. They're there because you do. In this episode, we cover: Why modern parenting was never meant to be done alone The guilt many parents feel about needing childcare and support Parenting intense, sensitive and neurodivergent children Why support is scaffolding, not failure The impact of burnout on family life How childcare can help you recover, regulate and reconnect Releasing the shame of not being able to do it all yourself If you've ever wondered whether you're a bad parent for needing a break, I hope this episode offers a gentler perspective. If you're a woman navigating ADHD, perfectionism, burnout, or the pressure of holding everything together, I'd love to invite you to explore how we can support you. To get my latest unhinged musings and get inspiration for how you can better meet your own emotional needs, make sure to get my Friday newsletter here: www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/newsletter
In this episode of Pause, Purpose, Play, we dive deep into the powerful connection between shifting hormones and neurodivergence with Dr Fionnuala Barton, also known as The Menopause Medic. We explore how the natural fluctuation and decline of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone can drastically worsen ADHD symptoms both across the monthly menstrual cycle and throughout perimenopause. These hormonal shifts often show up unexpectedly as heightened anxiety, cognitive changes, and intense brain fog, leaving many women struggling with word-finding, memory gaps, constant distractibility, and zoning out. Left unmanaged, this combination significantly increases the risk of complete burnout. Dr Barton explains why these symptoms frequently intensify during the luteal phase right before a period, and emphasizes that it is never too early to seek medical support, even for those under the age of forty-five. Throughout our conversation, we cover the vital importance of ruling out overlapping factors like iron deficiency and Premature Ovarian Insufficiency. We also demystify the medical side of hormone health, discussing sensitivity to contraception, the trial-and-error process of finding the right HRT delivery method, and how to distinguish between PMDD, traditional PMS, and perimenopausal tracking. We talk about practical, everyday strategies that support your brain and body without the pressure of perfectionism. Dr Barton shares foundational lifestyle habits centered around quality sleep, consistent hydration, and steady nutrition packed with complex carbohydrates, protein, fiber, calcium, omega-3s, vitamin D3/K2, and creatine. We wrap up with actionable advice on how partners can step in to provide meaningful support, making this a must-listen episode for anyone navigating the intersection of ADHD and hormone health.
Do you look like you’re coping on the outside… whilst feeling overwhelmed underneath it all? Many high-achieving women with ADHD go undiagnosed for years because they appear successful, capable and “high functioning” externally — whilst internally battling chronic overwhelm, perfectionism, anxiety and exhaustion. In this episode of Pause Purpose Play, Clinical Psychologist and ADHD specialist Michaela Thomas explores why ADHD gets missed in high-achieving women, and the hidden cost of masking, overcompensating and holding everything together. Inside the episode, Michaela explores: ADHD masking and overfunctioning in women why intelligent and successful women often get missed the “good girl” adaptation and perfectionism ADHD burnout and nervous system overwhelm the difference between coping and truly thriving why many women don’t seek support until later in life Because many women with ADHD were never truly “fine”. They simply became exceptionally skilled at hiding the struggle — from others and from themselves. If this episode resonates and you’d like to explore ADHD assessment further, head on over to www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/adhd to learn more about compassionate online and in-person ADHD assessments for women.
In this episode, I’m sharing a more personal reflection on what it’s actually like to move through grief when your brain is already wired for intensity, sensitivity, and self-questioning. Because one of the things I’ve noticed…n is how quickly grief can get mislabelled as avoidance. You might think: “Why can’t I just get back to normal?” “Am I slipping?” “Do I just need more discipline?” But what if that’s not what’s happening at all? In this episode, we explore: The difference between avoidance vs readiness after grief (and why that matters) How your nervous system processes loss (and why you feel so tired) The productivity pressure ADHDers carry, to push through and perform What it means to listen inward instead of overriding yourself Gentle ways to support yourself when you feel raw, slower, or not quite ready Want support with this work? If this episode resonates, this is exactly the kind of space I create inside my coaching work — where we move away from burnout and pressure, and towards self-trust, nervous system safety, and sustainable ways of living and working with ADHD. Join me in person at Golden – 15th May in London A space to connect, unmask, and be around women who get it—without having to explain yourself. Golden In Person Event May 2026
I explain that “time optimist” isn’t my term but a gentler Swedish alternative to “time blindness,” reframing chronic lateness and overcommitting as optimism about what fits into limited time rather than moral failure. From an ADHD and executive-function lens, I describe how difficulty sensing time’s passage, prioritizing, task initiation, distraction, and hyperfocus can lead to double-booking, missed deadlines, and “deadline dancing,” even when people care deeply and feel shame. I discuss how stress can worsen planning and focus, how punctuality varies by brain wiring and socialization, and why rigid professions can be harder than flexible work arrangements. I connect time optimism with procrastination, perfectionism, people-pleasing, burnout, and self-criticism, especially under modern pressures. I share practical supports like visual timers, time tracking, adding buffers, tolerating being early, reflecting on how rushing feels, and using self-compassion as motivation to change.
In this episode, Michaela explores the difference between trying to fit in and truly belonging, especially for ADHD and neurodivergent women who’ve been labeled “too much”—too sensitive, intense, chatty, or emotional. She reflects on how our bodies often sense when something is off in social settings, from subtle exclusions to polite but insincere connections, and how this can fuel overthinking and rejection sensitivity. Michaela also shares how things change when you’re with the right people: less replaying conversations, more ease, and the start of unmasking—not by force, but in the presence of safety. Events mentioned in this episode: Sweden ADHD Women’s Retreat (11–14 June) A small, curated space (only 5 spots) for rest, reflection, and connection https://thethomasconnection.thrivecart.com/shine-retreat-2026/ Golden – London (15 May) A brunch-style in-person event to pause, reflect, and connect with like-minded women https://thethomasconnection.thrivecart.com/golden-in-person-event-may-2026/
In this episode, Michaela Thomas talks about the common feeling of not fitting in—especially for late-identified ADHD women—and how it can create a constant background self-monitoring of how we come across. She shares a personal moment of feeling “too much” on the school run while wearing bright pinks, and how small daily flickers of self-consciousness can build into a belief that we’re different and need to adapt by overexplaining, overapologizing, shrinking, or camouflaging to feel safe and accepted. Drawing on Brené Brown’s distinction between fitting in and belonging, Michaela explores how these coping strategies often come from past experiences of criticism, misunderstanding, or exclusion, and how the cost can be exhaustion, social burnout, loneliness, and losing a sense of self. She close with a compassionate reframe: you don’t need to change who you are to belong—you may just need the right people and spaces, including my London meetup on May 15. Join Michaela: Golden – London (15 May) A brunch-style in-person event to pause, reflect, and connect with like-minded women https://thethomasconnection.thrivecart.com/golden-in-person-event-may-2026/
If you feel constantly “on” - ticking off tasks, replying to messages, holding everything together - this episode is your reminder that your best thinking doesn’t happen in the busy… it happens in the pause. In this solo episode, Michaela Thomas explores the power of deeper reflection - and why creating space (not more productivity) is often the missing piece for ADHD brains. From a simple walk through London to imagining a retreat in Sweden, this episode invites you to rethink what rest, creativity, and problem-solving really look like. In this episode, Michaela covers: Why constant busyness blocks creativity and insight The role of the default mode network (DMN) in ADHD — and why mind-wandering is not a flaw How “being away with the fairies” might actually be where your best ideas live The hidden cost of executive functioning overload (yes, even by 9am…) Why rest doesn’t have to mean being still or silent How movement (walking, swimming, singing) can unlock reflection and emotional processing The power of unstructured space vs over-planned routines A reframe on retreats — from “doing” to being, connecting, and allowing Events mentioned in this episode: Sweden ADHD Women’s Retreat (11–14 June) A small, curated space (only 5 spots) for rest, reflection, and connection https://thethomasconnection.thrivecart.com/shine-retreat-2026/ Golden – London (15 May) A brunch-style in-person event to pause, reflect, and connect with like-minded women https://thethomasconnection.thrivecart.com/golden-in-person-event-may-2026/
When neurodivergence isn’t properly understood at work, even highly capable people can end up struggling without the right support. In this episode, Michaela Thomas is joined by employment lawyer Jodie Hill, founder of Thrive Law, to explore reasonable adjustments, psychological safety, and how employers can better support neurodivergent staff to thrive. Drawing on both legal and psychological perspectives — from Jodie Hill’s work in employment law and Michaela's work delivering neurodivergence training and compassionate leadership development — they explore what happens when capacity is mistaken for capability, and how to build compassionate, psychologically safe and neuroinclusive workplaces where people don’t just cope, but truly flourish. In this episode, they cover: * the difference between capability and capacity * what reasonable adjustments really mean in practice * why unsupported neurodivergence can look like underperformance * the role of psychological safety in disclosure and support * common mistakes employers make * when a role may be the wrong fit and how to handle that with compassion and lawfulness A powerful conversation for both employees and employers, especially during Neurodiversity Celebration Week. If your organisation is looking to better support neurodivergent staff, Michaela delivers psychological neurodiversity training, leadership development, and culture change programmes through all-staff training and executive coaching. Read more on www.thethomasconnection.co.uk To work with Jodie and her team at Thrive Law, head to www.thrivelaw.co.uk If this episode resonates, do share it with someone navigating neurodiversity at work.
In this episode of the Pause Purpose Play podcast, host Michaela welcomes clinical psychologist and knitting enthusiast Dr. Mia Hobbs. The conversation explores the therapeutic benefits of knitting, especially for those dealing with perfectionism, mindfulness challenges, and ADHD. Dr Hobbs, co-founder of Creative Restoration and host of the Why I Knit podcast, shares her insights on how knitting can be used as a tool for self-care and mental well-being. The episode delves into the common traps knitters face, such as perfectionism, and emphasises the importance of engaging with creative activities. It also touches on the social and psychological benefits of knitting, making it a metaphor for life and a means of active rest and relaxation. Connect with Mia Hobbs: creativerestoration.org
Many ADHD leaders are brilliant in a crisis. Quick thinking. Pattern spotting. Calm under pressure. But what if the same brain that thrives in urgency is also quietly creating it? In this episode, Michaela explores: Why ADHD nervous systems light up in chaos The link between dysregulation and “micro-mistakes” Shame loops around small accidents The difference between responsibility and self-attack Why slowing down sharpens your leadership rather than softening it If you’re tired of constantly fixing fires - this conversation will help. 🌿Join Me in Sweden — Shine Retreat 2026 Ready to step out of reactive mode and into steady, sustainable leadership? Shine Retreat 2026 is a restorative, psychology-informed immersion for high-achieving women who want to burn bright without burning out. Regulate your nervous system. Reconnect with purpose. Lead from clarity instead of chaos. Swim in a lake, sit in a sauna, wander in the woodlands and just... be. 👉 Learn more here and put down a deposit to secure your place - only 6 spots available!
Are you under performing… or are you under-supported? In this episode, I reflect on delivering neurodivergence training to managers and unpack a powerful workplace question: when someone isn’t meeting expectations, is it capability — or context? Through a compassion-focused lens, we explore: The difference between equality and equity Why clarity around feedback and expectations matters deeply How rejection sensitivity can distort workplace communication Why ADHD is an explanation, not an excuse The shame–overwork–burnout cycle many high achievers fall into How psychological safety improves performance for everyone Neurodivergent performance may not look neurotypical — and that doesn’t make it wrong. Whether you're a leader supporting staff or someone quietly masking and overworking to hide your struggles, this episode invites a shift: from blame to curiosity, from fear to compassion. Want to build a more neuroinclusive workplace? I deliver talks and training across the UK on neurodivergence, psychological safety and compassionate leadership. Connect with me: LinkedIn Website Let’s help your people thrive — not just survive.
When a child can’t get into school, it’s often labelled as “refusal”. But what if it’s not won’t… it’s can’t? In this episode, I’m joined by psychologist Dr Carolyne Keenan to unpack Emotion-Based School Avoidance (EBSA) — what it really is, what it isn’t, and how parents can navigate this incredibly complex space with compassion. In this episode, we cover: What EBSA actually means (and why it’s not about defiance or manipulation) The difference between “won’t” and “can’t” Early signs to look out for (tummy aches, shutdown, irritability, “fizzing” bodies) Why children often seem fine at weekends or in holidays Burnout in children — and why “push through” can backfire The emotional toll on parents (work pressure, guilt, exhaustion) Why making home “less fun” is not the answer The tension between attendance targets and emotional safety How to respond in the early stages to prevent escalation The spectrum of EBSA — from subject-specific avoidance to full shutdown Practical ways to seek support (schools, councils, local offers) Why education is not one single narrow path Key reminder If reassurance alone fixed this, EBSA wouldn’t exist. Sometimes the bravest parenting move is softening, pausing, and prioritising safety over forcing attendance. About Dr Carolyne Keenan Carolyne is a Registered Counselling Psychologist specialising in anxiety, family stress, and Emotion-Based School Avoidance. She offers 1:1 support, consultations, and runs a 12-week programme for parents called Survive EBSA. Carolyne's website: www.carolynekeenan.co.uk If this episode resonates, please share it with a parent who needs to hear: It’s not defiance. It’s distress.
A Therapist’s Reframe on Six “Healthy” Wellness Habits on Social Media Many wellness habits shared online are well-intentioned. But when taken to extremes, they can quietly feed pressure, perfectionism and burnout. In this solo episode of Pause Purpose Play, Clinical Psychologist Michaela Thomas offers a gentle therapist’s reframe on six “healthy” wellness habits often promoted on social media - not as a takedown of influencers, but as an invitation to explore with what actually supports psychological health in an evidence-based way. In this episode, Michaela explores: Why constant optimisation keeps us stuck in performance mode The myth that being “regulated” means always being calm How overfunctioning gets mistaken for resilience When self-care tips into self-absorption The difference between assertiveness and aggression when setting boundaries Why attacking your inner critic often backfires This episode is for anyone who’s doing all the “right” things — yet still feels exhausted. ✨ Ready to step out of performance mode? If this resonated, you’re invited to The Reset — a short, therapist-led nervous system reset as a mini-course you do on your own, designed to help you slow down, soften, and create steadiness without self-criticism. 👉 www.thethomasconnection.co.uk/reset
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