Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance. Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during TV seasons, twice a week.
Q&A! Childfree Judgment & "I Love My Guy But Hate His Diet" - Ep 482
1 hr 20 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your friend regularly makes passive aggressive digs about your childfree-by-choice lifestyle, is a confrontation in order? How can you navigate your in-laws' past financial issues becoming YOUR future problem? If he ends it because of his father's diagnosis, is that a sign you should wait, or is the illness a red herring? And what to do if you love your guy but hate his vegetarianism? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 55% off your night guard! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:08 - My Friend Keeps Making Digs About My Childfree Lifestyle—Do I Confront Her? 13:15 - My Husband’s Parents Are Likely To Become Our Financial Burden One Day—Any Advice? 30:25 - After 2 Months Of “Bliss”, He Ended It Due To His Father’s Illness—Do I Wait For Him? 57:05 - I Love My Guy But Not His Vegetarianism—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
1 hr 34 min
Content note: This episode contains discussion of alleged domestic violence and may be difficult for some listeners. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or texting START to 88788 . Please listen with care and skip this episode if needed. This week, we're joined by Blake Robertson, whom many viewers know from The Ultimatum . Since his time on the show, Blake has also been the subject of public allegations of domestic violence—a topic that understandably evokes strong emotions and one we strived to approach with care in this conversation. Our goal with this interview is not to tell listeners what conclusions to draw, nor to minimize the seriousness of domestic violence. Rather, we believe difficult conversations are best approached thoughtfully, with honesty, attention to detail, and room for nuance. In this episode, we ask Blake the questions many viewers have had since the allegations became public. He also discusses public scrutiny, accountability, personal growth, and what life has looked like after the cameras stopped rolling. More Blake: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblakerobertson - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theblakerobertson Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Blake Robertson 1:35 - What Terms He’s On With Hayley Currently 2:13 - Why Did He Propose? 7:31 - The TMZ Article 10:28 - After Filming The Show 19:30 - Charleston 40:49 - Scene 2 55:51 - Night Of The Arrest 1:14:25 - The Affidavit 1:17:24 - Finances 1:22:40 - Did The Show Accurately Represent Their Relationship? 1:26:06 - Beliefs 1:28:43 - Regrets 1:31:44 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
The Ultimatum S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 480
1 hr 2 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down the Finale and Reunion for Season 4! *** This episode discusses domestic assault. Please listen with care. *** Thanks to our lovely sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:51 - Episode 9/Finale 13:43 - Episode 10/Reunion 59:43 - Reviewing Predictions 1:00:18 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 479
1 hr 39 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 5-8 of Season 4! *** Note: This episode was recorded before news dropped about one contestant getting arrested for assault ** Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box and free daily greens per box! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:26 - Episode 5 36:46 - Episode 6 49:33 - Episode 7 1:11:13 - Episode 8 1:34:09 - Predictions 1:38:13 - Who We Would Go For Referenced NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/17/well/couples-therapists-fight-advice.html If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 478
1 hr 39 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! The Ultimatum happens to be one of Shandy's all-time favorite shows, and today they're breaking down episodes 1-4 of Season 4! Stay tuned for your recap of episodes 5-8 dropping later. Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://fabletics.com/SHANDY for 70-80% off everything as a new VIP! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY to shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:06 - Episode 1 27:49 - Episode 2 43:19 - Episode 3 1:13:45 - Episode 4 1:36:09 - Predictions 1:37:01 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Love Island S8: Week 6 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 477
1 hr 13 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 6 & the FINALE of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Download the Poshmark app and use code SHANDY when you sign up to get $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://www.ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor! - Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:10 - Episode 32 28:23 - Episode 33 32:31 - Episode 34 (AfterSun) 35:39 - Episode 35 1:05:46 - Predictions 1:10:09 - Shandy Word Watch 1:11:28 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Love Island S8: Week 5 Recap & Review - Ep 476
1 hr 33 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 5 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com/shandy to shop Sharleen's favorite Bras and Underwear! - Go to https://zazzle.com to get 25% off your first order! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:20 - Episode 26 24:02 - Episode 27 36:24 - Episode 29 51:18 - Episode 30 1:13:55 - Episode 31 1:28:29 - Predictions 1:29:10 - Shandy Word Watch 1:31:41 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Let Myself Get Excited & He Promptly Dumped Me—What Happened & WHERE IS HE?!" - Ep 475
1 hr 4 min
It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers! Our first caller, Emily, has just been dumped by the first guy in ages she's thought could be The One. After years of dating and actively putting herself out there, she's downright defeated. What happened? And more importantly, WHERE IS HE?! Our second caller, Ryan, has an unpopular choice for her bridal party. Should she overcome her family's judgment, or is it simply better to keep the peace? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily! 36:40 - Shandy Debrief 41:30 - Welcome To Caller Ryan! 1:00:15 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474
1 hr 26 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 4 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://tumbleliving.com/SHANDY for 10% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of glasses and get 20% off any additional pairs! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off! Referenced reel: https://www.instagram.com/reels/DaF_-BWgjsZ/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:16 - Episode 20 15:36 - Episode 21 30:20 - Episode 23 48:24 - Episode 24 1:03:42 - Episode 25 1:22:11 - Predictions 1:22:30 - Shandy Word Watch 1:25:22 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Love Island S8: Week 3 Recap & Review - Ep 473
1 hr 28 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 3 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! - Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:57 - Episode 14 24:00 - Episode 15 31:49 - Episode 17 53:10 - Episode 18 1:04:50 - Episode 19 1:21:38 - Predictions 1:23:11 - Shandy Word Watch 1:26:38 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472
1 hr 3 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your fiancé but his flatulence is a damper on the romance, what to do?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:24 - Q1: Our Texts To Friends Are Going Unanswered—Is This Normal? 21:34 - Q2: I Put My Foot In My Mouth On The Second Date—Can I Recover From This? 26:05 - Q3: I Like The Guy But Nothing’s Happening—Do You Still Believe “If He Wanted To, He Would”? 46:06 - Q4: His Bathroom Issues Give Me the Ick—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Love Island S8: Week 2 Recap & Review - Ep 471
1 hr 38 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY to get $10 off your first purchase! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit! - Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:49 - Episode 8 11:54 - Episode 9 35:25 - Episode 11 53:57 - Episode 12 1:09:56 - Episode 13 1:21:14 - Predictions 1:22:29 - Shandy Word Watch 1:25:45 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Love Island S8: Week 1 Recap & Review - Ep 470
1 hr 37 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors... - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://zazzle.com for 25% off your first order! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor! - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:51 - Episode 1 22:35 - Episode 2 31:32 - Episode 3 39:55 - Episode 4 58:27 - Episode 5 1:09:37 - Episode 6 1:18:22 - Episode 7 1:29:20 - Predictions 1:31:29 - Shandy Word Watch 1:35:09 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469
1 hr 13 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors... - Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:20 - Q1: My Brother Is Dating A Superficial Influencer Wannabe—Help! 24:25 - Q2: My Friend Is Having A Difficult Time Financially—Should I Lend Her The Funds? 36:46 - Q3: I Found My Husband’s Secret Stash Of Deepfakes He Created Of Me—Help! 52:20 - Q4: I Have A Loyal Boyfriend But A Secret Fantasy—Do I Take The Leap? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468
41 min
Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatch Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! More Dave: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dth_9 - TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@davethomas9 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand! 3:20 - What Happened With Sophie 9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood? 15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show? 21:09 - Life After TV 24:46 - What Is The Thought Process That Goes Into Getting A Neck Tattoo? 29:37 - Ranking Cast Members 30:04 - Is His Favorite Movie Really ‘The Notebook’? 31:16 - Rapid Fire 38:00 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467
54 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase! - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:45 - Finale Kick Off 25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony 44:19 - Surprise Couple 47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions 49:44 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466
1 hr 8 min
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our lovely sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/shsandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help! 16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This? 26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help! 34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help! 44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465
1 hr 16 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose! - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! - Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:06 - Episode 6 33:53 - Episode 7 1:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions 1:14:44 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464
1 hr 22 min
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors... - Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership! - Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order! - Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY - Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:16 - Episode 1 26:10 - Episode 2 35:32 - Episode 3 56:14 - Episode 4 1:07:53 - Episode 5 1:19:11 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
52 min
Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance. Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! More Jordana & Jared: - The U Up? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/u.up.podcast - Jordana: https://www.instagram.com/jordanaabraham - Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast! 0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs? 9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More? 11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice 21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous 25:22 - Leaving The House 31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow 39:06 - Would You Rather If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .
