Shailey & Katie's Lemonade Stand: Design Moms Finding the Happy Balance as Creative Entrepreneurs

In this season finale of Shailey & Katie’s Lemonade Stand , we’re making a case for something that might feel a little rebellious: happiness doesn’t come from achievement—it comes from alignment. We unpack the difference between chasing external wins and actually feeling internally right in your life. Because alignment? It’s quieter. More intuitive. And honestly… easier to ignore. Until it’s not. Misalignment has a way of showing up anyway—burnout, resentment, procrastination, that low-grade “something’s off” feeling you can’t quite name. We walk through a core values exercise to help you get honest about what actually matters to you (not what should matter, not what looks good on paper). We also talk about the reality that you cannot care about everything—and trying to will leave you exhausted. Choosing your values means choosing your lane. From there, we get practical: how to check in with your values regularly, how to spot misalignment earlier, and how to course-correct without blowing up your entire life. We also zoom out into the bigger picture—what it looks like to build a life that balances predictability and novelty, structure and spontaneity. Because yes, routines create safety… but adventure creates aliveness. You need both. We talk about nervous system regulation (because if your body doesn’t feel safe, alignment will feel impossible), and how creativity, joy, and lightness aren’t extras—they’re signals you’re on the right track. We get into the real-life trade-offs too. Alignment doesn’t always look like the most impressive choice. Sometimes it looks like prioritizing quality of life over achievement. Sometimes it looks like slower growth, or different goals entirely. We also touch on summer planning, family values, and how to make decisions that actually reflect the life you want to be living—not just the one you’ve been defaulting into. And finally, we share a bit about the book-writing process, creativity, and what it looks like to choose joy on purpose—even when it would be easier to chase something more “impressive.” If something feels off lately, this episode is your invitation to pause, check in, and realign. Because you can always choose again. Takeaways The secret to happiness is alignment, not achievement Alignment is internal; achievement is external Intuition is a powerful guide—if you’re willing to listen Misalignment often shows up as burnout, resentment, or procrastination You don’t have to care about everything—choose what matters most Core values create clarity and direction Regular check-ins prevent long-term drift Feeling “off” is often a signal, not a problem Life needs both predictability and novelty Exploration and play are part of a fully aligned life Nervous system regulation supports everything else Creativity and joy are indicators of alignment Quality of life can be a higher value than achievement Your choices should reflect your values—not someone else’s Intentional summer plans can strengthen family connection Writing and creating can be a tool for self-discovery Joy is something you can choose—on purpose Title Ideas Alignment Over Achievement The Secret to Happiness (It’s Not What You Think) When Success Isn’t Enough The Alignment Check You Didn’t Know You Needed Build a Life That Actually Feels Good Choosing Your Values (and Letting the Rest Go) Sound Bites “The secret to happiness is alignment.” “You don’t need to care about everything.” “If you feel off, check your values.” “Alignment is internal. Achievement is external.” “You can always choose again.” “Joy is a signal—not a reward.” “Quality of life is a value.” “You need both safety and adventure.” “Not every ‘good’ thing is yours to carry.” “The book kind of writes itself when you’re aligned.” Chapters 00:00 The Secret to Happiness: Alignment 03:09 Alignment vs. Achievement 06:03 Trusting Your Intuition 08:50 Signs of Misalignment 12:00 Core Values Exercise 14:49 Choosing What Actually Matters 18:09 Practical Alignment Steps 31:00 Predictability vs. Novelty 32:48 Core Values + Habits 33:44 Alignment Audit 35:57 Nervous System + Work 39:07 Creativity, Joy, Lightness 42:54 Values + Life Choices 46:35 Quality of Life vs. Achievement 51:50 Summer + Family Values 59:06 Writing, Creativity, Choosing Joy shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

In this episode, we’re getting honest about what it actually takes to work from home without losing your mind (or your dining table). We’re sharing real-life strategies for creating a workspace that works—even if you don’t have a Pinterest-worthy office or a door that closes. We talk about how to manage both physical clutter and the mental clutter that comes with working where you live, plus simple ways to protect your focus when distractions are…everywhere. Think: practical organization, a few “why didn’t I do this sooner?” hacks, and a lot of grace for the fact that this is real life, not a coworking space. We also get into the dance of work-life balance when your office is five steps from your laundry pile—and how to create just enough structure to feel grounded without becoming overly rigid. Keywords home office, workspace organization, productivity, work from home tips, clutter management, focus, work-life balance, home office setup, mental clutter, workspace hacks Key Topics Home office organization tips (for people who are using a corner…or a chair…or vibes) Balancing work and life when the lines are very blurry Creating a dedicated workspace—even if you don’t have a separate room shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

Design a kitchen for real life—not a photoshoot. (But, like, also make it cute) We challenge the idea that kitchens need to be pristine to be “good,” and instead reframe mess, wear, and lived-in energy as proof that a space is working. We explore how to create functional, inviting spaces that support your daily rhythm, from rethinking formal dining rooms to embracing multi-use areas that actually get used. We share practical, budget-friendly ways to improve your kitchen without a full remodel—often starting with simply rearranging what you already have. We also introduce simple systems to reduce overwhelm, including the Dish Zero Rule as a way to automate dish management and keep the kitchen flowing. Throughout the episode, we normalize clutter (especially in homes with kids), while offering strategies to keep it intentional and manageable. You’ll walk away with actionable ideas, a fresh perspective on what “organized” really means, and a listener challenge designed to help you solve one small-but-annoying problem in your kitchen—for good. Takeaways Design for real life, not perfection The kitchen is the heart of the home—and it should function like it Mess and wear are signs of a working space Start with your household’s actual rhythm before changing anything Rearranging often works better (and cheaper) than replacing Design for people, not photos You don’t need a formal dining room if it doesn’t serve you Create spaces that invite connection and conversation Daily habits shape your kitchen more than design ever will Normalize the mess—especially with kids “Cute clutter” can add warmth when it’s intentional Systems reduce decision fatigue and daily overwhelm The Dish Zero Rule keeps dishes from piling up Aim for ~80% full in drawers and cabinets Identify your biggest friction point and solve that first Regularly purge what you don’t use Small updates can make a big visual impact Use styling (trays, textiles, decor) to elevate the space without a full redo Solve one daily annoyance and you change the whole experience shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

If kids come with stuff… what do we actually do with all of it? In this episode, Shailey and Katie break down how to create kids’ spaces that actually work—for real life, not Pinterest. We’re talking functional layouts, calming environments, and systems that help kids take ownership of their space (without you becoming the full-time cleanup crew). We get into the balance every parent is navigating: creating a home that feels good and letting kids be kids. That means normalizing mess, designing for independence, and letting go of perfection in favor of something way more sustainable. You’ll walk away with practical ways to simplify clutter, rethink how kids’ rooms are set up, and build systems that grow with your child—while also making peace with the fact that childhood is a little loud, a little chaotic… and that’s not a problem to solve. TAKEAWAYS • A kids’ room should function first—and look cute second • Design for who your kid is now (and who they’re becoming) • Skip overly themed rooms—think flexible, livable spaces • Calm environments support better sleep and regulation • Create simple “zones” (sleep, play, get ready) • Choose furniture that can grow and shift over time • Visibility + accessibility = kids actually using the system • “Clean your room” is a learned skill—teach it specifically • Kids are more invested when they help design their space • Independence grows when kids manage their own stuff • Mess isn’t a failure—it’s part of childhood • Expect clutter, then build systems that can handle it • Fewer items = easier maintenance (for everyone) • Regular toy edits > one big overwhelming purge • Your home can be functional and still feel fun • This phase is temporary—design for sustainability, not perfection SOUND BITES • “Kids come with stuff. That’s not the problem—the system is.” • “We’re not designing for Pinterest. We’re designing for Tuesday afternoon.” • “Clean isn’t intuitive. It’s taught.” • “Mess is expected—not a personal failure.” • “If they can’t see it, they won’t use it.” • “The goal isn’t less mess. It’s manageable mess.” • “Let them have ownership—even if it’s not your aesthetic.” • “Childhood is loud. Your house can handle it.” • “Fewer things = fewer decisions = less overwhelm.” • “You’re not behind. You just need a better system.” CHAPTERS 00:00 Breakfast banter + real life check-in 03:40 Why kids’ rooms feel so overwhelming 04:40 Function first: designing spaces that work 12:10 Why we’re rethinking “cute” kids’ rooms 20:40 Creating calm (without making it boring) 23:20 Simple zones that make a big difference 25:30 Furniture that grows with your kid 28:00 Storage that kids will actually use 29:00 Teaching kids what “clean” means 32:20 Managing new stuff coming into the house 35:00 Building independence (without power struggles) 40:00 Expected mess vs problem mess 44:45 Creative, realistic solutions for real homes 52:50 How to actually purge toys (without drama) 57:00 Designing spaces kids want to use 01:08:30 Parenting reflections + what actually matters shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

In this episode, Shailey climbs up on her living room soapbox — and honestly, it’s a hill she’s willing to die on. The living room is the most used, most judged, and most confusing room in the house… and somehow we’ve all been convinced it’s supposed to look like a catalog instead of a place where people actually live. We talk about why so many living rooms feel “off,” the biggest mistakes people make (your rug is probably too small), and why furniture scale, lighting, and layout matter way more than buying new stuff. Shailey shares how she transformed an awkward, underused room in her own house into the family’s favorite gathering space — cats, kids, chaos and all. From anchor pieces and conversation-friendly layouts to the power of lamps (overhead lighting slander included), this episode is full of practical tweaks that can make a room feel better immediately — often without spending a dollar. We also end with a living room audit challenge and a rapid-fire round of product opinions, including Shailey’s unfiltered thoughts on Lovesac couches and the mysterious purpose of decorative trays. If your living room feels slightly awkward… slightly unfinished… or like no one actually wants to sit in it, this episode will help you see it with fresh eyes. Takeaways A living room should reflect your life, not a catalog. Don't let the pressure of perfection steal your energy. Identify what works in your living room and enhance it. Scale of furniture is crucial for a comfortable living room. An anchor piece can define and enhance your space. Lighting should be warm and ambient, not harsh and clinical. Rearranging furniture can dramatically improve a room's feel. Every seating area should have a place for drinks to enhance comfort Sound bites "A living room should work for you." "Don't let that steal your ability to get started." "Designing for real life, we have cats, we have kids." "Is the scale of this furniture right?" "One anchor piece can help define the space." "Your rug is too small if no furniture is touching it." Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the Lemonade Stand 02:29 The Importance of the Living Room 05:42 Creating a Functional Space 09:23 Identifying Pain Points 15:53 Designing for Real Life 20:15 Creating Zones for Comfort 23:45 Finding the Right Scale for Your Furniture 25:19 Creating an Anchor Piece in Your Living Room 27:54 Lighting: The Key to Ambiance 30:09 Common Living Room Mistakes 32:15 Rearranging for Functionality 34:06 Listener Challenge: Living Room Audit 39:07 Product Reviews: What to Keep and What to Toss shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

Intentional living, home organization, and why winter has us suddenly side-eyeing every drawer in the house. We dig into the emotional side of decluttering, not just the “get rid of stuff” part, but the identity, guilt, and nostalgia wrapped up in it. Shailey shares what actually stuck with her from the KonMari method, especially the idea that letting something go can be an act of gratitude, not failure. Katie brings the real-life perspective of how homes refill themselves mysteriously and why alignment matters more than aesthetic perfection. Practical, very doable strategies for creating a home that feels calming and functional without turning your life into one big organizing project. Shailey talks travel routines (including why expired hotel skincare needs to go) and shares her love for a visual timer as a game-changer for time awareness and productivity. The conversation wraps with a lighthearted look at sentimental clutter and the surprisingly deep emotions tied to “random” household items. If you’ve ever wanted your home to feel better without needing to become a minimalist or buy matching bins, this one’s for you. --- **Key Takeaways** * Decluttering is emotional, not just physical, and that’s normal * You can thank items for what they taught you instead of keeping them out of guilt * Home organization works best when it aligns with your actual lifestyle * Small, gentle wins beat all-or-nothing clean-out marathons * Visual timers can create structure without pressure * Your home is an ongoing relationship, not a one-time project --- **Notable Quotes** “I think putting Christmas away jump starts the cleaning in my mind.” “You can say thank you for teaching me what doesn’t suit me.” “It’s a dance with the home; it helps you come to peace instead of feeling overwhelmed.” “You set your own schedule one room at a time.” “I want to feel like my most luxurious and best on vacation.” “Visual timer, A-plus, order!” “The next right step is a gentle journey.” shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

In this episode, Katie gets honest about her dopamine detox era — what kicked it off, what surprised her, and what actually changed on the other side. Addiction, sober-curious, codependency and learning to save her own life. We talk about how modern life quietly trains our brains to chase constant stimulation, why numbing behaviors can increase anxiety instead of reducing it, and what happens when you remove the crutches long enough to hear yourself think again. From sobriety and self-trust to creativity, confidence, and joy that doesn’t require a reward button — this conversation is equal parts reflective, practical, and encouraging. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re actually tired or just overstimulated… this one will land. What we cover: What a dopamine detox really is (and what it isn’t) How numbing behaviors can increase anxiety and disconnection Being "addicted" to validation from others, codependency Why sobriety can unlock creativity and clarity Letting go of patterns that quietly sabotage mental health Building confidence without substances or external rewards Why a detox period can lead to healthier moderation later The power of self-discovery in personal growth Creating a “sober bucket list” that actually feels fun Finding joy that doesn’t depend on anything outside of you Resources mentioned: Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke https://www.amazon.com/Dopamine-Nation-Finding-Balance-Indulgence/dp/152474672X Katie’s current offers & completely unhinged sale https://ohkatieday.com/sale shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

One-Size-Does NOT-Fit-All! Ever wonder why some people thrive with strict rules… while others immediately want to do the opposite the second a rule exists? In this episode, Katie and Shailey dig into why motivation isn’t one-size-fits-all—and why so many wellness plans fail simply because they ignore personality. Register for Katie's habit workshop: Habits That Stick at ohkatieday.com/workshop We explore three powerful frameworks that explain how and why people take action: -The Four Tendencies -Abstainers vs. Moderators (do you need clear lines or flexible lanes?) -The Enneagram as a lens for understanding values, motivations, and internal drivers This conversation is all about permission—permission to stop forcing yourself into systems that don’t fit, to design habits that align with how your brain actually works, and to realize that needing fun, freedom, or structure isn’t a flaw… it’s data. If you’ve ever thought, “Why is this so easy for other people but so hard for me?” —this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn Why Upholders meet expectations easily—and why Rebels instinctively push back How Obligers can reduce resentment by understanding the why behind a task Why Abstainers love clear, black-and-white rules (and Moderators… don’t) How the Enneagram reveals deeper motivations—not just surface behavior Why customization is essential for sustainable habits and wellness How autonomy and choice increase follow-through (especially for Rebels) How pre-deciding rules can dramatically reduce decision fatigue Why “fun” isn’t frivolous—it’s often a requirement for consistency How honoring personality differences leads to better adherence and less shame shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

In this episode, we’re talking about The Artist’s Way —what it actually is, why it keeps coming back into culture, and how to approach creativity without turning it into another self-improvement pressure cooker.We explore curiosity over productivity, rebuilding trust with yourself, and how small creative habits can quietly change everything. Plus, Katie shares an absolutely unhinged prism story that turns into one of those “wait… WHAT?” moments—and if you stick to the end, she shares big, life-hanging news that’s been quietly unfolding behind the scenes. What We Cover in This Episode • What The Artist’s Way really is (and what it’s not) • Why creativity shuts down under pressure and perfectionism • How habits can support creativity instead of suffocating it • Morning Pages: what they’re for, how to do them imperfectly, and why “doing them wrong” still works • Artist Dates as curiosity practice, not performance • The difference between discipline and devotion • Letting creativity be data, not identity • Why rest, play, and boredom are essential creative inputs • A wild prism moment that feels straight out of The Artist’s Way • Staying curious when something big is shifting in your life Key Takeaways • Creativity doesn’t respond to pressure—it responds to safety • You don’t need to be “good” at creativity to benefit from it • Small, consistent practices beat intense, sporadic effort • Curiosity is a more sustainable motivator than discipline • You’re allowed to make art quietly, privately, and imperfectly If You’re Feeling Stuck… This episode is for you if: • You feel creatively blocked or burned out • You’ve tried The Artist’s Way before and bounced off • You want more creativity but less pressure • You suspect something is shifting, but you’re not ready to name it yet Gentle Next Step (Optional, Not Homework) If this episode sparked something, try one small experiment this week: • Write one page instead of three • Take a solo walk without your phone • Follow one moment of curiosity without needing a result No rules. No gold stars. Just noticing. Mentioned in This Episode • The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron • Morning Pages • Artist Dates shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

Style That Feels Like Home. We dive into the empowering relationship between clothes, confidence, and the bodies we live in. We explore what it actually means to feel “at home” in your own skin—and your own style—without chasing trends, shrinking yourself, or trying to dress like someone you’re not. The conversation moves through body neutrality, signature style, and why comfort matters just as much as aesthetics. From color choices to fit to outerwear as a confidence tool, we reframe fashion as a form of self-trust rather than self-criticism. At its core, this episode is an invitation to stop settling—for uncomfortable clothes, outdated rules, or someone else’s version of what looks “right”—and start choosing what actually feels good. Key Takeaways Body neutrality is a powerful and accessible starting point. Personal style should feel like home—not a costume. The most confident outfits come from self-trust, not trends. Comfort and confidence are directly connected. Every body has styles that support it—no fixing required. Trends are optional. Personal style is lasting. Great outerwear can change everything. Experimentation is how clarity is built. Self-acceptance always comes before self-expression. Sound Bites “Your style should feel like home.” “There is no bad body.” “We don’t SETTLE anymore.” “If it’s not comfortable, it’s not confidence.” Chapters 00:00 – Style, Body Image, and Why This Conversation Matters 02:47 – Comfort, Clothes, and Self-Trust 05:52 – Body Types Without the Shame 09:06 – What a Signature Style Really Is 12:08 – Letting Yourself Experiment 14:49 – Color, Patterns, and Personality 18:09 – Style for Real Life and Real Movement 21:01 – Why Outerwear Is a Power Move 23:45 – Pulling the Whole Look Together 27:25 – Seeing Beauty Without Conditions 30:05 – Body Positivity vs. Body Neutrality 34:29 – Finding What Actually Feels Like You 35:54 – Trends: Use Them or Ignore Them 40:45 – Navigating Fashion Without Losing Yourself 46:31 – Laughing at Past Fashion Choices 49:24 – Growth, Coaching, and Owning the Next Chapter shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

This week on Shailey & Katie’s Lemonade Stand, get ready for Black Friday we’re spilling our go-to gift ideas—the ones we actually give, actually love, and actually hope show up on our doorstep. We’re talking: Gifts that don’t cost a lot but feel thoughtful Gifts that are technically “a splurge,” but perfect for going-in-together with family or friends Gifts for creatives, moms, homebodies, entrepreneurs, and your spouse who “doesn’t need anything”. Whether you need a last-minute Amazon idea, a meaningful DIY, or a “treat yourself because you deserve it” moment, this episode has you covered. Pour your hot lemon...wassail? Peppermint mocha? and let’s make your Christmas shopping delightfully easy. In this episode, we share our favorite Christmas gift ideas for 2025 , including: Affordable gift ideas Creative gift ideas for women Gifts for moms, entrepreneurs, and creatives Experience gifts Sentimental gifts that feel personal Big splurge gifts you can go in on as a group Clutter-free gift ideas for minimalists Last-minute Christmas gifts you can order fast You’ll hear our real recommendations (not sponsored): The gifts we secretly want someone to give us The inexpensive gift that feels luxe The “holy grail” splurge gifts worth every penny A few creative experience gifts that support more connection, more joy, and less stuff Perfect for: Anyone searching for Christmas gifts , simple gift ideas , holiday gifts for women , best gifts for moms , stocking stuffers , budget gifts , group gifts , and creative Christmas ideas . shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

In this episode, Shailey and Katie dive into the real, practical side of gratitude — the kind that actually rewires your brain, improves your relationships, and helps you show up as a calmer, less-reactive human (science says so). They unpack how neuroplasticity works, why your brain loves repetition, and why gratitude isn’t about ignoring hard things — it’s about training your mind to notice more than just the problems. Katie jumps in with research on gratitude, self-awareness, and why “toxic positivity” isn’t the goal — acknowledging the real stuff is part of the healing. Together, they introduce a simple experiment to help listeners practice gratitude in a way that feels doable, not delusional. The Practical Gratitude Challenge Pick a trigger category — a person or area that normally sparks frustration — and choose your challenge level: Light: Do a one-time brain dump of everything good or redeemable about that challenging area/person. Medium: Write one genuine gratitude each day for two weeks. Intense: Write three specific gratitudes daily plus one “first-person goal” (a sentence you want to be true about you, written as if it already is). shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

“People pleasing is actually about controlling others.”Wait—what? Rude! But it’s true. When we’re trying to make everyone happy, what we’re really trying to do is control how people see us. This week, we’re unpacking that sneaky truth and learning how to say no (without turning into a soulless- boundary-monster). People pleasing. From apologizing for existing 😆 to saying yes when your soul is screaming no , they get real about why we do it, how it sneaks into everyday moments, and what it looks like to finally break free. They share cringe-worthy personal stories (we’ve all been there), and dig into how to set boundaries without burning bridges. You’ll hear about the power of pausing before reacting, assuming positive intent (even when it’s hard), and how curiosity can diffuse 90% of awkward human moments. And because we love a good game, the episode includes a “Boundary Blitz” — a rapid-fire roleplay where Shailey gets to practice saying no. You’ll walk away with practical ways to stop over-explaining, start communicating clearly, and actually feel confident when you say no — without the shame spiral. Takeaways People pleasing usually starts from wanting to be liked — not evil, just outdated programming. Assuming good intent changes how you see people and how you talk to them. Curiosity beats judgment every time. Confidence is a muscle — and boundaries are your gym. A thoughtful pause is your secret weapon in any tough moment. Clear is kind. Vague is confusing. Saying no doesn’t make you mean — it makes you honest. Boundaries protect your peace and your relationships. You don’t owe everyone an essay-length explanation. Celebrate every time you choose growth over guilt. shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

Travel Hacks! The art of traveling — with kids, with friends, or with whoever’s part of your current adventure crew. ✈️ We’re sharing our favorite tips to make trips enjoyable and (mostly) stress-free — from setting expectations before we even leave the driveway to giving everyone small “travel jobs” that build independence and teamwork. We talk about how we balance adventure days with real rest, budget for souvenirs that actually mean something, and use simple games to keep long travel days fun. We also get into creative destination ideas, building a family (or friend group) bucket list, and why having a transition day after getting home might be the most important part of the trip. Most of all, we want this episode to remind you that you don’t have to wait for the perfect season to travel. You can weave adventure and connection into the life you already have — chaos, car seats, or carry-ons included. Takeaways Travel can be joyful with the right mindset and simple systems. Setting expectations upfront keeps everyone grounded. Creativity with destinations leads to unforgettable memories. Giving kids (or fellow travelers) responsibility builds confidence. Quality time always matters more than expensive outings. A shared bucket list makes sure everyone feels seen and heard. Budgeting for souvenirs can be a fun lesson in value. Turn travel days into games to keep spirits high. Capture your memories intentionally — photo books, voice notes, or videos. Build in a transition day when you get home. It’s not lazy; it’s wise. Quotes 🧳 “Traveling is a habit.” 🪣 “One bucket list item per person.” 🌿 “A rest day is an investment.” shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

Katie's talking about how to fall back in love with your everyday life — the ordinary, in-between moments that usually fly under the radar. Because somewhere between unloading the dishwasher and answering another email, we forget that this is our life. And it’s happening right now. How to romanticize the routine — not by pretending everything’s perfect, but by slowing down enough to notice the magic that’s already there. From making your morning coffee feel sacred to turning carpool into your favorite thinking time, they share small mindset shifts that turn the mundane into something meaningful. It’s about showing up fully awake to your own story — and realizing it’s already beautiful. Takeaways Adopt a 'main character energy' mindset. Elevate mundane tasks with small changes. Use sensory upgrades to enhance daily life. Create a personal soundtrack for your day. Name and celebrate everyday routines. Incorporate gratitude into daily practice. Find joy in small, intentional actions. Transform chores into enjoyable activities. Embrace creativity in daily life. Appreciate the present moment. Title Options Romanticizing Everyday Life Main Character Energy: Elevate Your Day Transform Mundane Tasks into Magic The Art of Living Cinematically Shailey and Katie's Guide to a Meaningful Life Everyday Magic: Finding Joy in the Ordinary Mindset Shifts for a Cinematic Life Gratitude and the Art of Living Creating a Life Full of Wonder The Power of Intentional Living shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

Shailey spills her interior design secrets — the little things that make your home look effortlessly styled (without it feeling like a museum where no one’s allowed to sit on the couch). She walks Katie through her favorite hidden design tricks — like how to use coffee table books as instant personality injections, why stacks of three just feel right, and how trays are basically the emotional support system of home decor. They also get real about the struggle of folding fitted sheets (spoiler: Shailey has thoughts) and how to mix colors, textures, and personal items so your space actually feels like you . Expect laughs, stories, and a few moments of deep design wisdom that will have you eyeing your living room differently. Takeaways Coffee table books = instant personality and visual interest. Stack in odd numbers for balance (3 is the magic number). Add personal items — no one else has your memories, so show them off. Trays make everything look intentional (even your clutter). Mix colors and textures for cozy depth. Books are more than decor — they’re conversation starters. Thrift stores are gold mines for unique finds. Swap out seasonal books for a quick refresh. Your personal stories should guide your design choices. Intentional design makes a home feel cohesive, not cookie-cutter. shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

This week on Shailey & Katie’s Lemonade Stand , Katie attempts the impossible: convincing die-hard night owl Shailey that mornings don’t have to be miserable. Katie shares how she went from dragging herself out of bed at the last possible second to actually looking forward to mornings (shocking, we know). She’s walking Shailey through seven practical, totally doable hacks to transform mornings—without becoming that person who wakes up at 4:30 a.m. to journal by candlelight and run a marathon. They dive into why dopamine is the secret sauce for motivation, how to beat decision fatigue before it ruins your day, and why a tiny burst of “activation energy” is all you need to get moving. Plus, Katie explains why your mornings actually start the night before and how to “play offense” with your day instead of just reacting to it. By the end, Shailey is almost convinced—and you might be, too. Takeaways Morning routines don’t have to be complicated to change everything. Hacking dopamine —it’s the key to motivation. Simplify your choices to fight decision fatigue. Harness a quick burst of activation energy to kickstart your day. Create before you consume. Step away from the snooze button—it’s a trap. Stop playing defense with your time and start playing offense. Expect new habits to feel awkward at first. A good morning starts the night before. Prioritize sleep quality over sleep quantity. shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

This week, Shailey catches us up on everything she’s been up to — from interior design projects to video production gigs, big life lessons, a few epic trips, and her new secret anti-aging routine (minus two spots on her neck). We talk about the tricky art of saying no (even when you really want to be a “yes” person), why family time feels so sweet right now, and how she committed to keeping a fitness routine going after bailing on Katie at the gym. Plus, we debate the most ridiculous excuses for skipping a workout (spoiler: they’re good) and share some honest reflections on regrets, growth, and what we’ve learned since our last season. Pour yourself a lemonade and let’s catch up with Shailey — and if you missed last week's episode, go back and catch up with Katie! shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

We’re back for Season 11 (after just a quick… four-year break 🤷‍♀️) and kicking things off with Katie’s comeback story. From navigating trauma and anxiety to ditching numbing habits (yep, even the Prosecco), Katie shares what it looked like to trade shame for curiosity and rebuild her life one habit at a time. She’s talking midlife crisis, coaching, The Habit Lab, and why curiosity became her superpower. Plus—because we never take ourselves too seriously—this episode is brought to you by weighted vests (you’ll see) and features our very first new-season segment: Old Timey Photos: How to Save Money with Shailey. ohkatieday.com/habitlab shaileymurphy.com shaileyandkatie.com "What if I just position this as an experiment?" "I did go ahead and put in my notice." "You're going to be me one day." "I feel like I finished, not quitting." "I'm an alcohol-free life coach." "I made myself a sober bucket list." "I am certified to practice hypnotherapy." "Old timey photos people, man, they go hard." "I loved it. My family kind of wants to go back." "It's a good exercise in self-control." shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com

Season 10 and a half: A Very Merry Inbetween-isode! We’re popping in to give you a quick life update, some GOALS we’ve been crushing, and our top 3 gifts to give yourself this holiday season. Katie has a longevity, anti-aging regimen she’s dying to share with you and a VERY CRINGEY massage story gone so wrong she allllmost couldn’t get through the re-telling. Oh and Shailey has become a renovation real estate mogul!Products mentioned: Atomic Habits by James Clear Duckfeet shoes Vital Proteins Collagen supplement Free Assembly - Walmart Follow us on instagram to hear when we release “The Joy Workshop” video masterclass instagram.com/shaileyandkatie shaileymurphy.com ohkatieday.com