Father Finney’s The Best That Man Can Get

Subjects: motivation, milestones, humour, minimalist, podcast, reflections, life insights, PayPal, angst. To be fair this episode is not much use. It contains feelings of boredom, resentment and a lack of motivation, whilst I also contemplate the arbitrary nature of milestones like this 150th episode. So What? To me Milestones are meaningless even if deep within me my attention gravitates to such trinkets! I want to be of use even when I am not feeling useful and so I release this without deleting it so as to highlight that not every day is good or sugar coated like a TikTok lifestyle but is simply a passing of time with no significant event or gain. You can buy me a coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney visit www.fatherfinney.com Please follow, review and share Thank you

Subjects: Gen Z, social habits, coffee raves, soft clubbing, daytime socializing, alcohol consumption, nightlife, connection, sober curious, social events, zig & zag. In this conversation I look at the evolving social habits of Gen Z, particularly their shift away from traditional nightlife towards more sober and daytime socializing options like coffee raves and soft clubbing. I highlight the appeal of these new social formats, which prioritize connection over alcohol consumption and cater to a generation that values mental well-being and meaningful interactions. But they are not the only generation to embrace this change in our times, because there's me for one! https://youtu.be/WhnJfd1aiFM?si=q4C_RjPUYYpyGck0 Reel to Real 'I like to move it' https://youtu.be/-BvdUw__JYw?si=T8DhGMCIn7cxhoaG Zig & Zag 'I like to move it' events — beats & caffeine. Soft Clubbing 2026: Coffee Raves, Run Raves & Sober Mornings Decoded | GRASS You can buy me a coffee and rave at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney visit www.fatherfinney.com Please follow, review and share Thank you

Keywords: nostalgia, goal setting, forgetfulness, emotional weight, systems for success, identity, self-discovery, humour, The Orb. In this conversation, I reflect about forgetfulness and the challenges of setting and achieving goals. I explore the emotional weight of goals, the importance of creating systems to support success, and the journey of self-discovery. I also throw in a little humour, showing the lighter side of life's challenges. Decision Jokes - 101 Hilarious Decision Jokes https://youtu.be/8Ecdn5SGT1E?si=EaqZAUCklbJC9OLq The Orb Little Fluffy Clouds You can buy me a cloudy coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney visit www.fatherfinney.com Please follow, review and share Thank you

Subjects: US Comedy, UK Comedy, Bill Hicks, George Carlin, Richard Prior, Chris Rock, Jerry Seinfeld, Dave Chappelle, Joan Rivers, Billy Connolly, Ricky Gervais, Jimmy Carr, Frankie Boyle, Sean Locke, Les Dawson, Johnny Vegas, Lee Evans, Suzy Eddie Izzard. Ken Dodd, Dave Allen, Bill Burr. Comedy has always been a mirror reflecting society, but what happens when that mirror becomes foggy or smaller? In this episode I delve into the changing landscape of comedy and the reasons behind the perception that humour isn't as sharp as it used to be. Why modern ‘comedians’ like Romesh Ranganathan aren’t funny | The Spectator Lee Evans (comedian) - Wikipedia You can buy me a coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney visit www.fatherfinney.com Please follow, review and share Thank you

Subjects: Writing, Psychology, Self-awareness, The mind, Mental Health, Subconscious, habbits. You join me today as I reflect on a rather curious habit that many of us might not even recognize — the tendency to skip the word "I" when writing. You can buy me a well earned coffee at www.Buymeacoffee.com/fatherfinney Please follow, comment and share Thank You

Subjects: personal growth, health strategies, mental well-being, social connections, self-improvement, Coffee, Showers, Fasting, savouring, gratitude. The beginning of this year was bleak for me and was building on top of an already abysmal 2025. I felt I was done for physically, mentally and spiritually. Now, I certainly have not fixed the spiritual side of things, but I had to get the basics in, and that was by getting my body and mind in a place of productive use and place of stability. I needed to increase my energy to push back against the years of accumulated mental loss and toxic funk. So what has worked so far in this life resurgence and story of against all odds? You can buy me a coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney visit www.fatherfinney.com Please follow, review and share Thank you

Subjects: Peltzman effect, risk compensation, safety measures, behavioral economics, medication, finance, betting, investments, overconfidence, safety nets In this episode, I explores the Peltzman effect, a behavioural phenomenon where increased safety measures lead to riskier behaviour. I discuss various examples, including driving with seatbelts, medication reliance, and financial decisions, illustrating how perceived safety can reduce caution and lead to negative outcomes. I emphasize the importance of recognizing these patterns in everyday life and making informed choices to mitigate risks. Sam Peltzman - Wikipedia What gambling firms don’t want you to know – and how they keep you hooked | Gambling | The Guardian You can buy me a coffee to help focus on risks at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney visit www.fatherfinney.com Please follow, review and share Thank you

Subjects: Excitement, childhood, adulthood, adventure, psychology, sensory impact, mental health. We often hear that with age comes wisdom, but what about the thrill of excitement? I take us on a journey through how excitement transforms from childhood to adulthood and how we could possibly reignite that spark. You can buy me a muug of excitement at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney visit www.fatherfinney.com for stuff. Please follow, review and share Thank you

Subjects: reading, literacy, comprehension, gratitude, language, education, understanding, communication, evolution, copyright, Middle-east, Persia, In this reflective conversation, I express my gratitude for the ability to read and explore the complexities of literacy. I discuss the different levels of literacy, the importance of comprehension beyond mere reading, and the evolution of language and copyright. You can buy me a coffee for £3 at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney visit www.fatherfinney.com Please follow, review and share Thank you

Subjects: I.T issues, rage, computer rage, anatomy of frustration, software issues, cognitive load, loss aversion Why do I get so vexed at this thing called software? Nothing else in this mad despotic and war based economy World makes me so angry than this? So why? Join me as I ask software why I fall out with it so often. Here are Limp Bizkit dismantling Woodstock: "Who here likes NSYNC?"😄 https://youtu.be/YPk7-fCvbao?si=xUy4YWonOoP7OmX1 You can buy me a coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

In this episode, I reflect on the nature of happiness, discussing insights from Dr. Laurie Santos, a Yale expert on happiness. I explore the idea that happiness is not a natural state but a skill that can be developed. I delve into the mind's deceptions that lead us astray in our pursuit of happiness and presents five actionable steps to rewire our brains for a happier, or less miserable, life. Yale expert shares 5 steps to rewire your brain for happiness with no weird tricks - Upworthy Ken Dodd – Happiness Lyrics | Genius Lyrics is pharrell williams happy? - Search Keywords: happiness, mental health, Dr. Laurie Santos, rewiring the brain, social connection, gratitude, exercise, mindfulness, self-care, emotional well-being. You can buy me a coffee to savour at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me a party invite to hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

In this episode, I give gratitude to listeners for reaching a significant milestone of 400,000 downloads. I share insights into listener demographics, highlighting the countries and regions where the podcast is most popular. I delve into the reasons behind the popularity of podcasts in the USA and UK, as well as the challenges faced in regions with lower podcast production. AI suggested the following description about a tune I hummed: 'This conversation delves into the complexities of copyright issues, exploring various themes and insights related to the topic.' Erm...No I didn't but thanks anyway, A.I. system! Keywords: podcast, milestones, listener demographics, global podcasting, challenges in podcasting, media industry, audience engagement, podcast platforms, cultural preferences, podcast statistics You can buy me a coffee (or buy 20 and get yourself a one-off Fat-stick man drawing from me) at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me your sponsorship offers at hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

In this episode I reflect in part on my journey of self-improvement inspired by Arnold Schwarzenegger. I discuss the importance of giving back to others and the philosophical implications of focusing on others rather than oneself. The next bit of description comes courtesy of Sky-Net: Through personal anecdotes and insights, James encourage listeners to break their mirrors—both literally and metaphorically—to foster a more altruistic mindset. The conversation culminates in a call to action for listeners to reflect on their contributions to the world and to hold themselves accountable for their intentions. Keywords: Arnold Schwarzenegger, inspiration, giving back, self-improvement, life lessons, personal growth, philosophy, motivation, podcast, self-reflection Be Useful Audiobook | Free with trial arnold schwarzenegger red heat images - Search Images You can buy me a travel sized mirror for when I time travel at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

I normally write everything myself but in keeping with the doom and gloom of AI eradicating our species I will let AI describe this episode for me with a strong sense of irony that AI will never know the feeling of family. One-nil to the humans! "In this conversation, James reflects on the concept of family and the societal perceptions surrounding it. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with family dynamics, the importance of building connections, and the often-overlooked goal of pursuing a family life. Through humour and introspection, he questions the value of family in modern society and explores the idea of whether it is still a worthwhile pursuit at his age." Subjects: family, goals, relationships, parenting, community, personal growth, family dynamics, life choices, societal values, connection. You can buy me baby formula at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

What makes some car enthusiasts modify their vehicles to produce obnoxious noises? In this episode, I drive deep into the psychology behind noisy exhausts and the behaviours of those who drive them. And I find out something society should really know in order to better our future selves. Subjects: Loud Exhausts, Pop and Bang Mapping, identity signalling, insecurity, satanic, Honda Civic, Metro, VW Polo, Baseball caps. You can buy me a stinger at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

Ever found yourself unable to resist that tub of Pringles? I dive into the world of addictive foods, mouth first, by sharing personal anecdotes and research findings that reveal what makes certain snacks so hard to put down. Subjects: University of Michigan, food, dopamine, addiction, cravings, obesity, yale food addiction scale, corporate greed. You can buy me a non-addictive coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

With tattoos having transcended their past associations, becoming a significant form of personal expression in modern culture. I delve into the complexities of tattoos, exploring why they have surged in popularity and what they signify for individuals today. Subjects: Tattoos, Wallpaper, LA ink, Sleeves, rebellion, sailors, convicts, tribes, MRSA. You can buy me ink at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

After a stressful day of recording, I get a grip and share a reflection inspired by astronaut Ron Garan's experience aboard the International Space Station. Ronald J. Garan Jr. - Wikipedia Peaceful World — Peace Education for Everyone Subjects: ISS, Earth, us versus them, stop dehumanisation, atmosphere, global trade, War You can buy me a seat at the UN at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please follow, share and podcast away.

I see so many cultural differences between the English and the Spanish yet Geographically we are not that far apart. Also it seems to be many an Englishman's dream to move to the Mediterranean, but why? After a short visit to Spain, despite feeling a little isolated as I speak no Spanish and spoke to no English people for four days, I really liked and respected the Spanish people. In hindsight I don't regret the loneliness felt as I feel it opened a door to something else, in a direction a lot more fulfilling. Subjects: Spain, England, dust, rain, bus drivers, cigarettes, Mediterranean ladies, coffee, food, manners. You can buy me a coffee at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please Follow, share and podcast away.

I reflect on my recent trip to Spain, discussing my struggle with the concept of relaxation while on holiday. I question societal expectations around travel and relaxation, exploring psychological barriers that prevent some individuals from enjoying downtime. Am I broken for not wanting to or being able to do "relaxation"? Subjects: Spain, relaxation, holiday, mental health, travel, personal experience, psychological barriers, rest, cultural differences, mindfulness You can buy me calming tablets at https://www.buymeacoffee.com/FatherFinney email me at hello@fatherfinney.com Please Subscribe, share and podcast away.